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Archived questions from: April, 2011 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

I feel very lost, please help me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - I need some real help. I feel so lost. I went through a separation from my wife a while back. During which time I had an affair that was the biggest mistake of my life. I invested all my love into the wrong person. This person broke my heart into a ...

Is my husband's relationship with his co-worker appropriate? Or am I over reacting?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I am 61 and my husband is 68. For the past year he has had a close relationship friends he says with a co worker. He lies when she calls because he knows I think it is inappropriate. He hides her number in his cell phone and on one occasion ...

Are there too many red flags that I am blind to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - is my husband gay if he watches shamale porn, and yeah i know the question has been asked a biillion times but my case is a little different. first of all i am bi, so i can understand if he was to, but i didnt find out about the porn until a few ...

What can I do to let my husband know I really care about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4738 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I dont know what to think about this. My husband got a new job and has been doing this for a month now. His schedule was nice 6.5 hrs a day 6 days a week which is a little over full time. Its exhausting work and he is not supplied with the proper ...

Wife's ex-boyfriend calls her. Should I intervene?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - My wife's ex-boyfriend (one she dated for three months twenty years ago!) sought her out on Facebook. She wanted to catch up with him and she also felt badly for dumping him back when and wanted to apologize to him. They exchanged about a dozen e-...

How should I confront my husband about his texting in bed when he thinks I am asleep?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - How should i confront my husband about him texting when he thinks i am asleep? My husband is sending a 'hi' msg on his bbm to his coworker at 12:30 am, while he thinks i am sleeping with our babies. what should you make of it?...

Wife is just using me, she no longer loves me and is in love with a female friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - Hi there about 18months ago my wife told me she had feelings for her female friend. I took this on the chin and we carried on about a year later she told me she loves this woman but no longer loves me or fancyss me. We no longer have sex she ...

I think my husband's female friend is just waiting on the sidelines for him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - My husband has a female friend that he has had for fifteen years the same amount of time that he has known me. We all used to work in the same company and my husband (he was single then) used to make a fool of himself over this woman always taking ...

Does his defensiveness mean something?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - What would you make of this?...My husband and I are driving in the car, he says: "I'm going out of town on Monday I have a meeting and I put in for two nights so I can do this other thing while I'm there and kill two birds with one stone." ...

Cheated on husband, now want him back?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Hullo there, I am a married woman with a 2 year old son who doesn't know what to do next. The thing is I cheated on my husband two times and I was caught out by my husband. I truly love him and badly need him in my life. He was angry at first, but ...

Messing around with husband friend! I know I'm a bad friend, wife and mother!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I have gotten myself into a huge mess and only keep digging myself deeper and deeper. my husband and i have been married for 6 yrs, we have 5 children (4 still very young) but there is no romance, i guess there has never really been. Here is the d...

My wife went behind my back and loaned her ex money

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I am a 43 year old guy. My wife gave (she says loaned) some money to her ex to enable him to purchase some real estate. He had purchased on option on the land which was about to expire. If his option expired, I was going to buy the property. She ...

Should I really consider having a fling with an unhappily-married woman?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - I am having a real struggle with my conscience and really need some advice. I have been single for over a year after a break up of a 10-yr relationship. I have found dating hard because I don't want kids. Anyway, last weekend, I met someone who ...

I love my therapist and she's helped me so much, but my wife is jealous

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - Hi. Hope I can clarify my feeling. I have been in therapy with a lovely women therapist who I had almost immediate connection. I was very vulnerable and so taken by her honesty and style and her insights. My marriage has always been pretty ...

How do I confront my husband about his cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I've been married for four years and just found out he's cheating. It really breaks my heart because I think we are doing ok and he doesn't complain much. We have 2 kids. How do I confront him? I don't want to talk to the tramp his dealing with I ...

I don't feel the love between us anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I hate the fact that my husband has to work closely with a very good looking, actually hot looking girl. I'm very possessive and jealous type. I ask too many qs to my husband. I'm constantly suspicious. I also have self esteem issue, weight ...

My husband wants to take me on a cruise, but I have social phobias

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - My husband wants to take me on a cruise, but i am struggling with social phobia at the moment and other mental illnesses. I am petrified at the thought of him looking at other women especially around the pool. What do i do?...

