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Archived questions from: May, 2016 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

I think I'm starting to hate my best friend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

31 May 2016 (F) - I really need some advice with a certain situation that my friend (we'll call her molly) got herself in to. We've been friends for about 5 years and we used to relate to each other so well. We were so close until about 4 months ago. That's when she ...

How can I get the respect I seek from my husband and from his family? What will improve this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

29 May 2016 (F) - My husband told me he recents me for keeping him away from his family. I do keep him away from his family because HIS family doesn't like me . my marriage is falling apart over this we are at the point where either I let him be around his famil...

Stuck in a terrible marriage. Do I stay or leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

29 May 2016 (F) - I am having trouble deciding whether to leave my marriage. I wonder how it all looks from the outside. We met as coworkers during a hard time in my life and slept together even though I made it clear I did not want that type of relationship. Ev...

Fantasizing about my husband's best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2879 days ago

28 May 2016 (F) - My husband is a fair amount older than me and has a lower sex drive. On top of this I am also sexually attracted to multiple people at the same time. My husband's best friend is single and has been on a dry spell for about 5 years and is very ...

Should I give my husband one more chance even though I have so many times before?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2879 days ago

27 May 2016 (F) - So I am finally ready to be done with my marriage, I know it may not be the "right" thing to do. I have tried for years to get my husband to communicate with me and try, even after he has failed to be there for me, failed to follow through, failed ...

My husband left me says he'll never come back but I still love him and am waiting for him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2880 days ago

27 May 2016 (F) - My husband left me 3 months ago,but he is still in contact with me and give me a little money weekly. he does not show affection to me now and said he will never be back to the marital home. Should i wait and hope we can restart our relationship, i ...

How can I ask my husband to consider an open marriage? Cheating has never been a part of our relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

26 May 2016 (F) - I’d like to discuss with my husband a possibility of an open marriage but don’t know how to do it. First of all he may think I literarily lost my mind. You see, I was always a good girl/woman, did what was expected of me, while my husband was free...

What should I do? Things don't feel right in our relationship. I still feel betrayed at times!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2882 days ago

25 May 2016 (F) - My husband and I are having a major problem and I come to you for help. We've been married almost 3 years, no children. He wanted to separate for a bit and so I agreed. I went to go stay at my dads. Out of hurt and anger I told him I would be filin...

How do I tell him about my concerns?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2883 days ago

23 May 2016 (F) - Hi again, so I am trying really hard to stay in my marriage but some things need to change in order for that to be possible. I need to talk to my husband.... But I don't know how to do it, if I talk to him about anything serious he shuts down and ...

My husband's like a child

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2884 days ago

22 May 2016 (F) - Hi, hoping for advice on how to get my husband to become more mature? Handle more adult tasks? I feel like I'm his mother more than anything and I hate having to remind him or "nag" him. I was living in my own place when we got married and he m...

How can I stop? My fiance is going to leave me if I don't stop this behavior.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2886 days ago

20 May 2016 (F) - I am getting married in four months time, and my problem is this: basically I have been constantly obsessing over my partner's past, and all the things that he did wrong at the start of our relationship. I know it is irrational but cannot stop, and ...

Can you recall regrets you felt as a result of getting divorced? Did people respect you less as a result?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2884 days ago

20 May 2016 (F) - How many of you regret getting a divorce?? How many of you feel you made the right or wrong decision? I'm my situation there are no kids involved. Did you remain friends with your ex? How close were you to their family and was it hard telling ...

Married 4 years and still my husband only wants 'vanilla' sex. What can I do to ease him towards more and liven up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2885 days ago

20 May 2016 (F) - I have been married close to 4 years and have always wanted to explore intimately with my husband and he is aware of this desire but seems uninterested with anything beyond "vanilla" sex. Lately I feel incomplete longing for more from him, the desi...

At wit's end. My husband is icing the cake of frustration. What's my next step?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2887 days ago

19 May 2016 (F) - I have been married for almost four years, and of those four years, my commute to work has been 45 minutes to an hour. My husband, however, has only worked the past three years. His job is nearby, so his commute is quite short. I was recently pre...

I'm not sure if I should leave or stay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2889 days ago

18 May 2016 (F) - I'm unhappily married. My husband cheated a few yrs back, I've since fallen out of love with him, the thought of finding someone else excites me. I'm not going to allow myself into a position where I might cheat, but I'm unsure if I can go through ...

My wife speaks down to me and then belittles me when I tell her how I feel.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2887 days ago

18 May 2016 (M) - My wife speaks down to me and then belittles me when I tell her how I feel. I don't know if I am being too sensitive or if I should stand-up for myself more. I don't want to get a divorce as I do love my wife, but there are times that I just ha...

I'm a confused, betrayed and broken mama! Should I try to meet his mistress?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2886 days ago

17 May 2016 (F) - Hi, i just discovered that my husband of 4yrs is having an affair at his office. My instinct told me something wasn't right but i tried to remain positive and trust him,some sent me an anonymous text message which made me connect the dots and ...

Too much of a good thing is still too much, how do I get her to understand?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2873 days ago

17 May 2016 (M) - OK my wife had a serious accident. And now we don't have interiors. She says it hurts her very bad She will give me blow jobs and I give her head Now my problem is she wants to do it all the time I mean 3 or 4 times a day I get up in the ...

I need advice! I'm young, married and unhappy!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2882 days ago

17 May 2016 (F) - Hi looking for advice. My husband and I have been together for 9 years, married for 6. About two years ago I moved for work, we had talked it over and agreed he would move the rest of our stuff and then come join me in a month. However he ended up ...

