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Archived questions from: November, 2006 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

I'm in love with someone else - but should I just settle for my less physical marriage or move on?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

30 November 2006 (M) - I'm a 25-year old christian guy that married his first girlfriend 2 years ago (after dating her for 3 years). Before I met her, I spent most of my time behind a computer, not meeting girls. Although I was not a christian when we started dating, I ...

I'm attracted to someone else and it's not my husband, what can I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - Hi, I am married but am really attracted to another guy. We are good friends - worked together, have since left my job, so at least the temptation is not so much there. I know for a fact if this person asked me out(I know he had feelings for me)i ...

I think I'm in love with my sister-in-law! Please help!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 39 days ago

30 November 2006 (M) - I told my sister in law that i fancy her a couple of months ago she lives 200 miles from us but i can't stop thinking about her sexual ,i am married with a son but feel traped in the marriage very distent from my wife.My wife has put on weight that ...

We are married to other people, loved before, but I STILL love him, what am I to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 586 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - Ok well here goes, I broke up with my ex 6 years ago and have remained close,close friends ever since and have been able to tell each other anything. We have both got married to toher people but still I can't get the fact that I love him out my ...

My baby stresses me out, my husband and I get into fights, we have no sex life - I'm totally depressed! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 586 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - i m married since 4years. i had 14mnts old son. since then me and my husband has problem we dont have sex life coz i m not attrected to my husband as he has put on lots of weight. i m so much stressed out with my baby so at the end of the day i and ...

I want to be friends with this male, but my husband don't like the idea, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 582 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - I am 34 and have been married for 9 years. Like all marriages, it's had its ups and downs but on the whole we're very happy. Or at least that's what i thought. When i married my husband, he discouraged my having male friends. While this didn't ...

I'm having an affair, his girlfriend knows about it, what am I suppose to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 582 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - i met a man that i used to go out with when i was younger,but i was married.To cut a long story short, i started an affair with him.My marriage came to an end,which was hell for me and my girl.This man isnt married but lives with someone.He has no ...

My husband has nudie pics on his answerphone and chats and flirts with girls online... My Christian beliefs tell me to stay in the marriage - what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 577 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - Hi there I have a problem,I have been married for 4 years the years was not smooth.Now for the 1st time there is another females invovle.My sister told me that there is naked picture of a woman on my husband phone,when I qeustion him about it he sa...

He visited me after I exposed everything about him to his new gf - they're still together! I'm so upset.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 587 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - well here i am back again to let you know what happend after i expsoed my husband to his new girlfriend .he was here with me yesterday talking to me about his new house and telling me he was moveing into it maybe today and telling what she was ...

Not sure but hubby may be cheating. What are the signs to watch for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 587 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - I think my husband is cheating on me with my brothers wife. What do I do? I can I find out. We fight every night. We never spend anytime togther. If she comes over he will sit up and talk. But if its just us he goes to sleep on the couch. Everytime ...

How do I find out who this phone number belongs to? It was in his phone and it's driving me crazy!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - My husband left me a few weeks ago I thought everything was fine, we are back together now but while we were seperated the mobile phone bill came and I noticed a number so I went though his phone and found it under the name jon so I phoned it and ...

He says the texts are from a coworker, but I know they're from another woman!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 587 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 8 years, having just married 3 months ago. Recently, he has been sending/receiving several text messages on his phone from some girl on the other side of the country. He claims all the calls are from some new ...

Before me, my wife had a real 'wild' past..trying to deal with it. Any advice?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 83 days ago

28 November 2006 (M) - We hear all this about men having chequered pasts as in 100 women , But I have the reverrse I am married to a woman who came clean and admitted to having sex with 16 different men most of the time these liasons were adulterous, some were one night ...

Am I being paranoid or does my hubby really find me unattractive? What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 589 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - hi, I have been married for 4 years and we have a daughter together, i have two children from a previous marriage. when we first met sex was great, then i feel pregnant with our daughter and things were good. as soon as i had my daught...

I exposed everything and more about my ex-husband to his new gf! Will they break up now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 589 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - hi i was on to u all before about my husband leving me for a girl 15 years younger than him.well i think i done a foolish thing yesterday . i was on the phone to him knowing he was down the country with her house hunting .oh yes thay got a house and ...

Married with two kids and no libido due to lack of energy! Can you help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 589 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - HI, i'm a married 23year old with two kids. Ever since i had my kids i can't seem to orgasm or get excited with my husband. I love making love with my hubby but i just don't get aroused, also sex seems a little boring and by the time we go to bed ...