My mother in law is so controlling...am I being unreasonable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - im married traditionally, my husbnd doesnt work. i live with him and his mom. his mom is so bossy that she controls him more than anyone. he is now so dependent on her that he cant find a job. how do i get him to trust me more than he trusts her....

My husband lies about porn and looking at other women...I feel like he's a different person with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - My husband is always telling me that he looks at other women but does not drool or make inappropriate comments about them. The other day i called my husband and his phone was in his pocket and picked up without him knowing. I heard him talking to ...

I have desires to cheat on my husband. I don't want to feel like this and he doesn't deserve this!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - I don't know if I should have ever gotten married. Marriage was never something I strived for in life, but when my husband (then boyfriend) asked me to marry him, I was very in love with him and very happy so I said yes, even though I didn't really ...

How do I move on? I need to get her out of my mind for my kids sake....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

27 April 2011 (M) - I am 40 years old and married with my 35 years old wife for 17 years.we have 4 children and our relationship was not going good.ten months ago my wife had an outburst and she left me leaving our 4 children with me to look after.she said to me she ...

Why would he have this type of porn on his computer?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - I found heaps of Asian porn on my husbands computer. Now I am worried he prefers them to me and I am getting very upset about it. Everytime we go out I am worried he is perving at them and preferring them to me. We fight about it all the time. I am ...

I think my Dad's having an affair

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - i think my dads having an affair. My parents have been married for 15 years,they argue reguarly and iv been thinking for the last 2 years that they were going to split up but they havent.The other day my dad was out and he'd left his phone charging...

He talks to other women...what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - I found my husband has been talking to a lot of women. He has started hiding things better now that I found out he slept with one. He mashed up his cell phone because he didn't want me to see who was on it. He even went as far as changing the ...

My sister-in-law is too clingy towards my husband. What do I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3059 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - My question might sound weird, but the situtation that Im in is making me more and more anxious. So me and my husband have been married for a little over two years now. We have two beautiful children(ages 3 and 1)Our marriage itself has been ama...

He wont reverse his vasectomy, and now I am thinking of divorcing him for not keeping up his end of our agreement.....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - My husband and I had a happy marriage over the past year, but now it’s all gone downhill fast. We had decided before the wedding to start our family in our second year of marriage (which is this year). However he had a vasectomy after his first ...

I'm trying to hold the family together but wife is making it very difficult

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

26 April 2011 (M) - Hello, I am at a stuck point in my relationship and not sure how I should handle it, I am fighting to save my marraige and family but are being walked over and feel verbally abused. We are liveing in separate rooms and have a 4 month (her id...

I am living with a married man and pregnant with his child...but he is still hiding me from his wife and family!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - I've been living with a married man for more than a year and now i am pregnant and about to gave birth on May. Although we are living together,he did not yet end up his relationship with his wife who has an 8 years old daughter with him. He ...

I don't like the idea of being married or having children anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

24 April 2011 (M) - i just wanna an advice , I'm married with a woman in another country now she is gonna have a baby and i don't like the idea neither being married any more i'm so depressed about having a baby and continuing being married , no sex no fun but i stil...

He as done a terrible thing to me so why can't I just hate him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - My husband had an affair with my best friend and is now in a relationship with her. I am absolutely devastated not only for myself but for my baby boy who as only been seeing his daddy for an hour or so a week. He say's he wasn't happy and he ...

My wife had a one night stand

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

24 April 2011 (M) - hi my wife had a one night stand when we where enganged six yrs ago, but has being faithfull so far now i feel like cheating on her because am hurt. am just thinking about it. am not talking to her how can i forget she did it with our family frien...

Married man cares about me or does he only want some action?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - Hey all. Me and this married man have become friends. We are both married and we both know we are sexually attracted to each other. He seems to want to talk to me and be around me all the time and we have connected emotionally. We are both ...

I still have sex with my wife even though she is having an affair. Is this letting go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

24 April 2011 (M) - Is this what letting go means? My 42 year old wife is about a month into an affair with a man 25 years older than her. I have seen their email correspondence and the level of emotional attachment is unbelievable. This whole thing hit me out of th...

Husband left me for another woman even though he knows shes no good!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - This is an SOS call, I feel like my heart has been smashed into a thousand pieces. My husband has left me and now I feel I have lost my best friend, my sole mate and my lover :o( We've been together 6 years and married 2 years on 3rd May! Sum...

