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Archived questions from: August, 2010 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

I still love my husband but he went back to his ex. Will he come back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I separated with my husband of 3 years while I was 5 mnths pregnant. We had problems before but it was just minor problems tht we managed to sort out. The reason we broke up was tht he suspected infidelity though he did not have concrete proof about ...

I just got married and already there are problems

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - i just got married on saturday and it seems like my husband would much rather spend time with his friends than to be with me and his daughter . we are young , i am 20 and he is 19 . we have been together since we were 13 and have a two year old ...

Our open marriage has become a disaster

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - This is complicated; you've been warned! My husband and I have always idealized, even before we were together, a committed relationship that does not involve monogamy. While I always thought it sounded great, I had doubts about how many people ...

Husband went to strip club 3X, hid it from me and I can't forgive him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I found out that my husband was drunk and went to strip clubs about 3 times. He did this behind my back. When i found out i was devastated. I feel such hurt, betrayal, anger. I can't get the images out of my mind. I am nervous and anxious all the ...

My husband met up with his ex and now wants to split

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I have an 8 yr marriege... My husband met up with his ex 3 weeks ago.. We were already having problems.. but this made up his mind.. after 3 weeks he wants too sell house and completely split.. Whats going thru his head??...

Husband has been hiding money..do I confront him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I need a voice of reason. I was married to a man for 7 years and we have recently split up. During that time money has been very scarce due to the fact that initially he was in a very low paid job, then he bought his own business and has been ...

Living with my husband and in his deceased wifes shadow.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Hello I am in my late 30's and am married to a man in his early 40's. My husband lost his beloved wife from breast cancer in 2007 after 15 years of marriage. He has two young children from his first marriage who I adore and have formed a very st...

She won't divorce her husband to be with me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - Hi, I am 21 years old, and my gf is 15 years older than me, and she is married from last 17 years, having 2 daughters staying with her husband, her husband is like not good not even bad, we are from different countries so we are million miles away, ...

I want to divorce him but I feel guilty for not trying!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I have been with my husband since early 2008 and we have a 2 year old son and when i was pregnant i set up a fake profile of this 'hot' chick to test him. It was sneaky but all he had to do was say 'thanks but no thanks, my partner is pregnant' etc, ...

Leaving my wife for someone prettier?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - I grew up with a childhood fantasy of marrying a blond blue eyed girl, and instead I married a beautiful dark hair and eyed woman. We've been married for several years, and we have just one tween daughter... but now I want to pursue this idea...

How do I get my husband to tell his ex to show respect to me n himself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4985 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - hi guys! To all those who have an extended family... My husband n I don't really have an issues between us except for his ex! The situation is this; my husband has a child with another woman with whom he hasn't have much of a relationship muc...

He said that he hadn't been happy for 5 years and doesn't love me anymore.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I'm about give up. My husband of 11 years( been together 18) with 3 kids,9,7 and 5 left me 3 months ago. He said that he hadn't been happy for 5 years and doesn't love me anymore. He is living in a house of a friend rent free. He has said that he ...

Does my husband loves me?i just don't know who he is!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4985 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - we've got married for 5 years.i can say he is a good husband,he takes care of me and works so hard.but the problem is when we go out every time,he keeps looking at other women and really interested in them.he enjoys looking at them and talk to ...

I'd like to have an open marriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - i am married and have been for years but i would like to have a open marriage with our friends that we have know for years how do i go about ask my husband and my friend about this...

I don't want my husband's sister at our house 24/7!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4985 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - i have been with my husband seens i was 16 now im 22. we have a great wounderful 3 year old boy that we love so mush. everything for me was geating good. we are renting an apartment with some one else also there is a lot of poeple in the house hold ...

I give her all I can but I am at my breaking point.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - Hello all not sure who im talking to! OK here goes, I am 39 my partner is 29 we have 3 children all aged under 10. I loved this woman with all my heart, i gave her everything. For the past 2 years my partner has changed, she wont come near ...

Is there some solution that won't rip apart lives and destroy families?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - This question requires a lot of backstory...I think I'm honestly mostly just asking it for the benefit of having written it all down somewhere, but I'm asking it none the less. I tend to be verbose when I write…I hope this isn't too long. I'm ...

