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Archived questions from: April, 2007 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

I want to leave him but don't know if I could manage on my own financially.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - i want to leave my husband but im so afraid i wont be able to cope on my own.we own a buisness together and live at the place of work, we moved away from my family ,so i feel even more isolated, which means if i leave i wont have a job or a place to ...

I am ready to sacrifice everything for this man so should I marry him when I'm only 18?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - hello! I've been seeing this guy for about a year now. problem is, he's 8 years older than i am, which doesn't seem to get in the way of our relationship as we both see it as just a number. I'm 18 and he's 26. We really love each other and get on...

Lonely and sad after my split with hubby. Any advice on trying to make a full life for myself again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - Hi, Im 32 and have been split up with my husband 9 months today, im having good days and bad, today is bad as Im feeling so sad and lonely and I cant imagine ever being truly happy again. I havent eaten properly for months and I feel like im fading ...

What if I've got it wrong and I really do love him? What will I do then? Can someone help me please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

28 April 2007 (F) - I am married with 3 children. My husband and i have been together for 10 years. Last year he started a new job which meant he had to spend a lot of time away from home. Meanwhile i was pregnant with our 3rd child, running a business and moving ...

Unhappy with my marriage...hubby and I just don't talk and spend time together! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

28 April 2007 (F) - Dear cupid, i am been very unhaapy of late my husband and i work 24-7 and we dont spend any quality time together except on our day off. We work together but never see each other if u see what i mean, when we re at home we never seem to converse and ...

I want the best for her and do love her but am not "in love" with her. Is this just a phase?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

27 April 2007 (M) - I have been married for a year to a great girl who deserves better than me. We don't have any kids. I had some doubts right before we got hitched but (foolishly) ignored them. There are no really serious problems; it's just "not there". I want ...

She told me she wasnt in love me and left, denied having someone else when in truth she has a toyboy!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6201 days ago

27 April 2007 (M) - i have recently split up with my wife and was just wanting to sound off about it. been with her for 16 years and married for 11 years, we have 3 kids the oldest at 10. i have given her everything shes wanted during our relationship, then she drops ...

My husband and I have been married for 2 years and we fight CONSTANTLY.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 2 years and we fight CONSTANTLY. He is verbally abusive and very moody. He was raised in a "broken home" could that have something to do with this. Should we seek marriage counseling? We have an 18 month old ...

I am married but am still in love with a man from 7 years ago, how do I put closure on this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6201 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - 7 years ago, my love walked away from me. He said he couldn't be the perfect man for me. He wasn't the first guy I'd dated - he was just the first guy who didn't hurt me. I had been raped 3 times before I'd met him. He was different and I fell ...

How do I get my wife to fall in love with me again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

26 April 2007 (M) - Hi my wife wants to leave cause she says she dosen't luv me in the way she should only like a friend, she doesn't want to me married. We have been only married for 10 months, together for 6 years i'm 23 and she is 21. When i ask her what she wants ...

I feel I can't console my wife after her losing a very close family member.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

26 April 2007 (M) - i have 2 things to ask here hope u can help. My wife recently lost a very close family member and is absolutly distraught. I know its not easy for her and really want to help her. But when i see her upset I just freeze and don't like to be around h...

We were only married for 3 months before we broke up...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6199 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - me and my ex were together on and off for three and a half years, im 26 he is 22, we have a 2 year old son we got married six months ago and three months later we broke up and i moved to another town,it was too hard there so me and my son came back, ...

My husband is moody, abusive, controlling and hates my daughter! What can I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - hi, i need advice, my husband of 1 1/2 yrs but been together for 3 1/2 yrs is a control freak,moody,and a very quick nasty temper(doesn't hit all verbal) when we meet he knew i had a teenage daughter which he got along with, now he hates her and ...

I can't understand why my husband wants us to 'swing'! This is destroying me! Help, any advice?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4333 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - i cant get my head around why my husband would want us to swing,is it because he dont fancy me anymore or because he`s bored with me,pls help me as this is destroying me an im feeling a waster and a failer...

Ever since I got pregnant, my husband doesn't come near me and our child is 2 years old now! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6202 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - I am 30 years old, have been married for 6 years and have a 2year old daughter. Ever since I fell pregnant my husband has never come near me. Thats over three years. I have tried talking, arguing suggesting. Nothing works. I have now given up ...

I want to save my marriage, but don't want to lose her. What do I do?

This question has 53 answers - newest was posted 6156 days ago

25 April 2007 (M) - Hi, I am married with a beautiful wife and 2 kids. Recently my wife has become much more demanding sexually, with us often making love 3 or 4 times a day. Although, you can imagine I am delighted with this, there is a fly in the ointment. Sh...

After 27years together, wife says she needs space! Help..what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

25 April 2007 (M) - after 27years wife said she is not in love anymore needs space help...

My husbands' low self-esteem is causing him to snoop! on me I have no privacy anymore! How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

25 April 2007 (F) - I am at my wit's end. My husband of ten years is a bottomless pit of insecurity and i don't know if i can take it anymore. He is a person who is very kind and loving, but doesn't often know his own mind. He doesn't have any interests or hobbies ...

