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Archived questions from: August, 2008 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

My wife thinks we should terminate the pregnancy because we still haven't had a wedding dinner. Please advise!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - i have ROM in Jan 2008 but have yet to have wedding dinner due to the death of my dad. Recently my wife was pregnant and she don't know if we should keep the baby as she is afraid that her dad will be very furious as we have yet to have the wedding ...

My husband has changed in ways I cannot explain, I tried to be patient but I cannot take it anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Hi my husband And I are having a lot of problems he has change in ways I cannot explain he tells me to be patient that everything annoys him that he does not care about anything or anyone not even our baby he says that he does not know what to ...

My husband told me that we reached the end of our road and he found somebody else, how can I bring him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - My husband of 4 years has recently told me that he has feelings for someone else and that they are sexual with each other.he wasnt sure what he wants.he tells me that we reached the end of our road.i love him so much and want to work it out but he ...

Too confused. Husband not interested in sex with me, just wants threesomes or foursomes. Am I inadequate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Hi its me again. Ever since that foursome episode, my husband and I have not had sex with each other since we do not live together. (Its a discrete marriage) Now, we had made a plan to spend the whole day together and guess what? He hs asked me s...

Troubled marrige, he cheated, now not much sex, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - We have been together for 7 years and to the outside world, it would appear that we are a happy, in-love couple. I love my husband dearly but 2 years ago, just 6 months into our marriage, he cheated on me. He can't/refuses to tell me why he did it ...

I'm in a loveless marriage. I'm miserable but I can't leave the kids. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - Don't know what to think or do anymore. April 7th, 2000 my wife left without a word. No note, no indications whatsoever. Took our kids and moved in with her boss where she stayed for a year and a half. Then she came back... my mistake but I still ...

He claims he isn't trying to salvage his marriage but am I wasting my time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - He claims that he is not trying to salvage their marriage; but he seems to be bending over backwards to appease his wife. She wants everything switched over into her name and he does so without any hesitation. She says it's because of me and I might ...

Since we have been married, my husband has completely changed, he is boring, unkept, gambles, and does not give me any money, this is troubling, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - well what can i say about me i am 22 hispanic and really outgoing i just recently got married. my question is what can i do when my husband is totally the opposite of me ever since we got married he has been boring and does not dress nice anymore ...

Should I be considering divorce? I'm at a loss!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - how would you describe a woman, married for 10 years,hasn't wanted sex for the past 2, only likes to watch t.v, only participates if coerced but never initiates plans, is cheerful when people are around but when we are alone, barely wants ...

Did I just get a version of the "let's just be friends" talk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - I was going through a very rough patch in my marriage. my wife suddenly wanted a divorce and while I resisted it at first, I eventually decided it was probably worth going through with. during this time I spent a lot of time talking to a fem...

Can I fall back in love with my wife or have I just wasted the last 7yrs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - I've been married for several years. Its been tough - i was stuck in a job where I was underpaid and couldn't quit due to visa problems but I managed to double my salary by investing. While it wasn't a perfect marriege, it was still good and we ...

I have fallen out of love with him but I don't know if I should continue to be with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - I am married to a man who is a wonderful provider for me and my children, but I feel that I'm falling out of love with him. He's just two years older than me and he acts so settled down and old all the time. I like to get out and do things, but ...

Is there any possible way to regain trust where he will still see the woman he was with for the rest of his life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - This is a long one, so brace yourselves. I probably have one of the most unhealthy relationships out there besides abusive ones. My boyfriend and I were both engaged to other people when we met. I was with my ex for 10 years, he was with his for ...

My husband has filed for divorce and I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I am 34 years old w/ 3 children -2 boys (16 and 13) and a girl (8). My husband and I became friends first. We talked until all hours of the night (he was still with a girl he had been with through high school- 9 years). We saw each other a few time...

Work issue: I'm infatuated but I'm married!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3535 days ago

29 August 2008 (M) - The difficulty I have is that I am infatuated with a woman at work and I’m married. I seem to have been up and down this problem and whenever I seem to have a new understanding of where I am I fall down a snake and I am at square one again. ...

I had sex with my wife's sister and now she's driving me crazy! What do I do about such a weird situation?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

29 August 2008 (M) - About 2 years ago I had the best sex ever with my wifes sister. I have always wanted her and in fact, when i met my wife my intention was to hook up with the sister but it didn't happen. Anyway we ended up in bed together just having the best sex ...

Do guys prefer anal sex over vaginal sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Last night my husband and I were drunk, and we did anal sex. He seemed to really get into it, he came in less than a minute. It didn't hurt because I was drunk but I don't want to do it again. My butt is bleeding a little too. My fear is that now he ...

