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Archived questions from: March, 2008 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Newlywed's husband addicted to porn!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I have only been married a few months now and have recently discovered that my husband is, what I call, addicted to porn. I didn't really bother me at first and he didn't know that I knew what he was doing. But as time has passed it seems he is A ...

I need love so bad and can't get any hardly ever from my wife...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - I need love so bad and can't get any hardly ever. I don't look bad 210 and 5 11, a small gut but oh well. What is a man to do to get some sex back in his life? I have tried a lot of things with my wife, but nothing really changes, everything is ju...

Is there more going on with his work colleague than meets the eye?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Recently, I have snooped through my husband's cellphone (since I have been suspicious of his odd behaviour which leads us to fighting) and noticed a few text messages that he kept in his trash box but forgot to delete from his female co-worker. One ...

Boyfriend will not discuss divorcing his wife who has been gone for 8 years!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend (who I have lived with since June 1 of last year)is still legally married to his wife who abandoned him and his two younger sons eight years ago. First of all, he never told me while we were dating that he was still married. I was ...

I feel trapped by holding on to what could have been / might be in my troubled marriage, should I let go of it or give my hubby a fresh start?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I am 35 and have been married nearly 15 years. I realise now that I married too young as my relationship was immature and I had not had time to develop my own interests and friends. Our marriage didn't start well (sexually) and was often awkward. ...

My wife's sexual past....it's not the 'normal' jealous story!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 91 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Have been married 7 years....happily. Wife mentioned in conversation 3 months ago about a threesome she had once. ( 20 years ago). I explained I don't want to know thing like that as it would do my head in. She mentioned it again. I went in...

My husband had an affair and says he's fallen out of love with me! Am I doing damage to my kids staying with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My husband hasn't given me affection for over 10 years now. Our relationship is diminishing with him not wanting to deal with our problems or even discussing them. I very lonely and feel like I am loosing my mind. He won't talk about love at all ...

Do you think there is a chance for me with this person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - Recently I got a new job, at my old job there was a guy who I really liked. The problem is that I am married (with major issues at home) and he used to date another girl at work who I am friends with. So I felt that it was just a fun little crush ...

Why has my wife's feelings for me changed since our daughter was born?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

30 March 2008 (M) - so my wife says that she doesnt feel the same way about me as she did. we have been married 2 years and she said she has felt this way basically since our 1 year old daughter was born. any advice...

Should my wife do a massage course with a male friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

30 March 2008 (M) - Hi my wife wants to do a massage course with a friends husband. i work shift work and cannot do it with her. the thought does turn me on but i am unsure deep down. i have discussed it with his wife who is ok with the idea. any thoughts...

How do I stand with getting a divorce so early into our marriage? How do I manage financially when my husband is so awkward?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been together 2.5 years, married for 8 months, have an 18 month old child and now expecting our next child, I am 11 weeks pregnant and very much planned/wanted. Our relationship, once the gloss disappeared has been somewha...

She is my soul mate, lover, best friend, wife, and mother of my children. All she wants to do is party!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

30 March 2008 (M) - My wife of almost 8 years left me for partying, and to "miss me" so she can fall in love again, from what she said. I know she is just out partying. This wouldn't be as big a deal, but we have 10 years together, 8 of which is marriage, and 3 chil...

He's cheated on me after 18yrs, and I'm a wreck!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - Husband of 18 yrs is in love with someone else?? Any advice?? Of course he is handling it well...but i'm a wreck! Another problem is he keeps sending me mixed messages...and he says he is confused, part of me wants to kick this woman's butt, wh...

Crybaby...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - I've been with my husband for 13 years. We have twin 9-yr-olds and my 17-yr-old from my previous marriage. Over the years we have had many fights. His favorite thing to do over the last 3 years during our fights is threaten our marriage being over ...

How to know if it is the truth or his anger speaking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Hi, i've been married 8 years and my husband wasn't inlove with me when we married but i was so infatuated with him that it didn't matter. now he says he loves me but actions speak showing i'm his friend and not his love, we have a son together and ...

I received an irate message awakening my previous suspicions about my husband's friendship with his (also married) colleague.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - I have been married for a year and a half, and my huband goes to college about 30 mins from where we live. About 2 months ago, I noticed he seemed to be making and receiving quite a few phone calls and text messages from a female classmate, ...

How can I make my husband be more responsible?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - i have a husbend who has a chimecal disorder and i he is going out to have fun all night and working at afternoon . when he is coming into the house he's main and grumpy don't talk to me dont joke with me . i dont see him and he doesn't want to ...

