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Archived questions from: August, 2006 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

My insecurities are affecting my marriage! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

31 August 2006 (F) - I am very insucure and it is affecting my marriage. it has affected us so much that he sleeps in our sons room now how can i get this under control and get the trust back? i am so afraid that i am going to lose him that i end up pushing him away ...

My wife left me. How can I get her to fall in love with me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

31 August 2006 (M) - my wife of 15 years has left. how can i get her to fall in love with me again. ...

I have an arranged marriage where I serve my husband and his family...but I need a social life, too! Help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

31 August 2006 (F) - 29 yrs old lady , having 3 yrs old baby boy.my husband is of 35 . We got married 5 yrs back .but having conflicts from very beginning.I don't know , that how I explain it. We belong to a Sub-continent family , having so many ethical n religi...

He cheated, I will forgive, I ask if he still wants me, he doesnt know!!!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

30 August 2006 (F) - Hi. I've been married for 2 years and recently discovered my husband has been cheating. It started 1yr ago almost to the date of our anniversary. He has been lying to me for the past year about this and I learned last month he has been "miserable"...

I hate the thought of being the cause of her leaving her husband

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

29 August 2006 (M) - I am 37 years old and back in April met and instantly fell in love with a married woman 8 years my junior. I didnt know she was married at first we were talking in a group of friends and I couldnt take my eyes off her then I found out she was marr...

My husband insults me...what shall I do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

28 August 2006 (F) - My husband and I have been together since we were 15 we are now 26 and I accepted his moods and the fact that he made it clear that I should not expect romance as its not in his nature. We never fought. I thought we had the perfect marriage. He ...

I am in love with my wife's sister!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

27 August 2006 (M) - My wife and I have been married a few years and things were great in the beginning. She can be a extremely selfless and loving wife. Over the last few years, she has changed though. Now she is materialistic, short tempered and fights with me over ...

Wife refuses intimacy so I moved out. Still want to be with her but should I go back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

27 August 2006 (M) - i have been married 11 years I love my wife but she is never intimate with me anymore. I know some women go off sex after having a baby, but we have not had sex now for nearly 2 years,we tried talking about it many times but always end up arguing ...

My wife won't learn how to cook properly. Does she not love me enough?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

26 August 2006 (M) - I used to scoff at the adage that the way to a man's heart is through stomach but my wife is making me to do a re-think. We've been married now for over 10 years and have three lovely children. My wife has been a good wife and mother. I have a very ...

No longer in Love with my husband... but started to get close to a male collegue..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6453 days ago

25 August 2006 (F) - dear cupid i need help don,t no what i am feeling i am married been married for 11 years i have 4 children age between 10-19 i have a great husband but he boreds me to death i love him but i am not in love with him anymore and i feel terrible...

Help me find some marriage counselling, please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6453 days ago

24 August 2006 (M) - Hi, could you please suggests where is a good place or organization to go for marriage Counselling? we live in south east UK/Reading me and my wife are having a problem, and it can't continue like that, I really had enough and every one even h...

I think I _may_ have married too soon... My wife can't bear to be touched by me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

24 August 2006 (M) - How do you tell the difference between settling down, and just settling? Married, and regretting it. Finding my wife and I are quite incompatible sexualy, and I often wonder whether I just gave up looking, and settled too early. I feel unwanted, and ...

Newly married. My wife earns more than me, is against me socialising and is FULL of herself! Feel I made the wrong decisision...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

24 August 2006 (M) - Please help me if you can, Well I don’t know where to start, I was a happy successful person, confident with life and my achievement in life and with people around myself, I was going to the gym, meeting friends and family nothing at all excessiv...

My husband of 30 years took one of our cars and hid it from me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

24 August 2006 (F) - I reside in california and married 30 years. We have three vehicles, my husband took one of our vehicles and stated it is in a safe place. I want my vehilce returned, what can i do?...he wont tell me where it is...both names on registration..can i ...

My husbands mother passed away and now he won't have sex with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6455 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - What should I do? Last year my husband's mother passed away. Since then he has refused to have sex with me! They had an extremely contentious relationship, and many issues remained unsettled between them. I know he was subject to her emotiona...

my secret bi-curious wife is on a dating website!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6456 days ago

22 August 2006 (M) - I was working on our home computer yesterday, which my wife uses far more often, and found by accident that she had visited a dating website. I was very surprised since we've been together for a long time, have two young children and I thought we ...

Husband admitted having feelings for someone else!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6456 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - my husband of 10 years has just told me he has feelings for another woman who he works with but there is nothing in it and just feels comfortable being with her. It has left me devastated and hurt. Please someone give me some advice...