I'm married and beginning to like a co-worker. Do I accept his invitation to lunch?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - i'm married and just started a new job few months ago. i'm beginning to like my colleague and it seems mutual as he initiated to ask me if we can have lunch together so he can get to know me. i don't like this as i know it is very wrong. should i ...

My much younger wife doesn't want sex? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

28 August 2008 (M) - Dear cupid am a frustrated 63 year old male.the reason is my wife who is much younger than I is no longer interested in sex.She thinks that sex is unsanitary ,this wasn't a problem when we first met.I am beginning to adapt to an inferiorty ...

How do I turn down my feelings for a business partner without changing our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - I'm married with children and have strong feelings for a guy who is 21 years younger than me! It's awful and I can't get him out of my head. I've never felt like this before. I could never act on my feelings or let him or anyone know so it's bot...

My wife left me, but now she wants to try again. I am torn between giving it another shot with her and this new girl I am nuts for.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

28 August 2008 (M) - This is long so I appreciate anyone who reads it. I am 47 and married with a 7 year old son. I work as a senior manager and have lots of people who work for me. About a year ago a 24 year old came to work with the company, I'll call her T. She is ...

My husband had an affair and while we are hoping to salvage the marriage, I am so sad and angry!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - A year ago I found out that my husband had an affair. We have been trying to work on it, well he wants us to jsut move on, and I do too. But it is hard and I find my thoughts consumed with it and at times I find myself dialing her number and ...

My stepdaugher is trying to break up my marriage

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - Stepdaughter in law trying to break up marrige. My husband's daughter tries to stir up trouble by telling lies about me, says I am rude to her, etc. She is 36 years old and has her own family, has always been a daddy's girl and only child. Her...

A woman in my house while I am out of town?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - OK, heres the deal. I am out of town on a family emergency and suddenly my husband is getting picked up and brought home from work by a new "training" lady at his job. He is in the military. Now, my husband doesn't have his license so he has gotten ...

Ever since we married it all went downhill. Is the love lost?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

28 August 2008 (M) - Hello, I've been looking through this board and I see a lot of great responses to peoples questions. Well here is mine.... I started dating this gal about 1 and a month ago. Things got really hot really quick and we ended up getting married about ...

Did I do the right thing for checking her emails?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

28 August 2008 (M) - I recently used my wifes computer to send an email and noticed she had messages from an old friend. I investigated and realized she was having an emotional affair for over a year. Is it normal to want to check her emails? ...

Her father died before the wedding and she wants to postpone it. I told her no, but it's causing fights. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

28 August 2008 (?) - My fiance's dad just recently die before our wedding. When I got home she crying her eyes out. After I calm her down she say she to hold off the wedding for a bit. I dont its a great idea cause if we do have to wait another a year to got merried. ...

My husband cheated on me and I don't know wha to do. Please help me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - My husband and i have been married for 5 yrs now.he had a 2 and half yr long affair that started soon after we got married with a woman he was closely related to and said it was to get back at his uncle (that woman's husband). i forgave him for this ...

What should I do about my cheating husband? We have 2 kids together...

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27 August 2008 (F) - me and my partner have been together for nearly 9 years i have 2 children with him and we got married 2 weeks ago but in 2005 when i found i was expecting our first child he said we needed a break that was fine then this girl started to work with ...

I'm haunted by things that have happened to me and now my mind is totally confused! Can someone help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I am in a total confused situation. I have been through a lot of problems, still it seems that my mind never learns from my experiences.... I guess my story is gonna be a bit long and boring but am gonna tell u my problems My father had always b...

He claims his love for this other woman is just a friendship..I'm very confused...help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - i have been married to my husband now for 10 years. I recently found out on the day of my 10 year wedding anniversary my husband was in love with another women. I found the message on his phone that said "i love you lots" now when i asked him about ...

My hubby's contacting his ex via mail, should I tell him or wait to see what happens?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I'm a married women married for 6 years and my husband just starting contacting his ex-girlfriend who lives out west. Have had some issues in the past with him emailing another female friend behind my back. I don't want him to know I'm checking ...

Sex has faded in our marriage so what is really going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I just turned 41 and my husband just turned 37. We used to engage in sex alot but now there always seems to be something in the way. I love him to death and soetimes I just wanna give him oral pleasure just to make him happy but he rarely takes me ...

I just don't think we are right for each other.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I just do not think we are right for each other. I try; i think he tries. But we have conflict most of the time. we have three kids and are NOT married... thank goodness. I just want the picture perfect home and family. He IS the dad. I do Like him, ...

