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Archived questions from: September, 2015 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

When we travel my wife of 21 years changes and becomes easily offended when on vacations. What's the solution to this problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3121 days ago

30 September 2015 (M) - I'm tired of traveling with my wife of 21 years who will ruin a trip by becoming over sensitive and easily offended by any little thing. Otherwise, she is a rough and tumble type that jokes around a lot and a lot of fun to be with. But on vacat...

My wife will not accept apologies. No matter what. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3131 days ago

30 September 2015 (M) - I have a wife who rarely apologizes. But more strange to me is that she does not accept my genuine apologies. I am some one who does not have a problem with admitting by faults and working to do better. But my wife of 21 years seems to be stuck on ...

Is there a possibility for someone like my husband can change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3109 days ago

29 September 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid. I have been living with my husband for 7 years now. For past 2 yrs things have been a roller coaster. I have left twice just for 5 wks at least to get a break from him and his tantrums. The first time I left I took our two kids with...

I recently discovered that my husband had secretly taken nude photos of me while we had sex. How would you react

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3132 days ago

28 September 2015 (F) - Would you be a) be flattered and not let it bother you, b) be disgusted c) feel violated d) be angry and could never forgive him e) be confused f) wonder if he secretly takes pictures of other women in public unbeknownst to them g) be on edge if ...

Should I sacrifice my life and go help my mom? Am I being a bad person because I want to be selfish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3133 days ago

28 September 2015 (F) - I've asked a question related to this but I want to ask once more just cos I don't know how I feel and am sure you can help. I am 40 year old Asian woman. I live alone as I was in a marriage with an alcoholic spouse for many years and now am...

My wife expects me to entertain her, she has no hobbies and blames me that she is lonely

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3135 days ago

25 September 2015 (M) - Im 28, my wife is 23. We moved in together after 5 years of dating 7 months ago and finally got married last month. Ever since we moved in together shes been complaining that shes lonely, and how we dont spend enough time together and wha...

What should I do? He does not want to talk about it, but money keeps disappearing from our joint funds

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3136 days ago

24 September 2015 (F) - I need some advice as I don't know what to do. I have been married for 6 years. For the past year or so i have slowly but surely noticed money gone from our savings. Now we are careful about our money and we never touch our savings unl...

My husband is upset at me because of my advice about a desperately needed vehicle for work transportation. Is he in the right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3137 days ago

24 September 2015 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles, This might seem very trivial but i've been feeling stressed out and feel upset about it. Now my husband lost his car recently, i've lost mine a few months back to a bad accident. He's been looking for a job activly and even...

Should I try to understand where he is coming from? Returning to my religion is important to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3140 days ago

21 September 2015 (F) - I've been with my fiancé for 5years. Being financially stable is very important to him. This keeps him from wanting to wait to get married. We attempted to get married 2-3 years ago, but I didn't have any income cause my disability got cut off....

How do I make him feel comfortable with me in that department without being pushy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3140 days ago

21 September 2015 (F) - Hi I really need help. My husband and I broke up a few years ago. He now wants to give it a go at fixing things. He wants us to be a family. I've always wanted this and we have given it a go before but he changed his mind and left. Now he said he ...

He lied to me and then tells me that he did that because he doesn't want me to get upset!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3140 days ago

20 September 2015 (F) - My husband lied to me. But came to me to tell me he lied but the way he did it makes me mad and the more I think about it the madder i get. He starts out by saying "I want to tell you something but I don't want you to get mad at me". Then he ...

How can I get my husband to recognise that I cannot handle his 90 year old mother living with us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3134 days ago

20 September 2015 (F) - my husband thinks it is perfectly ok to have his 90 year old mother living with us it has been like this for our entire life together 14 years. Seven years married. I really cant do it any more how can I make him see sense i'm ready to leave...

What are my options while my husband treats me with such contempt, by telling me ''if you don't like it, move out''?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3140 days ago

20 September 2015 (F) - Hi, my husband and I have been married for 35yr's. The problem is if I ask him to flush the toilet,or rinse the sink after he brushes teeth he tells me if I don't like it move out. Always telling how to drive,we are both retired and disabled and he ...

My husband's family are putting pressure on me and I feel lost. How can I gain some control in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3140 days ago

19 September 2015 (F) - I am feeling lost. I met my current husband 4 years ago, We dated for 3 years and finally moved in together, December last year... We got engaged in june...but life has been terrible after that. We were happy when he used to come every weeken...

If you have a nasty partner, is it cheating if you find a few hours of solace and happiness with someone else?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3142 days ago

18 September 2015 (M) - If your partner is nasty and doesn't miss any chance to belittle, criticize,and hurt you, is it considered cheating if you find a few hours of solace and happiness with someone else? I feel it isn't. ...

I left my husband because he hangs around his uncle who is a drug user and drug dealer

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3143 days ago

18 September 2015 (F) - My husband has a horrible uncle who is a cocaine addict and also selling the drug and other things like stealing etc..and going causing trouble with other drug dealers. I have had many an argument with my husband about him associating with him as ...

