New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

244966 questions, 1084314 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in December, 2014, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

2 (2), 3 (3), 4 (1), 6 (1), 7 (1), 8 (1), 9 (3), 10 (3), 11 (1), 12 (4),
14 (3), 15 (1), 16 (2), 18 (3), 21 (1), 22 (1), 23 (1), 26 (1), 27 (1), 28 (1),
29 (2), 30 (1),

Archived questions from: December, 2014 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Is it possible my husband does NOT understand respect?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3404 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - I have been with my husband 4 years. He is extremely outgoing and friendly with everyone. There are times when he has no idea what boundaries or respect are. Three examples: 1)he has put one of my intoxicated friends in bed with me but climbs in, in ...

I am married with 3 kids and secretly sleeping with men

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

29 December 2014 (M) - Hello. I am a 34 year old married man, i have 3 wonderful children, and a wife who loves me very much, the only problem is that I have been secretly sleeping with other men, I do feel guilty about it, but I feel so free and happy when I am with ...

I think my husband is financially abusing me, please advise

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

29 December 2014 (F) - I think my husband is financially abusing me, he is in a different country at the moment staying with his family. He has told me he has not got my savings back which he gave to a family member to invest in some company. I told him not to send the...

I'm married, and transferred branches to stay away from a coworker I fell for, but he transferred too

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3407 days ago

28 December 2014 (F) - A co-worker and I had great chemistry and flirted constantly. We are both married. Nothing ever happened but I found myself constantly thinking about him and began to fall for him. Out of respect for my husband I have transfered to another office ...

Am I being jealous, selfish and disrespectful towards my Gf? Should I put up with her disrespect?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3408 days ago

27 December 2014 (M) - Hi, I've been with my girlfriend now for six months, she has two kids to a guy she split from over a year ago. They came to an agreement after they broke up that he would collect the kids and have them stay at his house every weekend. Since me and ...

I get my needs met online and my husband uses porn.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

26 December 2014 (F) - I feel justified in getting feedback online from Men about my body to get my emotional needs met . I would never meet with one but it makes me feel desired loved and attractive My husband uses porn and says that there's no harm in it as he will ne...

This will be my last attempt to save our marriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - After dealing with this for months/years now, here are the facts: I married a guy I know now I dont love anymore but still care and trust very deeply. I still can't forget about this other guy that I met and has made me happy, positive and felt love ...

My wife of ten years says abusive things and then expects me to apologise. How should I respond to her accusations and her insults?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

22 December 2014 (M) - Hi, I'm really concerned. Ours has not been the best of marriages. We're 10 years in, we have two beautiful daughters. I'm the stay at home parent and I've thrown myself at the role. We've moved 3 times and I've made new friends/ a new world ea...

Together 18 years, yet sexually it could be better. Emotionally we have issues. How can this situation be improved?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3414 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - My husband and I dated for three years and were sexually active. When we got married, I just stopped wanting sex at all, but I did continue to masturbate. I dreaded sex and just had no interest. And when I say dreaded I mean I would just pray ...

I am boring my husband, how do I get the fun back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3416 days ago

18 December 2014 (F) - Hi cupids, I'm after some advice on how to "re-attract" someone's attention. My husband and I have been together for 17 years, married for 5 years. We have 2 beautiful sons. The problem is that I feel like he is not interested in me anymore...

I want more than an ordinary life, but my husband is very ordinary

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

18 December 2014 (F) - Hard to know where to start and I'm going to try not to waffle on for hours.... In a nutshell I have been with my partner 3.5 years, married in August (so married for about 4 months now). For the majority of the relationship it has been happy, ...

I'm a cheater trapped in a sexless marriage and my wife has cancer. I'm at a breaking point here...help me please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3416 days ago

18 December 2014 (M) - My wife and I have had a sexless marriage since shortly after marriage in 2003. This made me feel alone and unwanted so I started cheating to fill this void. Everything else in our relationship was fine and we had two children within a few years. ...

Does my husband even love me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3414 days ago

16 December 2014 (F) - How can you tell if your husband still loves you? We've been together for 11 years, met young, have two kids. I feel like whenever we have arguments my husband gets very defensive...it's like I can't bring anything up anymore without worrying how it ...

My wife's day is filled with pills, potions and quackery!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

16 December 2014 (M) - Until a couple of years ago we were the average happy middle aged couple but then things began to turn for the worse. My wifes day is now spent worrying unrealistically about her health. She imagines every spot, pimple or ache is serious and needs ...

My husband had the following conversation with the woman he slept with behind my back. Please tell me what you think of it

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3412 days ago

15 December 2014 (F) - I'm writing this post because i found something which has concerned me a bit. I have been married for a little over a year and things have been going fine, at least, i thought so. Before we got married my husband slept with another woman be...

I love him but I'm not in love with him.Is it my duty as a wife to support him when he has not supported me for a long time now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3420 days ago

14 December 2014 (F) - Where do I start. I have 2 boys from a previous relationship, I was with their dad from 11-22, we were kids and were always arguing as he never supported me etc it was mental torture! I met someone else who was kind and I fell for him. He lived ...

He's been so attentive lately that I think something must be off

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3417 days ago

14 December 2014 (F) - I have noticed that my husband is being weird. What I mean by weird, is that he has taken to giving me compliments. Being very indulgent, like fetching me a sweater when I say I am cold, acting really affectionate, when usually he isn't. My gut ...

I feel horrible knowing he's been watching porn

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3417 days ago

14 December 2014 (F) - I have a problem whereby I feel absolutely horrible knowing my husband has been watching porn one night and then has sex with me the next. I can't help feel that he is thinking of the women he watched and came to . Last night we had sex and I was ...

