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Archived questions from: February, 2006 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Am I wrong to want him to leave the workplace where he had his 5-month affair?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

27 February 2006 (F) - My husband confessed to a 5 month affair with a much younger woman. I am trying so hard to forgive and forget but I cannot get it out of my head that he betrayed and lied so much to me. He has been off work on sick leave now for 3 months, since ...

My husband hasn't changed, in spite of his promises and now I've met someone who's showing me what a good relationship is like!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 858 days ago

27 February 2006 (F) - I have been married for 10 years, no kids. We have never had great communication (i.e. talking things out). Money fights have always been a problem with us. I want to save and have nice things and do things, upgrades around the house etc. He buys ...

My wife told me she was a virgin, but the truth's come out and she was far from it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 607 days ago

27 February 2006 (M) - I have been married to my high school sweetheart for 10 years (I am 30 yrs old) and been with her for 12. When we got together, she told me that she was a virgin. I was a virgin so I thought that is was great to lose our virginity to each other. ...

My wife and I are having big problems-do I leave or find another woman or just stay put?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 761 days ago

27 February 2006 (M) - Oh woe is me. I need some advice on what to do. I am a married man (10 years), have kids, happy go lucky attitude, professional, well paid, blah blah. I am confident, funny and tall (6'2). The problem is that my wife has switched off the care ...

I feel like I have to boss my husband around and tell him what to do, and when!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 857 days ago

26 February 2006 (F) - Thank you for taking the time to read this....I have a big problem, you see I got married young at age 19 to a loving 26 year old man. Our relationship seems like it's going down the drain emotionally. My husband respects me and treats me like a q...

What can I do to save this marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 863 days ago

25 February 2006 (F) - My husband and I have always been really soppy together. we have been living apart due to his work but saw each other very often. He was due to move to a job nearer to me but was having second thoughts. last week out of the blue he said he was ...

He talks about marriage, but after more than six years, it's gone nowhere!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 532 days ago

25 February 2006 (F) - Help This is my first time posting. I need help, I just don't know what to do anymore. Here it goes. I have been with my boyfriend for years and he proposed to me when I was pregnant with our daughter who is 5 now (engaged 5 years and been togethe...

My husband won't stop his affair. He even tells me that they're still in touch!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

25 February 2006 (F) - I have been married almost three years and just found out the end of November that my husband had a sexual affair with a ex girlfriend. It should also be noted that we dated before getting married since high school and he left me once before for ...

My husband does not talk about his feelings to me...what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 865 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - My husband does not talk to me, he is mostly quite and does not express his feelings, what can I do...

I think my husband lied about knowing this other woman for six years. I think he was just chatting her up!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 855 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - Tonight I just got back from a night out with my husband. He was eyeing up this girl who was eyeing up him back right in front of me, so engrossed with each other they didn’t even notice me storm off. When I moved back closer I saw him holder her ...

I love my wife like a sister, and I met this other woman who I really like. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 863 days ago

23 February 2006 (M) - hi im a married man 35 year old some probs in the relationship been married for 9 years the best way i could sum up my position would be i love my wife like i love my sister not that i have one but u know what i mean. any way i had more or less ...

Should I stay in this sour marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 866 days ago

22 February 2006 (M) - Myself and my wife have been together for ten years and married for two years. I feel that the spark has gone, we dont seem to click anymore. I have a jelouse streak in me and constantly think she is falling for other guys, because she seems to get ...

She asked me a loaded question and I failed miserably...now I'm paying for it bigtime. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 863 days ago

21 February 2006 (M) - Before we were married my wife asked me what my fantasy was...not really one to fanasize, what came to my head was a asian woman. She said nothing at the time and a few weeks later asked me what seemed to be fraised in a joking matter....if you came ...

My wife is hurt by my sexual past. She cant have sex with me without thinking of where I have been!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 868 days ago

21 February 2006 (M) - My wife has asked for details related to my sexual past. Some of these woman were childhood friends we new before we were both married. I am one to keep my past in the past but she is one that likes to know up front as to not ever be the odd pers...

Should I worry about my husband having online texts with an old gf, everyday?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 868 days ago

21 February 2006 (F) - my husband spends hours several nights a week having MSN conversations with an old girlfriend, they also TXT each other most days. I'm not happy but he says I have nothing to worry about. Should I be worried ...

I'm falling in love with my brother in law...were we destined to be together and how will our families react?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 700 days ago

20 February 2006 (F) - I think I am falling in love with ex husbands brother. This is a very complicated situation after 2 years of a horriable marriage I filed for legal seperation then after research found I could file for annulment due to ex husband hidden drug add...

I had to confess everything about my affair, but my wife says I have no right to ask about her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 868 days ago

20 February 2006 (M) - Quick bit of history. I dated my wife all through college and have been married for 17 years. 3 years ago I had a year long affair. My wife and I through many hours of counseling are still together and very happy. My question. For ...

