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Archived questions from: September, 2010 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

He wants his ex-wife back, but wants to have sex with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - This is a really weird question but please help me. I have been chatting with a 40 year old guy on the internet for about a year. I am 18. We started talking about all kinds of things when we first met, but now it's pretty much about sex. I'm not ...

His parents wont accept me as thier daughter inlaw

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Hi My bf yesterday informed me that he cant marry me since his parents wont accept me as their daughter-in-law since im elder to him by 3 yrs and divorcee (no kids though). we are seeing each other for past 1 yr, we started off as friends and then...

Whats wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - my husband n I have been together for 13years married 8 an I feel he don't care for me any more. We don't talk, we have sex maybe 3xs a month, an I caught him looking up a girl on the internet that we work with that he was accused of sleepn with. He ...

Is drinking occasionally SO bad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - My wife and I are having very hard time in our relationship. My wife is very loose temper and gets upset very easily. We are married from last 7 years and have 2 kids. In last 7 years we are having fight almost once every month or so. Whenever we ...

Something just doesn't feel right about our sex life! Is he gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - My husband is a great guy. He is very Affectionate but.. I wonder sometimes If he could be gay, he is overly concerned With his looks and cleanliness, hates To get dirty. When we have sex, he only Wants to orgasm when he enters me from Behind...

My boyfriend is expecting twins with another woman

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Me and My boyfriend have been together for 6 years we had a falling out last year due to his craving for woman and his dishonesty so we broke up for three months and than got back together needless to say we are about to have a baby girl. Just ...

Married in love with another man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I'm 22 years old. I got married in 2006 after me and my husband lived together for 5 years.. Prior to my marriage when I was 13 I meet my first love davey at church camp he lived a little over an hour away... Well we started dating talked on the ...

I want out, I don't love my husband

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I've been married for 2 years and I got to the point where I don't know if i love my husband anymore...we were a couple for 2 years before we got married, long distance relationship, since then we've had lots of problems. He's jelous, immature, he's ...

My (ex?) wife's schemes

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - My wife gets big ideas and they cost a lot of money. These ideas involve significant amounts of risk and also breaking the law sometimes. I'm just a regular guy and I object. As a result she told me we're getting divorced and she's paying me out. ...

I need a man's point of view on this one!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - From a male's perspective, do men as a general rule feel uncomfortable dating a woman who is separated and in the process of divorcing? If so will you explain why?...

Woman says she is pregnant with my husbands twins!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Ive been with my husband for ten years we have three kids together ages 3,4,8. and he amitted that he cheated on me with his manager . He said he slep with her three times he claim he dont remember when because he was really drunk and she agreed ...

How do I get the spark back into our marriage? she wants a seperation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - My wife and I have known each other for 17 years. We were together for 13 years; married for 11 years. We have five kids together; our oldest is 10. Very recently (six days ago), she sat me down for a private dinner while the kids were in various ...

Truly in love with married man

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I have been married for 21 years and with my husband since I was 15. i have changed alot over the years and my marriage is one of best friends more than lovers. 8 months ago I began chatting with a guy on a social network site of a interest we ...

My husband has to respect for me, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I have been married for 3 years, whenever my husband and I have an argument he ignores me for days afterward and this happens when I have proved that he has lied to me or when his angry with me. He has taken money from me and lied about it (instead ...

Can't climax with my husband

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - my husband has an average penis, he's a 61/2 and i'm 71/2-8 length. is that the reason i can't climax? we tried oral stimulation and it doesn't help. he's often asked me for threesonmes and we have in the past but not the right sizes. i'm tired and ...

Would you stay with your husband,if he doesn't have sexual interest in you,and he can't explain why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Would you stay with your husband,if he doesn't have sexual interest in you,and he can't explain why?Do I want too much? I mean ,it is not ,that I can;t live without sex, but not to know, why your husband doesn't touch you ,or want to have sex with...

I want my "old" husband back, not this new greedy selfish man!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

29 September 2010 (?) - Hello everyone. I've been married for about 15 months now. Before I got married, my husband and I had made the decision to wait until we were married to have sex because we wanted our 1st time to be special. Even while we were dating, he was a very ...

