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Marriage problems: Help and advice

Can we get back to normal after swinging?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2334 days ago

28 November 2017 (F) - Do you think there’s any hope of a relationship going back to normal after swinging? My husband and I have tried it - yes we had a lot of fun - but the lifestyle isn’t for me. When I tell him I want to stop we fight because he doesn’t want to stop. ...

I thought I could taste latex condom on my husband while giving him oral, he says I'm crazy but I'm ready to file for divorce

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2017 days ago

26 November 2017 (F) - My husband asked me to give him oral sex. He had just taken a shower. We’re about to have sex, I go down on him and I put his penis in my mouth. I tasted the strangest taste of condom. I was in disbelief. I pulled away saying to myself I’m. Crazy. ...

I want to sleep with my wifes cousin.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2332 days ago

24 November 2017 (M) - So my wife has a really attractive cousin who I only see on holidays and up until now she’s been in a relationship. Well she’s newly single and I noticed she seems to be interested in me as well and has given vibes that she’s feeling it too. I sat ...

He's taken my wife. Should I be worried?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2346 days ago

21 November 2017 (M) - my wife an I have been married for 3 years. however things have been interesting for last 18 months. we have a neighbour Raymond who is divorced for a long time and is 44. he has two girls about 8 and 12. me and my wife are both 28. however 18 ...

I feel that my boyfriend's ex wife was living my dream life and I'll never match up to her

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2303 days ago

21 November 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am off for the next week due to holidays and as my boyfriend is working, I offered to work on clearing out his storage. Now he has an ex wife of 10 years(divorced in 2009) and I brought home a ton of boxes that were never unpacked. ...

I've never cheated but my husband is accusing me off it because he says I am "loose"

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2346 days ago

20 November 2017 (F) - am a young woman of 25yrs I have two children all through c section,av never slept with any other man for the past six years.my spouse is accusing me of cheating because my vagaina is loose he had started an affair outside..am shattered what can be ...

My world has come crashing down because my wife just told me that the daughter we've been raising is not mine but from her affair after the marriage!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2338 days ago

19 November 2017 (M) - My wife and i have been married for 3 years, 6 months ago she told me something that rocked my core. the daughter i have been raising is not mine. she had an affair 2 years ago. the reason she cheated was that she was a virgin when we got married ...

Whatwas he trying to prove?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2353 days ago

13 November 2017 (F) - Had a major fight with my husband and then he went online (on my computer) and looked up ALL of his exes and past flings on social media! Don't think he contacted any of them but why would he do that?...

My parents are separated, dad has a girlfriend who's not too great and my mom is spiralling out of control. Help me please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2300 days ago

12 November 2017 (F) - Hi. My question today/tonight is about separation.. My parents have been separated since April 2016, They are still married but do not live together. I asked my dad nicely if he could pay for flights for myself and my mum to go over east to...

Now he seems interested in finally setting a date I don't want to marry him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2353 days ago

11 November 2017 (F) - Hello, new to the site. hoping for some help. I 39 years old and my bf is 46, we have been together for almost 3 years and engaged for 2 of those. When we got engaged i was so happy that i would be planning my wedding, but every time i mentioned ...

Its a year of no contact with married man, I suspect his friends are contacting me on facebook.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2335 days ago

10 November 2017 (F) - Hello everyone. Thank you for taking the time to read my question. It's a messed up situation but I've been coming here off and on over the situation for a few years now. Several years ago and crush turned into a long term affair with a married ...

How do I make my separated husband realize his responsibilities towards me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2303 days ago

10 November 2017 (F) - after few months i am very depressed become of my sister in law and mother in law n i decide to live desperately.today me and my husband live separate but my husband does not accept his responsibilities like paying rent, secure me and child , ...

How can a wife cheat for 3 years and act like everything is ok?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2353 days ago

10 November 2017 (M) - After I found out that my wife was having a three year affair with another man, I gave her an ultimatum and she ended it....she eventually told me that she made a big mistake, and didnt know what she was thinking the past three years...I found out ...

There is no intimacy in our marriage .... is my wife having an affair?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2358 days ago

7 November 2017 (M) - I have been married for 15 years. Beginning of marriage the sex life was great. Then all of sudden I had to wear a condom didn't want me to orgasm inside her. The kissing stopped was only just a peck on the cheek or lips. Once a month she has dinner ...

I'm in a mess I cant walk away from

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2357 days ago

7 November 2017 (F) - Urgh, what a mess. An old colleague messaged me to ask how I was getting on. We never really interacted at work. The messages very quickly became flirty. We are both married. But we met for coffee and there was definitely sexual chemistry....

My husband is threatening divorce ... please help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2360 days ago

6 November 2017 (F) - I messed up .... again. Long story short: I have OCD and anxiety in my relationship. I am controlling and emotionally abusive (though not to the full extent that articles write about). I have hurt my husband so much that i dont know if he can forg...

Is my husband's panty fetish out of control?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2360 days ago

5 November 2017 (F) - Is my husband’s panty fetish out of control? I just discovered that my husband has been sneaking my underwear as well as my 18yo daughters underwear. I don’t know exactly what he does with them I can only imagine. He swears it’s not about who wear...

He gets angry and accuses me of being controlling if I ask for a bit of attention!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2360 days ago

5 November 2017 (F) - Husband has very much a situational based depression due to work issues where there is no way out for two years as he is in a work situation where a personal guaranteee is in place that would cost us about €60,000 to get out of. So theres two more ...

My husband is flat out lying to me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2361 days ago

5 November 2017 (F) - Is it ok to snoop if i am being lied to? My husband keeps telling me that his 'penis is broken'. We havent had sex in two months or so. Hes massively stressed out. The thing is that in the last two weeks i have given him two blowjobs and we have act...

My wife says she won't move out of the house until our divorce is final. Why?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2362 days ago

3 November 2017 (M) - My wife says she's not moving out until our divorce is final. She says she talked to a lawyer. Why wouldn't she just move? She has a home to go to that she bought recently with daughter...

He cheated. Should I?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2361 days ago

2 November 2017 (F) - I’m married 20 yrs to my 1st love. We have 3 kids (14, 10 and 6). I found out 5 yrs ago my husband was cheating on me for a few years. I confronted him with evidence found in his emails and texts, pics of escorts and hotel records. He confessed ...