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Archived questions from: December, 2015 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Husband doesn't please me anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - Hello! I have been married three years and I hate my sex life. Back in the days we used to have sex every day or so and I loved it- though i never orgasmed. Now I just got bored. Told my hubby I need oral to get off and he said it's not his thing. ...

Husband's left for Pakistan. I'm in a terrible dilemma

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - My husband has decided to return to Pakistan, I know he does miss his country. He knows I do not really want to go there as I am not a family person and he has a large family. He has basically told me that if I do not go with him then he will get...

Lost virginity may wreck upcoming marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - I am from Nigeria. and i want to become a virgin again. I don't know if you can help me with what wil make me to become a virgin again? My wedding is coming up and don't want my husband to be mad at me. Please do help me. I do want your reply as ...

Is there something going on between my son's girlfriend and my husband?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

24 December 2015 (F) - Son has been with his girlfriend 2 years, had to go in hospital for a couple of days, my husband said give her his number so she can text him to see how hes getting on which she did then recently She sent our son a message on face book to say she ...

Do I stay with my wife or go off with my soul mate?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

23 December 2015 (M) - My question is should I stay with my wife and have a routine life or go and be with someone who I believe is my soulmate. I have tried hard to make my marriage work and my wife is a very decent person but I feel as though I am living with a sister ...

I don't trust my husband and wish that I had the guts to leave him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

23 December 2015 (F) - Hubby said I should take notice and get sexy knickers like our daughter. We were talking about buying something else to get her for xmas and he said about underwear, I said I think she wears sexy ones because she gets them from a catalogue so not ...

Will going on vacation alone doom our marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

22 December 2015 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles ;) I am 35 year old teacher from Europe- happily married and with no kids. In summer I get to have a month off school. I have been in love with NYC ever since I was a kid and have been going there quite frequently since...

I think my husband sees me as a boring woman now that I have had a baby

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

22 December 2015 (F) - Hi I been with my husband for 4 years and married for 2 years. Everything was amazing till we had a baby together. He is helpful and great in every way but we don't spend time together like we use too. Now I'm a full time mum and he comes home late. ...

A volatile relationship at it's end. Can you offer advice on how I go forward ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3049 days ago

21 December 2015 (F) - Hello I have been in a bad relationship since I was 16 years old. Pregnant at 19 and now 11 years later. 3 kids. A house. I have myself a good job. I have always supported him financially. He hasnt work since our oldest now 8 was one year old. He...

Dating has changed since I was last on the scene.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3050 days ago

20 December 2015 (F) - I am recently seperated after 18 years (still married and wearing wedding ring) and been going out more so my question is 3 part... 1) what do men think of a lone woman sitting in a bar? Sad? Desperate? Prey? Easy? 2) A man bought me a beer a...

My master manipulator sister is ruining our wedding plans and our life. Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3055 days ago

15 December 2015 (F) - My sister is a master manipulator. Over the past year, since getting engaged, not only has she tried to get money out of me for stuff we borrowed, as well as bringing money for family suppers (instead of food), but she also has tried to interfere or ...

He's open but I don't like what I hear

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3056 days ago

14 December 2015 (F) - My hubby keeps it all the way 100 with me - very open and tells me everything. I feel lucky but now I'm beginning to feel like I'm not comfortable with his openness as it is not making me feel good. How can a man be this open with his spouse a...

Is the first year of marriage this tough? I feel like I am failing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3053 days ago

14 December 2015 (F) - I'm 7 mths into my marriage and feel like I'm failing. My expectations for the kind of marriage i want is gone and i need your help seasoned couples. Something is wrong and i need to fix it. First i need to know if im tripping about what i consi...

Six months ago my wife started rejecting me sexually. What's going on? Now she masterbates multiple times a weeek

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3055 days ago

13 December 2015 (M) - We have been married twenty year and always had a good sex life so my wife says. Then six months ago she rejected my advances, and started masturbating next to me in bed at night when she thinks I am a sleep. She has always made plenty of no...

Without foreplay I feel pain if my husband attempts intercourse without foreplay. How can I make him understand? I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3053 days ago

13 December 2015 (F) - I am recently married to my boyfriend of 10 years. We never had sex in these years,only physical intimacy/foreplay. now after marriage he just wants sex, he cant wait for 15-20 minutes of foreplay before sex. foreplay is important to me because ...