Ooops! Sent my married friend, an email professing my love for him! I think I messed up badly-he has not responded!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 590 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - Five months ago, I met a man who was also my doctor. I'm not his patient now but we are still in touch via email. A few days ago, he called me to call off a formal engagement. He sounded cool on the phone, probably because his wife was nearby. We ...

I'm cheating on my husband and don't know how to stop!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - i am cheating on my husband with one of our friends... it has been going on for the past three years. but we never had slept. we only kiss. but i dont know how to stop. it's like i am addicted to him...

My mistress of 5 years left me...and I am so heartbroken! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 565 days ago

25 November 2006 (M) - hi, i am 45 years old, married man. I have been having an affair with a lady for 5 years. she is aware i am married and have children. ilove her very much but cannot leave my wife and children. this lady has now left me and will not talk to me or re...

I want my husband back! What can I do to convince him, that our marriage is worth it? Any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 591 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - I need advice on how to get my husband back. He left three weeks ago to stay at a friend's place. We were together ten years before our marriage four months ago. He wanted out three weeks before the wedding, but we still got married. He was a virgin ...

Should I be worried about the mysterious texts from a woman, on his phone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - I found texts on my husband's phone from a woman I don't know arranging for them to meet up. I asked who she was and was told "She's no one". He has since deleted these texts. I am worried something is going on. Should I be?...

Been thinking of a past lost love..does this mean I am falling out of love with my husband?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 592 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - Am i falling out of love with hubby? Moved Aboard 6 months ago with my hubby and daughter and are feeling a bit lost. I know we love each other but dont seem as close and now i am getting thoughts about a lost love am i falling out of love with...

I'm worried my husband of 20 years has cheated on me! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 592 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - i am so worried i think my husband of 20 years has cheated on me and i can't prove it its eating me away he was on a business trip about one month ago even though he hugs and kisses me during the day when it comes to bed time he either goes before ...

I love him, despite the fact he loves another woman! What should I do--wait or leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 592 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - Me and my husband of 6yrs have currenlty separated?We have a 5yr old son together and We kind of has some problems coming from jealousy he took this girl he worked with and her kids and our son fishing and to the park one day while i was at work and ...

How can I prove my love? Or should I let go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - My husband of 6yrs who i have a 5yr son by has cheated on me with a woman he works with and i gave him plenty of oppurtunities for him to tell me and he didn't. Now he tell's me there will never be a chance for me and him cause he's in love with ...

I know that I've changed from my lying ways... now how do I convince my wife?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 593 days ago

24 November 2006 (M) - I lied to my wife for all of our realtionship.We have been together for 2 years and married for one. I stopped lying to her but she still thinks that I'm doing it. I'm not sure on what to do. She told me last night that she wants a divorce, so that ...

I have no desire for my wife whom I love dearly! I don't know what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 593 days ago

23 November 2006 (M) - I'm a married 26 years man and I don't have desire for sex sometimes for weeks knowing that i love my wife so much. and when i sleep with her i reach orgasim fast and i don't know what to do....

If my wife leaves the marital home do I have to let her back in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 592 days ago

23 November 2006 (M) - I have 2 children, if my wife leaves the marital home do i have to let her back in....

Update: My husband who left me for a much younger woman...should I confront this woman?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 39 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - i would just like to thank the people who took the time to answer my worries on my husband left me for a girl 15 years younger . and to say yes i do have kids but they dont know about this because im hoping to get back with him. i love and miss him ...

My husband (late 30's) is winking and eyeing up a 15 year old girl. Is there something going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 593 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - I'm very concerned my husband who is in his late 30's as been winking(more than once) and eyeing up a 15 year old girl. He barely knows her and they've only spoke once or twice. Do you think there is something going on? or am i just been paranoid?...

MY husband has been having wet dreams a lot, What's wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 594 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - Hi I have been with my husband for 13 years. Over the past 6 months he has started to have wet dreams. He tells me that he has no control over these, our sex life is still active but obviously not as much as when we first met! He is 34 I am 40. I ...

My husband left me for a girl 15 years younger!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 595 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - dear cupid my husband left me 3 months ago we were married 21 years. he has told me he does not love me any moor and now he has strong feelings for a girl 15 years younger than him he is 39. When i asked him to give it another try he said no that ...

My husband wants a divorce but we aren't having any problems I know of!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - My husband of 4 years told me he wants a divorce, yet he has made no move to leave the apartment we rent. We were not having any problems that I know of. Should I broach the subject of reconciliation or just get him out?...

My wife of 22 years is having an affair with a married man... What to do?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

20 November 2006 (M) - I have a wife of 22 years who i felt was my selected partner forever. We have children in high school and college. About five years ago i took this new job that require i spend a lot of time traveling. She has been working as a manager locally and ...

