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Archived questions from: September, 2014 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Is my husband of 20 years getting ready to have another affair?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - my husband has contacted an old flame on facebook said he has been very happy with me, but after 20 years things are not what they used to be. He told this person he has been searching for her for 20 years and has never been so happy to see anyo...

After we married I found out she'd been a call girl

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

29 September 2014 (M) - A year and half ago i happen to know a girl through her relative. She was living in Singapore and i was living in UK. But we both were from Nepal(asian country). She was there since she was 8 or 9 living with her parents and two siblings. Her ...

We've lost our mojo. He's no longer affectionate. How can we revitalise our 13 year marriage? .

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

29 September 2014 (F) - Hi Cupid. I have a relationship question. My husband isn't very affectionate and is embarrassed my romantic gestures even when I make them. We have been married for 13 years and I feel like we've lost our mojo so to speak. Couples counsel...

I have a higher libido than my husband does, and it's starting to frustrate me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

28 September 2014 (F) - I have been married for about five years. I seem to have a higher libido than my husband does. I am really beginning to feel the frustration of him not being in the mood as much as I am. Of course I can please myself and often do, but it is so ...

How can I possibly introduce my husband to a man who tried it on with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

27 September 2014 (F) - So I am in a predicament and I don't know what to do. About six months ago, I had a row with my husband and went out to my friends party and got really drunk. My friend's husbands rather ugly best friend was at the party, he was really drunk too and ...

Am I wrong for apologizing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

25 September 2014 (F) - I was recently at a high school sporting event and my spouse was going berserk! Shouting, pacing back and forth, yelling at the opposing team parents. He wouldn't settle down and I got upset and yelled GD SIT DOWN!. The next day on facebook, oh ...

Why is my husband so insecure about his size?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

25 September 2014 (F) - My husband and I have great sex but he still thinks he is too small. It is a tight fit and I have to be really turned on in order for it to be comfortable. Even more so now that I am pregnant, my third baby his first. He cums really fast most of the ...

My husband supports his grown children more than us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

25 September 2014 (F) - I have married to this man for 22 years and we have no children together but he seems to support them first rather then our home and things get put back. Am I wrong for being mad about this.plus his grown daughter has a job and a child of her own ...

Is it normal to express interest in other people as a married couple?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

24 September 2014 (F) - Is it normal to express interest in other people as a married couple? My husband, who has always been faithful to me recently confessed that he 'liked' another woman he and I both knew several years ago. He had always denied it, but recently he ...

Marriage and threesomes..need advice!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

22 September 2014 (M) - I need your opinion. My wife and I have been married for almost 5 years. I have always wanted to try anal and never have with any woman. I have always had this fantasy and had played with her asshole before which she loved, but the last time we ...

Wife's reaction to my financial problems has left me cold. I supported her decisions!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

22 September 2014 (M) - Hi everyone, I have been happily married for two years now. I love my wife dearly and we have a beautiful 1 year old boy. I am nearly 50 and she is just over 40. We knew we had some baggage when we came into the relationship, most of which was ...

My Russian wife has been watching Russian tv and I think she has become brainwashed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3507 days ago

19 September 2014 (M) - My wife left Russia some thirty years ago and travelled the world. She was a great conversationalist and worldly wise. Then she discovered Russia Television ( RT )on our TV. Now she watches it for most of the day and seems to be becoming brain ...

Did I really love him? We are now divorcing. Why don't I feel worse? I'm not crying over this breakup.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3508 days ago

18 September 2014 (F) - 6 months ago I thought I married my best friend and love of my life. We were together for 3 years, lived together for the last 2. It was practically love at first sight! We waited to have sex for the first time. Even our first kiss took time, li...

16 years of marriage and I've lost the spark for my wife. How can I get it back?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

18 September 2014 (M) - We have been married for 16 years, four kids, financially stable...I have never cheated. I don't think she has ever cheated. This has been building for some time now: when I look at her, there is just no sexual spark. It's gotten to the point where ...

