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Archived questions from: 27 August, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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She's filed spousal support papers, does anyone know what could happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

27 August 2009 (F - Ok here it goes my bf is getting divorced and the papers have been filed. She did not contest the papers now she has served him with spousel support papers. Does any one know what can happen? This is a never endidng nightmare. It's adding stress to ...

How long before you know it's love and not just a crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5363 days ago

27 August 2009 (F - How long before you can tell that its love and not just a crush? I have loved someone for over ten years now, and I am very sure it is not, or has never been a crush. If it has been a couple of months and then you find you no longer feel as s...

I have this weird situation with my ex-boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5362 days ago

27 August 2009 (F - Sorry-it’s a bit of a long story. It started 3 years ago-me and my boyfriend had a physical fight and I had bruises, a few days after that I started seeing him in places he shouldn’t have been-like near my mum's when I never took him there I kept ...

Help all female readers! We got into a fight and I forgot an anniversary...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5363 days ago

27 August 2009 (M - Lets say that I was in a bad mood one night, we got in a huge fight I said some awful things, and may have forgotten an anniversary. Now, apologizing does nothing. What can I do to show her I really do love her, and didnt mean to f this up so bad...

Am I supposed to be paying the photographer or the other way around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

27 August 2009 (F - hi i was wondering if anyone would be able to help me on this,, well the thing is i made a profile up on a modelling and photography website, just to see if anything would come out of it !! i made it aware that i didnt have a portfolio, a few minuts ...

Is squirting possible or just faked?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

27 August 2009 (M - I guess this question is more pertaining to any personal encounters... But never the less, I was wondering is squirting real, is it staged, or faked in some fashion? If it is in fact real, how is it achieved thanks...

I've started feeling really bored, and like a really boring person! Has anyone else felt this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

27 August 2009 (F - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about seven months now. In the past two years, my life has been a roller coaster of emotions. I previously was dating a really bad person that was nothing short of a sociopath, my parents divorced each other ...

Why do guys who are walking past on the street stare at me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

27 August 2009 (F - Fistly, I think I made a mistake signing up because I'm 21! Anyway... I don't mean staring at my boobs or butt or checking me out. Some guys (usually ugly!) stare into my eyes on the street and say nothing and I'm sick of it and find it scary. D...

How do I tell my friend I think his girlfriend is a lesbian without him thinking I have been fooling around with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

27 August 2009 (M - basically yeah my friend is really inlove with his girlfriend and i was fine with that untill i started speaking to her one night things turned alittle hot. Now like i know your probably thinking "He's Fooled Around With His Mates Girl" But i have...

If I get turned on by both men and women, does it make me bisexual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

27 August 2009 (M - If i get turned on by both men and women does that make me bi-sexual? becuase welll when i see a man naked or topless i get really turned on, but also whenever im flirting with a girl or just see one i get really turned on..so like yeah i dunno if ...

Why would a woman who's recently changed her appearance start going out all the time with friends instead of being at home with family?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

27 August 2009 (M - Why would a married woman of 10 years loose alot of weight and start staying out with her friends rather than come home to her family. She says she hasn't done anything wrong, but in her words "she looks so good she just wants to go out with her ...

Male Vs Female; A Debate On The Male Obsession With A Woman’s Past

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

27 August 2009 (F - After recently seeing a large number of posts on this site from men asking how to deal with a woman’s sexual past, I wondered why men were so concerned with something that at the end of the day, cannot be changed. So I entered into a conversation ...

Why would a girl go through so much trouble to let you know she's interested, if she's in a relationship?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

27 August 2009 (M - Hello, i'd like some opinions plz if it's not too much trouble. Why would a women get to know you, go all out to make you realize she's interested in you, even to the point of exchanging phone numbers, and risk it all by telling you she's single ...

My soulmate has 2 children and an unstable ex wife, please help me/us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5359 days ago

27 August 2009 (F - I know it's long, but please read and help! My boyfriend has 2 little girls, ages 6 and 7. We have been together for 8 months. I feel as though he is truly my soulmate, and he feels the same. We are both the kind of people that lead very simple ...

Relationship gone wrong- Pakistani and Canadian woman cultural conflicts or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5363 days ago

27 August 2009 (F - About 8 months ago I met a Pakistani man and we became friends. He was a total gentleman and we really enjoyed getting to know eachother's friends an cultures. We were seeing eachother almost everyday for about 5 months and after awhile it ...

Girls: How do you feel when you have aroused a man and can tell he has an erection but he is trying to hide it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

27 August 2009 (M - Pls ladies, how do you feel when you see that you have arouse a guy and the dick is standing but the guy is trying to hide it....

How do you learn to accept that you may or may not find someone to spend your life with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5363 days ago

27 August 2009 (F - How do you learn to be content with yourself and not fear being alone? How do you learn to accept that you may or may not find someone to spend your life with, or your current relationship may not work out, as much as you want it to? How do you ...

How do you know if a guy just wants you for sex or something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5364 days ago

27 August 2009 (F - Are there any signs that suggest whether a guy wants you for sex or something more? It's a month before I can see him to talk about it face to face (I'd rather not ask by email or on the phone) but I need an idea of where we could be heading before ...

Please give me some input about how I can permanently leave this loser!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

27 August 2009 (F - I have asked this question a couple of times. Why do I keep going back to a guy who has been an abuser, physically and verbally and who has cheated on me..Every time, I try to leave him, I end up with him..I've been with him for 4 years off and on ...

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