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Archived questions from: September, 2008 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

The only reason I went through with the wedding is because I paid for it all. I also love someone else. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 64 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Me and my husband were just married June 14th 2008 and i'm not in love with him. The only reason I went through with the wedding is because I paid for it all, and therefore somebody was going to get married that day! Anyway, I've been in love with...

What should I do when my husband cheats every six months?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 366 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - ok, so i've been married for almost 4 yrs, and my husband cheats on my about every six months it breaks my heart. we have talked and talked. he says he wants to keep our marriage. i beleive that there is hope for us but im tired of hurting. i dont ...

Should I leave my wife or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 96 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - I'm not sure how far to push this, or if I should leave my wife or not. I'm really pissed off, not only at what she did, but her attitude that it was no big deal. That just makes me think she will do something like this again. We got married, and...

I'm not a sex addict, am I?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - I'm not a sex addict am I? My wife just tells me I may be but i'm not that convinced I am. She is 6 years older than me and has already been around the block. Im in the military and I have to leave for certain things. Recently I went to another ...

My husband acts like I cheated when I didn't! How do I get him to stop pushing me away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 406 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I've been with my husband for 17 years and married for 15. During our relationship I have always been honest and faithful and gone through a lot with him. In the past, he has given me many reasons not to trust him but still, I stayed and moved on. ...

My husband's ex interferes with our marriage! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 417 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I hae been married to my husband for two years. His ex-wife has been a constant interference in our marriage. At one point he was discussing our relationship with her and getting advice, he also was talking to her anywhere from 3 to 6 times a day. ...

My husband is afraid of physical contact from me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 417 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Help. I have been married to my husband for 7 years. For nearly six years we have had no physical relationship to speak of. My husand is afraid of physical contact from me. We do however have a daughter of 5 who he adores and will provide her with...

Do I tell her I find her attractive and see what develops?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 406 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - Hi I am 46 year old who's remained married for 14 years with a wife who I still love and a lovely 7 yo daughter. I and my wife have communication difficulties and have grown less close emotionally or physically over time although we still connect ...

I need help with my husband's child's mother before I hurt her!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hi, everyone! ok i have a big problem. im married to a great man who has a child by another women. they had him when they were teenagers and now we are in our early 20's. the childs mother is crazy! my husband didnt have any parental rights {wasnt ...

Should I leave so that he can find someone new and experience love like everybody else?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 399 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Lately, my husband has benn acting very distant, absent, and uninterested. When I confronted him, he told me that he wants to leave me and that he has no feelings for me. He accused me of marrying him out of convenience. I told him that I loved him ...

Is my husband cheating on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 411 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - My husband has gone away once every month with a lady he works with. I found out and confronted him about 7 months ago and he told me he was truly sorry but since then he has continued to do so. He tells me he is going one place and then ends up ...

Husband want anal sex but it's too painful for me! What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - My husband seems to like painful anal sex. I do it and he knows it hurts me. He likes to watch porn about it too. Any ideas? ...

I really want my dad to go! At least when my parents divorce the fighting will stop.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - hey! i'd love to have your advice. i dont know if its ok to ask here because its not really a relationship/love or something question i think. my dad and my mum just told us three kids that they will break up. my dad works in a hospital and chea...

How do I get past these feelings of inadequecy, beating up on myself, etc?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I am confused. My husband and I have been married for 2 months, and dated for about a year. Sometimes I'll tease him and not make love to him and other times I will make love to him. Thursday night, I kept delaying making love to him and my stomach ...

My married man doesn't make me climax like he can with his wife! Any suggestions?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 409 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm 20 years old and have been seeing this guy for about 4 months. He is married but we have this amazing attraction. However he is a little frustrated because he hasn't been able to make me come yet. I don't know why as he is so gentle and ...

Question for guys: Is it easier to stay married if you already know what's out there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - I’d like to know, what its like for guys who settled down and married after having a several different women in there beds? Is it easier knowing you got to have your wild days before making a lifetime commitment? What about guys who married thei...

Has he been emotionally abusing me for years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I have two children, 6 and 8- my 6 year old has autism. My husband has been battling alcoholism for years. He just informed me he has been seeing another woman and left. He has treated me especially poorly over the years and very much so now. I ...

How do I do the right thing and remain understanding?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hi, ive been living with my boyfriend for a year and he is seperated but not divorced from his ex wife. He pays her a huge amount of 'child' support every month and we know that she doesnt spend it all on the kids. She kept the house which is real ...