How do I address the lack of sex and intimacy in our marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3055 days ago

11 December 2015 (M) - So I am living in a situation and I will give as much detail as possible so everyone will know how to address it and thank you beforehand I will appreciate the advice. Me and my wife have been married for almost 4 years in fact it will be 4 yea...

How do I approach his relationship with the nanny?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3060 days ago

10 December 2015 (F) - After our second year of marriage, I went back to work after the birth of our child. With the both of us at work, we decided to hire a nanny. The nanny who was fresh out of college at the time, is an attractive girl but I never cared because ...

I love my husband but will he actually change and put his family as a priority?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3060 days ago

9 December 2015 (F) - hello, not sure how to start but im desperate for some advice...... im in my 20's married to an squaddie (army) we been married two years and in those two years have moved around 3 times with the army. I have a 6year old from a previous ...

Two children and a home together breaking down over a kiss. Something doesn't add up. Should I still meet him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3062 days ago

8 December 2015 (F) - A guy of 40 I'm chatting to online lost everything in his divorce. He said he kissed his wife's best friend and that her friend was jealous of their relationship. His wife of 10 years never trusted him again. To me this sounds a bit far fetched. Two ...

My husband said I'm not as tight down there as the other girls he's been with

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3061 days ago

8 December 2015 (F) - I recently got married and it's my first time losing my virginity to my guy , we have had sex a couple of times and his complaining about that I'm loose down there and he doesn't enjoy sex with me he said his been with other girls before me and it ...

My husband was addicted to porn and it has ruined our relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3062 days ago

7 December 2015 (F) - I am 29, I have 3 children and with my husband 11 years, married nearly 3 years. My relationship has been hell for nearly 3 years. It all started when my husband got a private lap dance on his stag night. I know it sounds relatively minor...

Should I confess all to my husband or should I not?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3057 days ago

7 December 2015 (F) - I really need some advise without being judged because my guilt is turning into depression and I really don't know what to do at this point.I cheated on my husband with our neighbor. It all stems from a few months ago when my husband and I we...

How to leave an abusive husband, when you have no friends, no family, work overtime and earn below bare minimum?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3061 days ago

6 December 2015 (F) - I know that Tolstoy said that every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way, but I really think that my case is not that much different and that it is enough if I say that I live with an abusive husband who was not like that when we started going ...

What does it mean, that he lied about where he'd been and then had trouble with keeping it up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3059 days ago

6 December 2015 (F) - My husband usually doesn't have a problem keeping it up or cunning. He always watches open and today lies about where he went and tonight he couldn't keep it up nor could he cum. What does this mean and what should I do? ...

My husband doesn't want me and yet he's convinced I'm getting it elsewhere

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3063 days ago

6 December 2015 (F) - Thanks in advance for replying, should you choose to do so. This is long and strange and sounds more dramatic than it probably is, due to my natural inclination to ramble on. Here's a bit of background: I have been struggling with extra weigh...

He says he's addicted to porn. To me porn is a betrayal. What can we do to resolve our difficulties?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3063 days ago

5 December 2015 (F) - How do I get over the fact that my husband continuously watches porn and saves pictures of it on his phone? In the past, porn has been an issue before do to them not wanting to have intercourse with me. My insecurities really do eat me alive f...

Am I a whore for cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3061 days ago

4 December 2015 (F) - I never thought I would be writing this story. I was a woman with integrity, morals and despite being treated like crap over the years by my selfish alcoholic husband, would never cheat on him..and then about a year ago when things were at the ...

He broke a cup I gave him, but has chosen to not replace it. Should I let this upset me so much?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3065 days ago

3 December 2015 (F) - I bought my hubby a cup with the words, love you more then shoes on it. He accidently broke it and said he would get another but he still hasnt. it hurts me that he hasnt replaced it and it shows he doesnt care. I've reminded him to get it and s...

Am I right to be suspicious of this woman

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3066 days ago

2 December 2015 (F) - My partner was working on a woman's house last week and is now doing some (more) work for her. His brother was meant to be helping on the job, but he says he's doing it on his own now. Her number was on the phone but not saved. He said he topped up ...