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Archived questions from: March, 2009 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Does my wife want to work things out or just end things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - My wife and I of 4 years have had another blow out last friday, (it is now tuesday morning). The fight was about me switching batteries from our cell phones so I could have a fully charged one at work, but I forgot to turn my phone back on. She ...

He's fallen out with our daughter and now loves to walk around in the nude!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 16 years this year, very happy mostly all of that time, except for the last 4 years, he's just turned 48, he had a big falling out with his daughter at that time, bacause she lied, and she also had a young ...

I gossiped about his gay brother and now my husband is cold towards me

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31 March 2009 (F) - I've been married for the past 2 years. We had an arranged marriage, so there are troubles in our relationship mostly because of our families and few trust issues too. Now after time, things have really improved between us and we two are sharing a ...

My husband won't shower - tried everything! How can I get him to do so?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - My husband is a car mechanic, so as you can imagine he comes home covered in grease, dirt and not smelling all that great every night! Now I understand he works really hard and he is tired when he gets in, and I do empathise with him. But I get so ...

My husband is verbally abusive and has been physical lately too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hello, I have been in a relationship for 15 years and we have an 11 year old daughter together, and he has 4 children from another marriage. We are not married, however he is verbally abusive and has been physical lately. It is hard for me to leave ...

Help! I have problems with sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been married for two years and I have never been on top during sex!! I just can't do it as it hurts and I can't give my husband oral sex! I did it once but it disgusts me?!!!!!!!!! Is this normal or what ?...

I'm not lazy and I try to take care of everything but I'm wore down and I don't know how much more I can take

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My husband no longer talks to me except to argue if I say nothing it's still my fault. I've been married all most 10 years. Everything I do or say is wrong. I feel unloved and definitely unwanted. I'm always a bitch. I've been sleeping on the couc...

My husband chose his family over his affair. But now we are "lost"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My husband had an affair, he broke up with her and chose to keep his family, but I feel he is a different person now, he is a broken hearted, he is absent minded when we are together. it seems he loved her, I am lost! help!...

I moved overseas with my family to forget her... I can't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - I'm married with a two year old son. Around a year and a half ago, I became close to a female friend of mine, who is also married. This grew quickly and I fell in love with her and she fell in love with me. It kept growing and growing and got ...

Why does he walk ahead of me as if I don't exist?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 1654 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hi - wonder if anyone can help with this one! My husband who is nearly 40 (married for 10 years) often (not always but more often than not) walks ahead of me. It doesn't matter if we are simply going from the car to the supermarket, walking along ...

Husband shut down emotionally and broke things off with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - hi i would really appreciate any advice on what to do when your husband has shut down emotionally and broken up with you suddenly.i really want to work things out but im too scared to try,i dont know what to do anymore. before when he broke up with ...

I need your advice! I feel as if my husband doesn't love me... and now I'm pregnant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I am recently married. Ours is a love marriage. I love my husband very much, he is least bothered about me. He is more attached to his family side. When we go to his place, he does not care about me. I am the only daughter and no brothers and my ...

Me. my husband, my affair, my affair's ex-mistress, and my husband's affair

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hello, I'm married for almost 10 years. I am having an affair with a married man since 2 years. First of all we are great friends, I frequently go to his place and I know his wife and children. He says I'm like his second wife. The problem is w...

Is it time to move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been going to marriage counselling now for a few months,during these sessions i have found out that he has cheated on me more times than he had confessed. Sorry its long but a bit back ground on my problems,Feb 08 i was told...

How can I forget somebody I love but the relationship is going nowhere?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hello...I am married woman with 1 kid. Before, I am too much in love with my husband, to much to the point of giving up most of my dreams just for the sake of marrying him.Just to know in the end that he was not in love with me but with his first ...

I have an evil stepdaughter and a stupid wife

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - I have been seperated for 4 yrs. Recently me and my wife have been trying to bring our family together. We have one child together and she has a child from a previous relationship. The step child a girl is an absolute brat. She is a little slut as ...

