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Archived questions from: July, 2011 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Husband made me stop working , now wants custody of our child!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - My husband got a new job, and we moved to this new town and he started his new job. He was telling me how great this was going to be and that I did not need to work anymore. I stayed home and took care of our child, he ended up cheating on me and ...

Husband mistreats me and now he's dying. I'm not sure how to handle things

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - my husband call me bitch whore tells me i cant cook tells me im not allowed to touch his money tell me im a fat useless bitch infrontvod my kids, i did leave him but after 5mths took him back thinkingbhe had changed he shouts at me all the time ...

His mother doesn't approve of me and I can't wait forever!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years. I want to get married. He is egyptian muslim and i am white muslim. His mother is racist and hates british girls (muslim or not). He is very close to her as his father died at a young age and she ...

Our sex life is dull and she told me she has no desire and thinks she will never have the desire again!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - I have been married to my wife for 10 years next month. Our sex life has been very dull over the last few years. Recently we had some issues with our marriage and has been very rocky to say the least over the last 5 months. We have not had sex in ...

Does he actually want to marry me or am I wasting my time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - I've been with my partner for 5 years and living with him for a year and a half. I w ant to get married and start a family and he says he does too. He. Say's we can't get engaged right now as he can't afford an engagement ring, (I don't want ...

My husband has admitted that he has and is emotionally cheating on me with a female friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - My husband has admitted that he has or is emotionally cheating on me with a female friend. When I asked him to end the friendship he says I am being unfair and that I don't understand how hard it is for him to make friends (we live in a small town ...

This jealous woman made my life miserable either because she was interested in my BF or because she was not happy in her own life. Thoughts or similar experiences anyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Ok so a while ago, my boyfriend started renting a room from a couple (a husband and wife) who were also living at the same property. Everything was fine at first, however things quickly started to go wrong. The couple own the property, the husband ...

I feel that there something going on between my husband and a woman from his work...What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I can't get over the feeling that there something going on between my husband and a woman from his work. They have been friends now for a couple of years but she recently got married and is already having marriage problems. My hus...

Sad and worried about my marriage

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Hi. I have been married for 21 years and my husband is the love of my life. lately though he has been working (from home for ever) and won't do anything at night, besides watch TV. I suggest things to do even free events and he is never up for it. ...

Turned on by porn but not my husband!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Hi!I'm a 31yr married female and i love watching porn so much and it always turns me on but when my husband touches me or does foreplay with me i don't get turned on and i don't even enjoy sex but before i used to enjoy it. i don't know why is this ...

If I get a job my child will suffer, if I don't I will suffer through lonliness! What am I supposed to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Hi My husband is the only son of his over possesive mother.We are married 10 years but .My mil stays with me....who thinks herslef as Mrs.Perfect.Bcoz of her constant critisim I lost my cofidence .I took up a job...but she was not ready to take ca...

My lover and me are both trapped in loveless marriages and are hopelessly in love with each other...and now I think I'm pregnant with his baby

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Hi, I was wondering if I could get advice any would be appreciated. Where to start... I have been with my current Partner since I was 18 years old we met in college. We became best friends and fell in love we know we are soul mates... this i...

Husband caught playing "sexual chicken" now what?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - I've been married to my husband for over a year. Two months ago I found a sexually explicit text on his phone (I wasn't snooping, it displayed the text when I plugged his phone in the charger. You can bet I snooped after that, though). It was from a ...

I'm not a leech!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - I'm in a 5 year relationship with my bf and two kids a 16 month old and a 3 year old, living together in his house. We have been having tough times since we only have one income, he works and i stay at home with the kids. I have been looking for a ...

How do you find a person to love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - How do you find a person to love? That is my question. I'm unhappily, very unhappily married. Never been happy in fact. I just want to love. Is it too much to ask? I love somebody now who's deeply committed to his fiance'. So,there is no c...

Would you be embarrassed if your husband did this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - Would you be embarrassed if your husband did this? I was invited to a cosmetic party along with another friend. All participated have their husbands and kids there because we all knew each other. My husband also went along. Important info:...

I just discovered that my wife has been living a secret life, plz help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

27 July 2011 (M) - My problem is this, i am/or was a happily married man of 22yrs w/3children. We had what i would consider very minor and infrequent everyday life problems that u plow thru as a married couple, like kids,money, etc... I recently discovered that when ...

