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Archived questions from: May, 2007 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Is there anyway you could help to me to make things in my sex life better for the both of us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 404 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - I am 17 and just got married about 3 months ago after being with my now husband 3 years. I dont enjoy sex that much anymore and I am not for sure why. After about 3 months of dating him I lost intrest in sex altogether, I think I like it so much ...

I have a gut feeling my husband may be cheating on me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 313 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - i need some advice i normally wouldnt do this but i have no idea what to think!i think my husband is sending me lil signals that hes cheating on me or that he has cheated on me. Well lets see hes in iraq and he use to call me like all the time and ...

Unhappily married - but was this young guy genuinely interested in me, or was he just being friendly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 405 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Help! I don't know what to do. A younger ( he's 20 something, I'm 38, although I've been told I could easily pass for 30.)man began some "innocent" flirting with me a few months ago. Made some comments about valentines and how he would give me ...

I am in a very unhappy marriage and have fallen in love with someone who is also unhappily married.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I am in a very unhappy marriage and have fallen in love with someone who is also unhappily married. We so much want to be together it hurts being apart. What is your advice....

My husband says he is burnt out in our marriage...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I need some help with my marriage..To give you an idea of my relationship: Hubby is 37 I am 32..we have 2 girls 4, 9. We have been together for 11 years...married for 6. My husband recently told me he is burnt out on our marriage..the rest of ...

My wife says she loves me like a brother and it's tearing me apart.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - What is wrong with my wife? I love my wife very much. I love her as a person and adore her physically. I am very warm and affectionate to her. However, I do not feel that physical bond towards me. She says she loves me but so does more so like a b...

Do you think his "me time" is excessive or am I being paranoid here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - hi, well, I am new to this but need to ask all of you out there whether I am going mad. I am happily married with 2 small kids and love the majority of my life. However, my husband has stated that he "needs" to go out at least 3 - 4 evenings a week ...

How can I get my wife to feel more sexually attracted to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

28 May 2007 (M) - my wife has told me she does not feel sexualy attracted to me anymore how can we get over this?...

I don't know if I want to be with my husband any more, we're both moving in different directions.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 406 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - im a lil frustraded and i need help.ok me and my husband have been together since i was 16{now im 20} and hes the only man that ive ever trusted, hes my high school sweet heart my first and only love. We split up for about a year cause he joined ...

Cheating on my bulimic depressed wife! I want to move on but I miss my children! What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

28 May 2007 (M) - Hi, I am stuck. I have a bulimic, depressed wife of 13 years and 4 kids under 12. I have wanted to leave her badly as I have become so frustrated over the years, but the kids and her need me. Now I have slipped into another relationship with a ...

What are the signs of falling out of love with someone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 93 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - HI i am in a bit of a dilema. My husband and i have been married for 2 yrs and 3mths, but we've known each other for 4yrs. I am not happy any more. My husband and I want different things in life! I am 23 and he is 32 he wants kids, and i dont (not ...

How do I tell my husband I KNOW he's been cheating on me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 408 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - I have just found out my husband is cheating on me. I have computer eveidence so I am sure. I hurt so much. How do i tell him i know the truth?...

My friend has just got married but says she can't ever imagine having sex with her husband.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 408 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - hi there i need some advice its not for me its for a friend of mine. see she just recently got married and she says that she loves this guy but she just cant bring herself to have sex with him they've never had sex. she said she thinks its cause ...

Married for three years and tempted to stray with my co-worker... Help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 34 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - I could really do with some advice. I am happily married - or thought I was- until I met this guy at work. He is all I can think about. I have never been tempted to stray at all in my three years of marriage but I am so tempted. I know that if i ...

Husband is unable to perform sexually, due to drinking! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 408 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - My Husband can no longer perform sex from drinking to much, and im very sexual woman, what in the dam can i do when he is my husband and i need good sex and affection, please help me please with some wisdom.......

I have a bf and 2 kids but love a married 50 year old man. How do I convince him to leave his wife for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 366 days ago

25 May 2007 (F) - I am 22 with a boyfriend who i dont love but we stay together for our 2 children, for 6 months i have sseing a married guy who i am desperatly in love with, he is 50. his wife has recently caught us so our relationship is now over and i feel so is ...

My husband doesn't want any physical contact. Can we save this marriage?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 51 days ago

25 May 2007 (F) - Is there anyway to save this marriage? I have been with my husband for over 4 years. I noticed a real change in his romantic and physical expressions of love after just one year. We used to have a great sex life, kisses and hugs "hello" and "goo...

Trying to date and move on--but I can't shake these strong feelings for my ex even after all that he has done. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 408 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - Hi I am 37 year old female with 2 children, 9 and 2. I found out 8 months ago that my husband John whom I have known for 14 years had an affair whilst on a course. I immediately kicked him out. He said he loved me but was not in love with me and ...

