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Archived questions from: May, 2014 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

I should cut the cord, because it is better to have good memories than bad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3630 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - Hi, I had a very bad break up a year ago and then after six months. I met a man who is 20 years elder to me and he was interested in me and we soon shared a very understanding relationship. we were very clear that we did not want to make a seriou...

I need to work out access arrangements.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3629 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - Hi, I will be filing a divorce petition soon and need some guidance for child visit arrangements on what people normally do. My ex stays 4 hours train journey from me and kids (we have 2 children 10 and 5). For the moment just to get away from him I ...

My teenage daughter is breaking the family apart!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3629 days ago

30 May 2014 (F) - I've been married for 10 years and when I met my husband he inherited my 3 children too who were very young at the time, we have also had a child together... I had just left a violent marriage 6 months earlier and we were all still recovering (the ...

Why do I think of him every day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - i wrote a little while back about the affair i had. im still trying to put it behind me. i see that guy frequently out and about with his new gf. it hurts soo bad. its like it didnt even happen to him. i didnt get how little i meant to him until ...

How can I have a conversation with him about this without being arrested for a domestic dispute?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3630 days ago

28 May 2014 (F) - After 25 years of marriage I have come to realize my husband is a liar...about big and small things. I do not trust him at all, and I find it difficult to believe anything he tells me, even if it's about the weather!! I want to confront him abo...

My husband doesn't have much interest in sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2666 days ago

28 May 2014 (F) - What would you do if your spouse doesn't want to have sex with you? My relationship with my husband has been...different. Very early on in our marriage, in bed, he said to me, "Don't initiate sex. I'll initiate." Then, over the past ten years, ...

What is more important: being comfortable in a relationship or having a similar level of attraction to each other?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3631 days ago

27 May 2014 (F) - I wanted to share my point of view on attraction in relationships. Obviously there has to be attraction for a relationship to work. But in my opinion, go for someone you're moderately attracted to over someone you're insanely attracted to. Me...

I am sick of being depressed and it is as if he just doesn't care.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3631 days ago

27 May 2014 (F) - I am having problems with my husband not supporting me emotionally. I have depression and anxiety disorder. I become irrational when I feel someone has done me wrong. Multiple times I have gone to my husband in need of emotional support and he ...

I am beginning to hate the husband I once loved like life, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3631 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - Dear cupids, my problem lies with my marriage. We married out of love 4 years ago. Have a daughter and live far away from home. Recently I have been feeling less love for my husband that it disturbs me a lot. I don't feel any pinch when I see him ...

Is it my mood swings or is my husband not interested in me anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3634 days ago

25 May 2014 (?) - Hello. I been been with my husband for 5 years and married for over a year. When we got married and had a baby we stayed at my mums till we found a place since 5 months ago but he never likes to stay there and he prefers to stay at my mum which ...

I am planning on having sex outside my marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3634 days ago

25 May 2014 (M) - Hello. I have been trying to ask this question for a few times because i am facing a situation in which i am undecided. I will talk honestly. Well i am married since 10 years. I have always loved to appreciate beautiful women. I particularly ...

I don't feel loved and I think he is cheating again.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3625 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - I have been married for 24 yrs I have two kids, one just graduated from college the other from high school. I caught my husband cheating on me in 2010. He admitted the affair and said he was so sorry and would never do such a terrible thing to me ...

I've been diagnosed with bipolar but my husband doesn't believe in it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3636 days ago

24 May 2014 (F) - I was diagnosed with Bipolar several months ago, and when I broke the news to my husband he was less than accepting. I told him that I didn't tell him sooner because I was worried he would think I'm crazy, but he said "You're right, I do think ...

Insecure for over 10 years because of wife's exes, am I being a fool?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3639 days ago

21 May 2014 (M) - When my wife and I met she insisted on carrying on seeing (non sexually I've always assumed) her exes. She took me out for dinner with one guy, only to tell me a week later she'd kissed him and let him finger her, she had another guy round for the ...

Did I get played? Should I tell my husband?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3621 days ago

21 May 2014 (F) - i am a married 37 year old woman. my story is complicated. first of all i married my high school sweetheart 12 years after we graduated. we had two different life styles. he was a drug user. i only drank. he got off drugs with my help. we married ...

After having the baby, I am having trouble controlling my temper!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3640 days ago

20 May 2014 (?) - Hello. Since I had my baby 8 months ago I'm finding it difficult to deal with my temper and I'm always angry or emotional especially with my husband. Me and my husband we been together for 5 years and married for a year and we both are deeply in ...

My wife gave her phone number to a former lover and says I am over reacting!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3640 days ago

19 May 2014 (M) - Through the wonders of Facebook my wife was contacted by one of her former lovers. I don't know why but she gave him her cell phone number and he started calling her. I discovered one of these voicemail messages when she asked me to check somethin...

No way will my husband approve of this job

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3643 days ago

17 May 2014 (F) - I married young, and I regret not waiting. I'm 24 now, and while I love my husband very much, but I feel suffocated. Recently he has be pressuring me into getting a job in a field I hate. I suffered 2 years of hell in the same field already, t...

