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Archived questions from: June, 2006 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

When I married my husband I knew I wasn't really attracted to his looks, Now theres this guy from the gym whose perfect!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 738 days ago

30 June 2006 (F) - Please help me I am ina real dilemma. I got married 8 months ago to a really caring nice man who is 8 years younger than me, but I will be truthful, he has never been my ideal man looks wise although I find him attractive but we have always got ...

I know about my wife's affair, but she doesn't know I know...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 741 days ago

28 June 2006 (M) - I found out about 2 weeks ago that my wife had an affair. It was about 10 years ago (we were married at that time) and lasted for 6 weeks. I know for sure there has been no other affair since. However, although I know for sure it finished after 6 ...

My husband don't have an interest in sex with me, just actresses on the computer...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 727 days ago

28 June 2006 (F) - we have been married for 3 years,my husband is no longer interested in having sex with me but i have found that he has been looking at pornography on quite a few occasions,he has admitted that he searches the net for particular actresses and then ...

My wife of 20 years says she loves me but doesn't fancy me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 678 days ago

27 June 2006 (M) - My wife loves me very much but she doesnt fancy me at all. We have been together for 20 years, sex has been great until 2 years ago. In that time we have had sex just twice and I don't know if she likes it. She is 40 and I am 38 i'm getting so ...

How do I tell my husband: "It's over"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 742 days ago

27 June 2006 (F) - Hello! Please some help! How can I tell my husband that I can´t go on with him anymore? He doesn´t want to hear about getting divorce nor to attend a marriage counselor. I am not happy with him and after 10 years of marriage I am feed up of ...

Feeling depressed and having marriage problems!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 400 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - A have a big problem that maybe someone can give me advice! I have been married for 10 years and it seems that my life together with my husband is not going anywhere. I am now suffering of depression and sadness. Since 2002 we have been renting a ...

Not interested in my husband any longer and I've had a series of affairs. Why am I doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 743 days ago

26 June 2006 (F) - My husband and I have been married for almost seven years now. In the beginning I was blissfully happy, and the turning point was the day I lost my father, very suddenly. Ever since then, I've repeatedly cheated on my husband, not for sex, but I've...

This counsellor isn't helping our marital problems, so would choosing another one help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 743 days ago

25 June 2006 (M) - My wife and I are seperated, but going to counselling to try to sort things out. She has found the last two sessions very upsetting, and will not go back to that counsellor. The upsets are more to do with herself,(ie how she sees things/reacts to ...

My wife wants to be alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 744 days ago

25 June 2006 (M) - Try to keep it short..my wife of 10 years all of a sudden tells me she wants to be alone.It came as a shock to me as I thought things were getting better between us (some rough patches) she feels she needs time to discover herself and does not want ...

What shall I do about my marriage???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 63 days ago

25 June 2006 (F) - I have been married for 7 years and we have split up twice as I feel that we want different things from life. We are now trying again for the 3rd time. We have a lovely house together, 2 dogs (no children) and my husband is trying really hard to ...

My husband looks at porn and has a female friend from college

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

24 June 2006 (F) - my husband of 3 years started going onto porn sites about 6 months ago - some of which were teenage porn sites, which disturbed me as i have a 13yr old daughter (he is her step dad) he was also having online chats with the porn women on a stumble ...

Married but met someone else, stay or leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 743 days ago

24 June 2006 (F) - Ive been with my husband for 12 years, married for 7. Things were fine until my father committed suicide 5 years ago, and cracks began to show in our marriage. We separated twice, and have recently got back together to give it one last try. Finally ...

Hubby like to view pics of other men in underwear! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 745 days ago

24 June 2006 (F) - I'm 29 and my husband is 28. Recently he's become obsessed with pictures of male underwear models, even blatantly looking at them on the PC. I asked him why he did this, but he said it's just a personal thing. He also insisted he wasn't gay. ...

My husband has been posting his details on dating websites!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 741 days ago

24 June 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid Please help me. I am 39 years old and have been married for 11 years but have been with my husband for almost 19 years, since university. We have 3 lovely boys. We have always been - I thought - very much in love and very happy, the ...

I cannot stop thinking about my high school sweetheart

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 746 days ago

23 June 2006 (F) - In high school I dated a guy for 3 yrs. I broke up with him thinking that he probably was not the one. We remained friends and kept in touch throughout the years. During my first marriage, which only lasted 1 yr., he had moved to another state. ...

We had a baby and our sex life has disappeared

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 745 days ago

23 June 2006 (M) - i love my wife like crazy, but we have had our first child and because we have been dedicated to raising our child and focusing on her all this time we hardly get intimate anymore . Now she is a year old , the problem is that we have hardly made ...

