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Archived questions from: January, 2009 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

I cannot take my husband any more. I am trying, but it gets harder every day.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I cannot take my husband any more. I am trying, but it gets harder every day. He works between 50 and 60 hours a week, which I understand and respect. Although I have been unemployed for about 2 months, I have, throughout or 14 year marriage, ...

My partner is a kind hearted compulsive liar!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I have been married for 8 years to a good hearted guy with a compulsive lying problem. He has lied about everything, his age, his interests, his credit card debt, his salary, his taking care of errands, his losing something, even to hiding a letter ...

Too much bitch!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5559 days ago

31 January 2009 (M) - My wife and I have a normal relationship. We get along and we get on each others' nerves from time-to-time. Usually - again just recently - my wife starts getting REALLY bitchy with me. Not PMS related - maybe stress? In any event, I try to be ...

I am very confused at the moment, I seem to lack any kind of emotion...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5561 days ago

31 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I am very confused at the moment, I seem to lack any kind of emotion, I have completely gone off sex (with my wife only) I feel a great urge to have sex in massage parlours, on sex chat lines and I seem to want to live out fantasies of the woman ...

Hockey game w/co-worker--husband says its a date!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I am going to hockey game with a male co- worker. He knows that I am married and we are just friends. My husband is really bothered by it because he said that men and women can not be just friends.My husband said that I am going on a date and ...

Should I stay with husband? Or go to lover?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I had an affair for about 7 months, both my lover and I told our spouses.Both of our spouses want to try and work on our marriages.My lover said he told his wife he would give the marriage another chance. So we were stopped visiting and only...

I rushed into marriage and now another guy is looking good

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I'm 19 and i've been married for two years my husband is 24 we've been very happy for the past years but lately he's been treating me like he doesn't love me. i've talked to him about it and he says that he'll try to change but it only lasts about a ...

Why do you think my husband has a preference for looking at girls with small or no boobs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5561 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I read on here alot about husbands looking at porn girls with BIG boobs coz their wives have small boobs. Mine is opposite I am medium but all my hub looks at is girls wth no boobs or flat chested..why??? Doesnt he like boobs??? I cant understand ...

My husband won't speak to me and does all he can to completely ignore and avoid me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - My husband won't speak to me and does all he can to completely ignore and avoid me. He does come home from work every night but goes directly into the garage. Tonight he was carrying a bag, he placed it on the steps, picked it up, took it to the ...

He's Just not that into me . . . and we're married! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - My husband has made it clear that he's just not that into me anymore. What should I do? Should I get a separation or more drastically, ask for a divorce? I still love him and want to work out our problems, but I'm at the end of my rope and don't k...

Should I accept the fate of my 3 week marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - HI everyone, this is gonna be kind of long and hopefully that doesn't lose your interest. I have been with my husband for 4 years, but we just recently got married jan 10(this year) He used to be different, I don't even know who im with anymore, he ...

I'm torn because I'm not with the one I love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my husband for 12 years and things have been strained for a few of them. I know that I love him, but I just do not think I am in love with him anymore. And I know that I am not happy. To add to this problem, I recently came in ...

Sufficated by Jealousy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - I've been married to my wife for about three months now and we dated for about a year before hand. The problem is her jealousy is suffocating. She showed signs of being the jealous type while dating but I thought that would go away after I showed my ...

I have found out that my wife of 6 months kissed another man when on a night out with friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - Hi there, I have found out that my wife of 6 months kissed another man when on a night out with friends. I only found out as my 18 month old son was playing with her phone. I took the phone off him as I didn't want him to break it and found tha...

How can I forgive him? Where do I begin to find the forgiveness over the anger and pain?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - So I'm going to try and be brief with my history. I am married to the absolute love of my life. He has done everything completely right...Up to this point. Back in october 08 I took in a 17 year old girl who was heading down a path I knew all too ...

A foolish affair turned sour.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Regretfully, I have been having an "affair" with one of my husband's oldest friends. This guy lives over 500 miles away from us, and we have met up a few times, and talk for hours on the phone/e mails. I've left my husband, not for this guy, but for ...

