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Archived questions from: May, 2006 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

We've been married for 3 years, living together for 13, hes cheated since we got married, and is still in contact, how can I make him give her up ?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - my husband of 3 years, living together for 13 years has had an affair since we got married. Now he says that he wants me and loves me but can't get his lover out of his head and don't know what to do. he promises me every week that he won't text her ...

I married a guy into his metal music... and now I hate it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 822 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - when we got married my husband was interested in metal music. I did not care since i liked pop music and everyone likes different types of music. The problem began when 15 years later he met other people who were mad into this metal music. Now al...

My wife says she thinks of us as just friends, how can I fix this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

30 May 2006 (M) - My Wife says her feelings for me have changed. She says right now she just thinks of us as friends. She told me this after I directly asked her about her obvious lack of interest in any type of physical affection. Holding hands, a hug, a kiss, sex. ...

Found out my husband was calling another female, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 822 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - I have been married for almost 7 years and got married straight out of high school. My husband and I have 2 children together. I have recently found out that my husband had a woman's phone number in his cell phone under a guys name. I called the ...

Husbands holiday is really getting to me... What should I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 823 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - My hubby and I haven't been married a year yet... The opportunity came up for him to go to Myrtle beach with his friends and he of course with no hesitation, agreed to go with them without discussing it with his wife first. When he asked me if he ...

He can't forgive me for a long ago affair...I am so unhappy. Do we divorce or keep trying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 823 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I was married for 7-8 years now. First two years when we had sex it was all about him. He had it for 30 min and I was enjoyed it too but not as I could. He never asks me about how I feel after his love except traditional: 'I love you...

I'm contemplating divorce... here is my dilema...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 803 days ago

28 May 2006 (M) - Should I finally get divorced to my wife? My wife and I have been married now for 17 years, I am 38 yrs old, she is 35 and we have one kid 16 yrs old. We got married early as you can tell if you do the math. The reasons I have thought about ge...

Left my wife after 17 years, she made me feel guilty so i moved back in but now my new girl is hurting!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 826 days ago

26 May 2006 (M) - I am a 58 year old man. Been married 3 times. The current marriage has lasted 17 years. About 4 years ago I met a woman online who turned out to be the woman I have always wanted to be with. We are truly soul mates. However, when I asked my wife for ...

Fallen out of love with my hot-tempered husband, but I don't want divorce, either...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 651 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - Need advice urgently. I’m married for 1 ½ yrs, no kid. I have problems with my husband. He’s very hot-tempered, flared up easily. Always impatient when talk to me. He always put on grouchy face which spoil my mood a great deal. This hurts me a ...

My husband has a low sex drive, help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 822 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - I am very frustrated. I have been married only 9 months and my husband seems uninterested in sex. I am 26 and he is 28. We have no children yet.Our relationship was long distance for a year before the wedding and we only saw each other once a month. ...

My husband was using online dating sites but he got caught

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 515 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - while i was taping an account name into my computor a list of previous names typed in on my computor came up, i had to double take because a porno/horny type name came up with my husbands name in it, i instantly kicked him out but he denyed knowing ...

All we do it argue and I miss our closeness!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 829 days ago

24 May 2006 (M) - i really love my wife , but we just dont get along anymore . we argue all the time and dont make love anymore at all . could it be that we had a child 11 months ago ,and thats what takes up her time constantly ? . i try to help as much as i can but ...

My wife has post-natal depression, help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 829 days ago

23 May 2006 (M) - my 23 year old wife gave birth 3 months ago to our second,she was diagnosed with pnd and now she has left me 5 weeks later saying she doesnt love me is pnd the cause if so what do i do...

Construction work career, or hairdresser?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 830 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - My husband of ten years is a construction worker. An opportunity has arisen for him to start working in a hair salon that belongs to a high school friend of his. It´s a job he's always aspired to and has a natural talent for. On one hand, the it's...

My wife is thinking about her ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 750 days ago

22 May 2006 (M) - hi I am married for 2yrs but been with my wife for 14yrs.two years ago she went back home for her sister wedding and there she met her former boyfriend who she hasn't seen or spoke to for 12yrs. when she came back she kept contact with him until I ...

A decade of marriage... move on or try one last time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 829 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - Hi, I need some advice! I have been married for 10 years and I want to finish my relationship with my husband. Both have 41. I am not happy with my husband because we have to much problems, one of those problems are his parents health that has made ...

I Do ...... But i don't!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 831 days ago

21 May 2006 (M) - Marriage: am I wasting everybody's time? I have just asked my girlfriend to marry me. The trouble is that I don't feel elated. I feel anxious. In truth, and I have never said otherwise, I would not have asked if I had been left to my own devices....

