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Marriage problems: Help and advice

I don't want to go back to my husband. I'm much happier away from him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1733 days ago

28 July 2019 (F) - I've posted here previously about issues with my "in-laws." My partner and I have 3 children together, and we've relocated near his family and issues arose with their boundaries and respect for me. I've gone with the kids to spend time with my ...

My husband wants us to go to a psychic and I think he's lost his mind.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1733 days ago

26 July 2019 (F) - My husband and I went through some trauma and conflict lately. Well after work last week, he decided to see a psychic. He told me everything they said except the relationship part. I said that he could tell me and it's ok if the psychic said we ...

What are the chances they are having an emotional affair?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1735 days ago

25 July 2019 (F) - We purchased a home for my son and his fiancée and their daughter with his trust. We have been renovating the home to have it ready for them by August . I noticed my husband becoming more and more distant and him working different hours than he ...

My husband is extremely insecure and wants to change

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1704 days ago

25 July 2019 (F) - My husband is extremely insecure. The weird thing is, I've always admired him for his confidence, humor, and many other wonderful traits. He was very direct in asking me out and always made me feel important. We've been together for three years ...

My husband spends large amounts of money on prayer and food for God. I find this strange

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1658 days ago

25 July 2019 (F) - Thanks for your advice My husband does things that I find someone concerning. He is from Africa and he spends large amounts of money on prayer and eats food with God only knows what is in it. When I tell him to pray without giving these peo...

My husband is abusive, where do I go from here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1737 days ago

23 July 2019 (F) - I've been agonizing this for a while now. I love my husband more than I've loved any other man, and I see so much good in him, but is he abusive? He's never hit me. I don't think he would ever hit me, but he's really quick to anger. This is really ...

How can I get my partner to be a better parent?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1737 days ago

23 July 2019 (F) - Hi I’ve been with my fiancé for 8 years we have a 4 year old daughter I have a 11 year old daughter from a previous relationship the problem is not a very good father he has never done any night Feeds or changed a nappy when she was a baby I have ...

5 months into our relationship and partner is dragging his feet filing for divorce from wife.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1736 days ago

23 July 2019 (F) - A guy I've known over the years went through a split up with his wife. He was staying at my brothers house but it was crowded there so i told him he could stay with me. I just so happened to be searching for a roommate to help out. It wasn't long ...

I think I made a mistake getting married. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1738 days ago

23 July 2019 (F) - Thanks for your opinions So, I'm feeling a bit frustrated. My husband lives a lavish lifestyle and he lives to impress his buddies. It's almost like he buys their friendship. Our mindsets are very different. He is from a different culture. Where ...

Its hard for me to be around my husband's friends when I don't feel accepted

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1731 days ago

23 July 2019 (F) - Hello! I've been fixating on a problem lately and I was hoping to get some advice. My husband and I are very different -- which is great, and it's one of the many reasons why I fell in love with him. But because we're so different, our i...

Married to a selfish man but I love him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1740 days ago

19 July 2019 (F) - How do i stop caring about what my husband thinks of me!? Hes a very selfish person and i think i made a miatake marrying him. I cant leave because i love him but it doesnt feel like he loves me the same...

Do I continue in my loveless marriage? I reconnected with my ex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1740 days ago

18 July 2019 (M) - I have been married about 21 years. The last 7 have been really bad, it is almost just like sharing a house with a roommate. My last kid will be moving out is September. This opens a new chapter. Do I continue this loveless relationship? ...

I'm unhappy in my marriage husband cheated may have gotten another woman pregnant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1740 days ago

17 July 2019 (F) - Hi all. I am unhappy in my marriage. I want to leave but I know my eldest son would feel so hurt. I can't take it anymore. My husband cheated after us being together for five years. He brought a child into our marriage and it's like I can't get over ...

A Male Coworker/Friend is Confiding in Me About His Marital Problems. How Should I Handle This?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1742 days ago

17 July 2019 (F) - I've been at my current employer for two years. I enjoy what I do as a paralegal, but most importantly, I've collaborated with a great group of smart, distinguished professionals at my company. Everyone is helpful, friendly, brilliant. We work hard ...

If I could see into the future and see that our marriage would be the same for the next 20 years, then that is not what I want for my life.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1744 days ago

16 July 2019 (M) - Hi, I need help with something. I am a 23 year old Christian man, I have been married for two years and the last year has been sexless. My wife and I got married two years ago and initially I could tell that she was nervous about sexual intimacy (we ...

I found out my husband bought what appears to be a virtual phone number. Why would he do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1717 days ago

16 July 2019 (F) - My husband's phone was left on the counter yesterday. He was checking his usage on his mobile phone account. And the screen was open. I peeked. I know, I was wrong for breaching privacy but it's too late, I did it. I scrolled the history and back ...

I've compromised so much of what I want to stay with my husband but I'm not happy

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1747 days ago

13 July 2019 (F) - I've been married a long time,no children, been through a very bad patch that we came through, have always had a strong bond, we share a lot of interests and agree on a lot of things but I've put up with a lot of things that made me unhappy for the ...

Worried that my wife may get what I am too tired to give from her ex fiance!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1731 days ago

13 July 2019 (M) - I need some advice as to what I should do, if anything, about a situation that has come up in my marriage. We have been married for 4 yrs. I am 27 and my wife is 26. Our marriage is mostly good and our sex life is good but our twice a week norm is ...

I need some words that will make me feel better! I’m heartbroken.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1749 days ago

10 July 2019 (F) - Heartbroken I'm hoping someone can day the right words that make me feel even a little better. My husband and I broke up a few mths ago after 19years of marriage, I've been left heartbroken. I thought I was coping ok until he told me he has a new ...

Can you make yourself love someone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1751 days ago

8 July 2019 (F) - Well. Where do I start? Six years ago I met my husband and he inspired me to stop doing the party girl thing. Overtime i realized I had been shallow and never given men like him a chance before. (He is not physically what I was use to dating) I ...

My husband has cheated called me names and won't talk about why he cheated

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1753 days ago

8 July 2019 (F) - Hello and thank you My husband and I have been married for two years. Our relationship has had some issues firstly he has cheated twice that I know of. He tells me that will never happen again. I have to admit sometimes I feel a bit insecure b...

Why has my husband of 15 years suddenly become so interested in anal sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1754 days ago

7 July 2019 (F) - Hello I’m wondering why my husband of 15 years is suddenly only wanting to have foreplay with my anal it’s bern a couple months and I feel he’s prepping me slowing he started touching me there then kissing and licking and now he’s trying to do it ...

We lost out on a house because my husband won't stand up to his sister

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1754 days ago

7 July 2019 (F) - He would not stand up for us and we lost a house we were to move in in September. My husband is very afraid of his oldest sister he thinks whatever she says is right I am so mad at him I have not spoke to him for the last 3 days and do not know ...

I walked in on my husband performing oral sex on my best friend

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1754 days ago

4 July 2019 (F) - Hi there. I am 29 years old and have been married for 5 years. My husband and I have been together since we were young teens. I never thought he could hurt me but I was away on holiday with my friend and we came home early, when i returned I walked ...

I am in a sexless marriage! What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1753 days ago

2 July 2019 (F) - Hello. I have been married for almost three years now. When we were dating our sex life was great. My then boyfriend was spontaneous, he would initiate most of the time. But after we got married and I got pregnant our sex life just dwindled...