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Archived questions from: April, 2008 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

How can I stop my Husband beating me?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 79 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - How do I stop my husband from beating me all the time? ...

I have a gut feeling my husband has cheated on me before, has he?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I have this gut feeling that my husband cheated on me in the past. We were having problems, he walked out on our less than a year marriage, said he lost all interest in everything and need to get away for awhile. He moved in with friends of his ...

I can't imagine leaving my family and mainly my son, but I desperately want to be with this other woman-Can I have advice please?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - I have been married for the past 9 years and, like many others I'm sure, the past few years have been rocky ones. I have always done everything in my power to make my wife happy. We have moved 3 times to different homes because she wanted bigger ...

Pregnant with twins and just found out husband is cheating on me, I really need some help please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Hi im 7 months pregnant with identical twins and have a 2 year old boy aswell i have just found out tht my husbund is cheating on me. And as been doing so for around 9 months. Im heart broken and i cant look at him or touch him he makes me feel sick ...

He seems to be no longer interested in sex and I am getting a strong impression that he feels that we are a bit past all that !

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 86 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Iam a 53 yr old woman and having relationship problems with my husband of 30 years and it is now to the point where i am having moments of serious anguish.He seems to be no longer interested in sex and I am getting a strong impression that he feels ...

I need an outsiders perspective of family problems disrupting our wedding plans?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - Hi, Me and my fiance are due to get married in July. It's now almost May and she wants to call it off. The problem started when we got engaged. My parents started treating my GF different in a big way. It became a big problem and I became dep...

I don't love my cheating hubby but my secret relationship with my ex is going nowhere!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 87 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I was blissfully married until last year when i bumped into my ex boyfriend who i had left 20years ago when i went to study abroad. He was my first love and his also married but when we meet we get very intimate. He says we are only friends and that ...

Went to a foreign country and slept with 3 male prostitutes. Should I tell my husband?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 55 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I had sex with 3 male prostitutes last week while visiting a foreign country with my female friend. I feel so guilty now, and I want to tell my husband. I know he will most likely leave me though and we have two children, one is just 6 weeks old and ...

Is it normal for men to have a hard time adjusting to married life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - My new husband (under two weeks) is having trouble adjusting to the fact that we are married. I am trying my best to be gentle and understanding, patient and kind, but sometimes he can become a bit abusive. He always apologises, and I do believe ...

Torn between my wife/family loyalties and my new love-help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - I am in a terrible situation. Ive been married 30 years, 3 kids. The marriage was not good, as my wife has a medical condition that causes severe anger. I was tempted to go many times, but could not leave my kids to her (un)tender mercies. I never ...

The bomb my wife has dropped on me was her telling me that she is not sure she is still in love with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - My wife and I are working out our problems in our marriage. The bomb that she dropped on me was her telling me that she is not sure she is still in love with me, but she still shows me affection, and we still are very intimate. Is she confused or ...

He will never offer help if I am struggling as a result I'm feeling very insecure!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - My husband have been together for 20 years, married for 17. I am not sure how to fix things. He is agood guy, but seldom shows any care or concern. My whole life is set up around him and the kids and I love it I like to care for them and to take ...

I want to trust my husband but I don't think he cares if he loses me or not!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I have been married for slightly over a year and into our 4th month of marriage I found a text where my husband is saying he is thinking about some other girl. I asked that he stop talking to her and he didn't. Then once again I asked and he did ...

Sex chatting on the internet to chat to men, is this cheating my husband?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - help me..i have a good husband, my problem is i have a high sex drive and i have turned to sex chatting on the internet to chat to men. Is this cheating, what is wrong with me,i feel guilty afterwards, i just so frustrated. Anytime i want sex with...

Chastity before marriage is still demanded in our country, and I lost mine to the wrong man, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 65 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I need help. a year and half ago I met this guy. He was from another country and 25 years older than me. He was divorced with kids. He was an alcoholic.I saved his life when he relapsed.He pursed me for months. I finally gave him my heart and lost ...

Should I tolerate his porn watching based on the fact it is harmless visual pleasure compared to actual cheating? Your thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 80 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Girls, here's one for you, or maybe I should be asking the boys, cus maybe they just might understand better. Anyway this is it. My husband has a thing for porn. At first I wasn't happy about it because it was all done in secret, and when I trie...

Can I really move on from this betrayal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - My husband (then 32) and I (then 35) met 5 years ago when he was at a very low point in his life and had recently left his mentally and physically abusive first wife. It really was love at first sight for both of us and we have had what I thought ...