I want out, but I am finding it impossible!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 828 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - i want out of my relationship of 10 years i have 3 kids, i suffer with depression and my partner is very domineering he stopped me working checks the milage on my car basically have no life. he wont let us split up i have tried to run away before ...

My husband likes porn and I am in an abusive marriage

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 796 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - I have been with my husband for over 20 years and have experienced an abusive marriage with regards to his alcoholism, infedility, mental and physical abuse, masturbation, sexual demands as well as him being able to carry out conversations and ...

Getting out of a bad marriage and having an affair with married man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 772 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - I have just come through a dreadful breakdown in my marriage, he has left and I am battling with divorce. The thing is, I have met someone who has given me a shoulder and we have begun an affair. I know it won't help in the long run but for now he h...

I married my exhusbands friend and he is a jealous man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 833 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - I married one of my ex-husbands friends, he lived with us as a roommate and then we began an affair after he moved out. I have a child with both husbands, aged 20 and 11. My husband/ex-hubby's friend/father of my child is extremely jealous and ...

I want to leave him but he keeps blackmailing me to stay!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 834 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - I've got a bit of a problem...I've been married for 12 years and I truely think that I married for the wrong reasons. Our marriage has had it's ups and downs. Don't get me wrong, he is a good man - but has had some problems with his anger in the ...

Torn between 2 men, my husband or high school boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 834 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - I love two men and don't know who to choose! A little background: I am married and have been with my husband for eight years. The relationship for the most part is great, we don't have huge fights, he doesn't hit me or cheat on me, we enjoy the same ...

My husband has been seeing escorts....is it my fault?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 781 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - I have just found out my husband has been visiting escort agency girls - dominatrix in particular. How should I handle this? Is it my fault as I haven't been too interested in sex for about 6 months. thanks...

Problem getting a job... husband not being supportive...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 834 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - My husband says things like I make him unhappy he is always positive and happy and he is the bees knees whreas the opposite he wont talk to me or anyhting. He said i am finding it hard to find work because I live in a remote area I have no money co...

I want a baby & my husband is terminally ill

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 834 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - WHEN I was 17 I had an affair with one of my dad's friends who left his wife for me. We married and agreed not to have kids because he already had three and we couldn't really afford one of our own. But I am now 37 and my husband is in his 60s ...

She's finally leaving her husband, but there's a friend of hers I'm worried about.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 835 days ago

17 May 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for four months now. It's a very complicated situation and I am trying to make sense of it and to be sure that I am on the right path with her. We are both in our 30s and have had some experience ...

Wife likes to receive but doesn't like to give any more!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 835 days ago

16 May 2006 (M) - Oral one way only. When i met my wife we both gave and recieved lots of oral sex. Its something that ive always loved. Since marriage a few months ago its become one way traffic, i still go down but never get a BJ anymore. Ive tried talking to h...

Mother in law from hell...please help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

15 May 2006 (F) - I have been married for nearly 6 years my mother in law has never accepted me. She always puts me down as a person and a mother even though she neglected her two kids as children as she mostly drunk and used to shut her kids away yet she sits in her ...

Married for 5 years but I think she is seeing someone else... and I've fallen for another woman!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 838 days ago

14 May 2006 (M) - well i have been married for about 5 years now the first 3 where great but here latly my wife and i all we do is fight and call each other names i come home from a hard days work and she leaves she don't even tell me where she is going and 3 or 4 ...

Will my ex hubby come back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 704 days ago

13 May 2006 (F) - Will my ex husband come back to me he loves me and I love him ...

Things are stale with my new husband... But an old flame has entered the picture! Should I go with my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 839 days ago

13 May 2006 (F) - I have been with my man for 4 years and married for a year and a half, things have gone a bit stale to say the least, we are not even having sex anymore. I have tried many times to sort things out with him and have discussed with im at length, I ...

I love my husband but I'm embarrassed by him because he lacks ambition and intelligence. I feel so bad about all this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 824 days ago

12 May 2006 (F) - I constantly wonder if anyone out there has a similar problem to mine? I have been married to a wonderful man for 4 years and together 11. We separated for 4 months a some years ago and when we got back together decided to get married. I love thi...

Is it normal for a married girl like myself to be crushing on another woman...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 818 days ago

12 May 2006 (F) - Ok, well hello. I'm a married women who appears to have developed some sort of crush on another woman? Is this normal? I have only been married for a year and I love my husband. Recently I have been flirting with a friend of mine. Whenever we see ...

