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Archived questions from: November, 2014 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

I'd really like more affection in my marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3426 days ago

30 November 2014 (F) - I have been married for 8 yrs now. My husband is a great guy. But he isn't very affectionate. Sex is very good not as often as i would like but he is getting older. I have tried to talk to him time and time again about how important kissing is to ...

My mother has been telling me that my husband is using me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3424 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - I need a second opinion. My husband and I married almost 3 yrs ago. He is from a foreign country. Because we married, he received his green card. We lived with my mother, but moved across the street because he didn't want us to have children and not ...

I want sex as a Christmas present and I want her to fulfill my sexual fantasies! How do I say this to my wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3426 days ago

29 November 2014 (M) - My wife keeps asking me what I want for Christmas, but I'm a bit nervous about asking for what I really want - sex. I want to have sex more often - I think she does too. The issue is last Christmas - after copious research - I bought her lingerie ...

Has he been hiding these feelings all these years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - My husband of 15yrs has never said anything to horrible to me.. But for the past for weeks he has not held back.. Last night was pretty hurtful.. He said he hated my guts, I was fat and sloppy, he couldn't stand to touch me, my kids hate me, he is ...

How do I heal after all his emotional abuse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3428 days ago

28 November 2014 (F) - I recently broke up with my husband. He manipulated me for years, but it was so cleverly done I didn't realise. It's only since we split up that I realised. He spent 12 years making me feel bad about myself, and in the end I couldn't answer the door ...

Should I fake liking sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

27 November 2014 (F) - Hello everyone so I need an advice, I'm 23 years old and have been living with my husband for 5 years, we have 2 kids. I love my husband we recently got married through church (Catholic). Anyways so here's the thing, he has been the only man in my ...

How do I communicate my feelings to my husband without feeling negativity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3430 days ago

26 November 2014 (F) - Hi Agony Aunts, Firstly I need some advice and I'm in great need of help. My husband and I love one another greatly but my depression is driving us both crazy and also making him sad. I was sexually abused multiple times in my life I was moles...

Second time around and there are issues

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3431 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - I re married my first husband. The marriage broke down first time after over 20 years, he was a workaholic and picked up a prostitute one night which was the straw that broke the camels back. He thinks I have cheated in the past but I never, its ...

Confused, but better than most!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3433 days ago

23 November 2014 (M) - I have been married for 8 year and have known my wife for 10. I have a near photographic memory and remember many things that people tell me. 10 years ago I contracted an STD from my wife. She found out she had it from a medical checkup. No big ...

How can I manage being the good stepmother despite the poison his ex pours into their childrens' heads!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3433 days ago

23 November 2014 (F) - Hi everyone Hope you can give me some advice on my situation..bear with me though as it's quite a long one! I am due to be married next year, my fiancé is a good man, we have been together 3 years etc. he has 2 kids from a previous relationshi...

He always wants sex and has to push the boundaries every time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

23 November 2014 (F) - PLEASE someone help me.. My husband is sex OBSESSED! We have been together 10 years and don't have any children. We have always had a very adventurous sex life and there isn't much we haven't tried. The problem I have is for the last 5 or 6 years, e...

My wife won't have sex with me anymore and won't tell me why not

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3430 days ago

23 November 2014 (M) - I think the title says it all. We have been married for 7 years, together for 10 years, and the sex went from twice a night (which is normal in a honeymoon phase) to never over the course of 2 years. Over the last 5 years we have not had se...

My wife wants all the details of my past relationships

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3435 days ago

22 November 2014 (?) - i have a problem, now i am married i love my wife,i never hurt her feelings.i never lie to her,but i had an ex girlfriend, i had mentioned about our relation to my wife.Now my wife wants to know what kind of relation did i had with her, like love ...

Stupid for wanting him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3436 days ago

21 November 2014 (F) - I am stupid for wanting my husband back after 23 years of marriage? He left 7 months ago and said it was over, moved to another state, had a fling, that didn't work out. What ever happened really messed with him He thought about trying to work it ...

I found out my wife worked as a prostitute

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3434 days ago

21 November 2014 (M) - I got married 6 months ago. After marriage i found out my wife i Was a prostitute im just shell shocked. I dont know how to cope with it? Im just gone mental. I told her how treeible im feeling roght now and i told her to end this marriage...