Husband has fallen for my cousin! We've had problems and he loves her. Should I just call it a day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 596 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - My husband has fallen in love with my cousin. They know I know. I threw him out and he stayed with his sister for a while. We talked and decided to give it another go. I know he still loves her, I think they talk and may be see each other. I only ...

ive turned to hypnosis to help save myself and my marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 597 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - My husband and i thought we were indistructable as we had such a strong happy relationship. But issues i have within myself have ruined the marriage. I've read up on so many relationship problems and solutions in an attempt to fix things but they ...

I am afraid my stepdad hits my mom, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 597 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - How do I know if my step dad hits my mom? Lately, I have been missing lots of school, over the limit, 12 days. Actually Thursday I skipped and with that, I told her about it with geting into trouble. And how she said she wouldn't excuse ...

He married to another but he is my soulmate! I'm giving up on all this..am I doing the right thing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 597 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - Should I give up my soulmate? We met in 2005 at work, but developed a close relationship over the next few months. We understood each other completely, often times without even saying anything. We stood by each other through problems and though w...

My ex-lover won't stop pestering me to start it up again, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

18 November 2006 (F) - 6 months ago i began an affair with my husbands friend after feeling alone and rejected by my husband(is that normal afetr 10yrs?) I made the foolish mistake that if i wasn't getting the attention and love i wanted from my husband then i would be ...

Have feelings for my friend's husband and I feel guilty! Is it wrong to tell him my true feelings?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 404 days ago

18 November 2006 (F) - I have been very depressed lately. I still have serious feelings for my friend's husband. We started to email each other last month, but then stopped... we decided we should just talk over the phone if there was something to say. I found out that ...

I want my wife back. My love letters and gifts are not helping-she wants divorce! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 597 days ago

18 November 2006 (M) - my wife left me and are two kids in vegas on 11/18/05 i sent her love letters from 10 pages to about 70 and 65letters gifts diamond ear rings singing tellagrams even are kids have she never calls us she filed for a divorce but i pushed it a side for ...

We split up 16 weeks ago and I am struggling. Any good advice to helping myself is appreciated!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

18 November 2006 (F) - Hello, its 16 weeks since my husband of 7 years and I split up, I wasnt expecting it and have really struggled although my friends and family have been very supportive. I havent cried now for 2 weeks, even though he is on my mind constantly and I ...

The nights are so long without her and I miss her--should I get back together with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

18 November 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have been looking for a site like yours for a while now... I need advice with regards to my cheating wife. I found out back in February that my wife had been cheating on me, with two different people and at different times......

Frustrated military wife tired of being taken for granted

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 592 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - Thanks for taking the time to read this. I hope it doesn't end up too lengthy. I've been having some struggles with my marriage, and I was hoping some of the agony aunts may be able to lend some helpful advice. My husband and I are newlyweds, s...

My husband is a pig, but my kids love him to pieces

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - hi i married at 19 after being 2gether 4 3 yrs. 18months of marriage he had an affaire with my friend from work. we split but never divorced. since then i had 3 lovely children by a man who i was with for 7 yrs. one of my sons was very ill and need ...

We're both in bad marriages and cheating on our spouses, but I'm not sure of his true feelings...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 454 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - I am married and also in a relationship with a married man. Our spouses are very much alike, so we can relate to each other. We are both in bad marriages, but do not want to punish our children by divorce. This has been going on over 2 years. I am ...

My wife had an affair and I went to therapy. It didn't work so I had strings of affairs since. What's next?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 600 days ago

16 November 2006 (M) - Married 7 years have 2 kids. Wife cheated in 1st year of marriage. Tried to deal. Can't deal. Been 2 therapy (couples and single off an on over that time)Have had strings of affairs since. Met a woman I feel is pretty damn suited 2 me. Still ...

Got married despite my online lover telling me to stop... 10 years later we're still in touch and now my husband is taking me on holiday to where he lives!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 600 days ago

16 November 2006 (F) - I have a problem with my life right now. I am married and have been with my husband for over 10 years. I love him alot and there is nothing that I wouldn't do for him. While we were separated, I was chatting on-line with someone far away. I ...

I feel we've grown apart - should I leave my husband?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 52 days ago

16 November 2006 (F) - I Love my Husband but am not In love with him. I have been with my husband for 18 years ( he was my first relationship), until recently i thought we had the perfect marriage 2 children , nice home etc. Then i met someone at work who i am very att...

Is my husband really "just friends" with his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 600 days ago

16 November 2006 (F) - Before I married my husband, he had a seven year reletionship with an older woman. Now they talk on the phone often enough(at least once a week)and for twenty-thirty minutes at the time. My husband says that they are just plain friends, but I feel t...