Married one year and I've never had sex because I lose my erection whenever I attempt intercourse! Where can I get treatment in the Netherlands or anywhwere else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

29 March 2008 (M) - i am married 1 year before still i dont have sex with my wife. becoase when i try to insert my pene into my wifes virgina. my peney was going down(become strongless) so i am so sad that i cant have a sex with my wife. i thing it was related mental ...

Shall I go back or get on with my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Hi I left my husband 2 years ago and moved into rented accomodation were i still live. He spent a lot of his spare time in the pub. My weekend became very predictable. I have three children who all live with me. He still lives in the matrimonal ho...

How can I reduce my sexual interest??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

29 March 2008 (M) - I am not getting sexual satisfaction as i have expected that minimum once or twice a day with my wife. But my wife is not ready to cope up with this, she simply forcefully agrees and shows no interest. This becomes a big headache for me. I dont w...

I'm married and afraid in case our families find out my brief fling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - help i've been unfaithful once with a freind and worried our familiy's my find out.i'm married but my husband does'nt work i have 2 jobs and we have three kids.he talks to me ugly and wants to party with his friends? been with him for a long time ...

How can I learn to trust my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - i have been married for 4 years and i have been together for 7 years i have had bad past relashioships with guys cheating on me and me catching them and my husband now i thnk he is doing the same everytime he goes out the door my mind starts to fly ...

He has pulled out of our wedding twice should I give him a third chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - hi im in real need for some good advice this is a long story but il try to cut it short! my partner is in the army! we have been together for 2 years! he was sent away to afghan half way through he proposed and it was the best day of my life!! we...

After five years of marriage, he now tells me he never loved me!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - I just found out my husband is and has been cheating for the 5 years that we were married. When i asked him why he done this to me he said that he had never loved me. Can someone live with someone, marry them and not love them?...

Only been married a year and my wifes gone off sex!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

28 March 2008 (M) - We are married for a year but we seldom have penetrative sex (almost none). My wife says its the trouble of her professional career (not finding a good job) thats putting her off sex. I have been co-operative but its getting on me now.. pls help.....

My husband hit me--should we separate?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - My husband told me tonight that we should separate. He says if I went away for a year and lost some weight and sorted my pms, out he would reconsider. I am very hurt. Last week he hit me over the head with a glass and caused injury. He says it ...

How can I convince my wife to be a "slave" to another man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

27 March 2008 (M) - I am a married man and have always wanted my wife to have fum with other men. She see's it as cheating and is not sure. I have told her I would love her to tell me the things seh gets up to with other men whilst we have sex. I also like the id...

Am I just stupid? Does he even love me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - I've only been married a month and a half and I have learned my husband tried calling his ex girlfriend the other day (anonymously). I know this because I looked at his calls on his cell phone. Let me go back a bit to explain why I did this... ...

How do I tell my husband he bores me sexually without hurting his feelings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - Hello, I have been married for 6 years, and I have lost interest in sex with my husband. We have sex about once a week, but I feel as if I'm just going through the motions. Sometimes I pretend I'm satisfied, and sometimes I try to explain what I ...

Help! I'm feeling emotionally bruised, angry at the past, and guilty for what's happening in my marriage...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - I have been married for over 13 years and have a 8 year old daughter. For the last 3 years I found myself being attracted to a coworker and I am still desperately in love with him. He on the other hand has indicated he likes me many times but at the ...

After having the baby, she shows signs of pain and discomfort during lovemaking...what is the reason?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

26 March 2008 (M) - I got married 16 month ago and having a child of 5 month old. Every time at the time of lovemaking my wife resist me showing pain and uncomfort. Also she tried to keep her legs tight at the time of lovemaking. I have already asked if there is any ...

My boyfriend of 7 years did not propose and I just ended the relationship over it. Help me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - Hi there, I have been in a serious relationship for 7 years. It has mostly been wonderful, our friends and families all approve, we deeply love eachother, and we get along great for the most part (silly problems here and there). I have had some ...

I'm seeing a man separated from his wife but I just found out they are planning a holiday together! Should I believe him about the divorce?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - I am in a relationship with this man for a year. In the beginning of our relationship he told me that he is separated and he said to me that he is divorcing her...She is living abroad and they have a child together. I did not believe him and ...

After 21 years my husband says I am too old for him and that he doesn't love me anymore! What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - After 21 years of marriage my husband woke up one morning and told me that I was too old for him ( I am 12 years older than him) and that he didnt love me anymore. He says I have not done anything wrong its him, he hasnt had an affair so he says. ...

