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Archived questions from: November, 2008 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Has your husband ever left you to be with his mistress?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 357 days ago

30 November 2008 (?) - Has your husband (or long term boyfriend) ever left you to be with her (the mistress)? Did they work out? Mine left me 18 months ago and has now brought a house with her. We were together for 10 years and have three children together but he ...

My husband won't touch me, what should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I would like if anybody who has some good points would give me a few min.What should I do with this totally awkward\ situation? My husband lost interest in sex, and literally ,he won't even touch me, yet, he says ,he loves me , wants to spend hi...

I love him but I'm tired of feeling unsatisfied....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 353 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years. Before we got married, the sex was great, but now I'm lucky if we make love once or twice a month. I've tried talking to him about this, but he always wants it to be all on his terms. ...

I want him back but he won't answer my calls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - we married after a relationship lasted for years.we made a wonderful marriage,everything was perfect until...after 10 months of marriage we started fighting not on major issues(problems not related to us)but in an agressive way.now after couple ...

Is it a pipe dream that I have trying to make my marriage work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - I am so confused. I am 37. Have a 5 year old daughter and a 17 year old step son. My wife has bounced from job to job and I have held my professional management position for 15 years. I make almost 100,000 a year and her spending habits have ...

She's out of the picture but the thoughts still haunt me....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 359 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 13 years, but have been married for only 8 years. We lived together from almost the moment we met. We went through quite a bit in our lives together and this makes the story more and more sad. However, I ...

In love with my ex boss/ married man...after he told me it was over at home, its not

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 341 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I am so frustrated, I like many of you got involved with a married man, and he was my boss. Its so sick the more i think of it. He had told me he was unhappy in his marriage and it had been bad for a long time, well after 6 months of us seeing each ...

Falling Again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I have a Big problem!! I am married and find myself falling in love with another man!! This is so seperate from my marriage!! I still love my husband and we are happy! Is it possoble to be in love with two people at once? And, what should I do?...

Am I worrying over nothing... or is he cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Me and my husband have been together for nine years and married for two. We have three kids together all under the age of five. Hhe is in the military and recently went to do training in a different state. He started talking to a girl and lied to ...

Can two people of the same sex get married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 356 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Can two people of the same sex get married? My mum says yes but dad says no, and they are falling out about it. What's worse mum turned down dads marriage proposal and now he's thinking of leaving. Mum says it's just a piece of paper. What can i do...

How do I overcome this stupid feeling of hurt knowing that he watches porn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - So some may think im over thinking and some may feel what i feel... but its just something that always seems to bug me here and there thought i'd see if i can get any advice or see what others think... my husband of 2 yrs watches occasional porn ...

I'm getting a divorce! What are my legal rights to his inheritance??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 357 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - I am getting a divorce after ten years, I need to know if I am legally entitled to his inheritence or what reasons I would not be entitled to it....

My wife became violent and we're having a divorce! She is trying to take our kids from me, what shall I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 360 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - Heres my story. And it's a long one at that.... Some fore years ago i married a woman that already had five kids...one of which i took on as my own due to my wife telling me that the biological father was a bad egg. I had another two children...

His inlaws still don't know we're married!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 356 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Hi, My husband and I have been married for over a year... and he still has not let his In-Laws know that we are Married. What do I do? He says he has told them... but a recent telephone call from his sister let me know that they do not have a cl...

Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her???

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her any more. It has just started and driving me crazy, I can't talk to anyone as I don't want to upset her, I love her to bits . I just want to ...

Am I taking his 'manhood' away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 360 days ago

28 November 2008 (?) - Im an auto mechanic (almost all the commuter's request me) and also fixed everything around the house (like the night table). This really bugs my husband because he says that cant care of me and Im taking his "manhood" away. I mean come on if he ...

How do we keep our families intact and remain friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 360 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - i am married since 7 yrs and has got happy family of three,we've a 2 yrs old son.i am a practicing gynaecologist and also work nearby govt hosp.a staff nurse from there and i have been friends since last 7 months.she is married has got 3yrs ...

She has also made up so much crap about me that I find it hard to believe she was at one point my wife...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 360 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - I have been married for four years and my wife and I broke up some two months ago. At first she wanted me to stay with friends for a while as to give ourselves a break, but still being husband and wife. I soon found out that she was starting to go ...