How do I get her to stop before I do something stupid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hi, everyone! ok i have a big problem. im married to a great man who has a child by another women. they had him when they were teenagers and now we are in our early 20's. the childs mother is crazy! my husband didnt have any parental rights {wasnt ...

I got married because I'm a passive person and go with the flow - I hate the majority of time we spend together, so should I end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - I've been in this relationship for 7 years, we've been living together for the past 4 years, and we just got married this past july. That said, I'm pretty sure I should have never accepted the marriage proposal in the first place. In fact, I didn'...

Why have I lost my sexual desire?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - HI, I wonder if its sound familiar for anybody...I truly believe, that I love my wife, but I lost my sexual interest. I don't know what went wrong.But I don't feel excited about sex at all. Its very much out of character, as I used to be very int...

Do I confront him about the suggestive text messages, he's sending her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hi everybody, Thanks for those who replied to my last message.lt was about my husband of 31 years sending sex texts to a woman (18 years younger than me) whom he knows through work but doesn't work on the same premises. When I discovered some ver...

Should I be worried about my husband flirting with a coworker?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Hey i found out my husband has beeb texting a coworker female loads, he says it was just about work stuff as he has just got a new job and doesnt know how to do everything. So he says he was asking her how to do work stuff, and he said sometimes she ...

We are having an affair, I got divorced recently and she is in an unhappy marriage, I realised I love her, your opinions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 406 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Hello All. I never thought I'd fall for a married woman since I 'KNOW' how wrong this is. However, I realized that it is possible even when you're 30 y.o to fall hardly for someone regardless of that they're married. The thing is that she's falli...

Is it possible for a marriage to survive an affair when both partners are willing to try?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Is it possible for a marriage to survive an affair when both partners are willing to try. I had an affair and no longer love my husband - I do however feel great affection for him and love him very much as a friend. He still loves me and is ...

The idea of my wife being with other men doesn't make me jealous outright. But I don't know how I will feel on the night?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Hi my wife are i are 26 and have been married for 3 1/2 years. We were each others first but both had one other sexual partner before we started officially dating and eventually got married. My wife has recently lost a lot of weight she had put...

Now I am back on my feet and well able to perform but my wife wants to continue seeing this guy-Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Due to an injury I was unable to perform sexually for several years. The problem has since past. During that time I allowed my wife to take a lover. Now I am back on my feet and well able to perform but she wants to continue seeing this guy because ...

I love my husband, but he's below average in the bedroom. I had 'textual affair' and now want my husband to try dirty texting...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - Hi I am married to the most amazing guy.. He is soooo reliable and gets on brilliantly with everyone I know. I know he wouldnt be the most attractive guy to every other girl but to me he's special and I find myself really attracted to him. At time's ...

I need survival tips from someone smart, who knows what I can think or do to not lose my cool almost everyday.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - I wonder,if anybody would have any practical advice to my situation... I live in a very troubled marriage. Its a long one, over 20 years. Lots of problems. I know its natural, and many marriages gets to the same point, when you wonder if its wo...

What do I do? I've no idea how to flirt, and I've never felt like this in my whole life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Really think im losing the plot !!!!!Ive been married for over 20 years ,Last three years downhill but just grin and bare it .Ive never in 20 years been unfaithful ,Im not blowing my own trumpet but i am classed as attractive but im very low on ...

What are your opinions on this dilema???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

26 September 2008 (M) - whats everyones views or opinions on this dilema can a marriage that was already on the rocks with one partner(the husband)not loving the other partner then having an affair,resulting in a baby with added financial implications SURVIVE?...

My wife was not a virgin and this discovery has hurt me deeply. Please help!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

26 September 2008 (M) - my wife told me that she was not a virgin before we got married, myself was a virgin and only lost it to her.now we are married and truly love her but hurt her past and at times i illtreat her. so i will never experience breaking a virgin i ask ...

My wife's very depressed since her dad died a year ago, our sex life is inexistent, it's driving me insane!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

26 September 2008 (?) - My wife's dad died nearly a year ago. Shes doesn't want have sex anymore. I've waiting for her and supported her ever since her dad passed away. But its driving me insane she wont let do anything to her. Its causing fights (sometimes we augured ...

I have started to develop feelings for him besides just sex, should I tell him? Neither of us would leave their family.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

26 September 2008 (?) - Hi so I am new to this. I have a question about an affair that I am having. He well is pretty much married has 2 kids and his wifey's 2 kids. And well I am married with 2 kids. But any ways me and this guy have been seeing each other for 2.5 years ...

