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Archived questions from: December, 2010 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Husband is great but he looks at teen porn

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - So i am 40 weeks pregnant and just got married 2 months ago. My husband is great to me and we planned on having this baby. Problem is, he looks at teen porn. I caught him on the computer before so now he looks at it on his phone..The girls look ...

I thought I married a man, not a little boy!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I am at my wits end with my husband and do not know what to do anymore. We have had issues for a while, I will address them, for two weeks he is good and then goes back to his old ways. My husband is 13 years older than I am. I have been successful ...

My wife wants another man on the side and still be with me as well.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3941 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - me and my wife have been married for about 6 months and she tells me that she wants a little something on the side .so i asked her what she wants on the side .she told me that she wanted another man and still be with me as well. what should i do?...

Should I invest in a keylogger for his laptop and phone even though my heart tells me it will probably spell the end of our marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been together since we were 19, married since the age of 20. He's always been heavily into pornography and is constantly pushing me to engage in activities that make me uncomfortable. I understand that porn use is very comm...

Can u sleep with someone and have no feelings for them and still be in love with your wife?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Im lost...I've been married to my husband for over 8 years ( and we have 2 kids tog) and i found out 2 weeks ago from a womans husband that my husband had been sleeping with his wife for the pass 5 months while he was in kuwait..hes home now and ...

How do you know if you got married for the wrong reasons and to the wrong person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - I have been married for 3 years know. How do you know when you got married for the wrong reason and with the wrong person? I have been dating my wife for 4 years before we got married. She is very loving person. But her family has a big impact on ...

I work with the woman I have been having a 5 year affair with and its causing alot of stress

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - Please I am looking for some advice and opinions, I know I will get judged but I can do that myself and have been will pay for this for the rest of my life I know. I've been married for 13years we met in university and we were good friends, played ...

I have a room mate, not a soul mate

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - My husband have been married for 4 yrs. We married 3 weeks after we met. He is my soul mate, he says I'm his. We would make love 2 to 3 times a day. I do know that after awhile things slow down. I get that. However, 1 month after marriage, I met his ...

Will the hurt ever go away, or should I cut my losses and apply for a divorce and let 10 years of marriage go down the drain?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My husband had a one night stand with a "friend" of mine. I am not sure that I can forgive or forget it. I have tried and we have done the counsleing deal, but I have so much anger inside of me, because I feel as if he has brought this into our ...

My husband is having an affair. How do I handle things now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4866 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My husband is having an affair. I should just tell him to go but it all seems so ridiculous, we live in Berkshire and she's in Norwich! He texts her all the time - I first discovered it by finding a second mobile phone that he obviously didn't ...

Is it ok to take a secret lover?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Im 39 yrs married with two kids-sometimes i feel very lonely in my marriage -my huby very boring -iv tried to emphasise on how i want to be loved-very stubborn not romantic at all-am really bored-is it rite if i can a secrete lover? To overcome this ...

I want my husband and lover back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - my husband said he is in love with our children's best friends single mother. We both have two boys, and have been friends for years. Doing activities together all the time, with and with out our boys. Camping, vacations, bike riding, movies, etc.. ...

Betrayed by two people I love

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Im 48 and have been with my husband for 23 years..we'v always had a loving relastionship and our sex life is excellent..iv never had any reason not to trust him and love him deeply..after a night out with my best friend of 30 years we went back to ...

Was it me? I tried my best, even though he cheated, kept a mistress who he's now married.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Please Help! My ex of 4 1/2 years was cheating on me for at least 4 months. It's now been almost a year, and I think he married his mistress. After all the broken promises, the betrayal, the manipulation why does it feel like a big hole in my st...

Can you really alter a polygraph?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Ok, my question is I want to give my husband a polygraph test and I want to know that he cant alter the test. The reason I want him to take one is because well lets just say his work takes him to different places over seas for a year to a yea...

He flirts online! Do I stay or do I go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - So I need advice, I have been married for 7 years now, and my husband has been looking at personals for about 6 years. not only does he look but he replies and his answers are very sexual. He has also registered at single's websites in the past but ...

I'm putting everything I got into this marriage when I get nothing in return!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Ok here it goes, I have been married to the same man for 18 years. And we dated for 4 years before that. We have three kids, I am a stay at home mom, as well as running my business from home. I run a dog daycare, grooming and overnight care for ...

