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Archived questions from: December, 2005 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

My wife hates the idea of my close female friend. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 874 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, Please help me solve a problem with my wife. I have a married female coworker who I have become friends with. We talk on the phone daily as we are not always assigned to the same location. She sends emails and pictures to me a...

We married young. She left with no sign at all... Is there anything I can do to save our marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 938 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - if anyone could help please do so this is my question me and my wife started dating when she was only 15 and i was 16 we date right at six years before we married we married in sept 2005 an when we married i change as far want to go party and hun...

I can see my wife making the same mistakes during our separation that I did. How can I make her understand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 940 days ago

28 December 2005 (M) - My wife and I separated last year for a year because of my verbal anger problem, and had a female friend that I did not do anything with until we were fully separated but she thought otherwise. Six months later she asked me to come back to her and I ...

Am I a fool to consider forgiving my wife's infidelity, after she dated 18 other guys?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 96 days ago

27 December 2005 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 30 years, 25 of them married.Three days ago, by accident, I found out my wife has been registered with 2 ''swinger'' sites in the last 6 months. She has admitted to lunchtime dates with about 18 men and sex with 6 ...

My husband has a married female friend and I find their friendship too excessive. What should I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - Husband had female friend - is she after him? My husband of five years has a female friend (she is married also) that he met at his new job. We recently moved to a new area and he says she is his only friend. They talk at least once a day, call...

I don't love my wife any more and now I'm interested in someone else...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

25 December 2005 (M) - I am a married man of the age of 21, been married for about 2 years and have never cheated on my wife, or done anything ridculous. I haven't loved my wife for so long and just am fed up with her but I feel like I'm falling for someone else I have ...

My husband doesn't seem to think my contribution to the household matters as much as his!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 943 days ago

24 December 2005 (F) - I'm married. If I am paying all the bills and pretty much paying for everything and I only get $$ from my hubby when I run out, for emergincies only. How come he treats me like he pays for everything and I don't put anything into the family?...

My ex husband married his gf. How do I find the strength to move on from this hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 943 days ago

23 December 2005 (F) - My ex-husband got re-married a couple days ago. That hit me like a ton of bricks. We haven't been together for 2 and a half years and he has been with her since we seperated. I don't want to be with him, I want to be able to move on from him. I've ...

In the military and my husband has had an affair!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 944 days ago

23 December 2005 (F) - My husband has had an affair with his boss in the military which is highly inappropriate. I am also in the military and have threatened with formal action due to my anger. He was on course for 8 weeks with his boss and rang me and told me my ...

How can I forget about my wife's past?

This question has 52 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

20 December 2005 (M) - My wife has had vaginal intercourse (about 48 times with three guys, 6+12+30), anal intercourse (one time each with two guys), and/or oral sex (about twenty five times from four guys) with six men other than me. She has given manual and/or oral sex ...

My home is a battleground..my wife and my oldest son are bickering all the time!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 946 days ago

20 December 2005 (M) - I am 35 years old and have been married for 10 years now. I have 3 kids the oldest is 11 and from a relationship the other 2 are with my wife. For the past couple years things have been pretty bad at home fighting, bickering, major tension between ...

I don't trust him but I love him and care so much. Am I a Fool?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 921 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - Am I A Fool? My husband lies to me and hides things from me that I find out later.I don't trust him but I love him and care about so much. What do I do?...

'm busy with our 5 kids-and he treats me like crap. Help- I need his respect and love.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 946 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - I have been married for 4 years. We have 2 children and I take care of his other 3. I am 27 years old. I am a very busy person with no outlet for letting go. My stress level is to the roof. I get no help with the kids or anything for that matter. He ...

He claims he was setting his friend up on a date...but was the girl on the phone really HIS date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 946 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 7 months and I think he may be cheating on me. He's been text messaging a lot (with his friends, he claims) and the other night when his phone rang, he checked to see who it was before taking the call in ...

He tells me I'm a crybaby one moment, then tells me how much he loves me the next! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 947 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - I love my husband. Very much. However, I just don't know what to do. First, we have been married 6 years, with no children. I have a wonderful career, and my job pays everything. He works 2-3 days a week, and refuses to work anymore, saying he ...