I didn't know what I liked when we got married! Now I realise I don't like many things about my wife. Should I stall this real estate deal because I'm unsure of my marriage? Should I move on from her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 399 days ago

26 September 2008 (M) - Where do I begin... We have been married for 15 years. I was 18. We have 3 kids--15, 13 and 6. When we first were married and for many years there after, we were broke. A small level of success has only come in the last 3 years or so. ...

I know he may never leave his wife but the way he treats me is unreal! What should I think about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - i have been seeing a married man for around 9 months now and he loves her and there is a baby invovled.... im starting to fall for him but we talk anytime we can and we see each other when we get the chance... we have a blast together its almost ...

I forgave my husband's cheating with my sister but I'm worried he will do it again.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

26 September 2008 (?) - I caught my husband cheating me with my sister. We manage fix marriage but I'm still worried that he'll do it again. We two have kids (ages 1-4) and don't ruin their childhoods by getting a divorce. What I should do? I'm not talking to my sis....

My older husband doesn't satisfy me sexually.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - I have a issue. I'm a 22 yr old female my husband is 34 I've been with him for 7 years married for a year. I love my husband but we have a problem sex. We use to have sex on a regular bases but now its once maybe twice every 2 weeks ( I'm young I ...

I give my wife everything, but she's always mad at me. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 361 days ago

26 September 2008 (M) - I'am a 24 year old with one kid and a wife but the thing is my wife dont deserves me but i love her and want to give her the world. Shes never has to work and i do my best to get it if i dont have it but i never say no.she all ways mad at me and i ...

I want to end the cycle - but I fear that means ending the marriage...what should I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - My wife and I met when I was 18; she was 21. We've been together for 15 years and married for 13. After we moved in together the challenges of married life started to surface, I started to notice she'd distance herself emotionally and intimately. ...

How can I ride out this difficult period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 421 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - Hi. Me and this lady at work were flirting with each other for a good few months and then I decided to ask her out. Big mistake! She hasn't spoken to me since and won't even look at me. This has gone on for a couple of months now. She must know that ...

Should I let him follow his dream??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - I met my partner nearly 16 years ago he is married and has two grown up children. We have been together as a couple for nearly 14 years. i have never asked him to leave his wife and never would. He himself came from a broken home and has always said ...

Once my husband and I are in a "social" environment, he gets so shy and lacks confidence! He can barely speak to anyone or relax... but wants to change!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - My husband is so painfully shy and lacks confidence! I do not know how to help him and he himself feels very frustrated and gets quite down about it. I have a social life and do try to include him in nights out with my friends etc. But when he comes ...

My live-in partner has changed tremendously since the baby was born. He says that he hates me. I really do not know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - I am 35 years old and about 10 years ago I met the love of my life. We were both seeing other people at the time. He was living with his significant other. We both worked together at the same company. We could not help ourselves and ended up ...

I love him but I can't get turned on to him! Help-any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - I use to be very sexually active with my husband but now it just went away. I still find him very attractive and i love him more then anything, but i just cant figure out why i cant get turned on. I've tried role playing, using toys and even ...

My wife thinks I cheated and I can't prove otherwise. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

25 September 2008 (?) - My wife thinks I cheated on here while on a seven month deployment and of course there is no way to prove other wise what do I do?...

Am I doomed to stay with this man -till death do us part- just so I can keep my kids together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - I dont know what to do. Can anyone help pls? about 5 months ago my husband suggested we try a 3sum to spice things up in our sex life, to make matters more complicated my husband said it should be with an ex of mine (well i say ex, i had an affa...

How do I leave? When is the right time? I need serious responses...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 423 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - Strongly considering leaving him. topics arent being budgeted, or even discussed so nor are they changed. bills are still piling, ive no nest egg just existing sex life: his weight is hurting my legs hips and joints I work out to strengthen my...

My husband is my roommate, there is no love and never was. So I'm married with two children and I'm having an affair! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 423 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - Hi! I am new to this. I have been married for ten years. I have two beautiful daughters ages 6 and 7. My husband is a wonderful caring husband and a good person, I am just not in love with him. I honestly don't think I ever was. I feel nothing for ...

My wife is behaving strangely, how should I interpret it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - I have noticed some inappropriate behavior from my wife your thoughts and input please, 1. my wife goes to a bus. client's bedroom when he is alone and when his wife is out of town, leaving my daughter in the car in the drive way. her excuse, "...