I cannot stand the constant stream of husband's family in our home!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - I am an only child and have been married to my second husband for nearly 2 years - my first husband died. My parents are both dead and I come from a very small family unit. The man I have married comes from a very large family and he has children ...

Can the right person come along when you are already married?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

24 April 2011 (M) - I have one simple question: Can the right person come along when you are already married?...

Haven't had sex with my husband in 13 years but want to have sex with another man.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

23 April 2011 (F) - Hello Cupids. This is one crazy situation you are about to hear and I could really use your help. I have been married to my husband for 13 years and in that time we have never had sexual intercourse. We have had oral sex and have done just abou...

Gambling has taken over his life. what can I say or do? It's ruining our life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

23 April 2011 (F) - Hey guys and girls. My partner and I have been together for 11 years, we have 2 children together aged 7 and 1. We were both 17 when we got together and we had a great relationship, he did everything for me and was the perfect boyfriend. W...

Promiscuous wife had 40 partners, I have only been with her!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

23 April 2011 (M) - hi there, i dnt knw where to start but il try my best. My wife was promiscuous in her college days 40men to be exact. After i found out abt her past i asked her abt and told me she had low self esteem, i didnt believe her shes drop dead gorgous what ...

Should I take him back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

23 April 2011 (F) - i found out my husband was having an affair when he left his telephone out for me to check and saw texts from other woman. i was shocked and he packed his stuff and left that night to stay in her spare room as a lodger. Two days later he regretted ...

She is cold to my son because of her feelings about his mother....it's becoming unbearable, any ideas please?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

23 April 2011 (M) - My post is quite an involved one so thank you for reading in advance. I am married and have 2 children from 2 seaparate relationships, a boy aged 10 and a girl aged 15. My wife gets along very well with the girl but does not get on with my son. She ...

He's controlling and when I question him in the same way, he gets really mad. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

23 April 2011 (F) - i've been with my husband for 3 years every time my phone rings he wants to know who it is and what they say so i started doing the same thing to him and he began to get mad he has had a very bad temper lately he throws items at the walls or punches ...

My husband's decisions are driven by his friends, and its creating a rift in our relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4743 days ago

23 April 2011 (F) - Hello, im needing a advice please. My husband and me are nearly 8 years living together. We actually dont have much problem when it comes of everyday routine. but now we are having a problem regarding of buying our own apartment. My husband is 28 ...

We broke up, he's with her, how do I move on??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - 5 weeks ago I found out my husband was having an affair with my friend who was also my bridesmaid at our wedding!! We have a 9 month old little boy. He is in a relationship with her and as been since we split. I am absolutely devastated, he as ...

I need creative ideas for a date for my husband and I!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4745 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - I need help on a date idea for me and my husband. We have been having ALOT of problems lately and I have decided for ME TO TAKE HIME on a date. He has told me I’m boring before and that is b/c i probably am. I'd much rather stay at home than go out ...

Can dating a woman who is separated be legitimate if her husband doesn't know about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

22 April 2011 (M) - Hi, Thanks for any help on this. I have recently become involved with someone who works close to me. It started out simply as emails which graduated to a certain intimate aspect. We have since become physically involved. She is currently sep...

Sex life has all but disappeared!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4745 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - Been married about 6 months, things are going great except that our sex life has all but disappeared! I am 38 hubby is 55 but we're both in good shape, good health and enjoy life. What gives? He never wants sex! We used to have sex several times a ...

Been married for 5 years and attracted to someone else

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - I have been married for almost 5 years I got married really young it was the day after my 18th birthday. I love my husband very much, but I don't think I am in love with him anymore. I am extremely attrated to another man. This has happened once ...

My wife was not a virgin

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

22 April 2011 (M) - Hello, my wife and i have being married for 4 years, i just found out she had a hymen reconstruction, i though we where both virgins now am stuck between a rock and a hard place.. I feel like cheating on her for what she did to me.what do you think ...

My wife admitted she cheated on me when we were engaged!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

21 April 2011 (M) - Hi, my wife of 6 years just confessed to me that she cheated on me while we where engaged, she said it was a one time mistake and has being faithfull since then. Am hurt and am thinking of divorce. How can i trust her again?...