No sex with my husband and now I've met another guy who has a girlfriend!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 934 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - Married 27 years separate bedrooms sexless for 12 years - husband never gave me a reason why. Stayed because of son. Recently met another guy who has fallen for me and I'm falling for him. He's got a gf but some problems there. He gave me a hug and ...

I can't get any time without my wife since we married. Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 950 days ago

18 December 2005 (?) - I have a question I need to ask anyone who has endured a longstanding relationship or is in one now. I have been with my girl for over 2 and a half years now. We got married in October. We are in a good loving relationship and fitting into the...

I'm tired of being my husband's maid and "mother"!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 949 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - I have been married for almost three years now and I am not attracted to my husband like I used to be. It's not because of his looks, it's the fact that he has become so lazy. I have to constintly clean up after him and nag him to get anything done. ...

When I asked my husband what he liked about my body he replied "hands and feet" !

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - Im hoping some of you wonderful people can give me some input on this one. As you will know from my previous post my husband made it very clear that he found porn stars more attractive than me. Since this problem came out in the open he has ...

Married for 12 years, no sex, sleep in seperate beds... I want to leave for my lover but what about the kids?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 949 days ago

17 December 2005 (M) - We've been married for 12 years and have 2 children but have slept in separate rooms for about 5 yrs (since kid no 2)and sex is just a 3 letter word. Thru work I've met a woman of similar age, with partner but no kids, who I've fallen madly in love ...

Paranoid that my Internet lover will turn up and reveal all to my husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 949 days ago

17 December 2005 (F) - this is a really odd question but its really starting to worry me. i have been married for 4 years now and its been up and down most of the time. during one of these down times i met somebody over the internet. we have only ever met twice and chat ...

I had a sexless marriage until my sexy scrabble playing webcam girl turned up... But now she's found someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 950 days ago

17 December 2005 (M) - dear cupid-I've been married 23 yrs to a good woman.however we are mostly :"freinds" now.About totally sexless. @ yrs ago I was playing games on the net when a woamn asked me to paly w/ her & freind.it was "dirty scrabble".had a blast. I was ...

My husband tells his family every single detail of our lives... But he doesn't trust me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 690 days ago

15 December 2005 (F) - i have been married for almost 4 years with two children.my husband doesnot trust me at all.i feel like he is married to his family.i mean they n know everything about our life...every tiny detail thanks to him.they tell him stuff and he keeps th...

Married at 20 years old and I'm not happy...did I marry too young?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

14 December 2005 (F) - hi. i got marrried 8 months ago at the age of 20. now i can't help but wonder if i made a mistake. i know that my husband loves me and i love him, but not in the same way. we recently moved and i began an affaire with someone we both worked with. ...

Should I feel guilty for flirting because I'm married?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 954 days ago

13 December 2005 (M) - Is it normal to enjoy attention from others, of the opposite sex, while married ? I assume it is. I mean, if you don't act on it, of course. More exactly, is it normal to " flirt" for lack of a better word, when you innocently find yourself...

What do I do about this flirtatious female who flirts constantly with my husband?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 954 days ago

13 December 2005 (F) - i have been with my husband for about 18 years and i have a problem with some mutual friends , we have been friends with these people for about 5 years from the beginning i could sense a attraction between my husband and the my husbands friends ...

My husband is demanding a divorce, but he isn't doing anything about it. Does he still care?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 954 days ago

13 December 2005 (F) - Until my father died in June, things were fab between I and my husband, affectionate,loving, but a mr angry at himself, before father died, found out o load of truths, and heartbreaking one. Various other things that I found out,that was hidden for ...

How can an unhappy married woman enjoy her christmas celebration?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 954 days ago

13 December 2005 (F) - i would like to know how an unhappy married woman can enjoy her christmas celebration?...

My wife left and I still love her...can we get back what we once had?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 954 days ago

13 December 2005 (M) - Hi - My question is this..... My wife and I were happily married four years ago. We had some small problems (as you do) but most of the time we were able to work around it and keep things moving along and retain our happy marriage. About a year ...

My wife would rather be with her computer than with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 953 days ago

12 December 2005 (M) - Dear Agony Aunt.... Since I hooked my pc up to the net I have lost my wife to it. She spends her days and nights infront on the pc. We don't have a sex life anymore and she gets irate if I ask her to come to bed. I don't know what to do please h...

