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Marriage problems: Help and advice

Husband took advantage of my drunken state

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

31 October 2016 (F) - I'm not really sure what to do. Two nights ago, my husband and I went to a party. I drank, he did not. I drank a little too much and was barely functioning. We came home and had sex. He went soft so I rolled over and passed out. Next thing I know, ...

I think he's selfish for taking viagra!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2721 days ago

31 October 2016 (F) - I just found out my husband has been taking Viagra. He's 63 I'm 57. What makes me upset is that he should have talked to me about it, and I have not wanted sex for years. Been together 32 years and we've been having sex twice a week for last few ...

My boyfriend's wife says he is lying about getting a divorce

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2721 days ago

30 October 2016 (F) - Hi, I am with a guy who is separated from his wife 5 years ago. He came to America as a refugee 3 years ago and she is overseas with their son. All his family and relatives knows about me and the fact that they are separated and he is waiting for ...

My husband refuses to help with housework, we both work and he's become very nasty towards me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2727 days ago

25 October 2016 (F) - Hi everyone, Just need a bit of advice and help. Me and my hubby have been married just over a year and been together for 4 1/2 years, we own our own home and have a nearly 3 year old daughter. Since we have gotten married and I have starte...

How can I make my husband forgive my mother and myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2728 days ago

25 October 2016 (F) - I meet my husband six years ago online. We are from different country and love each other very much. March 2014 we married and I move to his country. I agreed to help him in his business before I get a job there. Therefore I help him. He said that ...

Husband going to be alone for a week at training. He told me I couldn't go but I don't trust him. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2725 days ago

25 October 2016 (?) - Hello Everyone, I have wrote here before and expressed that I have trust issues with my husband. He has done things in the past to earn my distrust. Anyway he is going out of town for a week for training for work. He at first told me that I could ...

I cheated, ended things but not sure what to do now

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2720 days ago

24 October 2016 (M) - Im married, with two kids. I did the dumbest thing in my life. I cheated on my wife after 7 years together. I was stupid, feel like scum and have this knot in my stomach that will not go away. To make things worse, I started with a condom and som...

I'm married to a mama's boy and its affecting our marriage

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2728 days ago

23 October 2016 (F) - Just after opinions please... Ladies, would you settle down with a mumma's boy? .... Men, are you a mumma's boy and how does this affect your other half? The reason I ask this is because my husband is a mumma's boy through and through and it's...

How do I rebuild trust with my wife when she's still going to see the man she crossed a line with?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2727 days ago

21 October 2016 (M) - I have been married to my wife for 10 years and thought things were going ok. We did go through a rocky patch in June this year but thought we had got through that. I started to get a bit suspicious of a guy that she coaches who had left his wife a ...

Why does my husband use a sex toy rather than be with me and then lie about having a toy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

21 October 2016 (F) - My husband has always claimed that he doesn't/can't masturbate because he knows it's his own hand. (No, I don't seriously believe this) A couple of years ago, I found a pocket pussy hidden in his sock drawer. I asked him about it and he said he ...

Why would my wife threaten to leave me over my porn use?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

19 October 2016 (M) - My wife says she will leave me if I keep watching porn. What is wrong with her? I have no idea why she thinks watching porn is bad. This is something I like to do and do it privately. I never told her I was into porn and many of you can guess wh...

Do you think it's unreasonable for a husband to request that his wife not kiss mutual male friends hello and goodbye on the lips?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 2732 days ago

17 October 2016 (M) - Do you think it's unreasonable for a husband to request that his wife not kiss mutual male friends hello and goodbye on the lips? We only have one male friend who does this. He does it to other wives as well. He had been a mutual friend for 10 ye...

Demands sex but computer gets first call

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2736 days ago

16 October 2016 (F) - Hello! My husband and I have been in a disagreement lately. he plays games on his computer all evening and then waits until after 10pm when I want to go to sleep to come to bed and ask for sex. I have told him multiple times that if he would come to ...

I need help making decisions to benefit my children and shape my future

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

14 October 2016 (?) - Hi all, I am from India. I got married to a rich and educated girl. Initially, she was good and our relationship went well. After our first baby (son) she refused for sex. Her mother asked her to go for second baby. So she compelled me for the ...

I'm married no sex with wife but am meeting men behind her back

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2743 days ago

10 October 2016 (M) - I am a married man, 2 kids and have over the last year not had sex with my wife. Instead I have joined a dating agency, gay sex site really and had numerous encounters, which I have fully enjoyed, Truth be told I feel more comfortable with mal...

I love him but I hate him. Where do I go from here? Its officially over but I still have feelings

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2742 days ago

10 October 2016 (F) - I don't know where to start but Ive lost so much over the past year and the losses still keep coming. I'm 38, two sons (18 and 15) and divorced for a little over a year. My sons are great...my oldest is a freshman in college out of state and my ...

Does anyone have advise for getting pregnant later in life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2748 days ago

7 October 2016 (F) - This is VERY painful to talk about. I am 39 and my husband is 26. We got pregnant immediately this year in may right after my last period in may. We were overjoyed ofc..I have 6 kids from 2 previous relationships that did not work out. but they were ...

Her ex' is hurting and I want to help but...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2746 days ago

7 October 2016 (M) - My girlfriend (age:30) was married for 6 years to some guy she said cheated on her 4 times in 3 years. So she divorced him, he moved out the house, and that's when she met me(age:26) Some months later, she gets a call from a random number, it's her ...

How do I win over macho' man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2748 days ago

6 October 2016 (F) - What is easiest way to turn my macho' husband into a total sissy who obeys my every command? ...

I love my husband but sex with older man is passionate!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

4 October 2016 (F) - Hi, I've been married for just over a year I'm 23 and my husband is 27. We have been together for 4 and a half years and ever since we have got married everything has changed even though we have a daughter together and we lived with each ...

How do I respond to my wife now I know about the affair she had with my (then) best friend behind my back?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2612 days ago

2 October 2016 (M) - I just found out that my wife had a sexual relationship with my best friend and the best man at my wedding. This happened 26 years ago! We had been dating exclusively for 4 months at the time. Even though it was so long ago, I feel like it could've...

My partner is afraid of my penis size... and her sister is a little too interested!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2744 days ago

1 October 2016 (M) - I'm married over 3 years, love marriage, never did intercourse with my partner until married, knew her 6 years before marriage, we both want more of it but I have a 11.5inch n 5 inch fat, she is scared every time, I am ashamed of it, I haven't taken ...

Criticized, humiliated and not loved and not appreciated. What do I need to do to get over this loveless marriage? I've put on weight and eventually my health will be affected.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2744 days ago

1 October 2016 (M) - I know I should be thankful for my marriage, home and trying to build up to a good life. But I have just woken up this morning and feel like maybe my marriage is just too hard to keep going. Mainly because our communication is terrible. I had ...

I'm worried he's getting fed up with me! I think he wants perfection!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2744 days ago

1 October 2016 (F) - Hi, I am a female, 24. My husband and I have been married for 2.5 years now. We were one of those couples who fell in love and got married soon without a big ceremony. We loved each other to bits. I still do. Last night he was at a friend's place ...