My husband wants sex every day and I'm afraid it will destroy our marriage!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3509 days ago

17 September 2014 (F) - I feel that sex is going to destroy my marriage. We've been married 3 years, together 6. In the beginning we would have sex every day, sometimes twice or more a day, quite healthy, occasionally somewhat adventurous sex. 6 years on, a big mortgage, ...

Is is possible for a married woman to turn into a lesbian?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3509 days ago

17 September 2014 (M) - I am married for 7 years. Lately I shared some lesbian porn with my wife and my wife found out that it really turns me on. My wife after a day or two asks me if I would want her to become a lesbian, but with a condition that once she gets into girls ...

Why would an apparently happily married person claim that they are in a "complicated" relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3509 days ago

16 September 2014 (F) - When somebody puts on facebook that they are in a complicated relationship, but they still live together, go to family gatherings together. What does it really mean? Obviously they are still going out as couple but is it that they are having p...

We are in an affectionless marriage! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3510 days ago

16 September 2014 (F) - Hi I am new to the board and am in an affectionless marriage. We have been married 14 years, 3 kids. We met, moved in together and got married within a year. We used to not be able to get enough of each other, now it feels like we are nothing more ...

Is it too late to tell her that I don't think I'm ready?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3510 days ago

15 September 2014 (M) - it's 4am and i have not slept yet. i think i am anxious. Here is my reason: i have dated my girlfriend for almost 2 years now. i am 98% sure i want to settle down with her and for this the reason, i asked her to move in with me when she got post...

How do I change the feelings of indifference toward my husband? Is it just a slump? Or have I fallen out of love with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3511 days ago

14 September 2014 (F) - Hey Aunts and Uncles, I am in desperate need of advice. I have started to become indifferent toward my husband. He works a lot. 5 days a week from 530am-5pm. Right now hes also remodeling a house so hes gone all weekend. Right now we only have one ...

My wife wants a bi sexual thing and has no idea I know it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3513 days ago

12 September 2014 (M) - I've been good friends with a married couple for many years. I knew her well long before he came into her life and before I knew my wife. My wife and her developed a close friendship which I didn't mind at all. This woman told me my wife is bi ...

How to be a friend to someone you still love (or like) but have to forget?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

12 September 2014 (F) - I have this whirlwind "romance" with a co-worker I've only known for two months. It started out as being polite. He's a new staff, I'm old and so I started to show him the ropes. He would say how smart I was etc. After seeing how I work. I would ...

If I leave my wife it will be for the right reasons, but it would be a comfort to know this friend is out there

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

12 September 2014 (M) - I have read many questions of women wondering if they should date a man after he divorces if he shows interest in you before he actually divorced. This may be long to explain, so I will try to be as brief as possible as this question is from the ...

My husband loves me but I no longer feel the same for him

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3513 days ago

11 September 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid. I told my husband I'm no longer in love with him. We have been married for 11 years. I have lost total interest in him. He is so hurt by this that I am willing to work things out. I care for his well being tremendously. He is ...

Am I too much of an oppressing person? Am I asking too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

11 September 2014 (F) - Been married for 14 now first 10 were great, seems like I was living in a dream, but I had to wake up when he started getting aggressive, crazy, spacing out, staying out for long or wanting me to go for a few days with my family; my son 6then comes ...

He wants a baby but isn't doing what's necessary to get one

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3518 days ago

7 September 2014 (F) - My husband has never had a high sex drive, but when we first got together he would always be willing whenever I wanted to, and he always enjoyed it. Now I'm lucky if I can get him to have sex with me any time after 9pm and never just because we want ...

When we spend time in his country I'm basically an afterthought

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3518 days ago

7 September 2014 (F) - My husband and I have grown apart. When we are together traveling (which we do frequently) or even staying in my country we get along great. We spend time together and have dates, watch movies, exercise together, make love and generally get along ...

I feel totally invisible, old and worthless in my husband's eyes

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3518 days ago

7 September 2014 (F) - I would like to ask others how often it is normal for a husband to notice a wife appearance when she dresses nicely to go out or pay a compliment in a marriage. We have been married 15 years and I never remember my husband really doing this . I ...