He insists on unprotected sex but I don't want to fall pregnant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 360 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Me and my husband have been married for about 10 months now. Everything's been going OK, we're socialising, and popular in our local neighborhood. However, our sex life is the only issue which is causing problems... my husband only ever wants ...

How do I get him back to being the good loving father and husband he used to be??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 360 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - In the last few weeks my husband's ego has become an issue. He won't do certain things claiming "they're bad for my ego". He's even refused to spend time with our 4-year-old son and 6-year-old daughter, claiming "That will deflate my ego". Ever...

How to win back my wife's trust after chatting to women in the Internet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 360 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - i have a dilemma where i've lost my wife's trust due to some stupid decisions i've made by chatting to women on facebook and texting someone else flirtatiously and now face a situation where my marraige is in doubt.How do i win back her trust and ...

Cheating wife - long but impossible to answer, please try...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 361 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - It's a long conveluted story, but in a nutshell: my wife suffers from bipolar disorder. it had not been properly diagnosed until recently but we've been dealing with it since we dated(7yrs total-3.5 married) We both have had the same number of ...

How to heal a father/daughter relationship after his affair?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 361 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - My husband had a affair a year ago and it has been a long year.My 13 year old daughter is having a hard time, she started pulling her hair out we put her in counselling . This has helped a bit but every time she pulls her hair her dad gets on her ...

Should I give up on my marriage or keep trying?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Hi My husband has left almost three months now. We have a 14 year old daughter. I want so badly to have my family back. He says he doesnt love me anymore. I have found out he has slept several nights at another womens house that use to work with him ...

I originally married him to help with his green card, will it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 361 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Originally I married my husband to help him with his greencard. The first couple of years we fought constantly, and I tried to leave him several times. Eventualty, I got tired of fighting. Now we have been together for 4 years now. I was in love ...

Is my husband making a fool of me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 360 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Hi i'm maried 31 years, we met 2 women in out local a few years ago and became friends as I thought. It seems now that my husband has been texting one of them for a while (shes a widow) and last month I caught him in her house, he said they are only ...

He's not well endowed enough for me so he wants a divorce....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - I'm 31, and married with a 5-year-old son and a 1-year-old daughter. I've been married for 4 years now. Last week my husband told me he wanted a divorce. I was shocked when I heard it. I asked him why, and he said "I'm not well-endowed eno...

My husband had an affair with his sister in law. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 361 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - HELP!!! I just found an email on my husband's account from his siter-in-law. It was refering to them having sex and loving each other. I asked my husband about it, and he told me everything. This affair went on before I was in the picture. We have ...

I don't think I love my husband anymore! Help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 361 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Hi I feel sick and utterly alone not being able to talk to anyone about my marriage. There is nobody I feel I can be absolutely honest with and the one person I should do my husband I don't want to hurt. We have been married 9 years and have 4...

I am thinking about suggesting to her about maybe involving other men so she gets satisfied but how do I go about this.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 361 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - Let me start by saying I love my wife so much but we have a little problem. We have had 3 great children and as things happen my wife is larger down below. I only have a small penis just under 5 inches, now we know that is not enough in that d...

My husband bought a clunker.. it broke down, I fixed it.. now he is mad at me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 361 days ago

27 November 2008 (?) - My husband brought this really crappy car (which I have to fixed almost everyday) without asking me first (im not mad at him anymore) that keeps breaking down. We were on the way home the piece of junk died on us (what a surprise). I fixed in like ...

I feel my husband is lying to me, but have no proof, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 361 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - What can you do ,if you think ,your husband is not telling the truth, but you can't find a way to prove it? I feel very strange, because I think he is not telling to me what he does, but it's just an intuition, without any evidence. How can I not ...

Should I pursue it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 362 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - My husband of two years and I seperated in September mainly because the marriage was abusive, but also because he decided he was having a midlife crisis (at age 24!!) and couldn't decide if he wanted to be married any more. Since we have been apa...

Do I deserve payback for my past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 361 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - So, I have married for 4 years as of this past sunday. During the first year do our relatonship I was very verbally and physically abusive and even went to jail for domestic violence. I had to take anger management courses and AA meeting (I had a ...