I cannot live like this any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - I have ben involved with a married man for 6 years. We are both married. I have 2 children in high school. I have told my husband that our marriage is over once the kids leave home - we are civil. My lover's children are college graduates but still ...

Retroactive jealousy regarding my wife! How do I deal with it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - Hi, I need to ask you all about my wife. She has a very sexually chequered past that haunts me, but to be honest, at other times turns me on too. What I need to know is how to deal with it and get over it. She is a beautiful woman, 30yrs old ...

Married and 2 years later still wondering if I've done the right thing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - i've been married to a man for two yrs now n still i'm wondering if i've done the right thing! U c i think i still love my ex to whom i was engaged but he called it off when i was about 3/4 mths pregs with my daughter, he had realised he wasn't ...

How can I support my husband working over night?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - okay here I go my husband got a job grave yard... and im so used to him being home with me and our son.. I try abd try to get used to him being gone five nights a week.. but some how I cant ... he thinks I assume he is cheating I don't cause I know ...

How do I leave my husband without hurting the kids? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - basically, i have problems with my husband, they are: 1) he is emotionally abousive to our children and sometimes slaps them. (he whines at them, impersonates them when they whine, calls them stupid etc) 2)he is very defensive with me for example i...

If he can't even stick his tongue in my mouth, what good is having a "normal" sex life????

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - My husband wants to start having a normal sex life with me, but he won't even french kiss me or start making out with me. His idea of foreplay as he told me would be to do the "69" position. The bottom line is he is willing to do anything sexually ...

Husband's actions lead me to believe he is cheating on me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - I feel like my husband is cheating on me. He lies and when i question him he gets mad at me. He does not spend time with me or is interested in me. He calls me names when he dosent know where I am. He says he will be back in 2 hours but he wont be ...

Separated from my wife -- and enjoying it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

27 August 2010 (M) - My wife and I are separated. I wanted the separation. We both were at fault, but among other things, she was unfaithful. We are going to a marriage counselor. I thought I wouldn't enjoy this time apart from my wife whom I love, but I do. This h...

Having trouble staying interested in straight sex with my wife

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

27 August 2010 (M) - I have been faithful to my wife for the better part of two decades. I love her very much. Physically, however, I find myself having grown very bored with "regular" sex over the last few years. When we have sex, I have to fantacise to get into it. ...

Husband cheated on me and now I feel like retaliating with a friend to show him how it feels!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

27 August 2010 (F) - I recently found out my husband of 5yrs was having an affair with another married woman for a little over a year. To make things worse, let me mention that I was pregnant with our 2nd child and not only did he have the nerve to screw her in MY car, ...

Marriage is an endless circles of selfishness and lies

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been together for almost ten years on and off. We separated 10 months ago and we've been back together for almost a year now.however; It seems like a endless cycle of selfishness and lies. When we got back together we decided ...

My jobless, non motivated fiance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - I am a 20 year old mother of a 2 year old. Me and my fiance have been together for almost 5 years now, he is the father of my son. We love each other dearly but for 3 years this man has been jobless. He's had two jobs total. They only lasted a...

Problems with money and with his temper

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26 August 2010 (F) - Hi i have a real problem me and my husbind have been haveing problems with money for a long time i have been in and put of work part time here and there he a working on and of for other peaple and him self we always fight about money i should say he ...

How do I protect my daughter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

26 August 2010 (M) - I’m busy divorcing my wife at the moment and it’s been an emotional rollercoaster ride from hell – my soon to be ex-wife (38) is a very intelligent, attractive and well qualified individual (two post grad degrees and currently studying towards a ...

Broken heart

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - How does one survive a broken heart?! I'm just dying inside. Everyday I wake up crying, go to bed crying and just break down in tears at the drop of a hat. My heart hurts so bad! My 9 year marriage to my best friend and soul mate is ending. ...

My husband wont explain about these unusual phone calls and is trying to turn the argument around on me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - While paying our phone bill I noticed some calls at odd times (2:30, 5:00 am) from a weekend my husband was away with the boys. The calls were to and from the friends he was supposedly with. He previously told me they went out, got home around 2:30, ...

