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Archived questions from: February, 2012 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

How do I get my husband to give me compliments again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - I have scared my husband away from giving me compliments because as he says he would give one and i would question his answer or get upset cause it wasn't what i wanted to hear. i guess i did do that and i guess i did it for a long time. Long enough ...

Am I suffering from male jealousy, or friendship jealousy, or am I right in not wanting this relationship to continue?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

29 February 2012 (M) - My wife has this gay male friend. He and her were friends before we even started dating. I kind of have no problem with this, but he is a little over the top. Like dancing around in our house wearing nothing but short-shorts and being a typical ...

How can I make him see that he is disgusting and needs to lose weight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - I have been married to my husband for almost 25 years and we have 4 children. When we got married I weighed 135 and he weighed 180. We looked and felt great. We did alot of outdoor activities. Now I am at 160 and he is about 310. He is fat! I can ...

Starving for more in our sex life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - My husband and I got married this last october. I love him more than anything but I knew from the begining that we weren't sexually compatable. This is a problem we've been dealing with for over a year. We've talked many times about what we can do ...

I feel worthless as a wife because I can't offer him more!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - Before I dated my husband I use to date only woman . But there was something about him that caught my eye and my heart. I started dating him and I got in a serious relationship with him and we marry. Things between us was good and we were even ...

Should a married woman accept a drink from a man at a bar?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1654 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - Do y'all think it's OK for a married woman to accept a purchased drink from a man at a bar? My wife often goes out with her girlfriends. Sometimes they sit around a table like a bunch of hens cackling for hours - men run for the hills. But other ...

He became distant with me once he got engaged, how do I deal with being so upset over our lost friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - To be brief, a couple of years after my marriage, I met him 3 years ago. I instantly felt a strange a bonding and we began to talk. Don't make conclusions there! My marriage is happy, I am truthful and, he is now married happily too! I knew I r...

I need to stop feeling like a burden

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - I have been married almost 15 years and i have been a controlling, nagging, insecure wife for 12. And i also suffer from bi polar and depression in which my husband dose to. He also has what is called "sexual anorexia" yes it sounds strange and ...

My wife the party girl, how do I get her attention?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (M) - I have an issue that is somewhat hard to articulate. My wife is a very outgoing person, who has the ability to connect with people very quickly. She is excited to joke around with other people, and they with her: so much so that in social settings ...

So much love-So little sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

28 February 2012 (M) - I been married for 13 years. Both 41, with no children. I do ALL the things every wife wishes for: Flowers, many vacations,, cook dinner, weekend get aways, cards, notes, gifts, hugs, kisses (but told don't get myself excited). In return, I get ...

I'm married, and falling to pieces because I had sex with another woman. What do I do now?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

26 February 2012 (M) - Hello. I did something really stupid. I had sex with another woman, therefore cheating on my wife. It only happened once and my wife doesn't know. I have no idea why on earth I did it. There's no chance that I'll ever see the woman I had sex with ...

Every conversation with husband turns into an argument!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - My husband of four years is a generally nice and kind man but has very firm views about things. I have tried over the years to put my views forward on things that I am not happy with in the relationship but my views are always walked over or ignored ...

How can I help my friend after her divorce?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

26 February 2012 (M) - My friend was married and now she has devorced her husband because the husband was cheating with her friend he got pregnant ,how should i help my friend to go through the devorce anger ,loss and loneliness ?...

I've fallen in love with another man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - Did it turn out how you wanted Or were you left with regrets? Did you the love the person more than your spouse? What happened and how did things turn out? I fell inlove with another man and its not infatuation i belive I love him. My husband is a ...

I don't want to rekindle our affair but his son just died ...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - I ended an affair with a married man 6 months ago. 2 days ago, I found out his son passed away at 21 yrs old 1 day ago. Although I avoid all contact with him, I feel bad for his lost. I want to know shld I call and give my condolences. Something ...

Wondering if my marriage is based on a lie?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - hey aunts and uncles, im so fed up at the moment, my husband lies to me so much, little white lies but im thinking if he can lie about something so simple, what else can he lie about. So hes been going to a martial arts class twice a week, so...

My husband ogles other women right in front of me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - My husband and I got married one year ago. We have been together for 4 years now. Since getting married, he ogles women. He is not in the chase anymore and is comfortable. He does this in front of me. We just went on our honeymoon (kids were with at ...

Is my husbands coworker acting inappropriately?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - Hi, My husband has a coworker who likes to act like one of the guys. They are in sales in a construction related business. Sometimes he will "ride" with her for the day, even though it isn't required.. While I understand lots of men work with wom...