Sexual past creeping in the present...and now my retroactive jealousy is raging.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - I have been with my wife for 15 years. About 7 years of dating and being engaged, about 8 or so of it married. We have 2 amazing kids. I adore my wife. She's beautiful, my best friend, I love spending time with her. We started dating our Senior ...

He wants to end our affair and be best friends. I work with him!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Hi I have been in a relationship with a married co-worker for 18 months. We started off as friends and our relationship developed into love over a period of months. We have had many special times together and I love this man more than anyone I ha...

I'm his wife and yet I feel like a "dirty secret"

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Needing Advice My husband and I recently married. We had discussions about concerns prior to marrying and I thought all was settled....Wrong...My husband went to visit his new Grandbaby at his ex's home on Christmas. His son, who is in his 30's was...

Is knowing he will never be there emotionally when I need him the most enough to leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - My husband is in the military and has been gone for the majority of the year. He was only back for a couple of weeks when I had gotten a hysterectomy. We have 4 children and he has been great helping out while I recover the problem is he is working ...

Husband is cold fish - no loving cuddles or hugs..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I am not sure what to do about this situation. My husband of 14 years does not (or can not) give any loving cuddles or embraces. I watched my sister and her husband cuddle while visiting at my parents house, I was very envious, and it broke my ...

I am still resentful that my wife left during a very low point in my life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - I am a 24 yeare old male. I got married about 3 and a half years ago. Within the last year I feel that my marrage has realy taken some difficult hits, and I just feel like I need to vent or gain some perspective on feelings I am having. The histo...

Husband, Brother-in-law and me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I love my husband deeply. We have been together for 14years. We recently moved to where his brother lives. We have only had limited contact with his family do to living 1200 miles apart. Within days of arriving I felt an irrisistible pull towards ...

What to do... I think I'm in love with my sister in law...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - hi all, i know this is a probably stupid but i am not the only i see, i am falling for my sister in law. i love my wife and we have a kid and very happy together but i am just infatuated with my sister in law that i cant think straight. i don't kn...

My wife is leaving me help please!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - Hi, my wife is leaving me after 6 years of marriage and 2 children 2 and 6. She told me 5 months ago she did not love me and is now leaving in a few days, the reason is she is unhappy and wants to be alone. We are doing a deed of seperation and I...

Supposed to be getting married but I am unsure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I am just not sure and feeling very anxious. i'm engaged to be married to my boyfriend in August. I live with him. We are both in our 40's. However I am happy just living together at the moment but he wants to get married,as he keeps saying I have ...

Hubby cheated on me 2 weeks after our wedding.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4868 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I am a 28 year old mother of one. I have been with my husband (my child's father) for 9.5 years. We got married on the 3rd of July 2010. Two weeks later, I found out that he was cheating on me with his friend's sister. I was more in a state of ...

How long does it take to get divorced and who pays for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - How long does the average divorce process take and what all does it involve if there is a child in the middle? when the parents have a mutual agreement on child support payments and visitation, do the parents still have to pay for the divorce? I...

Married for 16 years, if I met husband now I wouldn't give him a second thought!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I have been with my husband since I was 16. Now that I am 32 I find myself to have grown apart from him. We are different people with different likes and dislikes. If we were to meet now I wouldn't give him a second thought. We have 3 kids together ...

Wife's past still hurts me 25 years later

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - Please Help Me it hurts Till Today from 25 Years ago. Back in my Twenty's I was Friends with a Group of Guys We did all kinds of things together. But mostly Party And Look for Girls. I met a very nice Girl who was a Virgin We dated few Months I ...

Should I open that forbidden door or play it safe?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - hello im needing advice. im 24 and a parent to a 4 yr old boy. im also married and have been with my partner since i was 18. hes 30 yrs old. my dilemma is that he wants another baby. he feels hes ready and i do too but is it wrong for me to want ...

Should I give up on this marriage? He doesn't even live here anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4854 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - Do i start afresh or try and make it work? My partner and i had been together for over 6 yrs we have had 2 children, we split in july after i had discovered he was getting overly friendly with his ex/ he moved out and went home 2 his mum, we didnt...