Is it ok for my husband to be friends with a woman he used to chat to online before we were married?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4989 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - My husband and I met two years ago on the internet and we got married.We are now expecting a baby very soon. Everything has been going well and he reminds me each day that he loves me and he says he is very happy am his wife.He told me there wa...

Putting my job on the line for my marriage.

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26 August 2010 (M) - I work in another state while living in another with my family. We have a home there which is near my wife's family. We bought a house recently, and after seeing what the toll has been with the both of us, we're deciding on doing whatever it takes ...

I want this baby, But I am in love with another woman!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

26 August 2010 (M) - My wife of three years, and I, have been having a rocky marriage. We were trying to have a baby, but it wasn't working due to the stress and arguing. I have a dear friend of 10 years, whom I've never dated, that I know I am in love with. We'v...

Stepchild Dilema

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - My 20 year old son from a prior marriage asked to live with my husband and I for a short time as he unexpectedly landed a job near our house and the commute from his home was too long. My son had 2 days notice before starting so the notice to me ...

I want my family's support when he asks me to marry him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i are talking about taking are relationship to the next level we have been dating for 7years but still live with our parents. He is 21 and i will be 21 in october i know he plans on proposing around my 21st birthday which i am ...

No One Likes My Husband

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - Help! My husband and I have separated after 10 years of marriage due to the way he treated/rejected my adult child. We are working on our relationship, however, I have just been made aware that no one in my family likes him at all and has only ...

My husband is making bad decisions!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - I love my husband very much and i dont want to loose him.but he is very concern about his family.he spend his every penny for them.he dont want kids now.i am a housewife.he wants to finance his brother's MBA,which cost will be $150000.i am ...

Can someone marry you without your consent?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - Hi, I met a very nice guy on line and now he says he has his pastor sending me a marriage certificate and he is comeing to get me to take me home next month, can he do that without my consent? I am a little worried here!...

Is my wife using me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

25 August 2010 (M) - i have split from my wife a couple of months ago, we where together for 18 years. the last two weeks we have got on great and i stayed over in the family home a few times. she has told me that she wants to get back together in a few months. now she ...

I can't do anything right by him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3949 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - I need some advice, I don't know what to do. My husband and I are constantly arguing. It seems as if 99.9% of the time is my fault either because i did something wrong or failed to do something. I'm trying my best to keep him happy but it seems it ...

I felt something was wrong so I looked at his phone, he does not know this, what do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 August 2010 (F) - recently my husband went on a trip with the boys. which he often does. I have always had great trust in our relationship. He called and texted everyday to check in. Upon returned, he asked if the washing machine was empty while he was still in ...

I don't want to ruin my marriage!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4991 days ago

24 August 2010 (F) - Hi cupid,iv been in a relationship 4 a year now,before i joined this relationship my ex boyfriend had left me for another woman,i then found this man very attractive too so i fell in love with him too and we then get married.five months down the ...

How do I break it to my husband that I want to leave?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

24 August 2010 (F) - I am moving towards leaving my husband of 23 years. Though he is a good guy, I don't want to hurt him. The dagger that he will feel will hurt more than the years of irritation I have felt, but at least it will be quick. My therapist explai...

After my husband cheated and I moved out I slept with another man, it feels so good to get revenge for what my husband did to me! Was I wrong to do this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

24 August 2010 (F) - After i realised that its not working out, we both agreed that i should move out and get a place of my own, i moved out and i was still angry at him for cheating and all the bad treatment i got from my mother in law.i have been staying alone for ...

Over 65 and my wife no longer wants sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

23 August 2010 (M) - My wife has no more interest in sex. When I ask her what the problem is? She just says that she has lost all interest in sex. My question is, If I have sex with another woman would that be cheating? P.S. We are both over 65....

I've never been so sure about something in my life...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - I have a very complicated situation, and I would love some feedback, especially from a guy. This is a very long, complex story, but I'm going to try to sum it up as quickly as possible, while still getting important details across. I'm f...

Boyfriend buys jewelerry and expenisive gifts for his married woman friend...is this appropriate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

23 August 2010 (F) - I have a dilemma ... I have been dating someone online for 5 months ... he is early 30s, I am late 30s. Neither of us has ever been married; in fact, he has never been in a serious relationship longer than 5 weeks due to many violent episodes ...