Wife and I haven't had sex in a year, she says go somewhere else

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

23 February 2012 (M) - My wife and I have not had sex in almost a year now and I do not know what's wrong. I try to talk to her about it but can't get any straight answers. She says she still loves me but that I should go find someone else who will not only love me but ...

How do I get through to my wife that we are over?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

22 February 2012 (M) - So around 10days ago, i posted a question about myself and my wife, but we have since separated as a result of constant fights over what was so pointless and petty. But, she will not just let me be, i ask her and tell her that things are over,...

I don't want to leave my husband but I feel unhappy and unfulfilled due to my feelings for my friend.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - I'm a married mother of one and I'm struggling with my feelings for someone I work with. When he first started at my work, I didn't talk to him much. I thought he was ok looking, kind of my type but I wasnt really interested. I knew he had a gi...

How can my husband say he cares but he wants someone else?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - This is long but I need help! I have been married for almost 10 years with 3 kids. I know all relationships have ups n downs. Here's my story! We have had many great times and also are down times. He plays in a band, works full time his own busi...

I'm being bullied at work by my boss who is also my husband!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - This sounds mad I know, but I am being bullied at work. The trouble is its my boss (who is also my husband) We have not been married long (6 months) and worked together for years before this and never had any trouble. I dont know what to do, he c...

My husband is taking strange vacations. Why is he acting the way he is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - hello am married for going for 19 years he is working in australia for going 6 years i feel he dry to me any more i mean he does'nt talk to me, and he take vacation in the philippines some picture he bring is this picture hes girl?an why he has ...

Could my baby look like my lover?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 2801 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - If a woman is pregnant and sleeps with another man can the baby have features of the man who is not the father?...

I need to tactfully deal with this situation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - Hi, I have known this woman for a few years as our kids attend the same pre-school and school. During pre-school this woman would never give me the time of day or even acknowledge me ( I didnt really care ) Then 2 years later our children start...

My husband seems to be more interested in other activities that take him / his time away from me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - I've been married for almost eight years. We've had ups and downs but not quite like the down we are going through now. My husband seems to be more interested in other activities that take him / his time away from me. I do not think hes cheating as ...

Husband are I are moving back to his hometown where he has alot of ex girlfriends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - My husband and I are in a situation where we need to move closer to his work. Unfortunately, that move will take us to the small town he grew up in. That town has LOTS of his ex girlfriends in it. (He was quite the cassanova) I am upset about this ...

Why didnt my husband back me up and come with me to the police station to lodge a complaint against his ex affair partner?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4448 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Long story short, my husband had an affair with an aquaintance whom we barely knew for 3 months, she is a friend of a friend and lives with her fiance and their son, i have asked for advice previously but i couldnt find the link. I basically fo...

I'm concerned about the control issues and him making me feel bad when he should want me to feel pretty, and the jealousy he says he does not have!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4445 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - I just came home from a major surgery and the first thing my husband did was turn the tv on and start some porn he recorded (one of several shows he recorded on a night I was still in the hospital) He was saying something like "just so you know, I ...

How can I compete with my wife's new sex toy? It gets more action than me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4448 days ago

20 February 2012 (M) - I got my wife a new toy. It seems the toy is getting more action than me. However, she has NO problem giving me oral sex. I seem to get more oral sex now and she seems to use her toy more. Is this normal?...

He delays fixing things around the house. What can I do with him? Yet he freaks if I call a tradesman!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - I am so frustrated with my husband. It takes him forever to get around to fixing things around the house. It's not that he's not capable. It's not that he doesn't have the time or money. It's not that I push him to do things every week-end. ...

He will not admit when he is wrong. He shouts. My self esteem has been affected. What can I do?.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - Hi guys, my husband never apologizes to me, even if its clear he is wrong and he is always blaming me for everything that goes wrong in the relationship. He always finds a way to make me feel i am to blame. I do apologize to him whenever i am at...

I love my husband but he never initiates sex, and sometimes pushes me away. Does he not love me anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - Hi. My husband I are married fr 2 years now. But we dated for 7 and half years before marriage. We had sex after 2 years into the relationship. My problem is that he never gave me oral sex. But I have recently started giving it to him. He doesn't ...

What keeps people in marriages when they are no longer in love?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

19 February 2012 (?) - When you have been married to your husband for 35 years and are no longer IN LOVE with him but Love him as a person, is it possible to continue to stay married? What is it that actually makes a person stay in a marriage where you are NOT IN LOVE ...