I love my wife, but I feel that number 2 woman is right for me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

24 April 2007 (M) - About a year ago I married a beautiful sexy lady. Let's call her #1. She is smart and fun and all that. Neither of us have any children. Sex is great. A little while before we got married I met someone else (#2). It started out innocent, as ...

My husband is on dating sites looking for casual sex! What should I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3244 days ago

24 April 2007 (F) - Dear cupid i have just found out that my husband has asked for casual sex on the internet dating sites, i am shocked to discover this as i know our sex life was not very active at the moment but i didnt think it warranted this kind of behaviour!I am ...

Due to a divorce and other problems, my mom feels like giving up and cries a lot. How can I help her cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

24 April 2007 (F) - hey im writing for me mum she is 50 somethink she has been married for 35yrs but is going threw a divorce its a really bad one because no one knows where my dad is and no one can get hold of him not even the solicitors and she has also found out ...

Do I take my drinking husband back-I have to make a decision soon! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

24 April 2007 (F) - I have been with my husband for four and a half years and married for 21months, since we got married things have gradualy got worse. He has aquired a seriouse drink problem in recent months (we have two children aged 10 and 2) and does nothing with ...

My husband is in Iraq, on his second tour of duty. I cheated on him and I feel horrible. Should I tell him ever?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

23 April 2007 (F) - i have been married for three years and my husband is on his second tour in iraq!!! i cheated on him for the first time with one of my co-workers and i feel so guilty and horrible, i dont know if i should tell him im scarced to. should i just take ...

I'm 23, married for 2 years but I don't enjoy sex with my new husband so have started an affair!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - Hi i am 23 and have been married for 2 years and a few months. I have not been enjoying sex with my husband and i dont know how to tell him, I ve been extremely sexually frustrated as its been more than 3 years since we ve been together, thought it ...

We have a new baby on the way but my husband of 14 years has a major drinking problem!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6205 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - My husband of 14 years has gradually started drinking more often. He has never been a heavy drinker but he is a regular pot smoker and he likes wine. For the past year he has been drinking a half to three quarters of a bottle of wine every night 4-5 ...

My 29 year old husband has been seeing a woman of 64!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - hello i was wondering if you can help me with this sensitive problem. i'm 23, my husband is 29 and we've been married for a year and together since we were 17. a good friend told me she'd seen my husband with a 64-year-old woman. she...

Working with this guy is driving me crazy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - Hi, I wonder if anyone can help me. I'm very recently married but work very closely (daily) with another man and have done for a couple of years. Over the last year, my feeling towards him have spiralled out of control and he's mostly all I thi...

Married 15 years, 5 kids, size 16 and hubby won't come near me! Why??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - ive been married 14 yrs and im size 16 in clothing had 5 lovely kids and hubby wont come near me why?...

I'm prepared to give up the porn to keep her, but she acts so different now and I'm worried its too late and I've already lost her!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

21 April 2007 (M) - Please help. My wife and I have been married for 8 years (Im 38 she is 37) and have a wonderful family. We have always shared a very special sacred relationship but sadly I have been using porn (nothing illegal) on and off even though I know she ...

My wife, her friend, and I did a threesome two years ago. Our relationship has gone awry since then.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

21 April 2007 (M) - About two years ago I had a sexual encounter with my wife and her friend. I was drunk and her friend was a very forward person that encouraged me that regretful night. To start off the story my wife and I have had fantasy talks about her with ...

Wife said she was unhappy just prior to the birth of our son. Now she says the marriage is over and I am doing all I can! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6208 days ago

20 April 2007 (M) - I am currently married and just had a son 2 weeks ago. My wife has told me about two months before the baby was born that she feels unhappy. She claims that I do not give her enough attention. I feel like I spend lots of time talking, and being ...

Should I tell his wife, he was cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

20 April 2007 (F) - Should I tell his wife that he was cheating on me? Today I found out that he is married. I met him 2 years ago and he is in Iraq. I found out from a friend that he is married and his wife lives in TN. I can't believe all the lies. Should I tell his ...

My husband displays no affection towards me whatsoever and I'm almost ready to leave! Help!

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 3995 days ago

19 April 2007 (F) - i get no affection from my husband, should I stay or go? I have been married for nearly 3 years now and imtiamy has always been an issue for us. My husband will not touch me, hug me or kiss me, occasionally he allows me to hug him but wont hug...

He had an affair! i dont trust or believe him anymore but I want to keep our marriage of 26 years together or should I call it quits?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

19 April 2007 (F) - my husband sent me overseas to resettle ,while he stayed back to work but as soon as i was out of county he had a love affair with another women. he came over to visit, by that time i found out. due to what he did i wouldn,t let him go back.i love ...