Do I stay with my husband and live a life of vanilla sex or leave him for someone more awesome?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - I am in a horrible situation. I married my high school sweetheart. The first boy I ever kissed. No, we didn't date all the way through high school, we actually didn't really "date" until my freshman year of college. We dated for about 2 years, ...

My husband cheated on me and got the other woman pregnant! Why am I made out to be the villain?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been married for three years and we have no children together. We are both 24 years old. His parents never approved of our marriage due to racial factors, he is white and I am asian. A week ago, for the first time, I fo...

Am I overreacting or does he need to change to save our marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - Hi, Am I overreacting or does he need to change to save our marriage? My husband and I have been married for almost 5 yrs but together for 8 yrs. We have a 3yr old daughter. Here is my problem. I blame myself for everything that happens in o...

Why does my hubby say he will miss me, and yet do nothing to prevent me from leaving?? Should I take him back if he asks so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - I have been married for two years. About 4 months ago, my husband decided he didn't want to be married anymore, citing reasons like he's having a midlife crisis (at age 24!!) doesn't know what he wants from life and wants a fresh start. Since then ...

The question is, what do I do now? What is my next step? How do I start over again? I'm used to seeing my children everyday....Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

26 August 2008 (M) - I am now 30, so is my wife. We’ve been together for 10 years now, married for 7. Our first child was born 7 years ago. We now have 4 children, or at least she does. Since the birth of her 3rd child I had always been unsure if I was the father. I ...

How can I get my man to have another baby with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - How can i get my man to have another baby with me. We have been married for 7 years have two great kids boy an girl. But i have something inside of me i cant explain that i need another baby.He say's he doesn't want another and thats it.any tips on ...

I don't want to believe it, he dosen't try to kiss or hug and if I reach for him he pulls away... is it over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

25 August 2008 (F) - Hi I have been married for 10 years but been with my husband for 20 a few must ago through my doctor I found out he cheated, because we contracted STD , he denied it all the to the doctors office and then the next day he was in tears saying how bad ...

My husband left me for another woman but came back to work it out. Could he still be guilty?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5653 days ago

25 August 2008 (F) - ok, I wrote a couple of months ago and said that my husband of 13 years left me for another woman. blah blah blah, for about a month he would promise I was what he wanted he just needed time for us to get along befor he came home and every time I ...

Are any men out there in cyberworld willing to share their midlife crisis story?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

25 August 2008 (F) - If any men out there in cyber world could tell me how you went through midlife crisis and survived? Did you loose your wife? What could she have done to help you? Eveyone says leave him alone to fiqure it out? I asked if he was excluding me from...

Is my husband going through a major midlife crisis? How can I survive this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

25 August 2008 (F) - Is my husband going through major midlife crisis? Have been married 13 yrs, no children. All of sudden he is not happy with his life and everthing in it, home, boating has not been for several yrs (I did not know this) It seens to have come to hav...

My wife has a colorful past, and now one of the guys, she used to have sex with, is in one of her new groups of friends, thoughts of her past, are worring me very much, how can I stop being so concerned about it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

25 August 2008 (M) - I need some help. I've been married for 2 years now and to this day my wife's past is constantly haunting me. (I have a clean slate I’ve only been with my wife, no one else.) My wife and I dated for 4 years before we got married she was 17 and I ...

My husband has lost his desire for sex with me after one year. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

24 August 2008 (F) - I have been married for 1 year now and my husband has no desire what-so-ever to have sexual relations with me anymore. I asked him why and he said that it was because it wasn't fun anymore that the new had worn off. What do I do?...

I can't have an orgasm after I found my husband looking at porn sites! I'm also pregnant...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

24 August 2008 (F) - In the past my husband has had no problem making me achieve multiple orgasms. last month I found porn sites on his computer and I am four months pregnant. I cant seem to have an orgasm since, I even had to fake it for the first time in our ...

My husband has become more and more withdrawn with the passing years. Now the kids are grown ups, is it worth me staying? How can I make him change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

24 August 2008 (F) - I've been married for 26 years and for about 6 or 7 years my husband has got more and more withdrawn - we exchange information but don't really talk, we haven't had sex in that time and he goes to the pub every night (he says its only for the last ...

He has told me he would come to me if I was interested and I am but my conscience says no because he's married. Any views?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

24 August 2008 (F) - I am very recently divorced. I was devastated by this , my husband left me and the children for another woman. For 25 years and long before I was married I knew this other man. I always liked him but sadly chose my ex husband over him and he then ...

I'm crushing on this guy who is married and I'm married too but I'm a little confused...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

24 August 2008 (F) - I'm crushing on this guy who is married and I'm married too but I'm a little confused. He said that he was married and he didn't think he could ever do anything like that. He did give me a hug and a kiss after we talked about all the little flirty ...