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Is my husband obsessed with his colleague? are they more than friends?

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Question - (22 August 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 August 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ivaRandal writes:

my husband is 31 and his female colleague is 24 and they work in the same business-theater.

they were good friends before and when they had any interactive sessions they would always sit beside each other. i have seen their pictures, some taken 2-3 years ago well together and a few quite recent and they seemed quite close.

my husband also kissed her hand at such a session. however just a month ago he publicly on radio revealed that girl's sexual antics, said knows 10 guys shes been with,that she sleeps around and must be in bed with a guy.

it was not out of gossip coz that too on radio no one gossips and praised me for what reasons nobody could understand.

why is he concerned? then he had to apologize and just 4 days ago he came out and said(sarcastically) that he's a big fan of her and she has great potential. It came across as if she was his best friend so why such animosity all of a sudden?

why such derogatory statements?

what was trying to prove?if he loves me then why is he concerned abt the girl? or does he love her?

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A male reader, Jess88 India +, writes (30 August 2011):

there is definitely some sexual tension between him and her, of what level is difficult to predict. If they are good friends and she sleeps around maybe she is trying to seduce him. You know being a man is difficult, even though you are all morals and standards and you love your wife. Men are still weak if a women submits to them, the thing is they find denying excruciatingly difficult, though sometimes we can.

It's a 50-50 bet, but he already thinks something sexual about her.

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