I am finding it so hard to move forward.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I moved to the USA 9 years ago. I married an American. We have had the usual ups and downs but apparently now he wants to call it a day. He has gone up North to his family and I am left here with my 15 year old son from a previous marriag...

Is it necessary to let your ex-husband know of your present boyfriend??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - My husband cheated on me. However I have no courage to leave the marriage until I meet my boyfriend. We are very much in love. I decided to divorce my husband. Now that we are divorced, we are still staying in the same house because of the c...

Does anyone else experience this with their spouse or partner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - When I was working in another job I used to earn an okay amount of money. My husband and I have a joint account and every month we would both put in £700 / mth that would then pay off all our bills for the month - ie mortgage, electricity, water, ...

I love him very much, but he is breaking my heart, and using me as a doormat when he needs a babysitter.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I was married to my husband February 14, 2005 and we have been married 4 years. I have been dating him since 2000. His son is now 12 years old and has become a menace to my life. My husband was dating a women before our relationship to whom he had a ...

How do I regain my husbands trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - how do i regain my husbands trust after i lied about meeting one of my exboyfriends just to hear how he screwed up by leaving me and how he is still single and how alone he is...

Almost 21 and ready for a baby but my husband is not!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - im almost 21yrs old.i work at a daycare center in the infant room.so im arond babies all day!of course im going to love children!i absolutely love my job,and it just makes it so hard to be around babies when i am so desperate to have my own ...

My wife is going to sleep with another man tomorrow

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - I do not have a direct question, I just want some love from the dear cupid community. My wife of 12 years has plans to sleep with an old boyfriend tomorrow. She is in another state visiting her mother. While there, she met up with this guy. Th...

My wife's college sweetheart is now my next door neighbor!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - About thee months ago, my wife's old college sweetheart "Ken" moved next door to us. Ken was the all-American jock-football player, well built, and smart, and, I have to admit, nice. They dated for nearly 4 years until they each went to grad scho...

My husband has left me for another woman and I am devastated,

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - my husband has left me for another woman and i am devastated, i can not cope, he was my whole world and my world has collapsed, just need to know how to get myself strong again. ...

Should I leave my wife for this other women and risk end up being alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - I am in a 20 years marriage that has lasted 10 yrs too long. I have been seeing another woman twice a month for 2 years. I don't want to hurt my wife, but I'm not in love w/her anymore. The other woman loves me, but is married w/three kids. She ...

Who do I choose...my wife or my lover?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - I ended up having an affair due to lack of affection from my wife. I know I was wrong and I take full responsibility for my actions. Obviously, I wasn't looking for affection, it just grew from a friendship to an emotional level, which turned ...

My husband has impregnated a girl twice during our marriage!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - Should i stay with my spouse after i have forgiven him twice for impreganating **PERSON-A**,who happened to miscarry on both occassion. I gave birth to our daughter (**PERSON-B**) three months ago and he is now telling me that **PERSON-A** had a ...

He told me he ended their affair... but I found out he hasn't and I'm heartbroken...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - My husband had an affair a year ago, I found out after two weeks, he ended it and we stayed together. I found out a week ago that he did not end the affair it has been going on all the time. He has left me for her and I am totally broken, we have ...

My Husband cheated on me. I do not know what to do !!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I am going to describe my problem in two phases. Thank you for taking time to read this : Phase I I have been married to my husband for 5 years. we met on the internet on a chat site. We decided that we like each other and decided to mee...

I'm cheating on my husband and feeling guilty about it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - I'm posting this from a friend's computer for the sake of anonymity. I'll try to do any followups from here, but I cannot make promises that I will be able to get back. I'm a black woman, and I've been cheating on my husband with a white coworker...

Married a month, already unhappy husband can't talk to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - I am currently in a difficult position I got married about a month ago and now I don't know what to do. Two days ago I told my husband that I was still uncomfortable around him and that we should talk we had a two conversations on the phone that day ...

Phone records show my wife having an affair

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

27 March 2009 (M) - I found out by phone records that my wife was having an affair. she says it was not at all sexual. But she was in contact with this guy while I was out of the house, during work and other times. She even texted with him 26 times in one day after ...