A little frustrated started thinking of others, does this mean I don't love my wife anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - Hi, Not quite sure where to start. I'm a married man of just over a year. I love my wife but gradually I am finding we have sex less and less. Even when we do it is mostly planned and always unadventurous (spelling?) I find myself making up fantas...

I feel rejected even although we live in the same house...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 362 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - I have a loving husband but whenever we get into an argument he raises his voice, verbally abuses me and then it's the silent treatment but he acts as if nothing has happened. I feel very rejected as we live in the same house and we just pass each ...

What is causing my husband's weird behaviour?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 361 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - Hi there, I would be grateful if any of the Aunts and Uncles could let me know what they think about this kind of behaviour. I have been married for 15 years and about 12 years into the marriage my husband started doing things which I can only class ...

How can I handle my feelings and save my marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - I have a big problem doing the right thing. I really want to stay in my marriage, but I don't have good hope in this moment. I get so angry at my husband, that I feel like running away,but I know it would be bad, and nothing would get resolved. I...

My husband has 2 children with his mistress and I feel lost and confused, what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I've been married for 20 years and we have 3 children. throughout my marriage my husband and I has had our hands full of ups and downs. I've had three affairs and he's had one long term affair of 15 years. He's forgiven me and I've forgiven him. At ...

How should I go about getting divorced with the least amount of pain and what can I expect for custody?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - Here's my situation. I am getting a divorce, me and my wife were married in Alaska and lived there for 1 1/2 years, we now live in Ohio and have lived here for 1 1/2 years. We have a 3 year old daughter. I am the only one who works and it has been ...

After 6 years his wife still won't sign the divorce papers. Wouldn't it be better for her to let it go ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 361 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I really need some advice... I feel like my boyfriend is pulling away. we've been seeing each other for almost a year and things are wonderful when we're together. Currently we live 3 hrs apart, but we talk daily! The problem is his wife! They are ...

How do I make him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 364 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - My husband told me tonight that he doesn't give a s**t about me....I have wanted this to be over for a long time. When I spoke to him on the phone, I told him that if he feels that way, he should just go (he hung up). We have no kids, and the only ...

Out of the blue, she says she's pregnant with my husbands baby!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been married for over six years now. We sepereated back in December of 06 and got back together in July of 07....Been together ever since. Before we seperated we had two children that are now six and four. After we got back ...

I feel as if I'll never be completely happy in my marriage.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 337 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - Here's my situation. I am 25 years old. Me and my wife have been married for 3 1\2 years and have a 3 year old girl. Our relationship is rocky at best. I love her but I don't get the same respect from her as I give. I have put up with it for 4 years ...

My husband had an affair and now she and her sister won't leave me and my family alone! What can I do to stop them bothering us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Heres my problem my husband had a brief affair with neighbor we lost our home his Job we are doing better we went to counseling and keeping our family together. She is also back with her husband well i keep getting messeges from her and her sist...

Transexual porn.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a situation which has left me unable to think, feel, react to much at all. I'm a very happy person and let a lot roll off my back but over the period of 4 years I keep having same problem. My husband is a Marine and has been in ...

The love is gone, can I find it again? Or should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 365 days ago

24 November 2008 (M) - I have been married for about four years. My wife and I knew each other for a long time before we were married. We dated for about a year before tying the knot. After we moved in together things started to go downhill. I am at a point where I am ...

I feel my husband is using me for sex and to sleep with other women...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - I have been married for almost 2 years, 6 months ago I started to have an affair with an older man - I was very good to him, and I know he was completely infatuated/in love with me. I withdrew completely from my husband for the time the affair was ...

I'm having an affair with my sons HS basketball coach and now I'm pregnant, help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 55 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - My name is Ashlee my husband and I been married 18 years and we have 3 beautiful kids a son and two daughters, but I am having an affair with my son's high school basketball coach. My son is 16. The trouble is, we're both married. I had noticed how ...

Is the "bum" considered a sexual organ?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 337 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - My husband and I had an argument this morning about anal sex. He doesn't want to do it because he says the bum isn't a sexual organ. Is that true?...