Found out my husband had a secret kid... So I've been having secret liasons with a married man!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 837 days ago

12 May 2006 (?) - hi guys I need some help here. I know that most of you are going to judge me and call me names but I'm ready for it. I am 23/24 and I've been married for 2 1/2 years. I have no kids. 2 years ago me and husband moved to another country were I h...

Married but always liked someone else.. what to do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 840 days ago

12 May 2006 (F) - I'm married for 5 years and for 5 years I'm in love with my husband's friend who is also married. About 3 months ago I told my husband I don't love him and I never did actually and I want a divorce. The thing is I'm sure that I told my husvand ...

I'm wonderfully a nice guy, but my wife isn't so much as that....is it wrong to want happiness?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 840 days ago

11 May 2006 (M) - I have been married for 16 years. Unfortuneately as I grow older and after having somewhat raised the kids (4, I am finding more and more that my wife and I do not really have much in common. I work over 78 hours a week at a full time job, my own ...

My husband won't help me out of debt and our old babysitter keeps asking about him.....what is this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 841 days ago

11 May 2006 (F) - i am into terrible debt and my husband won't me I owe £10,000 he promised to help me now he won't and I have no money as he is not giving me any. and to make problems worse. A woman who once babysitted for me has since then always been asking how my ...

If I no longer love my wife should I break it off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 842 days ago

11 May 2006 (M) - My wife and I have been married for nearly 3 years. Before that we dated for about 5 years. For the past year or two we have been growing apart. Our sex life is awful, we bicker and fight all the time, and we hardly communicate. I find that ...

He still finds me attractive but he doesn't want sex! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 842 days ago

10 May 2006 (F) - im 32 married 11 years 4 kids my husband and i both work lately he doesnt want sex in two months we have tried to make love but he cant keep his erection he says he loves me and still finds me attractive wot can i do...

I can't talk to my husband, I need some advice please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 816 days ago

10 May 2006 (F) - i cant talk to my husband because he is to judgementle he thinks he knows everythang and when i talk to him he gets mad he says its me getting mad yes i do but not untill he does, and he hates my family he talks about them all the time and he says ...

I've fallen in love with my wife's sister!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

9 May 2006 (M) - I am married for the past 5 years with no kids. I love my wife but recently I have this feeling that really make me guilty. I beginning to develop strong feeling towards my sister-in-law, who is now a divorcee and have two kids. I know this is not ...

I don't think I'm in love with my husband and want my lover back...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 843 days ago

9 May 2006 (F) - confused about my marriage and my lover i had an affair with a guy at work whose fancied me for 3 years. Cant explain how it all started but we ended up telling eachother how we felt about one another, we kissed, spent the night together. nothin...

We had marriage problems and I ended up having an affair. I feel like I'm living a double life. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 842 days ago

9 May 2006 (?) - hi guys I need some help here. I know that most of you are going to judge me and call me names but I'm ready for it. I am 23/24 and I've been married for 2 1/2 years. I have no kids. 2 years ago me and husband moved to another country were I knew n...

She already had one affair and now she texting some other guy...what's going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 841 days ago

9 May 2006 (M) - i recently caught my wife having an affair with a married man. i confronted her with it and i think it has stopped. i did speak to this man's wife so i know he has pressure on him. pretty confident its over. however now a month later i notice my ...

I have no sex life because of my wife, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

8 May 2006 (M) - I am 39 and been married since 1990. I have two beautiful children whom i adore, and a lifestyle which surpasses my expectations.My problem is that my relationship with my wife is totally unfulfilling for me physically. We have sex approx once a ...

He's told me to have sex with other men, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 841 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - I am 24 and my husband is 27. Recently he has been telling me if I want sex, I should sleep with other men. I told him I don't want to cheat on him, and that he's suggesting cheating. However, he insists he has no sex drive at all, and says h...

My husband lost my trust and I've been talking to a male friend...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 844 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - Hi guys I need some help here. I know most of you are going to judge me or call me names but this is my situation. I'm 23 years old and been married for 2 1/2 years and have no children. After one year of marriage we moved to another country from my ...

My married lover wanted to be with his wife again, how can I deal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 844 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - Hi. married for 19 years..un happy no sex no relation with my husban met this married man and he is the love of my life my first , last and only love ever liked and loved everything about. had four year relation full of happiness and love shared ...

I love my husband of 11 years but I'm in love with my lover of 7 years.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 844 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - My problem is deep. I love my husband of fifteen years, who, unfortunately I have outgrown because he lacks vision, ambition and the ability to plan for our future, which includes our eleven year old daughter. I'm in love with my lover of seven ...