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Marriage problems: Help and advice

My husband's love of porn sluts makes me second best!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3184 days ago

31 July 2015 (F) - My husband tells me he loves the 'porn sluts ' as he calls them . I am beginning to think he finds them sexier and more interesting than me I asked him what he likes and he says they look hot . I am adventurous and look after myself plus im his w...

Can a man live without sex in a marriage?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3184 days ago

30 July 2015 (F) - Can a married man in his mid 40's stay happily married if his wife doesn't want sex anymore? And I'm talking years now? Can a man live without sex in a marriage? ...

What can I do? First he refused me. Then I caught my husband watching porn and masturbating in the middle of the night!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3185 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - Please help me!!! I caught my husband watching porn and masturbating in the middle of the night!! Early that night I wanted to have sex with my husband. I kissed and touched him, but he was too busy playing with his phone and completely ignored ...

Husband on website talking about strap on sex, blood in his underwear! Am I just deluding myself into thinking he is not cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3184 days ago

28 July 2015 (F) - So a while ago i found out my husband was using the adult friend finder website. He addamantly denies meeting anyone he was just talking online... i am pregnant with our second child at the moment and since my mothers passing 2 years ago i have no ...

How come men get away with playing reverse psychology with women when they are dead wrong?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3184 days ago

27 July 2015 (F) - How come men get away with playing reverse psychology with women when they are dead wrong? I snooped and found something that i really wanted answers to. If its true i will have trust issues with my husband. Well, i tried to control myself but he s...

Is it normal not to want to perform oral sex on a man after just having sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3190 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - I love my husband. We are married 8 years and he was my first sexual partner. I was always the prudish type! Not by choice but i think by fact of low self esteem and the fact I probably have no confidence. I have only in the last maybe year or so ...

Snooping and led to Betrayal by my husband and alledgedly double life

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3184 days ago

23 July 2015 (F) - My life suddenly just collapsed in front of me. I just found out the man i married 5mths ago has another family in the UK. What should i do. I feel like dying. I met my husband through a mutual friend last yr. He told me about his baby mama who he c...

What is the point in remaining married really?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3191 days ago

22 July 2015 (F) - Hello cupid, I am a 40YO female struggling with the meaning of marriage. We originally wed 8 years ago with the thought that we might decide to have children together. Now I found out I have PCOS which makes it hard but not impossible to have c...

How do I find out what web sites my husbands on and see his profiles

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

22 July 2015 (F) - How do i find out what web sites my husbands on and see his profiles...

My wife is jealous of my new employee

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

22 July 2015 (M) - In April I hired a new female employee who is 10 years younger than I am. She wasn't my first choice, but my employer said I could not hire my first choice for some reasons they say they cannot disclose to me because of privacy. Ever since...

Do I tell my husband about what happened on my night out? Or keep it a secret? Am I being contradictory?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3191 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - This post seems a bit contradictory to be frank but I need someone to see from my point and I don’t want to be blasted for it either. I will try keep it to points and cut it down as much as I can. I rewind 10 years maybe... My husband was my t...

I don't want to cheat on my husband but don't know how long I can go being unsatisfied

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3194 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - So basically for the past 2 weeks or so I've been extremely horny. Like to the point that I think I might cheat on my husband if given the opportunity. I also gave myself my first orgasm ever last night. I am not being satisfied by my husband at the ...

Do I throw away a twenty year marriage because he is more interested in porn stars than me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - My husbands obsession with Porn is driving me crazy . There is no desire when he looks at me anymore . Our sex life feel like he is in another world . He has his favourite porn stars saved on his computer.I've Tried talking to him and he sa...

If a husband finds out his wife lied about multiple sexual partners, how should he deal with it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

17 July 2015 (M) - If a husband who was virgin before marriage finds out his wife had multiple sexual partners and hook ups before marriage and lied about it, then how should the husband deal with it?...

My husband of 5 years told me that he still loves his ex and she is always in the back of his mind. Should I encourage him to try and find her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3199 days ago

16 July 2015 (F) - I've answered a lot of questions on this site, and now it is my turn to ask for advice. I'm a woman in my mid forties who has been with my awesome, loving husband for almost 5 years. Our relationship is amazing, far and away the best of my life,...

Is it so difficult for a husband to give oral sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2700 days ago

14 July 2015 (F) - Hello members, Im an Indian married for 14 years.. everything is perfect.. but my husband has never gone down on me. Ive asked him a million times.. done everything to get him for it. Im very beautiful and good at almost everything.. husband ...

My husband is convinced I have cheated on him, but I have been nothing but faithful.. should I stay or should I go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3201 days ago

14 July 2015 (F) - Help! My husband thinks I have cheated on him. We have been married 9 years and sex was great at first until he started accusing me of cheating because my vagina was too loose, it didn't feel the same.ilove him and have been faithful too him the ...

FWB with a married guy who says his wife is a nightmare yet he refuses to leave her. What do I do? Am I just the "other woman"?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3204 days ago

11 July 2015 (F) - Please bare with me on this, it's a little tricky. Okay, I've recently entered a 'friends with benefits' situation with a friend of mine (we use contraception) but before that we did class ourselves as being in a relationship due to the strong em...

Frustrated and not sure what I can do to improve things. what are some options? Our sex life has changed

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3204 days ago

10 July 2015 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 10 years and have 2 kids. he has always told me I'm sexy and grabs me but over the last few years our sex life has changed. We have sex 2-3 times a week but after I finish, he always expects a blowjob or at ...

Married just over a year and since then we argue a lot. What has to happen to resolve this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3207 days ago

8 July 2015 (F) - I've been married for just over a year now and whilst most of the time things are happy, when my other half and I fight it gets really bad...much worse than it did before we were married. I find when we argue he antagonises me a lot and as a res...

Having male friends in a marriage? I feel my husband doesn't trust me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3207 days ago

8 July 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, My husband is my best friend. We get along great. We have a nearly 2 year old together and most of the time are very happy. However, lately I feel a bit like he still doesn't trust me. He will never admit this and he has no reasoning...

Why is my wife spending so much time sleeping, while meanwhile our sex life is non existent?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3207 days ago

6 July 2015 (M) - My wife recently went away for a few days with friends. While she was away, we chatted on the phone everyday. However, for the past few months she's been sleeping all the time and she's also put on weight and she's still gaining. Her weight doesn't ...

Can this marriage still work after what my husband told me? He loves me, but not my changed physical appearance

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3207 days ago

6 July 2015 (F) - I have been with my husband for 5 years. After having two children and dealing with my weight issues this past year, my body has definitely changed. My husband sat me down a couple of nights ago and I knew something was wrong. He told me he didn'...

Is it time for me to leave this marriage? He frequently accuses me of cheating.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3209 days ago

5 July 2015 (F) - I came to visit my daughter in another state for 4 days. My husband is sending me text messages saying that I'm out here messing around and he is done with me, all because he called my phone, and I didn't answer. He called my daughter and she...

Why my ex remodel the house exactly as I'd always wanted, but he never did it until after I left him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3213 days ago

2 July 2015 (F) - I got divorce last year, it was my idea. My ex didn't take it well and basically dragged me trough hell with himself. I see him regularly because we have a 7 years old daughter. He is still hurt and he and his family did their best to destroy me a...

My husband doesn't seem invested in our lives. How can I get him to open up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3210 days ago

1 July 2015 (F) - My husband seems like he is not invested in our marriage. He is very quiet lately, we do not have conversations other than all the mundane things. He does not ask questions to extend the conversation. He never talks about his dreams, or things he ...