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Marriage problems: Help and advice

Cannabis killing our marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2359 days ago

31 October 2017 (M) - I have been with my wife for 5 years and been great . A few months before the wedding my wife started smoking cannabis and it's now really effecting our marriage and relationships.. . What makes it worse is that I love her so much and I'm not...

My husband is inefficient and forgetful. How do I deal wth him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2361 days ago

30 October 2017 (F) - My husband is inefficient, forgetful and I can’t count on him to get things done or remembering schedules. Any advice? Last week, he fixed something at work on Friday and spent the whole day playing games on Saturday. On Saturday evening we were ...

My husband ordered diet pills for me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2361 days ago

29 October 2017 (F) - My husband ordered diet pills for me online without saying anything to me about it first. He said he just wanted to help me because he knows my weight bothers me. I don't know how exactly to feel about this am I wrong that him doing that bothers ...

I need to give my wife an ultimatum... Get a better job or lose me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2361 days ago

29 October 2017 (M) - my wife and i are in our mid 20's. we really want to get a house soon but i just dont think its in our budget at all. she has a 4yr degree at a top school and im a laborer. im making $25+/hr with no student loans and shes making $14/hr with $95,...

We are falling out of love and I don't know what to do

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2361 days ago

29 October 2017 (F) - After being attached to his phone the TV and napping all day I asked my husband if he would spend some time with me. He suggested we have friends over I replied I would rather spend the night with just you since we haven't had a night alone in a ...

Has my husband gone off me

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2361 days ago

28 October 2017 (F) - Hello I have a problem with my husband never wanting sex anymore we have been together 6 years and married just over a year ago and now have two children together.in the beginning we were sex maniacs and he couldn't get enough of me now he never ...

I have unresolved feelings about my wife cheating

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2362 days ago

27 October 2017 (M) - Like most guys I know, its not the easiest thing to talk about feelings. I have been struggling with this for a while and has grown more and more to bother me. Hate to divulge that my wife cheated about a year ago but its part of the thorn. S...

My husband doesn't trust that I love him. Its getting old

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2366 days ago

27 October 2017 (F) - i grew up with my husband as teenagers when we were 16 he moved away.i never saw him for about 37 years , we both had spouses and children but seperated, when we met after all those years we fell for each other very quick got married 3 1/2 years ...

How can I live down my mistakes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2366 days ago

27 October 2017 (M) - My wife is upset with me due to my past mistakes that I didn't remember??? I love my wife! My family and my friends have told her about my past mistakes and she won't let me live those mistakes down! I have also lied to her about some of my past, ...

I found out my husband went for an adult massage before we married

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2368 days ago

24 October 2017 (F) - I just checked my husband phone and found out that he went to adult massage before we marry 2 months back. His friend asked him to join last week and he rejected it as he said hes broke now. Yes he is financially unstable now as he loss some from ...

I'd like to help them save their marriage!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2369 days ago

24 October 2017 (F) - Oh boy. I have two friends that have been married for ten years. The husband has been having an affair off and on for three years with a chick he refused to ever completely sever ties with. The wife has taken off with other guys during their splits ...

Can I ask him to let me touch myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2365 days ago

22 October 2017 (F) - I want to masturbate in front of my husband but I'm not sure how to go about it. Do I talk about it and just straight out ask him if he wants to watch or should I slip into something sexy just be waiting for him when he enters the bedroom and ask ...

I have the hots for my sister-in-law

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2369 days ago

22 October 2017 (M) - I got married 3 years ago, since then i have had a crush on my sister-in-law. She is a beautiful girl. Whenever i see her i have this uncontrollable urge to have sex with her. I love my wife but i also have feelings for my sister-in-law. Neither my ...

Haunted by the past and now I'm expecting

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2368 days ago

18 October 2017 (F) - Hey, my name is Nancy, I'm 22 years old. I don’t know how to make this story short, but here we go Man, I've been feeling really depressed since early this year, my mental stability was ruined the day I accidentally found my husband's sex tape wit...

My husband's coworker made some very odd comments and I'm wondering if there is something going on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2374 days ago

18 October 2017 (F) - Recently on a ride home my husbands coworker needed a ride home. While we were driving his coworker begin to flirt with my husband, He repeatedly said how much he liked my husband, saying my husband was one of a kind. How he had never met anyone ...

His online world has me worried

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2375 days ago

16 October 2017 (F) - Hi All My husband is addicted to Facebook, constantly checking his Facebook even when we are out shopping/socialising etc. I have had to accept this and we have had many arguments over it. He does not listen. Recently he has set up an Inst...

My husband and I feel trapped and it's taking a toll on our health

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2376 days ago

14 October 2017 (F) - I feel that my husband an I are both unhappy and have been for a while. I don't think that we are dissatisfied with each other and our marriage per se, but the difficult situation we have been living in for over a decade has taken its toll and we ...

My mother in law is an egoist and evil woman!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2380 days ago

12 October 2017 (F) - I hate my mother in law. She is an egoist and evil woman. She is a cynist and speak badly about me behind my back. She keep posing a sullen face whenever im around. She used to be nice woman several years ago. But since this recent year, she changed ...

Should I let my wife have a young lover since I can't perform as I once did?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2378 days ago

11 October 2017 (M) - My wife (aged 55)and very attractive, and I have been married for 24 years and over the last 3 years I (aged 57) have had trouble maintaining an erection during sex, I have tried all the usual medications but I get side effects from them, so I have ...

I feel I can't even communicate anymore because of his crazy reactions!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2384 days ago

9 October 2017 (F) - Ok so myself and my husbsnd just had a huge fight. It happens every couple of months but ive just realised that i think he oveereacts. He shouts, spits, throws things and wont talk to me for days. This time it started like this.... We h...

I'd like to be spoiled a bit and shown some appreciation too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2390 days ago

2 October 2017 (F) - Hi, how do i deal with ex marital jealousy? My husband and i, we've been married for almost 2 years now and we do love each other and all who know us would say we have the "ideal" relationship and marriage. Most unfortunately, within my h...

How do I handle his mood swings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2390 days ago

1 October 2017 (F) - Hello Aunts, I am struggling with an issue that I have with my husband whom i love very much. This is not a new issue but sometimes it gets so ridiculous i stop and think why is this happening? Hubby and i have a pretty good life, we've had ou...