My husband is loving towards me but has favourites of naked women and goes to chat sites and looks at porn!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3138 days ago

18 September 2015 (F) - My Question is, is it ok for your husband to seek out new sexy females as friends on social networks constantly and connecting with porn or other people he is attracted to by following or friending them, he knows it hurts me when he does this and ...

No contact with each other can't take about sex only one position for sex I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3141 days ago

17 September 2015 (M) - I'm married for 37 yrs.wonderful wife but things aren't perfect.she's just gone through menopause.we both have physical problems but here's the question? She seems she doesn't care about sex no more.I've tried to be a good husband I've worked hard ...

I am miserable in my marriage and in love with a married man

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3124 days ago

16 September 2015 (F) - Hi everyone! I’m confronted with a situation I cant’ handle any longer, so please give me your advice. I’m married for 15 years, childless. We used to have a good relationship until the daily problems, mainly the financial ones, haven driven my ...

How can I show him love when I have no confidence and feel so insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3146 days ago

15 September 2015 (F) - I'm looking for more advice - I am begging...I did it. I have finally confronted my husband to let him know how unhappy I am in our marriage. We argue about silly things. Mainly most recently due to our toddler growing up and how different we deal ...

What are your options in a situation where you do everything you can for your spouse yet it is never enough?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3147 days ago

14 September 2015 (F) - what are your options to a situation where you do everything you can for your spouse yet it is never enough? I have a job outside the home 4 months out of the year and the other 8 months I stay home. Even when I am working I take on the total care ...

Should we end the marriage rather than try save it for the sake of our daughter

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3146 days ago

14 September 2015 (F) - I did it. I have finally confronted my husband to let him know how unhappy I am in our marriage. We argue about silly things. Mainly most recently due to our toddler growing up and how different we deal with her been corrected. For a long time when ...

My husband really wants oral sex but I have a terrible gag reflex and just can't do it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3147 days ago

13 September 2015 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 10 years, married for 6. This man is the love of my life and I would, will, am willing, and want to do everything I possibly can to make him happy and to fulfill all his needs, wants, and dreams. I've worked ...

My wife went to an adults-only topless pool in Vegas. I'm not so sure what to think about it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3151 days ago

10 September 2015 (M) - My wife recently went on a bachelorette party to Las Vegas. Some of the girls decided to go to the adults-only topless pool. My wife and a couple other girls (single) decided to take their tops off. The one's who were married did not. My wife ...

Do I leave my husband with the wandering eye and spend what time I have left alone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3148 days ago

8 September 2015 (F) - Dear All, I have been an Aunt on this site but am posting anonomously as I feel embarrassed about my situation and need help and advice. I first came to this site as my then partner (now husband) liked to look at porn. He also had a wandering eye ...

Is my sister-in-law's behavior normal? Shouldn't she respect our matrimonial bed/home? Why doesn't my husband see any wrong in her actions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3154 days ago

6 September 2015 (F) - I am in my second year of marriage. My husband is the last born and the only boy. In our first year of marriage his eldest sister (42year old - unmarried) was at our house every day of the weekend. She would arrive at 7am in the morning while we ...

Now I find that he's separated, not divorced. Is it reasonable that I'm now anxious about our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3155 days ago

4 September 2015 (F) - About six months ago I worked with a guy that I really liked but I just got out of a relationship, not ready to date yet :( Well we recently reconnected about two months ago and started seeing each other which at first was really great! Super co...

I got back from a trip to find another man's pair of underwear in my bed. Do I believe my wife's story?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3158 days ago

3 September 2015 (M) - came home from a week long trip found a pair of men's underwear in my bed that weren't mine. Was told they got mixed in laundry and got there when she made the bed. What's the answer? ...

My ex wife completely messed my life up. How do I move on from something like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3158 days ago

3 September 2015 (M) - I am a 28 year old male who was married to a woman for the last 5 years and have a 3 year old son with her. I found out she was cheating for over a year with my best friend that Ive known since elementary school. I was upset but tried my best to...

I hit my wife. What can I do now to make her realize that I'm sorry?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3157 days ago

3 September 2015 (M) - I need help. My wife and I have been in heated arguments near the beginning of our marriage (we're going on 6 years) which led to abuse. Both physical and emotional. I love her to death and can't imagine ever losing her, she is the best thing t...

Came across a conversation between my husband and his friend and I think he's cheating on me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3157 days ago

3 September 2015 (F) - I need help? My husband and I have been together for 7 years. And we have been married for only 4. I fell in love with him as a person and for his sense of humor. I never had a problem trusting him until the other night....I came home from my next ...

He's showing no interest whatever in wedding planning

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3159 days ago

1 September 2015 (F) - What to do if he's stopped showing interest in planning the wedding? After two years in a long distance relationship, my fiance and I are finally living together(we've been engaged over a year)-going on three weeks. We have both been busy gett...