My wife treats and speaks to me as though I am incompetent!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3436 days ago

20 November 2014 (M) - My wife of 1 1/2 years treats and speaks to me as though I am incompetent and unable to make the "right" decision. I am almost 62 years old and have managed to take of matters just fine all this time. My wife has a different and more stressful ...

My husband and his family are pressuring me to visit them in Kurdistan!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3437 days ago

19 November 2014 (F) - My husband is currently in kurdistan, iraq. We are supposed to be meeting up in turkey in a couple of weeks. Now he is pestering me to go to kurdistan as his family want to meet me. I dont wish to go there because of the situation in iraq. Kurdistan ...

My wife hides vodka around the house.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3438 days ago

18 November 2014 (M) - Hi Biggy issue. My wife drinks every night. Varying from half bottle of wine to half bottle of half bottle of vodka.? She spends roughly £60 to £80 a month on booze. I myself don't drink. Havent done for 2 yrs. Had a mishap w...

Is there any way to track texts, numbers and messages on an iPhone that is not yours?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - Is there any way to put a tracking device on an iPhone? How can I do this? I need to monitor my husband's phone for evidence of cheating. How about a GPS tracking device for the car? Can anyone help me? How can I do all this and where can I ge...

I have resentment toward my husband who won't talk about his business and never gives me support!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - I am building resentment toward my husband. My husband though is a nice man has no ambitions whatsoever. He has his small business, which basically pays for itself. I don't even know what he does with his money. He pays for his clothes, outings...

Two weeks ago my husband joined a gym, and now he has no energy left for intimacy. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

14 November 2014 (F) - Just a quick one really... My husband and I have been together for a good 4-5 years and we have always had a good sex life (3-5 times a week) up till about two weeks ago when he joined a gym. I'm all up for him going and getting fit feeling bett...

I found out my husband has been cheating and won't talk about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

14 November 2014 (F) - Me and my husband has been together for 16years.ive reacantly found out what my gutt has been telling me all this time to be true hes cheated on me for sometime now hes not denying it however he claims hes not doing it any longer and hes sorry but ...

How do we get our sex life on track again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3438 days ago

13 November 2014 (F) - Me and my other half have been together for 5 years we have only just got married about 4 weeks ago. Our relationship is amazing we get on great, but I have noticed a few times that our sex life has changed. When we first got together it was amazing ...

Communication is becoming impossible!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

13 November 2014 (M) - She asks "Would you like a biscuit" - I answer "yes please, just one" - "but you normally have two" - "yes but I'm not hungry, just one would be nice" - "You don't like my biscuits ?" - "yes but I'm not hungry" - "I've spent all this time cooking ...

Trying for a baby is ruining my marriage!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3437 days ago

13 November 2014 (F) - My husband and I have been trying for a baby since our honeymoon one year ago...with no success. All hope is not lost at this stage, we've had tests done and the specialists are pretty confident we'll concieve if we keep trying, and that treatment ...

Am I expecting too much not to be moaned at?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3444 days ago

13 November 2014 (F) - Hi I'm 21 and I have a husband and a 8 my month old little boy. I am in serious need of some guidance. Basically it been married to my husband for 4 months now and he's making me feel like I don't do enough. I get up in the night to feed our baby, I ...

Divorced women: Given another chance with your ex, would you still choose to leave your man and get divorced? Should I have to give up on my dreams?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3397 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - To all who divorced their husbands during their 30s and has grown old enough to look back on your life, do you regret your decision and wished you had tried harder (not the ones who were in an abusive relationship, just the ones who had a ...

We're getting married in 5 months. Am I asking too much to want fire and passion in our relationship? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3444 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I need your advice. I have been with the same man for over three years. We have lived together and shared money for two and a half of those. I am 24 and he is 28. "Joe" is the "perfect" man. He is chivalrous, hardworking, selfless...

He accuses me, he yells and shouts and pushes me, and he leaves!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3448 days ago

9 November 2014 (F) - I feel like I am going mad, no matter what I do I am wrong...am I wrong? I really hope you can help me as I feel I am going mad :( My husband and I have been through such a tough life together and it has certainly taken it's toll on me,...