My husband wants to keep "his" money separate from "mine". Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 955 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been married for almost a year now. I grew up in an old fashioned home setting. I grew up seeing my father bringing home his paycheck and giving it to my mother, who also worked. She would then use the two paychecks to pay...

Husband is visiting dating sites just for 'fun and games'...what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 953 days ago

11 December 2005 (F) - how do i know if my husband is lying? i found out that he has been going to dating web sites and trying to find a girl. when i confronted him he said that him and his friend were just doing it for fun and games. I went to his profile and the ...

When my wife enjoys the attention of another man, I feel threatened, even though I know she wouldn't cheat...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 958 days ago

8 December 2005 (M) - What is considered normal as far as enjoying attention from members of the opposite sex, while married? Is it normal to be flattered if you know somebody is attracted to you and you enjoy it? If someone approaches my wife in a ...

I want to rebuild my marriage but my wife refuses to talk to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 959 days ago

8 December 2005 (M) - Hi i have recently split up with my wife,i realise where i have gone wrong and would like to be with her again, but she wont speak to me. I love my wife very much and would love to her to give me another chance. If you think you maybe able to help ...

My husband compares my body to porn stars...and it hurts. Should I take the kids and leave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 959 days ago

8 December 2005 (F) - Hi Guys, What should a woman do if her h tells her that he finds the women in porn so much more beautiful than his wife? Especially if the wife takes great care of herself but he is unhappy about changes associated with aging and having been pre...

Who comes first...the wife or the husband's family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 959 days ago

8 December 2005 (F) - Basically without going into all the details of the conflict, my husband thinks his family (parents and brothers) should come first before me. Ironically he's not close to them at all and complains they treated him terribly, on the contrary me and ...

I am not attracted to my wife physically..should I have sex with an old gf?

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

7 December 2005 (M) - I love my wife very much and would never want to hurt her. We get along very well and are very connected, except for one area: sex. I am no longer attracted to her physically. In the meantime, an old girlfriend of mine has contacted me and really ...

My husband hates my job, spends all the money-I pay for everything and I feel used!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 961 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - dear cupid, i met my husband when i was 17 he was 21 i was and still am an exotic dancer. He has been with me for 8 years and knows all about it. i have never cheatd on him. we have 2 kids together he is always throwing my job in my face but he ...

I did something to hurt her...we separated but I want her back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 959 days ago

6 December 2005 (M) - I have been separated from my wife for 5 months. We two small children. I did something that has hurt her pretty bad. It's not infidelity, but a serious financial disaster as a result of a recently diagnosed mental illness and I stand to lose alot. ...

His ex wife won't let me meet his kids!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. Both of us are seperated, and are working on the divorces, for me it is an issue of money for an attorney and disputing over custody with my ex, while I am trying to support my self and two ...

Married with Children but in love with a friend...is it worth my marriage to be with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 949 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - im married with two children but im in love with a friend of mine, im sure he would be with me too if i wasnt married and had my life sorted. i just dont no what to do i want to be with him so much. but is it worth losing my marrage?...

How can I tell what I feel for my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 934 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - i have been with my husband for 15 years and married for 11 of them. for a long time i wasn't sure what i was feeling but lately i am not sure if i still love him or not but am not sure. there is no hatred or malice just no feelings any more. how ...

Should I accept our marriage is over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 964 days ago

3 December 2005 (F) - Here is my dilema. My husband and I were married in April and separated in June. I love this man more than anything in this world. But after we got married, thing went downhill. He totally shut me out of his life, did not ask me to a family ...

My husband has threatened...either the pet dog goes or he moves out!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 954 days ago

2 December 2005 (F) - I am a newlywed, married in August. When my husband and I were dating, I had a dog. My husband had never owned pets in his life, but seemed okay with it. Some months before the wedding, my dog was killed. I was grief stricken, but I always knew ...

My son-in-law dumped his sex problems with my daughter-in my lap. How do I talk to her about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 965 days ago

2 December 2005 (F) - My son-in-law has placed a problem on me with regard to my daughter not responding in bed. I have no idea how to bridge this as in October she went through a bad bout of depression which ended up in her trying to take her own life. I was under the ...