He doesn't care for intimacy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3643 days ago

16 May 2014 (F) - I am 52 years old, married my high school sweet heart a year ago - my first marriage and his second. He has been single for 20 years. We have not had sex in 7 months. There is no intimacy either - no kissing, no cuddling. He says he doesn't know why ...

My husband keeps gaining weight and I find it so unattractive!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3641 days ago

16 May 2014 (F) - I'm married to a veteran. We moved to Asia after he got out of the army. He used to look very muscular during his serving time but now after going back to the civil world, he started gaining lots of weight. I know he loves eating and drinking pop ...

Wife said I could leave so she can take care of ailing mother.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3640 days ago

15 May 2014 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 3 years and been together for 6. We are very happy and close and I couldn't ask for a better partner! Sometime before we met her mother was diagnosed with a rare cancer and given a very brief life expectancy, ...

Married to a man but confused about my sexuality!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3645 days ago

15 May 2014 (F) - I've never felt as troubled as recently. I'm married for about more than a year and a half to a loving man. He's one of the greatest thing ever happened to me. He loves me, makes me smile and always gets me the best things. I think i love him...

My husband prefers masturbating to porn to making love with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3646 days ago

14 May 2014 (F) - We have been married for 3 years for the last two years or more my husband has had a very low sex drive so i thought, he went to the doc 2 years ago who put him on testosterone which really didnt improve anything he started blaming his issues on his ...

He found a smudge on the wall .........

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3646 days ago

13 May 2014 (F) - I have been living with my partner for 10 years. We have 2 kids. My name is not on anything because I am trying to up my credit score (bad credit). He is an ocd neat freak. I am messy. The house isn't a nightmare, but it's not pristine either. He ...

My in-laws don't respect me and my husband offers no support

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3647 days ago

13 May 2014 (F) - hii.. am from a traditional family.we been married 4 yrs.my inlaws always say nasty things to me,but i never brought this up with my h usband bcoz i don wantis. to strain all the relations.yesterday she called me like fox,trust me iam not a cunnin...

How can I get my husband to step up in the personal hygiene department?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3646 days ago

12 May 2014 (F) - Hello. I have a problem that I really need advice for. Thing is, it's kind of gross, and I don't mean to offend anyone. My question is, how can I get my husband to step up in the personal hygiene department? I'll give you some back story. He i...

The passion has left the marriage. What more can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3647 days ago

12 May 2014 (M) - So my wife and I have been married for 18 months. We have lived together for 4 years. Best way to put this is I am basically the woman of the relationship. I do about 90% of the house work, cooking cleaning ect. I was just raised that way to be very...

I am seriously questioning myself as a man

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3642 days ago

12 May 2014 (M) - I am a 46 year old married male who has been married for 24 years to the same way too beautiful wife, I have a type 1 diabetic since age 3 and I have been physically disabled after getting hurt on the job and needing dual knee replacements and a ...

Ijust want to feel like a princess for one day!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3649 days ago

11 May 2014 (F) - Hi there I ask for help, because it is now bothering me for a long time. Please don't condemn me or tell me that I am ungrateful / behaving like a princess / looking to much of holywood films. I got this answers a lot and it doesn't help. Ma...

My guy tries to make me jealous and bullies me too. How do others handle a situation like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3650 days ago

10 May 2014 (F) - My husband is a bully and has deliberately been trying to make me feel jealous of him, but that has just put me right off him. I cringe when he comes near me now. If someone tries to make me jealous to pay them more attention it has the opposite...

Should I go through with leaving?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3650 days ago

9 May 2014 (F) - Married for 7 years with a 5 years old kid,My problem is my husband shares everything with his family. I dont have any privacy at home . I I am a private person and he knows it. We have talked many times regarding this issue, last night I found ou...

My husband requests fellatio all the time and not only that! What do you do when your husband denies you a sexual orgasm or intercourse if you don't do it first?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3651 days ago

9 May 2014 (F) - I don't want to bash my husband or write insensitively of him but it has caused a little ripple in our marriage where it hasn't completely gone away. By continually asking for me to give him oral sex but it's not as bad as it was before when he kept ...

Am I obligated to stay because he supported me through school?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3651 days ago

5 May 2014 (F) - My husband of six years has a good heart, generally, and we have a three year old daughter together. I care about him a lot, but I can't stand living with him anymore. He is often very moody, controlling, and can have massive temper tantrums....

Do these mistakes have to follow me forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3655 days ago

4 May 2014 (F) - i have been married for three years, and been working for over 10 years. i have made some mistakes in the past, concerning drinking too much, and partying. i have a past am not proud of. in the same period i was drinking alot, i dated quite a number ...

I had a threesome before I got married. Do I tell my husband?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3654 days ago

2 May 2014 (F) - I was involved in a once only threesome with my ex bf and another girl. Deeply regretted. Should I tell the man I married later? He has had premarital sex but not of this kind....

My husband never touches or kisses me during sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3657 days ago

1 May 2014 (F) - I love my husband very much. We get along great. Sex is my only complaint. I'm very sexual and enjoy sex. My husband doesn't kiss or touch me at all when we have sex. Even when I go down on him, nothing...he says he likes it but never touches me or ...