Marriage isn't turning out like the fairytale and I'm so unhappy and unsure what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3447 days ago

8 November 2014 (F) - Looking for some advice.... I got married in May to my partner who I have been with for the past 5 years. Before we got married we did have some issues due to my insecurities and also what I feel to be a lack of care on his side. The las...

Wishing and waiting but he never comes home.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3449 days ago

8 November 2014 (F) - I am going absolutely crazy. My husband and I have 2 kids (1yr old and 3yr old), They have alot of emotional issues and are really hard to keep under control so I need his help more then the average mother and woman. My husband is ALWAYS gone out ...

I found my wife cheated for 10 years, but I'm staying for the kids. Any advice?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3447 days ago

8 November 2014 (M) - My wife and I dated 4 years and were married 10 years and 2 months when I found out she was having an affair with the same man the entire time. We have two daughters, now 4 and 7. Turns out the other guy was married and his wife found out. Tur...

Should I send my husband money? I think his family takes advantage of us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3449 days ago

8 November 2014 (F) - 3 years ago My husband sent alot of money to his family in a muslim country. His family said they were investing this money into a company where it would make profit. Some of this money was also mine. Now a month ago he has gone to see his famil...

My husband has cancer and he's given up hope

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

7 November 2014 (F) - Hi, here i am again. Asking your advice. Im 43 years old. My husband is 69. We are 10 years together and 7 years marriage. I love him and yes i know he love me too. The problem is 11 months ago, we found out that he has a stomach cancer, its a big ...

My husband has been meeting women for sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3449 days ago

7 November 2014 (F) - Well I have been so upset since 2am this morning. My husbands phone rang and I checked it because he was sleeping and it was an email from a girl at a sex hookup sight. I read it and looked at the pics she sent and started crying. I'm so broken. I ...

I have fallen in love with my mistress but I still care for my wife. What do I do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

7 November 2014 (M) - I have fallen in love with my mistress but I still care for my wife. I did not set out for this to happen. When I first met my mistress, I knew instantly I was head over heels for her. It started out as mostly physical as she is beautiful and mu...

Sexless, affectionless, respectless marriage.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3451 days ago

6 November 2014 (?) - I never thought I would be on one of these sites asking people's opinions on personal matters.. but here it comes guys. I have been married for 7 years now. I am 35 year and he is 47. I was married before, to a complete and utter control freak, v...

I am married, but want to confess my feelings of love to another woman.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

6 November 2014 (M) - Hello, I am a 40 yr old married man from India. I had an arranged marriage which is a norm in India. Few years ago I was abroad for 3 years where I met this single Indian woman who was working in the same organization as me. We became good frie...

Am I asking too much from my husband?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3452 days ago

5 November 2014 (F) - I feel that I give more than I get. I feel that my husband hasn't got a clue what love really is... We've been together for almost 15 years. We met when I was 25 and he 27. In a way we grew up together. All the major life decisions (and efforts)...

Is it out of line for me to try and initiate spontaneous sex ? I keep getting rejected by my wife

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

5 November 2014 (M) - hey there, I have been in a relationship for seven years now and my wife continues to reject my spontaneous advances. I understand things could be approached the wrong way, but I try and be fun or cute and at times alpha to initiate somethin...

I would be leaving my wife of 12 years for her, so I need to know if she wants me too

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

3 November 2014 (M) - First time I have done something like this online but there is no one else i can speak to about this. I am married with a child and 2 step kids, I love my wife but I don't know if I am still in love with her. I met a girl in her 20s a couple months ...

My marriage is crumbling and I don't know how to fix it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

2 November 2014 (?) - About six years ago, I moved 500 miles from home to be closer to family after a breakup from a really insecure relationship. I knew I was not ready for a relationship again, and I swore I was going to work on my insecurities. A few months later I ...

Is my husband bi-polar?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

1 November 2014 (F) - Does my husband have a form of bi-polar? I have been married to my husband for 12 years. We have 2 children. We've been through some rough times as my husband is very moody and has a negative and anxious outlook on life. He utters threats to...

How many tears have to fall before my husband gives me a hug?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3455 days ago

1 November 2014 (F) - I've been feeling really bummed out about the way my husband responds to...well me being bummed out. Sorry to be confusing. For example today I took a big hit as I realized I missed the deadline for papers for a sizable sum of money...I had lots of ...