The ex that wont go away.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - My relationship with my husband has been one I have never experienced. We met online and 7yrs later we'd never thought wed be this happy as parents. There's one issue that has haunted our relationship since day 1-his ex girlfriend. She ...

Is there anything we can do to improve our sex life? I don't know why I'm not interested in sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been married less than a year. The problem is that I have very little sex drive. I have never been interested in having sex with him, aside from when we first started sleeping together (and even that was short lived). He was ...

How long do you think a guy waits to pop the question?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Ok so I am 20 years old and my bf is 25, we have been together for a year and a few months. We both love each other a lot and we have made it a point to include each other in our separate lives since we started dating. I know all of his family and ...

Husband won't talk to me except to criticize, and I am at my breaking point.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - My husband is bi-polar and a manic depressant. He refuses to talk to me about anything. He will small talk about something someone else does. when we use to talk about problems, he would and does always make it about him only and its all my f...

No sex and he is in touch with his ex's.....what does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - My husband keeps in contact with past wife and girlfriends then tries to hide it. Our sex life is batting zero and has been for the past 2 years. It seems as though he wants to live in his past. What does this mean...

I have a great sex drive and my husband has almost none. How can this work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - I was wondering if anyone can relate to being sexually frustrated. I have a great sex drive always have and my husband has next to no sex drive. He says he's very attracted to me and thinks I'm sexy but we hardly have sex. When we do its great but ...

Fallen and I can't get up...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - I am 29. The man I have been with since I was 20, the only man I have ever had sex with or even kissed, and then married at 25... has delusional jealousy. Life sucks. I don't have the strength to leave him. I love him still to an extent, even ...

Problems with my ex...how do I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - I told my separated husband I'm pregnant. He still wanted to make it work. I asked him if he was sure. He said yes. We continue together for a month, within that time I took him to interviews he needed help with his car I help him get it fix. After ...

How can I show her that I want to change and things can get better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4659 days ago

25 July 2011 (M) - Hi. I've seen a few questions on here, and I feel like you guys probably can help me.if not. Please try. My wife and I have been married for four years, but were dating since our sophmore year in highschool. All my life I've dealt with an anger...

My husband doesn't want me, but he won't let me move on without him either, please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

24 July 2011 (F) - I've been with my husband for almost 14 years. We have been separated for the past 2 years. We have been on again and off again . Our marriage hasn't been perfect at all. There has been infidelity on both sides. I filed for divorce but he decided he ...

She wants some space! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

24 July 2011 (M) - I'm back with my ex wife, and for the first five months it was great. But now she is saying she wants some space, and she is losing her feelings for me slowly! she said space apart, to see if we will grow closer together....

Husband won't give me oral....what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4660 days ago

24 July 2011 (F) - How can I get my husband of 14 years to start liking to give me head again like he used to. I said I didn't like it once and now won't do it at all and when he does it is not good....

My daughter needs help in finding an attorney that deals with military matters

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

24 July 2011 (F) - Hello,I'm the mother of a military wife. My daughter's husband is in the army and had an affair on her. As a result of the affair came a baby. My daughter and her husband already has two boys 5 and 2 yrs of age and now he's trying to get a quick ...

How can I get my husband back in my bed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

23 July 2011 (F) - My husband won't sleep in the same bed as me. We have two young kids and it started when they were babies and he needed more sleep for work. 6 years later - now he's gotten used to sleeping alone and claims he cannot get a good night's sleep in our ...

Married 4 years and we still have a communication problem

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4653 days ago

23 July 2011 (M) - me and my wife have been married for 4 yrs and we seem to still have a commucation problem. we can talk and if i say somthing she dont like she gets mad. I try to be understanding but i tell her what i think in a well tone mannor. but when it comes ...

Did he really cheat on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - Hello! I am a female, 39 years old. My husband and i have been together over 23 years. We started dating at 16, and married at 25. I never cheated on him, and I believe he never cheated on me. We grew up together, experienced all,and we were so ...