He's pushing me to find a new job but I'm trying to adjust to this new country! He's harsh..so how do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6452 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - Dear All I am 30 yr old woman married with a doctor. My husband is coming from another culture. I am turkish hes indian. We are living in Uk. I just came here 2 months ago. And trying to adjust my new life here. Since I came here hes ea...

My Stepdad is a right horrible so and so.. Mum says she may leave, but it would be my fault!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6457 days ago

21 August 2006 (F) - My parents split up when I was five years old and it was just me, my twin sister and my mum, left to our own devices. Anyway, when we were 12, Mum remarried a seemingly decent older man and they absolutely adored each other. 5 years have passed s...

Married 9 years, had sex with another man, now he feels bad for it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

20 August 2006 (F) - I have been married 9 yrs. and recently had sex with another man. We had been flirting for months and I thought we really liked each other. I had only been with my husband sexually, so this was a huge leap of faith for me. My "friend" won't really ...

We have both cheated, she with the same person, me as one offs... we are still in love what to do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6458 days ago

20 August 2006 (M) - I ve been married for 5 1/2 years. My wife cheated on me 5 months after we were married and we worked it out. I m madly in love with my wife but started cheating because I was insecure. I went to Iraq for 2 out of the past 3 years to find ...

My marriage is wonderful but I'm thinking of cheating! Why am I doing this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6453 days ago

19 August 2006 (F) - I got married when I was very young (20) and now I feel like maybe that was too young. It's only been three years and I have often thought about kissing other men. There is one man in particualar that I have been spending some time with lately...

I had an affair now my marriage has changed and my daughter was there...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6460 days ago

18 August 2006 (F) - I was just beginning to get a normal happy life back and for some odd reason I wanted an affair one day. I had sex with another guy and destroyed my marriage. My husband does not know yet and it was only a week ago, but I can already tell my ...

How can I help my wife overcome my cheating and lying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

18 August 2006 (M) - My wife and I have been married for ten years. This last year I had an affair for one year and lied to my wife. I want to fix everything I have destroyed with my wife because I truly love her. We both want to start over again. How can I help my wife ...

We have an arranged marriage and my husband has no respect for my parents. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - we r indians who got arranged marriage.in our culture girls parents should giv all house hold items and gold to the pair.my parents did't do the household. This created a ego problem with my husband,parents and my parents.i asked my husband to giv u...

He had an affair and hasnt broken off contact with her, what should I do ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6461 days ago

17 August 2006 (F) - my husband has had a affair which I have forgiven but he cannot seem to break off contact with her, advice please....

Why am I always the one to spice things up with my hubby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

16 August 2006 (F) - Here I am married 10 years and trying to make the best of a romantically starved marriage. I am not one to throw out my dirty laundry among friends and family -- so I thought I would throw my true thoughts out there to whoever is interested in ...

I love my friends husband!!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - I'm struggling with the same thing as before...My attraction to my friend's husband. I have tried to avoid him like the plague, but we still end up seeing each other coincidentally, our kids are very good friends,etc. I have no problem seeing him, ...

I know I can start something with my hot friend but I love my husband - help!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6461 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - Confused: I am a 34 year old with a good job,a husband of 13 years, and son, basically everything a person could ask but recently I have found myself extremely attracted to a family friend. He is also married but with just a little try I am ...

I am 60 years old, how can I reach orgasm?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

15 August 2006 (F) - Hi. I am a 60 year old female, have been in a marriage for 30 years, the last 25 years of this marriage has been without sex with my husband (or anybody else). I have resorted to clitorial stimulation of myself in the time of need. I have ...

I chatted to strange women, and my wife found the emails!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6463 days ago

15 August 2006 (M) - My wife and I are a month apart in age and after being married for almost 19 years (december), I made a very foolish mistake. I turned to the computer and tried to find someone I didn't know to fullfill a missing part of my manhood. My wife and I ...

Rebound fling after marriage break up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6463 days ago

14 August 2006 (F) - I am recently out of a long term marriage....things seem to be resolving themselves and my ex and I are both moving on. I recently joined an online dating service and have been out on a few dates which has been fun. If I am being honest I guess what ...

I cheated and I don't love my wife

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6462 days ago

14 August 2006 (M) - I have been married for almost 8 years, but am now seperated from my wife. She wants me back and is everything I ever wanted in a partner. She is perfect. She is beautiful, classy, loyal, has had countless chances with other guys and always turns...

I do everything to express my feelings, yet i get nothing in return, I feel so unloved!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5776 days ago

14 August 2006 (M) - Sex Life is killing me....... I am 35 and have been married for six years,my wife is three months pregnant with third child. Had a fantastic sex life until she became pregnant with first child, so i totally understand her lack of sex drive for th...

