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Archived questions from: December, 2006 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

I got sick and now that I'm better-my husband says he can't stand the sight of me! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - i got sick for about 2 years better now have been married 51 years my husband says he cant stand to look at me we were always real close. i dont wont to lose him. thanks lonley...

He's married with 3 kids and I just had his 4th! We argue all the time..is this ever going to work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - my boyfriend is married with 3 chldren and ive just had his forth (a baby girl) i love him but we argue all the time. do you think its ever going to work?...

My wife is having an emotional affair. How do I save my marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5946 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) - my wife is having an emotional affair (non physical)with a man who also happens to be an obese 30 stones in weight! He also owns the shop from which she operates her flower business. This affair has developed over the last 3 years! as I understand. ...

How can I give my wife space without being left out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6326 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - How can I give my wife the space she needs to spend time with her friends, and not feel left out?...

Married 3 years and have never penetrated my wife. Please help..we need some advice badly!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) - dear cupid, I have a very serious problem. I have been married for 3 years but till now never penetrated my wife. I ejaculate before penetration, i don't whats wrong. Recently i have got myself checked and according to doctor everything is fi...

My past pain with the first wife is ruining my second marriage! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

29 December 2006 (M) - when my first wife first started seeing other men my so called best mates tried to cover things up to the point they would go out of their way to take me out so she could be with her lover the two people were my best mates or so i thought when i ...

MArriage is about to end because...she had the front flap of her ear pierced!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

29 December 2006 (M) - I need some help and advice as I think my marriage of 7 years is almost at an end and I'm not sure what to do. Let me start with some background - been with my wife for almost 11 years now and she's known for pretty much all those 11 years t...

I found out my wife lied to me, so many years ago and can't get through this! Advice please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

29 December 2006 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 15 years after two years of dating. Recently we received a card from a woman that revealed my wife had an affair with her husband for over a year while she worked for him. The relationship happened before we were ...

I am finding I have feelings for another man and I'm worried I will mess up my marriage. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - Hi, i am married for just a few months now, my husband is such a wonderful guy, very good to me, the thing is, I have feelings towards another guy, nothing at all has happened. I really don't understand why ... i honestly don't want to be feeling ...

My husband thinks I am overly obsessed with our young son...I'm beginning to wonder if he's right. Any advice?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - Nine years ago, I met my future-husband at the hospital where I worked, he was visiting his sister, who had just given birth. We fell in love almost instantly, and were married after a year of passionate love. We started trying immediately for a ...

I feel like I am neglecting my kids but it makes me sick to be with her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6328 days ago

28 December 2006 (M) - Because of a short term affair my wife had, we have been split up for about 6 months now.. I have been involved with someone who I care dearly about but I also have two children who mean more to me than anything.. I am not misserable when I am with ...

she offered me an ultimatum of "re-concilling a relationship with her or not ever seeing my son again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6328 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) - I am a father to a 15 year old boy, of which his mother and I have been apart for the past 12 years, but i have always made a point of maintaining a relationship with him. 2 years ago his mother offered me an ultimatum of "re-concilling a ...

If I leave my family it will cause hurt...will I regret not being with my soul mate?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - Sometimes we find what we are not looking for. My husband and I were in an alternative lifestyle, we were swingers. Well, we have been married for 17 years and had been doing that for 15 of those years. It has always ALWAYS been just fun on the ...

Is my wife cheating on me with her cousin!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) - This past year my wife of 13yrs went alone on a vacation trip to visit her male cousin in South America. A month later I found a reply email sent from him, in Spanish, to her that he can not be her lover because of the distance but if they get ...

He was flirty... I got flirty.. Then his wife found out and got mad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - Well here goes: This guy at work flirted with me touching and making comments. examples asked if I was wearing a thong or a bra and touched my ankle and even bumped into me with his front on my butt. He is very mean to me in front of others and ...

She has a mail friend who e-mails her and it upsets me, that she thinks about him way too often! Any advice?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6311 days ago

26 December 2006 (M) - My wife has an e-mail relationship with another man. He is a mutual friend. The e-mails are not private, I can read them, but they are frequent. I know she gets excited to get e-mails from him and checks her e-mail a lot during the day (a lot ...

Do I tell the kid's the 'real truth' about why their Dad and I split up?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

26 December 2006 (F) - Hi, my husband and I have recently split over his porn use.I dont want to have a debate here as I have seen a lot on this site of really good discussion...I am dead against porn and wont be changing my mind but my question is..should I tell my ...

Is it strange that my soon to be ex-husband and his mother are at my familie's Christmas dinner, without me? Am I right to feel this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

25 December 2006 (F) - I have a question. My husband and I are seperated because he can't stop cheating on me. For Christmas we were together till lunchtime to share it together with the kids. My brother is having a huge Christmas dinner for our family this year and my ...

