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Archived questions from: 26 January, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Confused by mixed signals! How can I get her to open up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5209 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Hi All, Wonder if any girls could help me here? Ive known this girl for some time now and she said at the end of last year she liked me.... I turnt her down as nicely as I could saying that I didnt know her enough and wanted to get to know...

She cheated and is unappreciative and I don't want to leave her because she's pregnant.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Hi everyone! Let me thank you first for reading this topic ,all your advice is really appriciated ! I am in a quite difficult situation now, my girlfriend is pregnant ,but our relationship has been really hard for me ,since this was my f...

Feeling sad! I don't think my boyfriend is the one but don't want to end it either!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Im in my mid twenties, living at home, have a good steady job and a boyfriend of 7 years. I am now utterly depressed. My boyfriend and I were about to fill out a form for a flat but i just broke down in tears and couldn't face doing it. Problem is, ...

I was raped and need advice on what to do

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - i'am really lost and really do not know what to do, it's really hard to say but i have not told anyone in the 2years that it has happened. i was raped when i was 15 there was more to it, as i formed an attachment towards this man. he was a security ...

Things were great and as soon as we had sex things changed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I hope I'm not just avoiding what I already know, but I just want to make sure I'm not over reacting or letting my emotions get the best of me. Ive been dating this guy for about two months. Its a little wierd though because we met over the holidays ...

How come sex ends so quickly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - My boyfreind and I have sex very often but I honestly wouldn't even call it that. Anytime we do have sex there is never any foreplay involved unless its me going down on him and as soon as he gets his "guy" in.....he "Cums" really quick. Within a ...

My boyfriend buys porno mags and hides them but I don't understand!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I was 17 when I fell for my brothers best friend. He was 25. He lived in Alabama and I lived in Michigan but he had come up to visit and that's when we got together. I moved to Alabama on my 18th birthday and I am now 21 years old and he is 28 ...

She has a kinda promiscuous past! how do I deal with this when it comes up?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Hi, I've been dating a girl for 7 or so months, and she is great. A little while into dating her, I started to find out that, to put it plainly, she was a huge slut in her past. Not only that, but a lot of the people she was promiscuous with...

Should I continue this complicated secret friendship/relationship with a teacher?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - So here is the deal. I was infatuated with my female performance teacher. 47years old, 1 child and a partner. I am 16 years old, graduating in 2 years. Since I have managed to tell her about my feelings for her we became friends. But that was one ...

Something I can take to make my period end faster?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I'm on period, and well, I'm on birth control. However up until a couple of weeks ago I was working long shifts which meant I had to take my pills on different times each day. So the thing is, I started spotting like a week before my actual period ...

Issues with my boyfriend, pregnant with his baby, upset by his actions!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5122 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I'm in quite a serious dilemma... I met this guy and fell pregnant the second time we slept together. The good news is that we've both stepped up to the plate and decided to embrace our situation. The only problem is, i'm battling to accept is ...

Think I have bi-curious feelings for my best friend but should I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5207 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I am female and I think I might be bi or bi-curious, because I like my best friend quite a bit and I don’t know whether I should tell her or not. We’re quite close. It’s kind of weird but, we just have moments where we look at each other and somehow ...

What kind of fetish is this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - When I am doing anything sexual, I have found that animalistic things turn me on. For example, i wear a cat collar with a bell around my wrist, and my boyfriend wears a dog choker collar loosely around his neck, like a chain necklace. I'll use the ...

I want plastic surgery to 'fix' my breasts, but I'm lacking in funds! Do I have to wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5209 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I'm 19 years old and I've been struggling with having underdeveloped breasts since i was 12. I've researched it a little bit and I'm pretty sure that i have hypo-plastic breasts. I really just want to be normal like every other teenage girl. I know ...

He didn't respond to my texts! what went wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I met a man online we had two very nice dates in the same weekend. I asked him if he liked me on our first outing he said yes a lot staright away I said I did too. We hugged and cuddeled a bit both times we saw each other, and I mean just hugged - ...

Having dreams of incest and now I can't look my father in the eye, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I've had the same extremely disturbing dream the last couple of nights. My dreams consist of my dad and I... doing something really disgusting with each other. Committing incest. In my dream last night, my dad wanted to go again and I screamed o...

Do husbands always lose interest when their wives age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I'm so panicked now... When I read this posts ,it looks like there is an epidemic, of marriage goes bad almost like scheduled ,for 20 -25 years. I keep reading about husbands ,who goes off sex, and losing attraction,or just simple luck of love. Me ...

My ex won't talk to me and he's seeing other people and I can't let it go!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I feel like I am about to explode this minute. I don't know why but I have been broken up with my ex for a year and I never can seem to let it go. I know he's an asshole as he left me for another girl. I know guys like him don't deserve a single...

She was a virgin and I was a virgin, I lied about being a virgin and she found out. What do I do?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Hello, I met this girl and we hit off, we became really close freinds and had a strong connection emotionally. She told me she had been sexually abused as a child by her father and had a boyfreind for 4 yrs, because i was a 23 year old virgin and ...

I want her but she is hanging out with him and I'm hurt...what can I do?

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26 January 2010 (M) - ok so i posted only last night and got one answer that was kinda helpful but you see the girl i like and want (my house mate and my best friend) shes got a guy in her room she said hes just a friends from work and that they are hanging out but ...

I am worried I crossed a line and did major damage.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I feel bad about the most recent talk I had with my boyfriend and I don't know if I caused irrevocable damage to us. I am 25 my boyfriend is 20 and age has not been an issue until recently (and it isn't really an age thing anyway, just ...

Issues with my body...any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Hiya, I having been shaving, waxing and even plucking my whole bikini area to a holywood, my skin looks like a plucked chicken all the time even If I get it waxed. Im mixed race and I don't know if that's the reason. I just wondered if ther...

Just wondering if there are any good dream decoders out there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Hi, just wondering if there are any good dream decoders out there? Me and my boyfriend split up a few weeks ago and after I had found out it was because he left me for another woman I cut all ties between us and burnt a bridge so to speak. Any...

I need insight on contraceptive methods...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Hy everyone. I am little bit suspicious with condoms as a prevention of pregnancy. I know that they are pretty much safe because they can also protect person form all kind of sickness, but there`s a small posibility that makes me nervous about ...

An Introduction to TANTRA.

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26 January 2010 (M) - Tantra is a word belong to ancient Indian Sanskrit language. This word has been used by scholars in many ways, such as [1] It is used as a religious way with the ideas of god and goddess or deva and devis, temples, prayers, meditations, chanting ...

Is she right for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - I have been with my partner for 5 years and we have been through everything together. I love her dearly but i am scared that my life as i have known it is completely changing and will change forever to suit her values and not mine.We want to be able ...

Do I worry too much about breast size?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Moderator's Note: link to website removed. I recent found a site where some douche tries selling a PDF manual to convince a wife or girlfriend to get implants. I mean, not all guys are like that obviously, but do really most of them wish their pa...

I was caught in a compromising situation at midnight by the police

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - me and my partner got caught with our tops off kissing in a car park at midnight by the police. I have never done anything like this and probs wont again. The police man took my name and done a check and then left...will that be the end of ...