How do I sort out my problems! Do I leave my marriage for this other woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

18 April 2007 (M) - I have been cheating on my wife for several months with another woman that I have clicked with in every way since the start. I have been married for 5 years but never cheated before. The woman I have been having an affair with wants me to be with ...

My husband insults me and seems to use me for sex! I found over 50 texts to another woman on his phone. What do I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

18 April 2007 (F) - hi i need your help i have been marred for 3 years my husband never kisses me he says its because i smoked ,so i gave up.he allways pulls me down about what i wear i was 14 stone now im 9,and he still pulls me down.he says we will not go out on our ...

I get a thrill from cheating on my husband, but feel guilty afterwards! What do you think?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

18 April 2007 (F) - i am happily married woman...yet i cheat on my husband...i always feel bad afterwards...but i get a kind of high thinking about it and doing it..till its over..what do you think?...

Hubby visits prostitutes so I cheat on him with casual sex with other men! How can we stop this destructive path we are on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

18 April 2007 (F) - I need help... My husband of 13 years got found out a few months ago, he has been seeing prostitutes for 6 years every 2 weeks and each week he has been trawling the streets. We are going throught the councellng route and I have asked for help for ...

Married, but I will avoid any form of physical contact just to not have sex with my husband. How do I fix this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - Hi, I am a married women of 7 years. i have two children. Having problems in my marriage - in the bedroom department. I would rather go to sleep than have sex. I will avoid any form of physical contact (hugs, kisses etc)just so I don't have to say ...

Married to the man I love but...he's boring me to tears! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6210 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - I 've been married 16 years now and married very young (when I was 18). Truth be told, I love my husband, but he is boring me to tears. I can't have a decent conversation with him. He doesn't talk. He's the quiet type and is completely opposite ...

We broke up in Dec 05, we are in mediation, hes in another relationship but its dead, but he hasnt told her to move out, how can I get him to tell her its over ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6211 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - This is difficult and knowing where to start even more so. Basically my ex and I split up December 2005 after 7 years together, we didn't split because we didn't love each other, it was because of a huge fight. We have a little boy and the last...

We are both married, we slept together and think we are in love, Ive asked that we stay friends and stop the sex, now hes not calling me!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6211 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - Both of us are married and are having an affair. He works few months here and most of the time overseas.We both know that we really cannot be together, but we are so much inlove or so I think. I know that I love this guy and he says that he loves me ...

Thought he was faithful but found out he's had cyber sex recently and an affair 14 years ago!! He denies it...what should I believe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6209 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - I recently found evidence my husband had cyber sex relationship online with a much younger woman. I also found out that he had a affair on me 14 yrs ago. Now he tries to retract his story. What should I believe. I use to believe that he has always ...

My husband had an affair and I left the home 2 years ago. We have dated but I feel I can never trust him again. Any thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6210 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - My husband had an extended affair about 2 years ago..pretty bad. I have left the home and just now filed for divorce, it has been 2 years. We tried to date, but I can't forgive him nor forget. I am afraid he will do it again...is it possible ...

Is it wrong to be wanted and desired ? Married 14 yrs tomorrow and I want him to be crazy over me!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6212 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Hi all, I really need your help.Is it wrong to have the need to be wanted by someone ? I like attention, but from only someone who loves me. I feel the need to be wanted and desired all the time. Is there sometehing wrong with me ??? I am marr...

Im sick to death of my husband, Sometimes I love him, others I dont, I want to make it work, maybe I dont, Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6212 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - Hello everyone.. I'm really in trouble here.. I have been married for 4 years with my hubbie for 8 have one child and its just gone down down down hill. I really love my husband but i hate him to. I hate the fact that he promises things and...

My husband is a drunk! I dread coming home and I cant bare him touching me, Do I stay and get him help or leave ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - my husband has a drink problem, we have been together for 8 years and married for 4, at first i never noticed how much he was drinking. my husband is a jekel amd hyde, when he is sober its like we have jsut met, he is kind funny and great to be ...

My mother in law told me my husband wants a divorce!! We are both miserable and she wont stay out of it!! Help what do I do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6212 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - ok this is a biggie my mother in law told me my husband wants a divorce , so i went home to visit family and now my husband hardly talks to me im not gonna get a divorce to please his mother and his whole family is against me now, my husband is ...

Im having an affair, 2 kids one on the way, but I love this other woman!! What can I do ?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5976 days ago

15 April 2007 (M) - im 30 yrs old with 2 kids and 1 on the way but for the past three months i have been having an affiar with a women who is so great and fun to be with and i just cant bring myself to leaving my wife for the kids sake but i love this other women to ...

My married lover and I are soulmates but he won't leave his wife because of the kids! What can I do?

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

15 April 2007 (F) - Hi, I've been having an affair with a married man for three years nearly. We completely are soul-mates. We have shared so many of the same personal experiences that are very hard for anyone to come to terms with. We can talk about anything...he ...