Why is my new husband giving me the cold shoulder?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I just got married a few months ago, but things are not going very well. Before marriage my husband talked to me for hours on the phone and would often come and visit me (we lived in 2 different states then). Now he barely speaks to me. We never ...

I discovered my wife's embarrassing history! What now?!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - I discovered recently that my wife worked as a high-priced prostitute, two years prior to our meeting. She was desperate for money at the time. She says she's been thoroughly tested and does not have any communicable diseases. Further, she deeply ...

This girl keeps contacting my husband! How can I get it to stop?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 84 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Me and my husband have been married for 6 years and this year i found out that he had been talking to a girl for about 6 months. He says nothing hapened and so does she, but now she wont stop calling him and i am scared that as soon as i let my ...

Husband watches porn, no matter how I dress or what I do sexually I cannot receive his attention!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 89 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 5 years this summer, but together for 7 and we have 3 and one on the way. He wont quit looking at the porn and he has even saved pics of these women on his side and added them as an avatar on a game he plays. ...

Is it possible for her to disconnect from our relationship without her cheating on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 7 years and together since highschool for a total of being exclusive to each other for 13 years. We have two gorgeous children, my little girl is 3 and my precious son just turned 1. 7 months or so after my son ...

Why doesn't my husband get turned on unless he touches himself? He doesn't respond normally to sex!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - After the initial honeymoon first six months of sex, my husband of 2 years has never been hungry for sex or had a high sex drive. It has bothered me hugely as I love sex and believed he did at first. As time has progressed, it has got fewer and ...

How can I get more sex from my wife or get her to bring up kids without having to talk to her about it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 84 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Hi I've been married for nearly over 5 years and my marriage seems to be going downhill really fast. Its been nearly over a year since we had sex and she's alway putting it off with some excuse or another. The other thing that worries me is th...

I feel trapped in this marriage. But don't want to hurt his feelings so what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I married my husband thinking he is a man I can live with and lead a confortable life. When I was young I used to secretly love a friend who always considered himself just a friend. I had hopes until he got married with somebody else. I never fel ...

Why, if a girl pursues a married man, does he fall into it? Why keep responding to her emails?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 89 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I know guys have their particular way of doing things. Now see this case. A girl has started to email this guy, first as a friend, they met earlier in a business trip, they went diff ways. He replies right back at her , but it turns out the man is m...

What do I do about husbands sexy texts to a work collegue?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 86 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - I have been happily married for 16 years with no cheating thet i know of. My husbadns phone beeped the other day and i lokked at it ( i know bad move!). Was message from a friend of ours all good. I looked in his out box and saw a message sent to ...

I'm worried my husband-to-be finds out my hymen has been broken, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - hi, i broke my hyman whilst dancing. i know this because i found out when i saw blood and felt pain too. im getting married soon n im very worried.will my husband be able to find out. i mean will he able to 'feel' that i dont have hyman.....please ...

I miss my wife. I just do not know what to do!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 83 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - My wife has told me that she wants to separate and get a divorce. This came after many years of emotional abuse from my bipolar disorder. This is now no longer a problem due to accepting Jesus back into my heart and medication. During our last ...

What if my husband doesn't give me time ,so I again bump into someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 88 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - hi guys .wud like to keep it as short as possible.i am 19 yrs dating this guy(28yrs)for 1 yr now. I love him and he has been loyal to me but we never had satisfied relationship.we both live in two differnt cities and last we met was 3 months...

I have cheated on my husband...and let down my best friend...by sleeping with guy she likes...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 73 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - Ok, I will try to make this short, however it is not easy story is quite difficult to descibe in short sentences:) All started when I have first time cheated on my with my colleague. It almost came out, but somewhow I managed to glaze it out and...

Please someone help. Because I'm out of ideas on how to get her to do the sex stuff I want!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 90 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - Big time marriage problems I'm sort of in a bind. I'm 27 now, and shes 26. I married a nice girl after dating for about 15 months. Before that she had no sexual experience at all. We have been married a year and nothing has improved. We ...

Should I have affair with the hot 21 year-old or stay faithfull to my wife who has recently gone off sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - I will make this short and sweet.My wife and i have not had sexx in over three months and all we do is work come home eat and go to bed with some ammenities in between.We work at the same place but we don't see ach other till the end of the day. ...