My rich, famous and good looking husband is deceiving everyone! Its obvious that he's cheating on me, then why this show that everything's fine?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - On my birthday we left for Hawaii and my hubby announced this trip as 'Family vacation' on twitter(11th Jan) but didn't mention that we are going on my birthday,instead he wrote happy birthday to me on twitter when we live together! whats this non...

My new husband is making me feel paranoid that I'm a slag because of my past! Is it really abnormal for women to be able to have guilt free casual relationships while young, purely for the sex and without any emotional connection

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles, especially aunts, I am a divorcee who has recently remarried, and my new husband has a major problem with my past. We have an amazing relationship and he's the only one I've ever given my heart to, but not my body, and tha...

My hubby see whatever I say as a personal attack on him and becomes aggravated and rude, his rudeness is lowering my esteem each day, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

18 February 2012 (F) - I have been married for a 7 months and having problems with my hubby .he is generally a good person. however, he can really be rude. He would say I ask too many unnecessary questions, when am asking a genuine innocent question, he would also just ...

I'm so hurt my husband told me that I suck in bed!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

18 February 2012 (F) - Im so hurt my husband has told me i suck in bed and he would rather masterbate to porn. he does it often and locks himself in the room for 2 plus hours but im lucky if we spend 30 mins having sex. im so hurt and dont know what to do. He doesnt think ...

Is my husband gay or bisexual?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

17 February 2012 (F) - Ok here goes... I'm 18, and my husband is 19. we've been married for 8 months. we have a daughter, who is 2 years and 2 months and i'm 11 weeks pregnant with our second child. Basically, i know in my heart that my husband is gay. He claim...

When it comes to sex its all about him and I'm sick of it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

17 February 2012 (F) - i have been married for 3 years and within that 3 years my husband and i have had 3 kids together i came in with 2 kids of my own but my husband hass cheated on me sooo many times we dont sleep togther and he rather masterbate then have sex with me ...

Is it possible that he's become distant to me due to it getting close to the finalisation of his divorce?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

17 February 2012 (F) - Hello, Hoping I will be able to get some answers here.. I've known a guy for nearly two years on and off (we are both in our 30s). We dated a couple of years ago, however he was going through a trial separation with his wife. During these mo...

I don't feel loved nor that I matter to him. What can I do to try to improve things? Because I do still love him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

16 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together three years. In the beginning while we were dating it was the typical crazy gaga love. It was amazing, I felt like a million dollars and so lucky to have found the love of my life. We bought a house about ...

This man just can't take no for an answer

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

15 February 2012 (F) - I am divorced. I have put my house up for sale. My realtor came up a few weeks ago. He caught me off guard and stated that he was getting a divorce. On Valentines day he sent me flowers. I wrote him a email and stated I do not date married men (fyi ...

My husband blew off Valentine's Day--does he not care about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

15 February 2012 (F) - I have been with my husband for over 20 years and he has never been the romantic type but this valentines day he completely blew me off! Not even a card! Money is not an issue for us, he had the day off so he had time, and he didn't forget! I am ...

How can I improve things at home? I'm lonely. My spouse has ED issues and will not talk to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

15 February 2012 (F) - My husband doesnt talk to me. he sits in front of the TV all evening and only wants to eat. if i talk to him he says he is missing his program. but his programs go on all night. he even comes to bed and watches in the room. he cant get a erection...

We are married but strangers and I'm bored with him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

15 February 2012 (F) - Please help me out here.I'm going through hell my husband is a very quiet kind of person he is not even romantic.while we were datin I think he a lil better compared to now wen we got married and had a baby.I dnt knw his dreams he doesn't knw ...

Husband is obsessed with coworker who is not interested

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - I am certain my husband has been going through a mid life crisis for the last three year. He had fallen in love with a married coworker who had rejected him very early on. Now three years later he is still "in love with her" and "obsessed" about ...

I am becoming an angry person around my husband. What can I do to change this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - Hello I have been married for 3 yrs. I'm at home and even though I don't work I do everthing and I take care of our baby. He goes to school Monday and wed all day and I don't see him till 9ish. I miss him a lot and find that I'm lonely but every ti...

Is there light at the end of the tunnel? This new relationship is a nightmare.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

13 February 2012 (F) - Three years ago, I gave up my career, left my two teenagers with my ex-husband(divorced 12 years), left my home, parents, and friends to move to the East Coast for a guy that I love. I moved in with him and his 10 yrs old son from his previous marr...