He wants to meet me but he is still married!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3518 days ago

7 September 2014 (F) - the answer to the question why stay is because , part of me believed in him. Part is sooo scared to find out the truth. he is in the military and he lives separately from his wife because of the constant arguments. He left the city where he used to ...

Do I share my money?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3518 days ago

6 September 2014 (F) - I recently asked a question about being married and my husband being not rich. He works really hard to provide for me and and our child. I have 30,000 pounds in savings. I haven't mentioned it to my husband as this was before we got married,...

After 17 years I think he's cheating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3520 days ago

6 September 2014 (F) - Hi, thank you in advance for reading this.... Ive known for a while nowmy husband has been doing some serious facebook flirting, recently though i think he has went a step further and met up with someone. This has completely devastated me because ...

It seems clear that my husband wants something I can't give him and nothing will change

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3519 days ago

5 September 2014 (F) - My husband of 15 years and I are currently seperated . A large part of the reason for the separation was his lusting after other women and porn use. He never complimented me . I felt undesirable and very unhappy. We even went through counselling ...

Should I Start To Pay?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

5 September 2014 (F) - Hi I am married and my husband is not so rich. He works really hard to provide for me and and our child. Money is a hardship for him. However I have 30,000 pounds in savings. I haven't mentioned it to my husband as this was before we got mar...

Can't get past the hurt from his cheating

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3521 days ago

5 September 2014 (F) - I found out 4 years ago my husband had a 6 year affair with a ex-girlfiend,we have been married for 29 years,i found out he sent money,gifts,she live in another state,when I confronted him about the imformation I had before me,he begin to cry and ...

I'm in a high-risk pregnancy and he wants me to start earning?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3521 days ago

4 September 2014 (F) - I have been married for 2 years,I had thought happily. After we got married, my contract terminated for my job. All very stressful but we started trying for a baby straight away. Well the upshot is that all was okay with me but there were male ...

I hate my husband and in laws!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3521 days ago

4 September 2014 (F) - Hi, I'm new here and hoping to get some advice. I am married for 1.5 years now and have a 2 month old son who I absolutely love and adore. However, I feel like I have started to hate my husband. He completely changed after we got married and star...

She wrote me this letter about her marriage. Should I forget about her and find someone who is single?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

4 September 2014 (M) - This may be long enough but i'll try to keep it short and simple. I liked her from school. Never talked to her i was a shyguy. After college we meet on facebook. We started talking. Even she had feelings for me since school. The point now is that ...

Re-precautions of being a Turkish husband wanting to divorce wife with one child?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

3 September 2014 (F) - Please anyone out there who could answer this question. What would be the reason as why a man with a child who claims to be separated from his wife, still wants to stay married to his estranged wife? He is of Turkish background. His excuse is ...

My husband looks down on me because I'm a housewife and he puts himself on a pedestal because he is the sole bread winner

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1597 days ago

3 September 2014 (F) - I do everything I can to be a positive uplifting person for my husband. I Build him up always say I love you first and I am the affectionate one. He can be affectionate but only on his terms. I can never do enough to please him he is always ...

My Husband Reads Erotic literature

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

2 September 2014 (F) - I just happened to see my husband's browsing history while searching for a file . He seems to be reading erotic stories involving incest between mother and son .. This is the second time I ve seen him read this topic of erotic literature .. The ...

My wife is changing and starting to look elsewhere. Do I go along with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

2 September 2014 (M) - I enjoyed a wonderful loving relationship with my common law wife for 15 years. We always gave each other the impression that we were the only ones for each other. We never married, both figuring if it ain't broken, don't fix it. I gave her a ring ...

I cheated on my wife and she won't forgive me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

2 September 2014 (M) - Hello, everyone. This is my first time here. I would like some advice please. Ive been through hell for the past 2 weeks. I cheated on my wife. the worst mistake I could have ever make. My lovely beautiful loving wife, mother of my children. So ...

Please advice me on how to make the separation and divorce as painless as possible for my son

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

1 September 2014 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles. Ive been married for 5 years. My husband cheated on me. He doesnt know why. To be honest Internet dont wanna hear it either. Maybe life was too perfect and he got bored. His own fault. He sleeps in the guest room until I can ...