I sent a text about my husband TO my husband by mistake!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Hi. I accidentally sent a text message to my husband that was intended for my mom. His parents had asked him to do something that I felt was unfair and at a bad time. I am a stay at home mom of his three children. His mom, dad, sister and her live ...

I now question if she ever loved me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - I have been with my wife for 6 years. She recently cheated on me and the person she was cheating with needed a place to stay and she had him move in with us. I found out what was going on about a month and a half afterwards. He petended to be my ...

Both cheating on our spouses for 7 months but never had sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I have been having an affair with a man that is 17 years older than me. We have been seeing each other for 7 months and have not had sex. We have very passionate kissing sessions with lots of petting and that is fine with us both. We are both okay ...

What man stares at another man with passion in his eyes?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I've been married for 1 year but with this man for 6 years. Before we got married any woman would have wanted him, strong, smart, handy, a great lover, a good friend, I can go on , but I will stop there because it all was a bunch of bull sh!t. Maybe ...

My husband and my friend... an item?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 11 year and were together for 14 years. Then about two and a half years ago I injured my back at work. It has been rough on our relationship that is for sure. We were making it though we supported each other ...

My husband looks at pics of really young girls, how can I stop him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

29 January 2009 (?) - my husband looks at pics of really young girls, what can i do to stop him? hi every one, for most people, I have a perfect relationship, and to some extent i believe it. me and my husband are in our 28-29s and been together for 3 years. he watche...

Do you guys think, he still loves me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - My husband and I like to do 3somes sometimes. It's his fantasy.. to have a 3some. I am not a lesbian but I like to try have 3some and want to know what it's like. I just want to make my husband happy cuz he tells me he never had any chance to do ...

I think my husband is cheating on me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I think my husband is cheating on me! I know this is true because of the things he’s been doing to me and my kids. His behaviour has changed dramatically towards me ion the last two months and I could really kill right him this very moment. Let...

Husband needs space, moving out, is there hope?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I have been married for 12 years. We have two kids 8 and 3. I have been a stay at home mom since the eight year old was born. We built a house in 2004 and moved in right before the 3 year old was born. So, I haven't done a whole lot around the house ...

My wife's boss wants to get her pregnant then he will promote her!!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - Hi my wife's boss wants to impregnate her with his child. My wife also wants it as he will promote her if she does so. Should I let it happen?...

Should I ask my wife to cover up???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - Hi I am 24 and I am balding, me wife to my surprise dosen't want me to shave off my balding head but wants me to grow hairs on the sides so that my baldness becomes more prominent, also she wears traditional clothes to her office but at home she ...

Is she being immature about this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

29 January 2009 (?) - My wife and me had our first daughter (she's 6 weeks). I usually like to party after work with some friends so I can wind down (7 times a week) and won't be until 10:00 pm (my wife will be mad at me if I stay any longer). Anyway when I got home one ...

I want to leave my husband and take my kids with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - I have two kids, 2 and 5 years old respectively. My husband and I sleep separately since a year ago, no sex, and we only fight every day. I am not employed because I have to look after the kids, but I attend night classes. My husband is working. ...

Are my suspicions right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - I am pretty sure that I already know the answers to my questions, but it is one of those things that you just have such a hard time believing until you hear it from somebody else, so here is goes. I met my husband at a new job that we had both just ...

My husband insists on keeping things from me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - I have been married for three years now and my husband insists on keeping things from me. He says these things do not involve being unfaithful and I could not handle them. He always has to have some air of mystery like he's a secret agent or ...

Is there hope for us? He wants to have more children and get remarried....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 6 years. We have 1 son. I found out on his phone he had been cheating while working out of town. I divorced him but, we never legally separated. He's here. I am trying to deal with the pain. It's been ...

Is it time for me to leave him and move on with my life and try to make things better for me and our son?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5565 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - My husband works, I'm the mom/housewife. He never hardly ever gives me money, we hardly ever communicate like we used to, we've been together 3 years and married one year, we just got some taxes back and he's spent his half and most of mine that we ...