Why do western women hate their mother in laws?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 305 days ago

23 June 2006 (F) - Why do western women hate it when their husband is close to his mother? Isn't that selfish? How can you hate the women who brought him into the world and raised him?...

Been married for a year but am starting to lose interest in this marriage! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 728 days ago

23 June 2006 (F) - Should I leave my husband? I have been married for a year. I have started to lose interest in this marriage and I don't know what to do. We hardly make love. He has a low sex-drive and we hardly make out once a week. That's not healthy for a...

Married for 8 years to a man I love as a "friend".. now I find that my first true love has divorced and is asking after me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - I have been married for 8 years now. I love my husband in the way you would love a very deer fried, but we have two children so I have tried to stick it out. But lately I have been thinking alot about my ex who was and still is my true love. I have ...

I'm 40, my marriage is a failure and I actually hate my husband..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 743 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - I'm 40. My marriage is a failure. I am unable to enjoy sex with my husband. He just wont hear of a divorce. He wants me to change to his ways. I have been trying to make him happy for the past 15 long years but now I feel fed up with him and with ...

What clues would suggest my husband might be gay?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 658 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - Are there signs that could tell me if my husband is gay?...

I'm married but I'm considering this other guy may make a good, potential f**kbuddy..

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 742 days ago

22 June 2006 (F) - I thought this 28yrs old guy at work was very attractive and i knew he was in a serious relationship for the last 3 years. I am 35 yrs and married for 16 years and have 3 kids. We talk alot at work because what we do we need to be in contact alot. ...

Its hard to leave my 19 year old lover behind

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 717 days ago

20 June 2006 (M) - I am in love with a 19 yr old girl and she is in love with me (42). We both know that nothing can come from this relationship as she wants children, I cant have any (vasectomy), I am also married. We tried separating but were both unhappy and soon ...

What shall I do about my cheating husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 749 days ago

20 June 2006 (F) - I have a serious problem. my husband who i have been with for 13yrs and married 5yrs. 6yrs. ago then my boyfriend started seeing another woman. he lied to me and said they were only friends and sneaking to see her and getting hotel rooms. he also ...

His past history of cheating makes me unable to trust him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 750 days ago

20 June 2006 (F) - Should I trust him? I've been married to my husband for two years, been together for five. Three months before our wedding I found out he cheated on me three times with a girl he met while working at the bar. I have tried to forgive him but he h...

What's with all this texting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 749 days ago

20 June 2006 (M) - For the past couple of months I've observed my wife ( forty-seven years old) acting supsicious with her cell phone. She always keeps it close to her even when she goes to bed she puts it on the night stand next to her. I've caught her several times ...

I am jealous over my husband, what shall I do???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 749 days ago

19 June 2006 (F) - hello, im 36 been with my husband for 14 years married four months ago, in all we have a good relationship,but i struggle with jealousy to the point i tried to end my life,my jealousy is sparked by his need to look at other woman either i...

I am married but I fancy a man at my gym!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 750 days ago

19 June 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been married for 9 months now to myhusband who I genuinely thought I love. We have been together for 3 years in total. Since we have been together I have always used a local gym and have fancied a guy that attends the gym for ...

Not sure if I love my cheating husband anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 750 days ago

19 June 2006 (F) - hi i hope someone can understand me i have been married for 14 yrs we have children but the last 7 yrs have been hard he cheated on me but i forgave him he finds it easier to talk to other women than me so thats caused problems in the past.he tells ...

My wife changed when she was away and I am worried

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 751 days ago

17 June 2006 (M) - My wife of three years just returned from a month long trip overseas. She went overseas with a University group and had a wonderful time. While there, she discovered that she likes to go to clubs as well as drink. Prior to going, she never wanted ...

I am falling in love with my wife's sister

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

17 June 2006 (M) - Might be falling for my wife's sister... not sure where to go from here I've been married for three years, and I love my wife, but I'm not sure if I've ever been "in love" with my wife (not sure there's a difference, actually). As my wife's yo...

I am about to give birth, my husband has told me that he's not attracted to me and is going to leave me after the birth what do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 751 days ago

16 June 2006 (F) - i am 40 and have been in a loving relationship for 8 yrs. we have a 5yr old girl and i am due today with our second child. my partner has told me over the last month that he feels he has lost any sexual desire for me and that we have become more ...

My husband has arranged a get-together at the holiday home we just built... With everyone but me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 754 days ago

15 June 2006 (F) - my husband and i just finished building a vacation house. I will be going there for the first time in a week. I just found out that he openly offered for any of his co-workers, males and females to go with him to the house in October. I cannot go ...