Are we doing the right thing in trying to save this marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 408 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - I have recently decided to get back together with my husband which whom i have kids with i love him vey much but we have had such a rocky marriage it has always been on and off. I feel like its me thats putting all effort in i get very moody when he ...

We're both married and having an affair! Why should I act this stupid and why does he cheat? Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 406 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - The head tells you to leave a married man while the heart doesnt. I started an affairs since this May. We both married, he with 2 kids and I dont have any. We have been classmates (part time study)for 1 year and suddenly he wrote the mail a...

I really love a man with whom I am not sure I can share my life with, in terms of money matters.Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 411 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - I am 26 years old, married for about 3 years. I am a positive person with self-esteem and confidence in the future. I have a great CV with high education and experience. However it is not easy to find good income work in the country I live i...

I am feeling insecure because I have a younger husband..afraid I will lose him? Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - i am in my mid 30s, female. I have 2 kids and i got divorce long back. now i am happly married again to a younger man who is 6 years younger to me. we also have a year old son. but my problem is that i feel insecure of my marriage, coz my ...

I left my husband a year ago because I knew I no longer loved him the way a wife should... but I'm worried he'll talk me into staying

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 32 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - I left my husband a year ago because I knew I no longer loved him the way a wife should. We had grown apart, and I felt no physical attraction for him anymore. But I didn't rush into divorce either because my husband insisted that I wait, hoping ...

Should I follow my mind or my heart after my husband cheated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 403 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - What should i follow,my mind or my heart? My mind tells that i have to leave my husbnd for the cheat he did in our relationship. but my heart tells that i have to give him another chance for the sake of our marriage life..Im confused...any advice ...

Married one year and he has give me oral, only 3 times! Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 411 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - I've been with my my husband for a little over a year and he's only given me oral pleasure 3 times. He wont talk about it with me or anything. I give him oral pleasure all the time and as soon as i bring him giving me oral pleasure he ignores me. ...

My husband says he's "b urnt out" after our 11 year relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 412 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - My husband says he is burnt out on our 11 year relationship, i dont want to just throw it all away..am I only dreaming that this will work out?...

Our marriage hit a rough patch and I cheated! Should I tell my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 409 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - my husband is overseas hes been gone for 10 months and we were constantly fighting and he was always accusing me of cheatin on him and then my brother died and all he did was fight with me and i just couldnt take it anymore and i met a guy who was ...

We're drifting apart and my husband says he's burned out! But I don't want a divorce...any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 411 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - Hi, I am wondering if my marriage is going to survive. My husband and I have been drifting apart for sometime now. Now, he say he is burn out on the marriage and thinks we should both go and find our own happiness. Divorce has come up to, but ...

He's an out of control drinker but is now in therapy. What milestones do I look for, in a one-year sobriety?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 411 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - Can someone really change? I dated a man for 6 years. We were married, built a house for our family (we each have two kids) and after only 10 months I left. He became increasingly controlling, picking on the kids and I, name-calling but worst of...

I am experiencing negative emotions about my married guy. Will this destroy what we have?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 411 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - I have a boyfriend. He's married man and i love him very much. The problem is i understand there's nothing he could do that would be like dating a normal single guy. but i cannot live without him and i believe he loves me too. We have been togeth...

I'm unhappily married but attracted to a female colleague. What am I to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 412 days ago

22 May 2007 (M) - I'm 40, married (and as usual - unhappy, married with kid 7y) I'm staying with her only b'cos of kid. My parents were divorced and it was very hard for me (I lived with father) I have problem with my colleage. She is so young (30), nice, bright...

He puts me down..I want to leave but I'm scared to. I need some good advice on how to deal with all this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 412 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - i met my now husband when i was 15 and now been with him 13yrs.we have got threw many hard times together.ova the past few years though weve grown apart,i still love him with all my heart.the problem is that he has become very distant,possibly ...

My husband threatens to take our son back to India if I do not become submissive! Should I change?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 403 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - Hello, My husband was a very nice guy when we married and when we moved from india to USA he couldnt get a decent job and started the trouble and he is very egoistic. now he is a piece of scrap. I have a 6 year old son, I earn and im a ...

I feel terribly trapped in my marriage of 13 years

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - I feel terribly trapped in my marriage of 13 years and don't know whether I should go all out to get out of it now or just accept that I am where I am and see where things go. I feel the latter is just like giving up on life but have so little ...

My husband is more atttached to his family and my in laws than me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - hey i am 25 year old female. i am experiencing a problem in my married life, my husband loves me a lot and he takes good care of me but i am from a good wealthy family and after marriage money matters are not going good for us because of my ...