My abusive ex husband treats his new gf very lovingly--did he change and I do the right thing, by leaving him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6465 days ago

12 August 2006 (F) - My husband and I have been separated for almost 4 years - it was an abusive relationship. Now he is with someone else who is at least 10 years older than him. He is so calm and loving and is even thinking about marrying her - by the way, they are ...

Domestic violence problems at home

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6461 days ago

12 August 2006 (F) - Just a week ago my husband and I were looking forward to our wedding anniversary, we had gone out to the town for a few drinks although he consumed copious amounts of the stuff. We were still in a good frame of mind when we returned home, my ...

I'm married, but I can't get this other man out of my head!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

12 August 2006 (F) - ive been married for 5 years now but i cant get another man out of my head. ive known him for some 5 years more than my husband but we never got together. Before i got married i went to visit him and we kissed, but since that night 7 years ago we ...

Having feelings for my neighbor and we are both married!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

10 August 2006 (F) - I'm married and I do love my husband,but there's a man that lives next door to me that I have been attracted to for a few years and just in the past months I have felt as though I would like for there to be more, I get vibes from him that he's ...

I want kids now but he says another 3 years! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6469 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - Two years before my husband and I got married we discused trying to have children after being married a year. Now that we have been married a year he keeps saying that he's not ready and pushes it back further...now he tells me in three more years. ...

How to get on with my life after a marriage breakup

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6469 days ago

9 August 2006 (F) - I am getting a divorce from my husband. We have 2 sons aged 27 and 34. I left 3 years ago, but have kept in (kind of) friendly contact with my ex, even to the point of inviting him around for Xmas dinner for the past 2 yrs, as he would have bee...

My wife only seems interested in herself and what she does.. is this right ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6469 days ago

9 August 2006 (M) - My wife seems to have her own agenda in life, I don’t know how to explain it , but it is like she is heading a different road to the one that I believe should be our road of success. she is a successful women with the very good earning, I always ...

I married a dead lady...are there drugs for this sort of thing!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6470 days ago

8 August 2006 (M) - Dear cupid Please try to help me.Im 41 years old my wife is also 41. We have been together 21 years.I was her first.Her sex drive is dead. All you here about is men with problems what about the ladies?There is like no stress in our lives.She has ...

I feel Trapped, he treats me like a skivy not his wife, but dont feel I can leave because of my son!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6470 days ago

8 August 2006 (F) - My partner wants a mother not a lover.i'm a very loving and caring person.15 years we have been together,i have done everything for him,and i have had nothing in return.2 years back he got into the gym,and i was left alone at home all the time,i was ...

I'm still in love with my ex, is it too late to be together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6470 days ago

8 August 2006 (F) - I'm still in love with my ex and he still loves me but my parents wont let us be together so they had me marry one of the friends of the familys sons but i dont love him, what do i do or is it to late?...

She is the dominant one in our marriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

7 August 2006 (M) - I never thought one day I come here and write this, so please help me if you can: I married just 6 months ago, we knew each other for over a year before get married. The problem is she wants to be so dominant in everything, she is earning much mor...

Im no longer in love with my husband, I've asked him to leave but cant tell him why, what do I do!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

7 August 2006 (F) - hi i need some help im married with 3 children and a morgage i need help to sort things out ive ask my husband if he will leave as im no longer in love with him i want to tell him im no longer in love with him but i dont want to hurt his feeling hes ...

So many little clues have me thinking my husband is having an affair!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6467 days ago

7 August 2006 (F) - I have suspected for a while that my husband is having an affair with my work colleague. The way that they look at each other etc. We all attended a wedding recently and my husband kept having a go saying how dreadful she looks on the dance fl...

I left my husband having an affair, now he won't pay a dime. I'm so angry. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

7 August 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, My husband and I have been married for 25 years when I found out that he's having an affair. We work in the same group of companies and the girl was his staff. It was so painful because I felt he did not respect me. I asked him to l...

Two days after our son was diagnosed with autism, my husband left

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6463 days ago

6 August 2006 (F) - My husband and i have been married 9 months he has some huge mental health problems and is seeing a counsellor two weeks ago out the blue he didnt come home then told me he was moving out two weeks before that he smashed the house up and i called ...

My overprotectiveness is driving my wife away!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6468 days ago

6 August 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid I have been married to my wife for 9 years and been together since high school (we are now 31)and have two young kids. 2 months ago we had a fight because she went drinking at a friends house (and didnt come home). I took off and sl...