Met this guy and he has a Gf. What should I do? I am yet to tell me that I'm divorcing my husband.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2890 days ago

15 May 2016 (F) - My husband I have agreed to divorce. We still live together because it's convenient but we treat each other as roommates and I will probably stay at our house for at least next three months. About two months ago I met a guy through mutual friends....

Did I over-react to his initial rejection ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2890 days ago

15 May 2016 (F) - Hi! So my husband and I went to different cities post marriage because of work and met recently after a gap of six long months. In order to spice things up I dressed up in a nice lingerie and surprised him. In his response he kissed me, then pus...

I am lost and I need a plan of action. I need to leave this marriage, so what is my next move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

15 May 2016 (F) - I have finally decided I want a divorce. It is not a decision I have taken lightly. I have struggled with it for so long hoping that we can somehow make things better. My husband is not a bad man, but he is emotionally damaged (I know why and I kn...

We are like two guys who are room-mates. Marriage together has become boring. Is this how it is? Are my expectations too high?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2876 days ago

15 May 2016 (M) - About to hit my one year anniversary. However, I am very bored of my husband. I am unhappy, and resentful of the marriage. His standards are very low, so low that we are just married roommates. We both end up doing our own thing. We rarely talk, ...

The spark has gone. If we do split up then how will that affect our 4 year old daughter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

14 May 2016 (M) - Since the birth of our daughter, 4 years ago, my partner and I have drifted apart, we still enjoy one another's company and get along but there is no spark between us. Sex and even intimacy is non existent. We both agree that we love each other but ...

Why do intense passionate affairs always come to an end?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2892 days ago

14 May 2016 (F) - I'm a married woman whos been having an affair with a single man for about two years now...I know its wrong, but he's so good looking, interesting, kind, and really seems to care about what I have to say...And the sex is Amazing.....my best friend ...

We have a complicated 30 years together. I want to help my husband but don't know how!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

13 May 2016 (F) - My husband and I were high school sweethearts. I was his first and he lied and said he had a few and I also lied and told him I had 2-3. It was a lot of partners. He has defended my honor in this little town we live in and has never questioned my ...

I'm married and had sex with a married man and now he wants nothing to do with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2894 days ago

13 May 2016 (F) - Hi i am a married and have 10 childrens with my husband...I had sex with a a married man and then fell in love with him, after that only one day of sex in the park he now ignores me...and acts like i dnt exist im angry and feel like he used me...

We hardly have sex and I think he's looking at porn! Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2894 days ago

12 May 2016 (F) - A few months back I caught my husband looking at porn on his tablet. he was also working away from home during the week and weekend all his underwear has cum stains in. we had lots of arguments bout this. now he is back home and for a long time his ...

My in-laws are making my life a misery. I need advice on how to deal with this, please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2895 days ago

11 May 2016 (F) - Hi all, can anyone give me some advice on my partners parents, because I feel like giving up. I have been with my man for 3 years now and we live together, and are extremely happy together, I am older than my man by 12 years but it's not a big d...

Is it because I'm telling the truth? My controlling husband does not like what I've been saying?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2896 days ago

10 May 2016 (F) - my husband who is very controlling turned me against members of my family because he obviously is jealous, now that I have got in touch with these people again after 3 years of not speaking. My husband does not like it but I am much stronger now...

How will I handle these delicate decisions about inviting and seating guests at our wedding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2897 days ago

10 May 2016 (F) - I just got engaged yesterday. We had talked about it for a while before hand so I knew it was going to happen... I just didn't know when! Anyhow my fiance and I had just booked a months holiday to California so we were going to secretly elope in ...

He can't break her hold

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2892 days ago

10 May 2016 (F) - Why can't a married man give up his long term mistress? Even when he has tried more than once to stop the affair due to guilt and fear of being caught? Why can he NOT let her go? Despite so many attempts? His mistress has told him she does n...

Should I leave my wife because of her fixation on finding “the big one”?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2889 days ago

9 May 2016 (M) - My wife is totally ignorant to me on occasssion. Thoughtless or worse. She cheated 4 years ago looking for 'the big one' as I caught her when she left FB open. It was a coworker and the brief fling happened after she lost her job. Turns out he w...

Family issue I never mentioned earlier. Is it reason enough to (possibly) not wish to marry me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2897 days ago

9 May 2016 (F) - Hi I am in quite a fix please help me out here I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year,a few weeks ago I told him something about my "so called" family member (we are not in touch,our families don't talk to each other,they have been not...

I cheated and now I'm 6 weeks pregnant. Troubled and at the crossroads. Abort or stay pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2899 days ago

8 May 2016 (F) - I am 21, have a 3 year old girl and have been with the father for almost 5 years. We moved together 7 months ago to a new house with a roomate who is close friends of us, (used to live at parents home, never had a stable relationship, always c...

Of those who chose to remain married, though unhappy, I ask, did you regret doing so?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2879 days ago

8 May 2016 (F) - Just want to do a survey to married/divorced folks: Which of you have stayed married despite being unhappy? Do you regret it? How long have you been married? Why were you unhappy? Which of you decided to divorce because you were unhappy? Are...

Why will a married man NOT leave his mistress, even when affair is in danger of being exposed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2905 days ago

2 May 2016 (F) - Why won't a married man give up his long time mistress EVEN when their affair is in danger of being exposed to the world and to his wife? For example: Some people in their work place are starting to become suspicious. But he still won't leave hi...