Having an affair with my husbands friend...how do I end it without cutting all ties?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 755 days ago

14 June 2006 (F) - Hi Guys, how can i stop thinking of being with the man i want but without cutting all ties? We have had a few "encounters" (kisses) together but although things have got close we have never had sex. We both know we shouldn't as i am married to hi...

We are both married & having an affair with each other but he won't text me back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 754 days ago

14 June 2006 (F) - I have been married for 16 years and have 2 children we both had an affair which was a cry for help and tried to patch our marriage but it is very hard to forgive but are for the sake of the kids. I was having another affair with a married ...

He keeps phoning this other woman! Is she just a friend? (long post)

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 754 days ago

14 June 2006 (F) - I need your help!! Just dont know what to do anymore!! I have been with my husband for 9yrs of marriage. I have three step children from his first marriage and two of my own children aged 8years and 5 years. It all started when I had my fi...

Left hubby for another man but not so sure it was the right thing to do...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 752 days ago

14 June 2006 (F) - How do I choose? I recently left my husband of 5 years, after being unhappy for a good part of it. To our family and friends this was a big shock as everyone thought we were happy. I probably would have just kept on plodding along, but had ...

He said he don't like lesbians, but I'm finding out otherwise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 755 days ago

14 June 2006 (F) - i'm really confused, my husband goes on about how he hates lesbians but i later find porn on his conputer of just lesbians and also he has aranged with a female work friend who is bi to join in with us one night. why is he lying like this?? please...

My husband is a selfish pig but I don't want to be a lone parent!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 756 days ago

13 June 2006 (F) - I have been married for 3 years and I have just had our first child. Although it was not a planned pregnancy my husband and I always knew we wanted children so were both delighted when we found out. Shortly after the celebrations died down my ...

My friends husband is abusive to her in every way - how do I help her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 756 days ago

13 June 2006 (F) - I have an age old question for anyone out there that can give good advice. A friend who I have known to be unhappy for a while now finally opened up about her violent and abusive marriage. This man forces her into sex, takes her money, constantly ...

If I leave to get away from his accusations, I'll break up our family!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 331 days ago

11 June 2006 (F) - Should I Leave My Husband And Break Up The Family Unit? When I met my husband it was a bit of a whirlwind romance, I had fallen pregnant, got engaged and bought a house within the 1st year. We married in July 2000 and should be celebrating our 6th ...

I am happily married but I have feelings for someone else!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 79 days ago

10 June 2006 (M) - hi my name is ben and my question is I have been very happily married for 6 years and have known my wife for 8 years and we have a son together, but in the past month I have noticed that I have developed feelings for another women, she is madly in ...

I think my husband prefers the porn sites instead of me....what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 746 days ago

8 June 2006 (F) - I have caught my husband viewing internet porn and confronted him. He said he would stop. That worked for a month and then I caught him again. This in it's self isn't a problem, but we don't have sex as often as I would like. I feel he prefers that ...

No help with the kids, he drinks and smokes and he's moody... No wonder I don't feel like sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 762 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - I have 2 children ages 2 and 8. Why can't a man understand that the sex is not going to be the same after having children? I have had the long sulks, constant aruguments yet not much help with the kids, which would be a great help. But I am usually ...

he left his family for me...but he insists on paying all their bills! The strain is taking it's toll on me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 762 days ago

7 June 2006 (F) - After a 2 and a half year affair, my partner has just left his wife to be with me. However, he insists on paying for all of the bills still in his former house as well as the mortgage and future CSA payments once that's been calculated. He's...

I had sex with my ex, I love him, but I am married

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 763 days ago

6 June 2006 (F) - i am inlove with my exlover but i am married what can i do i had sex with him and i still love him i dont know what to do...

What turns a man on about a women?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 760 days ago

6 June 2006 (F) - Im needing a mans opinion on this, women are welcome. What turns a man on about a woman. Im wanting to spark up my relationship with my husband and I want him to desire me the way he used to when we first started dating. I try to do the things that ...

I think my Dad watches porn on the computer, shall I tell my mother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 764 days ago

5 June 2006 (F) - I have a problem. Today i was looking through the history file to find a website i forgot the address to, but i couldn't find it as i was last on the internet on saturday night. I come on this morning, and find weird addresses in the history that ...

Her past is threatening our future

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 763 days ago

4 June 2006 (M) - I am destroying our marriage. We are not long married and probably should have waited. My wife did not tell me everthing about her past until after we had fallen in love and i has asked her to marry me, I should have realised I could not handle it b...

My husband has got someone pregnant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 765 days ago

3 June 2006 (F) - I have been separated for 11 months. My husband got someone pregnant. He is unsure what to do. He says he has a strong connection with her. Do you have advice for me or him...