His arguing and rudeness since our wedding is causing my love for him to disappear...I have no idea what to do.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - My husband of one year (although we have known each other for nearly three years) is becoming more and more insulting towards me. Prior to our marriage he was fantastic for 18 months, full of fun, loving caring and gentle. The day we got married he ...

He no longer wants to please me sexually or orally after I had our baby, I feel insecure and need advice!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - My husband is 37 and im 27 and we just had a baby but about 6 months into my pregnancy he quit wanting to please me sexually or orally. I go down on him several times a week but he makes excuses on why he won't please me. The only time he does ...

My husband lied about contacting his ex, he's posted near her now...I am going totally crazy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - My husband is in the army and is posted to the North of England while I still live in Scotland. He comes home at weekends. We have been married for nearly 12 years and have one child, a daughter aged 9. His ex girlfirend lives near to the area...

He hasn't responded to my petition for divorce...any ideas why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - I am at the moment going through the stage of divorcing my enotionally and sometimes physically abusive ex. The last time I saw him was the beginning of dec when he caused criminal damage to my car. For the first time ever I stood up to him and got ...

Please help ... Married just under a year and feelings for another man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - I can't belive I am sitting here writing this. I am so sad and guilty ... My husband and I have been together for almost 8 years. We are high school sweethearts so to speak and have been married for just under a year now. My husband has some anger ...

My husband arranged to meet an ex on a dating site... how to move on from this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - I have been married for 3 years and I have discovered that my husband has signed up to a dating site and has made arrangements to meet a girlfriend he dated 7 years ago through Facebook. I caught him red-handed as I managed to sign in to his email ...

Why does my wife prefer masturbation to making love with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

24 March 2008 (M) - I've been married since 2005 and I love my wife we both work away in the mining industry our sex life is 0. She tells me that she is tied all the time witch I can understand so am I. The problem is I try and do what I can to get her intrested and ...

My husband wants a divorce and for us to go back to dating each other....

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - This is long...I have been married to my second husband for 3 years. Together a total of 5 years. He has never been married before. I have two teenagers from my previous marriage, they were 7 and 9 when we got together. About 4 months ago, I mo...

After 23 years married I'm too scared to leave him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

23 March 2008 (F) - I have been married for 23 years and we have two children aged 17 and 18. Our marriage has always had its ups and downs and we made the commitment to stay together to provide a secure home for the children. I find that I am increasingly miserable ...

My husband rarely wants to talk or have sex! Am I overreacting?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

23 March 2008 (F) - Hello, I have been with my husband for over 18 years, our eldest child is nearly 17. In all that time he has never made me feel special. I have always worked and tried hard to be accomodating to him. (I admit that sometimes I have gone 'off t...

How do I deal with someone who seems intent on killing every pleasure I have in life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

23 March 2008 (F) - My husband has a real problem with my having an interest in anything other than doing for him. No matter what my latest interest, he goes after it complaining until I finally give it up. This includes things such as being a Girl Scout leader, being ...

My wife's ex is now her brother-in-law and I feel bad observing the chemistry between them!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 159 days ago

23 March 2008 (M) - I got married 14 months ago.Now having one daughter of 5 months old.Recently my sister in law have also got married.Now I come to know that my wife was ex-girlfriend of husband of my sister in law.but I feel my wife got over excited whenever she ...

I still feel young and attractive and feel the need to compensate for the lack of sex at home! But it's wrong, so how do I avoid that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

23 March 2008 (F) - hi all ive been with my husband for 14 years and have 3 children together. weve had some really difficult times together and last year i tried to end our marriage because i felt there was no spark anymore and that it felt athough we were just ...

What is happening here? I feel my husband is no longer in love with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

23 March 2008 (F) - Hello, I would like if you all could just give me some advice.Next month will make it 16yrs of marriage.My husband is a good provider and I know that he cares for me but I am not sure that he is inlove with me.We have 2 kids by the way. one 14 and ...

All day boring and all night snoring! Is he a loser or is this just a phase?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

23 March 2008 (F) - I have been married for over a year and I feel like I married a loser. I earn more money than him, I have a better social life and I do all the home improvements also! He is incapable of doing any plumbing or anything! And the sex is just medi...

Is my alcoholic husband cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

22 March 2008 (F) - My husband has his own cleaning business and he's an alcoholic. We have a girl that works for us and she is also an alcoholic/drug person. She will miss like 14 days of work at a time but my husband won't get rid of her. Is he cheating?...