Can I ever learn to trust my husband again after his lies?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 412 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - Can I ever learn to trust my husband again? I just found out 6 month ago that my husband has to children from a previous marraige. We have been dating for 6 years and have been married for two. Its not that I didn't ask he just flat out lied, an...

My husband gave one of his buddies "oral"...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 411 days ago

21 May 2007 (F) - I found out that my husband gave one of his male friends oral. It happened when we were all drinking and I found out from his friend about 2 weeks after it happened. Here is a little background: This friend of his has always wanted to have his way ...

My husband recently told me he didn't want to get married to me at first, but is okay with the relationship now. I feel so hurt. What shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 414 days ago

21 May 2007 (F) - My name is Linda* and my husband and i have been married for nearly two years. Before we got married and were also engaged, he broke up with me. I tried unsuccessfully for eight consecutive months to try and get him to stay. I'd mostly given up but ...

I've been together with him for 10 years but he still won't marry me. Why has he suddenly started sleeping in another room?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 414 days ago

21 May 2007 (F) - after ten year with my children father and owning our home still I feel he is cheating because he sill won't marry me. He says its not me because I am a good person, what should I do. He has since recently started sleeping in another room what is ...

Husband has been having an internet affair for over 3 months!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

21 May 2007 (F) - Ok here goes...My husband who is in the middle of a midlife crisis has been having an internet affair for over 3 months now. I became aware of it when it was a month old. There was a lot of drama surrounding the affair and he told me that it was ...

He is old fashioned and expects me to do EVERYTHING around the house just because he has a full time job. Is this what marriage is supposed to be like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 414 days ago

21 May 2007 (F) - Further to my previous questions, I am at yet another hurdle in my relationship.... my partner just worked a 7 x day week, and came home last night, tired, hungry and cranky, he mentioned the fact that he had not eaten a thing ALL day and needed ...

Is it too much to expect him to be a dad every now and then, and perhaps a husband occasionally?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 414 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - I have been with my husband for 12 years and we have 3 kids. He has his own business and it has always taken up a lot of his time, though in the early days there was less pressure and he used to take a day off each week and we used to have a holiday ...

My husband doesnt contribrute to the household, is there any hope for us ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 415 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - i am married, have three children, one from a previous relationship. me and husband both work, but he does not contribute much to the house hold or physically, the property we live in is too small and belongs to me, but i frightened to get joint ...

Husband wants a big party for the guys with beer and porn! I am worried about the neighbors and am against this. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 415 days ago

19 May 2007 (F) - Apologies for the length of this but I am really really worried by my husband's idea. My husband told me he is holding a lads' party - in our house. He said the party rules are - no clothes, just your underwear, and bring booze and porn too, pl...

Torn between my mistress and my family! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 411 days ago

19 May 2007 (M) - I have a huge delima,i started becoming friends with a female co-worker,we knew each other some, then begining of March of last year, we became close. We talk everyday, all day,tease, joke around, she is just amazing to me, very diffrent in ever...

Is it possible to make a break from someone, after 23 years of knowing each other? Any views?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 416 days ago

19 May 2007 (F) - Is it possible to cut someone out of your life after 23 years of knowing each other? My delima is not so simple, known my husband all my life,met him at age 16 married at 18. Two grown boys both gone,alot of ups and downs over this time.Age dif...

I feel like he puts his ex and his girls, before me! Is it wrong to feel this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 416 days ago

19 May 2007 (F) - My Husband has been feeling really guilty about things and its driving me crazy. I am 27 and have a 3m son and 2 stepgrls 10 and 13. We got married 1yr 1/2ago and didn't get a chance to be newlyweds i became stepmom. He gets the grls every 2 wks. ...

I'm an unhappily married man who needs to know why this young woman I like, no longer contacts me? Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

18 May 2007 (M) - Hello All! This is a kinda complicated story (aren´t they all?!?). I met a rather attractive but considerably younger woman (I am 37 and she is 22) and we flirted for a while and then about 5 weeks ago, we got together. We haven't slept with ...

He doesn't have sex with me. But he says he loves me! Is it because of the porn he watches.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 417 days ago

18 May 2007 (F) - My husband has been secretly watching porn, and this has taken over our sex life, for months he was not interested in me, then when I found out why, he wanted to have sex with me to prove that nothing was wrong between us, what, I'm confused, but ...

My husband still talks to his ex-mistress! He says there is no harm in it...Am i being unreasonable here to think otherwise?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 371 days ago

18 May 2007 (F) - My husband of 17 years has been having an affair since last summer, I found out in February and he hasn't seen her since. But they still phone each other up several times a week which I find really hurtful. I have asked him to stop ringing her and ...