I left my wife but I love her still. She's hard to live with so what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

24 December 2006 (M) - i am in a dilema because i have been married for 24 years,we dont have a lot in common anymore,we used to share a religious belief but ayear ago i left.i have lost my friends and her family through this,although i still have love for her im finding ...

He left for no reason and left me in a lurch. Do I divorce or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6334 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) - hi! my husbands left me for no real and meaningful reason,he just started making up lame excuses and reasons to leave.he hasnt shown any signs of divorcing me and has now left me in the lurch.ive tried to patch things up,but its like im going in one ...

We have been separated for one year and now he wants a reconciliation!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6329 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) - hello. my husband and i have been separated for almost 1 year now with little or no contact.hes not interested in reconciliation but sent me a anniversary card. what do i make of this?...

Told him I am leaving to him sort out his marriage problems-would this be a good idea?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6334 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) - hello ..I started chatting with this bloke on line he never hide the fact he was married althou we chatted he made comments on just think my rings not we had good mental sitminuation at first and I knew it wasnt going 2 long before it could turn 2 ...

She wants a divorce, so why does she still want sex with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

22 December 2006 (M) - I split up from my wife 7 months ago and have since moved out. We were married for 9 years and have 3 children together. None of us have met anybody else, I dont intend to. We split because we were having communication problems and could not talk to ...

I really should not have got married

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) - Hi. I dont even know where to start. I thought i had life sorted. I was marrying my best friend. We had problems for a while. Anyway to cut a long story short. I started an affair . I tried many a times to stop the affair but it felt so right.. ...

I am due to see my husband after 3 months, we split and are selling the house, I feel so unhappy!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6335 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) - Hi, its almost 5 months since my husband and I split up (married 7 years), I havent seen him for 3 months and am dreading the time when i have to. I am in the process of selling our home which is really upsetting me as we have only lived in it 3 ...

My wife had an affair. She still sees the guy regularly, but claims she doesn't love him. I'm so confused.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

21 December 2006 (M) - My wife and I have just split up after 8 years of marriage and 18 years of the relationship with 2 children. I recently found out that she has been having an affair. Although when I found out she told me it had only been going on for 2 weeks. She ...

I'm ready to call our new marriage quits because he masterbates...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

20 December 2006 (F) - How can I deal with husband masterbating instead of being with me? I am young and attractive, I have a very high sex drive and my huband who is 12 years older than me doesn't. I've caught him materbating numerious times and it disgusts me because of ...

I moved to Spain with my nasty second husband. I want to move back to England, but all my ties are in Spain.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

20 December 2006 (F) - I live in Spain with my second husband and all my ties are here. My husand turns very nasty when he has had a drink. He dos´nt hit me but he says very horrible things about me and my two daughters. I am now getting to a point I am so fed up of it. I ...

After 21 years of marriage he left me for a 20 year old. But will he be back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) - hi can anyone help me with this question please try. my husband left me 4 months ago. he is 40 after 21 years of marrige im just about over this still get down at times. this is first christmas apart. but he has now movied in with a 20 year old ...

I left my husband of four years bcause I was unhappy. My parents are saying I should work it out. Thoughts?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - I am 23, I have been married for 4 years and have a three year old daughter. Unfortunatly I married not for love, but for other reasons. Like I thought he was a good person, and he would take care of me. I never had that "in love, infatuation" ...

Disatisfied with life. (long but worth it)

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - I am so confused about my marriage and lost dream, I can't focus on anything else! But, to warn you, I have cheated, my husband knows and he calls me a "classic bored housewife", even though I a very-well educated and have tried to resume studies ...

They treat me like I'm dumb!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - I am not sure if my husband respects me. My family loves him and I don't want people to know this. He treats me like I am dumb. I never realized it before but I have fed into. I find myself saying things like don't ask me like I would know. My ...

All my husband does is watch porn or play video games. I have nobody and am extremely depressed. Is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) - My husband and I never have sex and our two toddlers cry all day. I feel like I am going crazy. He's always at work. When he is home he looking at porn or playing video games. I have no one and extremely depressed. Is this normal?...

I'm married, but I'm sleeping w/ others! I feel so guilty but can't stop. What do I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 December 2006 (M) - I am married to a fabulous woman but i am sleeping with a woman at work.I also have a lover off the internet and i have another lover who lives close by. I also have a fuck buddy lady who goes to swingers partys with me i sound like a rite scum...

My husband gawks at every woman but me, stores nude pics on his phone and hides the porn on his computer! Are these red flags?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) - my husband had nude pictures of girls stored in his phone and not one picture of me. sexual deprives me for porn, constantly clears the history and cache on our home computer and his cellular phone. stares women down when we are in public and says ...