Has my husband been unfaithful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5565 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I am married and have not had sex with my husband or anyone else for months. Last Friday I had sex with my husband and 2 days later I had a white discharge, itchy and sore vagina. Did I get it off my husband? Has he been unfaithful?...

My fantasies...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - When I have sex with my husband, I tell him of my fantasy of watching him **** another women. I usually go into detail. I am so into it while we are having sex and if he brought someone into our room at that moment I would let it happen. I also tell ...

If it werent for our infant daughter I wouldnt even be trying to save this marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - Do I stay or go? My wife and I got married in April 2008 principally because she was pregnant - we had a daughter in september. Before we married we both lived in our own houses about 50km apart. After our marriage due to location of work etc I mo...

DON'T share your wife with anyone!!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - I was married with my wife for 3 years we had no children. We went to the doctor but of no use, they said my my sperm was not fertile, my younger sister and I are the only "children" of my family and my mother is dead. My wife suggested we adopt ...

I am confused... Please suggest

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I am 27 years old, mother of 2 kids. I met my husband about 8 years ago. He told me he loved me, I didn't feel like that initially but after 1 year, I felt I had met the love of my life. My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years. Ever...

Should I make her or let her go?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - This is my first post on this site. I have a perplexing problem. My wife and I have some new friends. We have been going over to their home on the weekend. Sometimes it is rather docile. Sometimes it is not. We drink alcohol and chat. There are ...

Do you think my wife will love me again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - Dear sir,madam I'm a married man, my wife is from philipinnes, I'm from ireland... recently my wife told me she don't love me any more, she said she's met someone else?... now we are ok and she don't have contact any more with that person.. she ...

Who knows... is she or is she not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - Hi there I had been dating my now wife for 3 months and I asked her to marry me, 1 year later this came true. I am happy and everything is going well. The problem I have is that last year about 8 months into our relationship we went through a bad sp...

Falsely accused of affair

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - My wife is convinced that I have had multiple affairs. I have never had a physical relationship with any woman, man, or animal outside of my marriage. Nothing I say or do has or will convince her that the affairs never happened. Today she calls ...

Something has definitely died along the way and I feel like I am dealing with another man, not my husband.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5565 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - One for the guys. After my partner wandered out of the relationship on an emotional level to communicate with his ex I have had trouble believing that he can still have feelings for me. The fact that he did this behind my back and was communicatin...

I fear that I married too quickly and possibly for the sake of BEING married.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - Despite what you will soon read, I'm a LOVE novice. I was married for 19 years and it ended in divorce after she discovered body building and I didn't want to become a body builder myself. I remarried after 20 months and have been married now for ...

I am so in love and I want him back more than anything, despite him getting another woman pregnant...

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26 January 2009 (F) - Me and my husband are highs chool sweethearts. We have been together since we were 16 (12 years). I gave him his 1st born son and his first born daughter. We have been broke, homeless, had to walk with our kids in the freezing cold because we had ...

Does she need space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

25 January 2009 (M) - She needs space.? For the past few month's the missus has been convincing her self that I am having a fling. I AM NOT, and tried reassuring her as best I could. It got to the stage where she'd phone me at working asking if i were comming home at ...

Hurt...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I feel that my husband doesn't want to be with me because I don't understand him at all. We fight a lot. But I do love him with all my heart but I want him to treat all his children the same but he doesn't he loves his first daughter the most and he ...

Do all married men want to make love to other women?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

25 January 2009 (M) - My problem is I can't stay away from other women. I have been married 9 years and we have two children. I love to flirt and make love with other women but I feel guilty. I am happy with my wife and we have good sex every week (or so). I don't want ...

We're fighting alot, living apart and I'm not happy with the situation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Well first off i'm 18 yrs old! Will be married a year in Febuary! We have been together for two years and have a 10 month old together and he is a Marine! What i need help is with what i should do and if we will make it! Well my and my husband a...

We had threesome with wife's ex and now I feel sick

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

25 January 2009 (M) - My wife and I had a threesome the other night with her ex boyfriend, who is also a friend of mine from high school. The two of them dated right before we got together. He was her first love, and she lost her virginity to him, but they broke up a ...