I'm in love with a married woman with an abusive husband!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - i am an 18 year old high school student who works as a mechanic i live with my aunt and uncle and i was hired to fix my neighbors car after she drove it into a ditch in an accident and we started bonding while i fixed the engine and after it was ...

All my husband talks about is "money money money" I'm sick of it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I am having a real hard time now to my husband. He was retired when he is about 54 years old. Then he got divorce to his first wife, i dont know exactly the main reason bout it but all i hear is all about money. i am his 2nd wife. We are now 7 yea...

Spousal Verbal Abuse?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - What is the advise out there to a woman who is married to a verbally abusive man? When anything goes wrong (flat tire, freezer not working, sports team lost?) it's because I'm a f-ing bitch. He shouts it over and over at me in front of our ...

I think about my ex every day, I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I have been married for 3 years. I love my husband... a lot. Our marriage has been nothing but a fight for survival. I never thought I would ever be thinking this but I wonder if I married the right man. I am still in love with my ex. I have nev...

We can not go on like this... right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I have been dating a separated man for over a year. We knew each other casually for 3 years prior to dating. He asked me to lunch one day and told me he was divorcing and suggested we go out. I reluctantly began dating him, although I clearly ...

Could this be a sign of a mental illness?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I am married to a man that can never see his own flaws, but yet he can always point out my flaws. It's like he has to be right because he is the head of the household. I am aware that he may know he is wrong, and just have so much pride to actually ...

I am an idiot!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - I am currently engaged to a beautiful woman with 2 kids, the story is as follows. Beautiful woman was with self centered and controlling man that liked to see her bang other guys, she did not like this went though 10 years of this to stay married....

Horny for my brother in law!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - Hi I am a 31 year old married guy. Successful carreer, beautiful loving wife and gorgeous 2 kids - whatever I do circles around them. I have known my wife since we were 15 - we were each other's first love and no one ever got between us. However, I ...

My husband has a problem with sexting...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - My husband has a problem with sexting... This is the 3rd time I've found out. It's heart breaking. Some argue it's not cheating, but to me it is. And after 3 times I see it's not gonna stop, and it will lead to something else if it hasn't ...

Has my lover replaced me for someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I have been married for 7 years. Not in love any more! I have recently being seeing a married man for 3 months, neither one of us plan on leaving our spouses for the other. Even though I am trying to figure out how to get out of my marriage. My ...

He lies to me about smoking pot, do I have the right to be upset or am I just making a big deal about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - A few years ago, my husband hid the fact that he smoked pot from me once in while. I found it and that's when he admitted to it. I know a lot of people think this is not a big deal, but when you have children and are married, I think it's time to ...

Falling in love with my brother in law

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - i'm 38 years old and i fell in love with my brother in law who moved with us recently, my husband is always travelling and doesn't have much time for me or my kids, who became really attached to their uncle, he is much younger than me and passing ...

Why does he look at porn? Am I not good enough for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - My husband looks at pictures of hot girls in Maxim. He used to look at porn and it made me sick to think he was doing this behind my back. It wouldn't have been as big of deal if he included me in on it. I was a very attractive girl, but now I'...

How a crush destroyed my marriage.....what is your opinion?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

28 September 2010 (?) - The excerpt below is a series of narratives I wrote 2 years ago after I developed a life-changing crush on a woman. Since then, this woman moved away, I lost touch with her, I fell away from my wife and had an affair (with a different woman), my ...

My husband can't decide if he loves me or not

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - When i met my husband six years ago, he was the love of my life, and I knew it right away. In our first conversation, he told me he would marry me. I thought he was crazy, but he was right. Except, two weeks after the beginning of our ...

How I can get rid of unwanted desire?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - How I can get rid of unwanted desire? I am female married in my 50s. Maybe when I was 16 and had never seen an erect penis desire developed to see. From early till now I never desired for intercourse sex. I married and have a good husband, first ...