I am still grieving over losing my dad and now my husband refuses to talk to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 869 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - Please help. My husband refuses to talk to me. It all started last week when he was offered a new job. He waited until coming to bed at midnight to say "I can't believe you haven't even said well done for getting a new job" I was so taken aback and ...

My husband and I have no communication, no common ground...and we argue. I'd leave, but for the kids. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 871 days ago

18 February 2006 (F) - Hi, I am 40 years old and a housewife. I have 5 kids their ages being between 2-20yrs, been married for 20yrs. I'm unhappy at this point because my marriage has always been the same...taking care of the kids and my normal house routine. My hus...

Can anyone suggest a reason why I shouldn't walk out on my lazy, frigid wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 376 days ago

17 February 2006 (M) - I have been married for 14 years and have got to the stage where my wife is driving me insane. Apart from going to work, she never leaves the house. She doesn’t have any friends, hobbies, interests or do any sports. She just spends all weekend and ...

My husband is so uninvolved in my life and I've fallen for someone else. Am I unreasonable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 873 days ago

15 February 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid I am 31 years old my husband is 55 (we met when I was 18). We have a 3 year old son and have been together for 13 years. We have been living in his home town until our child was born then we moved away to my home and he fell into dee...

I'm disturbed hearing about my wife's past sexual life, but she brings it up often!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 873 days ago

15 February 2006 (M) - My wife of a few months has told me of some past relationships in which she explained some details. Let me first tell you that she has had intercourse with 4 men including me. She is forty and has been divorced about 4 years from a man that des...

I want our troubled marriage to work, but am I a glutton for punishment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 874 days ago

15 February 2006 (F) - In December 05 my husband told me he was unhappy and not sure if he loved anymore. January 06 I found phone calls to another woman. Approached him and he told me that are just friends. I kicked him out, but recently told him if he wanted to make ...

I was called a homewrecker by his ex..but she seems happier now that they've parted.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

14 February 2006 (F) - This is not so much a question, but to let people know how to deal with a situation. A long while ago i wrote to you all asking advice. It was about being in love with my best friend, and although he was married, it was very un-happy. His wife thr...

He won't communicate and won't seek help for our marriage...what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 875 days ago

14 February 2006 (F) - How do I make my husband try to work at our relationship? We were introduced by a relative in 2004 and hit it off. We were quickly engaged and decided to get married. My husband works at sea and is away for months and comes home for a maximum of...

My wife need not worry but how do I convince her of this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 875 days ago

14 February 2006 (M) - I was flirting heavily early in our relationship. Married for 23 years. Wife does not trust me and I have a female colleague at work that crawls up your skin. Wife can not stand her and I keep getting bad vibes at home because of this female. I ...

The phone calls and texts have stopped but is he still continuing his affair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 874 days ago

14 February 2006 (F) - I believe my husband has been seing someone else. We have been married for 8 years and have a 5 year old daughter. Thing is For the past 4 months his bills have been showing that he has been texting her on average 30-50 times a day from morning to ...

We want to leave our marriages, to be together but not sure what's best. What should we do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 874 days ago

14 February 2006 (F) - I have been married almost 18 years and have 3 children aged between 7 and 12 My husband works for himself and is very hard working and earns good money although he is out 12 hours a day 6 sometimes 7 days a week for the past 10 months i have be...

Why would this married guy lie to his wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 875 days ago

14 February 2006 (F) - Why would a married man lie to his wife about his whereabouts? I'm friends with a married couple, I've known them both for about 3 years. They have been working out of state for the last year because thier business failed. They come back once a ...

Eighteen years into our marriage, my wife says she doesn't feel the love for me and wants space...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 876 days ago

13 February 2006 (M) - I have been married for eighteen years have three children. On my anniversary she tells me that she doesn't feel the love for me and she wants space. I want to give her space but I love her so much I can't stop calling her. She says I did nothing ...

Any insight into my husband's one explicit email exchange with an old flame?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 876 days ago

13 February 2006 (F) - I am have been married for two and a half years to a very great husband. We have a 10 month old daughter, we work toether, we play together and we have an amazing sex life. So the other night, I was going to check my e-mail and instead, my ...

His idea of committment is to buy a house together; but he says marriage isn't going to happen

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 876 days ago

13 February 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years, and we have been living together in his house almost a year (I have a flat of my own which I now rent to someone else). Personally I would like to marry this guy. The problem is that, although he ...

Is it my husband's indifference that has attracted me to his best friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 876 days ago

12 February 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, Wow, where to begin! I'm Married (have been now for 9yrs!) I used to think it was a great marriage and I couldn't believe how lucky I was to have found my Husband. The thing is that since we had children 7yrs ago all effort to keep t...