I was sexting another man behind my husband's back and now he has found out....how do I make this right?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - I am a happily married woman with two beautiful children. I became overweight after having my kids and have always had selfesteem issues. Although people constantly tell me I have such a pretty face I struggle with body image. Recently a man at work ...

Married couples - question for you: Let's talk finances

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - Newlyweds, how do you manage your finances. In the 20th century I see a lot of couples having seperate account plus a joint account. If you are doing this, was this discussed prior to marriage? What percentage of your income is personal account and ...

Can sex be great all the time even after marriage and kids?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - He says "the sex always feel like the first time" with a smile. What does that mean? Everytime he says this I feel like I am always trying to give my best. I'm nervous because I know we have incredible sex but Ihope I will be able to keep up once we ...

Husband doesn't pay much attention to me...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

21 July 2011 (F) - My husband for a couple years has been coming home sitting on the couch, watching tv, waiting for dinner, then falling asleep on the couch at times without speaking a word to me. I've tried talking to him about my loneliness but he always lashes ...

Do I leave this marriage or stay out of guilt?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

21 July 2011 (F) - I was married when I was 19 years old ( I am 24 now) and I am losing hope for my marriage. When I got into this relationship I truly did love my husband. However, we fight very often, and the fights have sometimes become physical on both sides ...

How do I deal with my wife's sexual abuse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

21 July 2011 (M) - My wife has pretty much stopped having sex with me over the last few years. She will get physically wet, but she will refuse to have sex with me. I asked her what I did wrong and she said I didn't do anything wrong. I asked her what she did wron...

Even if therapy works, how can I love my wife again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

21 July 2011 (M) - My wife of 3 years is a beautiful person and a wonderful Mother to our 5 month old daughter. But we fight too much about too small of things. She often gets mad at me if I want to do some things for myself, and she's never satisfied with how much ...

Does she want to have an affair with me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

20 July 2011 (M) - Hi Cupids. I am a married man and I am friendly with a married woman whose daughter is in gymnastics with my two daughters. Recently she has been confiding in me about how her husband and her don't do things together and that she is unhappy...

His spoiled teenage son is making me into the scapegoat!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - I live in a split family. I have three kids and my husband has one at home.. I am so frusterated because I demand my kids have respect for their stepfather and I never say anything when he steps in to disciplines them.. I on the other hand ...

Is he planning on being unfaithful?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 20 years. We have been quite stable except for the years that he was not interested in having sex with me. At the time I was upset and obviously thought of all different reasons for this. We had many arguments ...

Cheated on my husband and am riddled with guilt but do you think this other man loves me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - hi i am married to a wonderful man for the past 23 years and now have cheated on him for the very first time. it is hard as i am riddled with guilt.i have been seeing a friend of ours for almost a year before we called it off.our friend is also ...

We're newlyweds...but I am bored! Help!

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20 July 2011 (F) - hellow everyone! I just want to ask why the long distance relationship is so boring sometimes. We are newlyweds but I feel no spark in our relationship. I'm afraid what going on now. I easily mad in myself always even the little things at hom...

I don't earn money so it's his way or no way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - I have a complicated problem. I have been married for 3years now.. I have three kids and my husband has three kids. Two of his kids are grown and out of the house . Well when ever it comes to his kids he tells me he makes all the decisions ...

Have I made the right decision by not contacting my lover?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - I'm a married mother of 2 and recently ended an affair with the love of my life. I know most people think this when they're having an affair but he truly was the love of my life. He was my first. We met in high school and 18 yrs later, met again ...

Is cybersex cheating?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

20 July 2011 (M) - I have a cybersex habit. I had it before I met my wife and I still have it. I have a very high sex drive and my wife just doesn't keep up with me by any stretch. To me it is just a step beyond jerking myself off. In fact, that's what it is. Some...

Is there any way to get over jealousy over my wife's sexual partners?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - I am 46 years old. My wife is 37. About six months ago, we were doing a book together called "All About Me", as a way to build intimacy. Unfortunately what the book did was practically ruin my life. A portion of the book asked what our number of ...

Is it domestic abuse if my husband yells at me? my kids and I get very upset by it.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - From the outside, my life seems perfect. I am in my late 30's and have been married for 15 plus years. My husband and myself have advanced degrees, demanding careers, and 2 beautiful children. I am just wondering if it is verbal abuse if my ...