Is she being honest or is something going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

17 December 2006 (M) - I have been married for 14 years and suspect my wife is now having an affair. She attended a night out with the girls and had arranged a lift there and back with a female friend for midnight. When i woke at 3.30am i found her still not home, on ...

Is my husband's gay tendencies show that he's really gay? Help me out..advice needed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) - I am really scared and confused. My husband and I just had our one yr ann. We have a very good sex life, sometimes we watch porn. The past few months he has made more and more comments regarding other mens penises. He also has a lot of naked men ...

Why would a man choose internet porn, for sexual grafication over his beautiful wife? My self esteem is low as he deprives me! Any good advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

16 December 2006 (F) - Why would you husband choose internet porn for sexual grafication over his beautiful wife? I don' t nag him. I am open minded and interested in new sexual experiments. We have great days weeks and months together. We don't arguue have two beautiful ...

We endured a lot of hardship to get where we are today...but our relationship is suffering! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6340 days ago

16 December 2006 (F) - My husband is as boring as dishwater! He never gives me gifts, not even on my birthday or xmas.All he does is sleep over weekends. He never takes me out anywhere.I have decided this is enough!He is younger than me, but behaves like an old man. Our...

My husband and I are total opposites...should we split up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

16 December 2006 (F) - I am married for 5 months and am seriously think i have made the wrong choice and sometimes feel i really do not want not to be married. I am not involved with anyone else, neither would i cheat of my husband. I feel it would be better both for ...

My husband said he loves me even though I've got a small chest - then he compared my chest to my cousin's! That really hurt my feelings!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6339 days ago

16 December 2006 (F) - Ever since I can remember I've wanted bigger size breasts (I'm a small 34B). I know that my husband has a thing for women with large breasts, though (like most guys). Then tonight he says to me "I love you more than I would even love anyone with ...

I fell for a woman at work and I'm married! How do I forget this woman and work on my marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

16 December 2006 (M) - What's the cure for love? Please help me! I'm married and I accidentally fell for another woman. (Not having any affair, and she doesn't care about me) I feel miserable. I think about her every 5 minutes or so, wishing so badly I could be with he...

I confronted my wife about the affairs I found out about and she claims they're over - the last email was 4 days ago!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6340 days ago

15 December 2006 (M) - My wife and I have been married 23 years. We have two daughters, one in college and one in third grade. I love her deeply, passionately, and openly. She is always saying how lucky she is to have me. I pay attention to her, I notice new clothes, ...

My husband is neglecting me sexually do to his internet porn usage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

14 December 2006 (F) - what should I do? My husband is neglecting me sexually do to his internet porn usage. He says he does not masturbate to it but where is he getting his kicks. When we do have sex I have to initate it. I am at the point that I am considering divorce. ...

She lied about sending her ex an b'day message...now the relationship is strained! What should we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6335 days ago

14 December 2006 (M) - Hi , We are on honeymoon, the third day, my wife and I have both been married before. Her ex had a birthday during our honeymoon week and I asked some days back if she wanted to sms him on the day, she said "no its inappropriate" and we left it ...

I love him but he doesn't pay any attention to me..no compliments, no hugs, no kisses- nothing! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6341 days ago

14 December 2006 (F) - I love my husband and he says he loves me too. But there is no passion in our relationship. He is content coming home, eating, sleeping and playing with our kid. I want more than that. I want a compliment, a hug, a kiss. is it too much to expect ? I ...

He was bi-polar...did I marry him just to get him help? Is it my fault now, that he can't move on.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) - I was with a bi-polar guy for four and a half years the last one year married to him. he was really sick and verbally and mentally abusive. I finally got out of the relationship and am trying to move on with my life. He wanted a meeting with me a ...

I'm married but going to live with my lover, would like going from riches to rags! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) - I am married but I am in love with another wonderful man, and he feels the same way about me he wants me to leave and come to live with him but its very hard for me to leave everything I have here just for love. what do I do? he lives in a one ...

I have a wonderful husband who treats me like a queen but ..how do I tell him I've fallen for another man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) - I have been married to the same man for 23 yrs I married at 15 I have two grown daughters 21 and 19 I dont have to work, I do what I want, when I want, and how I want I go out on weekends with the my friends to dances.. my husband is a wonderful man ...

I'm terrified that this marriage is a mistake - 3 months in and it's already a nightmare!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) - Sorry this is VERY long!! i am 29 and married just 3 months. My hubby is 24 and we were dating nearly 7 years before we got married.The first few weeks after the honeymoon were great but the past few weeks have been a nightmare. I feel so down, an...