My cheating wife kicked me out, and moved her boyfriend into our house! Now she says she's finished with him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 878 days ago

11 February 2006 (M) - Hi, my name is Adam. I got married 7 years ago. We met throught her parents. Within two months we decide to get married. After one year, our daughter was born. She loves me more then her mum. After the birth, my wife started taking A-class d...

His anger episodes upset me and our baby! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 91 days ago

11 February 2006 (F) - My husband has some serious anger issues - he doesn't hit, but he gets angry, swears and raises his voice every day. He does this in front of our 7-month old son, who stares at him with a worried look or cries. My husband doesn't seem to care - he ...

We are both committed to others...yet there is this attraction

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 878 days ago

11 February 2006 (M) - I'm 35 and married for 8 years and have been working in a local factory for a little over a year. I have been working with the same lady (age 42)and we have become very close friends. She is in a 6+ year relationship. Over the past year our ...

My wife stops me from seeing my family and friends. Should I leave her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 873 days ago

9 February 2006 (M) - I have been married for 5 years now, with my wife who I have known for 6 Years. Throughout this time, we have had more ups and downs than a roller coaster. My wife is constantly stopping me from seeing friends and family. It started out fine but ...

In love with my cousin's husband! They've recently moved to where I live and now I can't avoid seeing him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 880 days ago

8 February 2006 (F) - Hi, Need some aadvice. Have been in love with a married man for almost 16 years. Problem is he is married and so am I. He knows I love him, as I went and told him. He has admitted to me that he likes me too. He is married to my cousin and they ...

Can a married couple stay under one roof, not love each other , without having sex for five years!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

8 February 2006 (F) - hi, i just wanted to know something...between married couples...can a married couple stay under one roof, not love each other ...and without having sex ( 5 years time??) the man apparently tells his girlfriend of five years that he doesnt f*** his ...

My wife doesn't like french kissing any more. Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 877 days ago

6 February 2006 (M) - Is it normal for some women to not enjoy open mouth kissing? (french kissing). We used to do it but my wife says she's not crazy about it. We've been married 20 years. It kind of bothers me....

Is he always finding fault with me...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 501 days ago

6 February 2006 (F) - Hi, I have been married for 2 years. My problem is that my husband is always finding fault with me. Even the smallest things are a major issue to him. And worst of all, he does not tell me abt his dissatisfaction but complains to my mum, brother ...

I feel like my married life has been a lie now his porn secret has come out! WHY do men do this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 756 days ago

6 February 2006 (F) - I found our three years ago that my husband (whom I had been married to for 16 years) had been using porn to masturbate over since before we met and consequently brought it into our marriage. I feel like my married life has been a lie. I was so ...

My husband has been so controlling and now there could be someone else for me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 882 days ago

6 February 2006 (F) - I have been married to a man for two years now. Over the last many months, he has done nothing but argue and fuss about everything. Since then my 16 year old daughetr made a mistake and got pregnant. SINCE THIS WE GOT IN A BIG FIGHT. It started ...

We've had phone sex and I would like more though I'm married...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 881 days ago

5 February 2006 (F) - hi im a married women that met a guy while helping my cousins find a property i met this estate agent he i taught was nice anyways he gave us his no. and shortly after i began texting him and i told him who i was we began to have phone sex which has ...

I think my husband is seeing her behind my back, even though he says he's not!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 884 days ago

5 February 2006 (F) - Hi, I have been married for 12 long years and been with this man that I love with all of my heart for a total of 15 years all together. He began talking to a 22 year old girl that happens to be married and has a kid, that lives right across from ...

I've met the woman I know I want to spend my life with, and now I have to tell my wife...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 884 days ago

4 February 2006 (M) - I am a 44 year old man. I have been with my wife for 25 years and we have four children - aged 23, 21, 16 and 15. The eldest are both in their own professions and lead happy and successful lives away from home. The two youngest at home with us. ...

There's a spark between me and my pastor. But I'm married!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

3 February 2006 (F) - I am a 30 year old married woman, and in the past few months, I've been having growing feelings towards the pastor of my church, who is a 40 year old married man. The thing is, I don't think that I'm the only one that feels this way. I've noticed ...

My wife and I need to end our obssessions with each other's pasts! How do we do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 884 days ago

3 February 2006 (M) - My wife and I are obsessed with our sexual pasts. I have answered questions that have her very sick with thoughts of me with other woman. I only give her the information because she asks and wants to know details at times. (she says it make her cope ...

My new husband has signed up on dating sites! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 870 days ago

3 February 2006 (F) - Hi, I have recently got married and my husband is away in another province working,anyway,I happen to remember his email password and I thought i would check to see if he is in to anything he should not be and I have found that he has sighned ...

Hy husband and his best friend (a lady!) are inseperable...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

2 February 2006 (F) - Hi, my husband of four years has a female friend of whom I do not like. I've known her all my life but she was his friend growing up. We just moved back home where she lives and ever since, they go to the clubs together (in which, my friends had ...