He is married. I am married. BUT, we love each other!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - i have been seeing this married man for a year! I know that he loves me and i love him! He spends so much more time with me than he does at home, i understand why he can't leave though rihgt now! He has a lot he has three businesses and lots of p...

9th wedding anniversary approaching and I have no interest in sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - Please, somebody give me some advice! I am a 29 yr old married female. I am coming up on my 9th wedding anniversary in less than a month. I have completely lost interest in sex with my husband. We used to have a great sex life, but over time I ...

I wonder if we are just married as a habit now

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I am 46 and have been married to my husband for 22 years. We met when we were both 17 and we are the only partners each of us have had. Our relationship has changed over the years but and is now at the stage that I still love my husband but I am...

Lost interest in marriage

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - am a lady and married for seven years. my husband has had a tendency of not communicating in marriage when something annoys him. he just changes his mood and do not talk that much. at first i would try to start a conversation, but it was only...

Serious wife issues

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - My wife had a male best friend prior to our marriage. While dating, she had me meet her at her work in order to actually meet him. As an introduction, she stated, "I'd like you to meet AA, he's my life." This upset me some, as we were planning on ...

I took back my husband after he cheated on me twice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Hi, It's me. You know, my husband cheated a 2nd time. Well I went with my heart and took him back. I know that it's crazy but that's where my heart is and I know that I have to live with that decision. We have agreed to go to see a counselor and ...

Done the right thing or am I pushing him right to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I have just been married for ten years. We have been having some problems. Nothing I did not think we could not work through. I just found out he has been talking to an old girlfriend from 20 years ago. He hid it from me. Of course I live in a ...

I want a date night with my husband!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I am 28 years and I've been married almost 2.. Have a son whose 1. The thing is my husband and I have known eachother for 12 years and we've been together on and off. He's a good person and we love eachother very much. But when we got marr...

Should I just delete the message before he gets it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - Help, urgent advice needed. You are probably sick of my saga. My husband had a 'text affair' with a work colleague and although it's over he still has to liaise with her and attend work related committee meetings (he doesn't see her on a daily basis ...

Can I go on like this for another 20 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - My husband is driving me crazy. I don't know what is wrong with him. He says he loves me, but I don't feel it. He is not looking at me with desire, and he never wants sex. He is impotent, but not medically. He can have night erections, but not able...

I would love to please him but I can't What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I have been married for more than 10 years like 2 years ago I started going to topless bars with my husband we even had one of the girls do a dance for us, actually she was all over me more than him (which he loved) After that we also made his ...

I always feel so frustrated because I come too soon

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - I'm aged 27 years and I have a problem, whenever I have a sexual intercourse with my wife, I always feel so frustrated because I come too soon in the first round and it's low in quantity and even after trying the second round I don't ejaculate any ...

Is it me he loves or this other girl? I need to know for sure.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - Me and my husband are having problems. He was having an affair ad now I can't trust him. I love him, he is from Morocco and I'm from Ireland. Is it me he loves or this other girl? I need to know to end this marriage. I still love him too much. ...

She is unsatisfied in sex with her husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - how do I know a woman i am looking for sexual relationship is also interested because she is unsatisfied in sex with her husband...

Can't keep erection while entering her...please help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I have a unique problem. I was a virgin until I got married. However, I used to masturbate a lot and am theoretically educated about sex and protection etc. Now the problem is, during foreplay which both of us enjoy ...

I feel like I am at this point in my life where I am missing out on things and it breaks my heart he does not want to be there with me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - My husband and I have 2 children together (8 years old and 18 months old). I am due in June with our 3rd child. I am a stay at home mom for the most part, running two businesses from home aside from being a super mom, maid, cook and wife. My husband ...

She wants a break for a week and I now realise I have been a fool

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - I met my girlfriend on the internet a year ago we have met 5 times , we are 500 miles apart , i love her so much , i am a jealous and paranoid person and i have accused her of all sorts , i have treated her badly , the problem is now she wants a ...