Cheating, or loving?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4869 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - hi, pl help me, I m married 6yrs old with kids,my wife gets very angry whenever i remind or remember regarding her past boy friend, regarding whom she says "I don't love now, 'I love only you' not anybody" but I feel some where she feels for him but ...

My husband won't stop insulting me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4869 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - hi i am 28 years old and i married to my boyfriend. we are crazy about each other but my husband is bad tempered and whenever he becomes angry he easily insults me. we have no other problem but i can not tolerate it anymore. i have talked to him ...

I'm married but I want my mistress back in my life.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

26 December 2010 (M) - My girlfriend/mistress just(september)ended our 4 year relationship because I'm married. I'm 20 years older than my mistress. She has known this all along . We both admit the past 4 years were fabulous in every way for both of us. Danc...

I feel so alone. Week before Christmas he left because he needed 'space'

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - On Monday, only 5 days before Christmas my husband and I got into a huge argument. It was really over nothing, he was drinking and going on and on about nothing. I asked him to be quiet so I could get some work done at home (I work from home) and ...

My attraction to my girlfriend's sister is getting more every day

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

26 December 2010 (M) - i am with my girlfriend we have 4 children together, but i find myself falling in love with her sister. My girlfriend's sister is exactly like me. In every way we like the same things. Want the same things in life, even my girlfriend said i'm with ...

I cheated on my wife with the girl we previously had a threesome with!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

26 December 2010 (M) - About a week ago I cheated on my wife with a girl that my wife and I have been having threesomes with. Now she says she wants me out she dosent love me and I disgust her. She keeps talking about her broken family I told her I'm sorry and I love her. ...

I am married but want to be wife my ex girlfriend who is my wife's sister

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - I am married to my ex girl friend's small sister and have two kids but strongly desire my ex girl friend, her big sister who is also married and has her own kids. How can I get over the desire or get her to bed ?...

Regaining Wife's Respect

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

26 December 2010 (M) - Hello everyone I am newly married to my wife well about a year.I recently made a mistake and left my job to invest into a business.It didn't work out so here I am unemployed looking for a job.My wife already was complaining about me i.e. I don't ...

She's everything that I wish my wife was!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

26 December 2010 (M) - My wife 10 yrs together/8yrs married and me have been separated for over 2 months now. The reason being was because of infidelity on my part. I take full responsibilities for my actions and while we were talking separation before anything had ...

Love--falling out of it and don't want to fall back into it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - i have being married for 2years with one child.i told him everything about me before we got married.i never hide any secret from him.he was all fine before we got married.we never had any honey moon and failed pregant.when i went for the scan and ...

Situation leaves me at wits end. My 8 year gay marriage failing, partner cheating, and care for adopted son

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

25 December 2010 (M) - I am in a bad situation-help I am a gay male who is in a gay marriage,for over 8 years. Just recently he started cheating on me. I followed him to a bar. His new friend was there they were kissing, very passionately. I walked up to them, and left. ...

I suffer my uninterested husband, I want more romance in my life

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - i have been married for almost 30 years. my husband never, never , never initiate romance, sex or anything. he never makes me feel special. he never takes me away or really talks to me . mind you, we do go places and do things, but only if and IF, i ...

My wife can't have children so she told me to marry her sister!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

24 December 2010 (M) - 1 am 30 years man . I am married with good wife of 28..we have no child ... we consulted a doctor , there is some problem in my wife , so there is no chance of child .. my wife has one sister of age 23 ,my wife ask me marry her , whether i can ma...

My guy is looking at quite a lot of gay porn on line. Why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - I found gay porn on my guys computer..it wasn't just one site, there were several over a couple of days and some had galleries,is it normal for straight guys to look at gay porn? There was other porn but quite a lot of gay porn....

My husband is controlling! What is the right thing to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, Me and my husband recently had a child and it has gotten to the point where he does not let me take the baby out, his mother is constantly telling the baby that she is her mother which is very annoying, just a few days ago while he...

True Real Unconditional Love while being married to someone else

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - I have been married for 20 years and feel that at least 5 years ago, I lost that loving feeling. I remained in my marriage because it was the right thing to do and I did tell my husband that I was not happy and we did not have what we should feel ...

Rebelling against being controlled makes things awkward

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - I have been married for 9 years Together for 13 years my husband was always in charge of everything he made all the decisions I will always be the good wife and just sit back whatever he wanted he got. These last couple of years I changed I started ...