My husband's porn watching has put me in a deep depression, someone help me understand why?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 63 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - I have been married for 5 1/2 years when I discovered my husband was watching a lot of porn. It started when I woke up one night and saw my husband walking to the bathroom with our lap top. He said he had to go to the bathroom but then put the ...

Found out my ex-girlfreind was a swinger and had an open marriage before me. Too much drama for me, what'd you do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - First off my ex-wife and i both agreed that we would never bring any other person into our bedroom, no threesomes, foursomes, gangbangs or any other thing like that. We are both too jealous to do that I guess, but i know everybody on here has the ...

Getting Married... but it doesn't feel equal, Is it right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 91 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - I am 20 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 3 and a halfs years. This past December he asked me to marry him. It wasn't that romantic kinda one every girl deserves... just more like well... we should. You want to. Were happy sometimes ...

My wife is not at all interested in sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 91 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - i got married 2 years ago since then i can count the number of times me and mt wife had sex. My wife is not at all interested in sex. She is a doctor too. One day she told she saw her relative having an affair and th next day that relative suicided ...

Not sure what to do... my husband had a 1 year affair.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 91 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - I don't know what to do..my husband had a year long affair and a close connection with the other woman. I found out through his phone - lots of text messages and he confessed. He immediately stopped all contact with her and is extremely remorseful. ...

My wife does not get pleasure with lovemaking. Any tips or advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 91 days ago

26 April 2008 (M) - I got married 1.5 yr back.My height is 5.8 Ft and my wife is 5.5 Ft and having a 5.5month old baby.My penis size is 5 inches and slightly bent towards left.I experienced that my wife didnot get pleasure at the time of lovemaking. Only she get litl...

Should I attempt to save the marriage or get out now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 92 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - My husband had an emotional affair with his personal trainer. He claims they were just good friends but she had a key to his apt., and there were many texts and calls over a period of several months. Should I attempt to save the marriage or get out ...

Is his porn wathching affecting our sex life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 84 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - Our sex life is not normal. I initiate sex 100% of the time, and he does it when he knows it's about time or I will be crying from the lack of sex. He does not cum unless he is back from a business trip. If it was up to him we'd probably have sex ...

Is this 10 year relationship an affair in disguise or just a friendship? Any thoughts?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 91 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - ten yrs ago i fell deeply in love with "m". m broke the relationship off after six months for reasons i didn't understand. i all but stalked "m" to try and get him back with no such luck. after about 6 months, i met a great guy who was wonderful to ...

How do I know if she had sex with him before we married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 90 days ago

25 April 2008 (M) - sir actaually i got married six months before.before to marriege my fiance told me one day that she was a relationship with a boy and they were only best friends not more then that.now their relation is broke up. i was not having any problem on this ...

His run up our bill from sex text lines, but it's never his fault! Is it the end of the road for us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 92 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - my fella and i have been together for 6 years, married for 3. during that time, he has run up huge phone bills to sex txt lines, had txt sex with women that he has met in his working day, had pics of a close family member on his phone and pics of ...

Don't marry her marry me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 91 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - pls help me,am in love with a sweet guy who is engaged and supposed to marry another girl in 4months,since he met me(about 3months ago) he told me he wants to leave his fiancee cos he likes me more,i can add value to his life and am from his ...

Save my pride or lose this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 92 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I been dated for 2 yrs, we always talk abt getting married but he didn't propose even I told him I wish to settle down. He put all his priority to his career so he didn't propose even few mths later, when i wanted to breakup with ...

She was dry with me but wet when she came back from work-is she cheating on me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 90 days ago

25 April 2008 (M) - My wife and i have past 2days we had sex she dry before start and then she went to work when she come back when I feel her she was wet as she just finished having sex or may be cheatin...

Are all relationships this boring when there's more time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 92 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - Hi, help please. I'm married to a really nice man. Up until now he has worked really long shifts and we only got to see each other for a very short time every day, (just about half an hour) and then he had one day a week off, which was a really ...

How do I cope with husband's crush on his pictures of a model?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 92 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been together 11 years. We are young "under 30" and he hides the fact that he looks at porn. He doesnt watch porn and wont watch a porn with me but goes behind my back and looks up this one specific model with big breasts ...

Should she play sex games or find true love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 92 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - I have a friend who is the most sensual woman I have met (I'd do her) :) She's hot and passionate and when we go dancing she always gets hit on since she knows how to move. Now, the problem is her husband won't have any of it. He doesn't seem to ...