Everything has gone downhill since we got married!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I need advice on communicating. I'm married for the 2nd time. To me I didn't think there where problems with talking about anything. But, ever since we got married I feel like it has just gone downhill. I have depression its been better before ...

He says she's just a friend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - My husband has been sending texts to his "friend" at work that says things like - only if you caddy for me while topless and nice ass! He says that she is just a friend and that he's sorry and didn't mean to disrespect me, but what should I think?...

He disrespects me, should I leave him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 9 yrs and have 2 children. We've had many issues in the past with his dishonesty and our sexless marriage. I am the one who always wanted sex, but after a few years of not getting it, I became numb and pretty ...

I can't cope with my wife's mood swings!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - i've been married for a month. its so very very hard. She is on medication for depression and she sometimes has described her self as bi-polar - in which case, if that is the case, is the prozac she is on appropriate? How things go is that thi...

My husband and I are like roomates, should we stay for the kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Last night I finally told my husband how i was feeling, he said he's been unhappy for a while but never told me this. We have no sex life, maybe once every two months? The last time we had sex was when I realized he's not just tired from working,the ...

Convincing my boyfriend of 3.5 years to marry me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - i have been in a relation with a guy since 3 n a half yrs.he used to be my lecturer in college.he is a very good guy and cares a lot about me.both of us are from different places and from different castes {in my country some families are quite ...

Pathetic cheater (posters own title)

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - Hello Ladies, I guess I am looking for your advise. Would you want to know? I caught my sister inlaws husband cheating. I have to work with him in a family business. He is a senior member of his church and the person he is cheating with was once the...

Jealous, insecure or do I need help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Hello, I'm a 22 year old female. I have been with my husband for almost 6 years now. We have two little girls 4 and 2 and a half. We love them and eachother very much, words can explain it. But i often find myself jealous. For example i don't ...

Wife and I are more like roommates--do we stay together for our kids?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - HI, I have been married for 10 years and have 3 kids. My wife and I argue from time to time (I would say it is fairly normal) but thereis no abuse of any kind. I would desribe us as upper middle class and our kids are really great and they m...

Husband looks at young men pornography..has he turned gay?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - My hubby and i have been together for 15 years and now he has turned to porn and looking at gay site if he is doing this does it mean he is gay or is their mor to it cause i dont understand why he would do this. we have children and he looks at ...

Husband and I got into big fight and he got arrested!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - My husband and i got in the biggest fight i would say we have ever had and the nieghbors called the cops. Well he got arrest ( well i was change our daughters diaper, infront of our son) for a warrnet. he got 10 days no bail no 2 for 1. our s...

I'm confused and dying inside, please help me save my marriage!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 17 years (we've been best friends for 26) and have 2 teen children. For the most part, we are very close. He seems to have issues though about hiding things from me and lying about them. We used to fight almost ...

Wife resentful because she is breadwinner now but I was for 7 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

26 September 2010 (M) - Well, I'm not gonna sit here and try to talk myself up when I tell you all about my situation, but if it turns out that way, then well... its all from my point of view. But first to get this out of the way before I forget. I am sometimes a selfish ...

Husband resents to advance income

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - Dear Agony aunts, I dont know what to say, i feel so frustrated, to sum it up, i will refer my husband to the quote , "he talks the talk but never walks the walk," .. he always says lets invest in this, lets do that, lets move to another house, l...

We haven't had sex in 7 years!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - My husband and I haven't had sex in 7 or so years. He's the one not interested. I have tried everything. Porno, sexy clothes, perfumes, romance, getting him to the doc and trying cialis, Viagra. His "equipment" works fine, he just doesn't want ...

I don't love or even like my husband and need to get out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - I am tired of all the mental abuse from my husband and nobody will help me,I have asked my dad and he did just take me on a trip this week to Wendover to give me a break but as soon as I got back home same shit.I need to get out of my house bad ...

I don't deserve to be treated like this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - My husband and I been together for 4 years now, but most of it was while he was incarerasted. Weve been only married for almost 2 years now. He got out a few months ago and we been only living together just under 2 months and weve been fighting like ...