Am I just being a paranoid wife or is there something going on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3420 days ago

12 December 2014 (F) - Okay I have been married for ten years to a military member. Moved around many times and recently moved to California 5 months ago. I am a stay at home mom for my autistic daughter and have had a hard time finding work due to limited schedule. My ...

I found a teen porn web site address in my husband's phone. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3421 days ago

12 December 2014 (F) - I have been married for 2 years and have just found a note in husbands phone with a porn site (it was in a notes app and looked like he cut and pasted the page). I understand men sometimes like to look at porn but the title of the porn site was teen ...

Does one bj make your husband gay?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3423 days ago

12 December 2014 (F) - My husband used my laptop and forgot to close the sight he was on, when I got home I turned on the computer to check on a recipe and there it was: My husband was making a date with a woman ( he gave her his cell phone #), I was furious. He said that ...

He complimented the online girls but never me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3424 days ago

12 December 2014 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 15 years. We split because of his powerful porn addiction and the fact he would compare me with the porn stars. Anyway after a year of seperation and him repeatedly saying he now realises how much he values t...

Do my feelings matter? Do I have to accept this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3421 days ago

11 December 2014 (F) - Do I have to accept my husband looking at porn . I have told him before that it makes me feel compared and ugly whe. He is constantly looking at perfect porn star bodies. He says he loves me but that doesn't take away the hurt. I read lots of posts...

My husband of 5 years is a miserly selfish man. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3424 days ago

10 December 2014 (F) - Cupids, Its been a year now and I have been trying to love my "5 years in marriage" huband again, but have failed. I lost feelings for him since I realized he's greedy, miserly person. He stated he would only fund for my food and shelter and that...

My Husband is Touchy with another woman.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3424 days ago

10 December 2014 (F) - I have been married to my husband Ray for 5 years and we have been going to a dance class, we get to switch partners which I have no problem with, but Ray seems to go out of his way to touch this Stacy when there are times that don't have nothing to ...

My wife has been having an emotional affair... what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

10 December 2014 (M) - I have been married for more than 20 years and have had to move to another state for employment reasons. I recently found out that my wife has been having an affair on an emotional level with my ex neighbour. It has been mainly by email and ...

How much angry behavior is too much?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3421 days ago

9 December 2014 (F) - How far is too far? My husband got really mad this morning. I'm a house wife and I'll admit I'm not the best at keeping up with everything. I had two loads of laundry in baskets on the floor this morning. I had folded one load and just needed ...

How can I get over my brother-in-law?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3426 days ago

9 December 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have had a crush on my brother-in-law for over a year. I thought this feeling would go away, especially when we live quite far from each other. I am always happy to see him and to know that he's doing good. We get along well and a...

I want to initiate contact!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3426 days ago

9 December 2014 (F) - I go running at the park nearby. There is a guy who has shown interest in me multiple times. I am also somewhat attracted to him. I have never spoken to him but he must be married and in his late 30's or early 40's. I am also married and I will turn ...

My wife wants my permission to go out and flirt with other men when it suits her

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 2327 days ago

8 December 2014 (M) - My wife and I have been together for 17 years, married for 12. We're still young-ish in our 30s because we met young. We've had a great marriage overall and have a relationship that was genuingely best friends first, then it became romantic. She ...

My husband slept with his cousin before we married and I can't get over it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

7 December 2014 (F) - My husband slept with he's cousin before we got together. she doesn't live in the same state as us.but when she comes down we obviously run into her seens she part of the family i don't like being around her or even the thought that she slept with ...

Time to open the marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

6 December 2014 (F) - Here's our situation: not having sex. I am about 50 lbs overweight. I have been working on losing it but it's going very slowly (I have lost 20 so far). My husband has told me I'm unattractive--yet he still wants sex with me and says he still ...

Is the lack of compliments a sign that I'm not attractive to him anymore?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

4 December 2014 (F) - My husband never compliments me. I have talked to him about it and he now occasionally will but it seems somewhat forced and rare still The other night I dressed up and thought I looked nice . I had a new dress, my hair done , make up and the whol...

In anger he said I'm unattractive

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3395 days ago

3 December 2014 (F) - Hi, I have been married for 4 yrs,my husband treats me well except for few small fights.last night we had a fight,he told me in anger,I dont look attractive,he is making love out of sympathy.next moment he realized what he told and not accepting ...

I had an affair, he broke it off and now has sent me an email. Do I reply to it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

3 December 2014 (F) - I am married with 2 children. Last August, my relationship with my husband was not great at all and I met someone who totally swept me off my feet. I wasn't looking for the opportunity, it just happened. I wasn't proud of myself and, in hindsight, I ...

My wife and I have survived so much and made it through hard times, why now am I so upset?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

3 December 2014 (M) - My wife had serious problems in her family several years ago, including a father who was terminally ill. It took years for him to die and it was a long downward spiral as his brain atrophied. He eventually passed away right around the time I lost my ...

I am so unhappy and am losing who I am in this marriage

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3433 days ago

2 December 2014 (F) - I have been married 28 years and am 51 years old and lhave helped get my husband thru 2 bouts of leukemia. It seems that his needs always have come first and since his illness it has gotten worse. You would think he was. 2 year old that couldn't ...

How do you know that you have tried your best to fix your marriage and it's time to call it quits?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3433 days ago

2 December 2014 (F) - I've been in a long term relations hip with a man for 12yrs, 2 of that as my husband. Over the years, we have had the same issues, problems dealing with but got past it. On my end, we passed it because we keep ignoring our core issues and got tired ...