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Archived questions from: 1 May, 2007 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Three weeks ago my bf's ex-wife had moved back to town with her bf. They had a big fight and next thing you know she moved in with us with her 5 kids.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 525 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I have been with the same guy for a year and a half. Like most relationships it has had some bad times but more good times. We (until recently) had a 3 br apartment and 1 roommate. The roommate has three small kids and works part time. Three ...

Met online, dated 2months, suddenly he ends it! Should I stay friends with him ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 516 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - Hi there. Im a 39 year old woman and had a wonder 2 month relationship with a guy I had met online. Last weekend he went to his hometown to a friend's party, and text me the next day that he was not ready for any relationship and wanted us to part. ...

Im with someone new, things are great, but I'm so paranoid he will hurt me like the last guy!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 525 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - Hey, I'm going out with someone now, and I think i'ts great! He's kind, funny and quite sweet to me. But, I just can't help feeling parnoid that he'll end up hurting me like someone else did to me :( I just want to stop panicking about it, and I do ...

I love my man but hate his drinking habit! What can I do about this ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 525 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I love my boyfriend but i hate his drink habits. I don't like drinking so we are quite opposites in this area. He used to drink 5 or 6 cans of beer a couple of years ago in the evening after work which when i asked to cut back is now down to 2 or ...

Does anyone else feel sickened by the increasing erosion of personal intimacy in relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 525 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - Is there anyone else out there getting as sickened as I am by the increasing erosion of personal intimacy in relationships? I find myself amazed at the way that sex seems to be meaningless, you can have threeway, with other people while you are ...

Im really hurt by what his family say to me, he doesnt care and says I'm taking it too personal!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 525 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I have been married for 7 years but from the begining my husband familiy made it clear that they don't like me even now they still make me feel unworthy by saying little comments here and there but my husband thinks that i take things to personnaly ...

I've been depressed for so long.. How do I get rid of it without going to the doctors!?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 519 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - What is the best way to get rid of depression? I have had it for years and daren't go to the doctors. i don't want it on my records. What if this comes back to haunt me in the future. But - honestly i just cannot go on. i am so down all the time. I ...

My Bf and my best friend are at logger heads over who spends time with me! Help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 525 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - Hiya, Please Can Someone Help.. My Best Friend And My Boyfriend Always Argue With Each Other Over Who Spends More Time With Me I Try To Spend An Equal amount of time with them both, but they still find a way to argue over me. One Night They Had A...

Will something ever happen with us ? Or am I wasting my time ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 523 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - Please could someone please give me some advice on my current situation? For the past 9 months or so, I've played squash with a girl, who I guess I always felt I had a soft spot for. Then about 2 months ago, we spent a few days together at a sp...

We want a 3some with my best friend, But I dont want to lose either of them, what do I do ?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 443 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - My fiance wants to have a threesome with me and my best friend. My best friend and I have had sex together twice, but he doesn't know about it. I quite like the idea and I am pretty sure she would be up for it, but I don't want to lose her or my ...

Is it possible to have deeper trust developed before getting intimate ? Or are my expectations unrealistic?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 520 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - Ok, i have been approached by quite some girls in my life since i was young. I am 26 right now and my problem has been that i haven't really found a girl who treats me the way i would like her to. Most of them end up trying to dominate me or force ...

Our sex drives are different, I sought attention elsewhere, nothing happend sexually, but now she doest trust me!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 523 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - Been married to a gorgeous girl for 3 years and we have a 6 month old daughter. I love my wife very much but we have very different sex drives. Mine is high and hers is low. When we don't have sex for a length of time I feel undesirable and I crave ...

He said he goes to his ex when hes angry with me to know what his options are ! ! !

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I met a man 2 months after my son passed away from cancer. We have been dating 1 year and two months. After 5 years alone I let my walls down to allow him into my life. I immediately fell in love and trusted him fully until I found out he went to a ...

I told him I just wanted to be friends, but think I've changed my mind! Do I tell him ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 525 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - hi im really confused bout my feelins 4 a friend (lets call him "A") (im 20, hes 22) "A" told me he fancied me but i werent so sure coz i needed 2 get 2 know him betta. We then started speakin every day all day (by text msg) and sometimes by the...

I'd like to get him a little token of love to keep for the times we are apart, any suggestions ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 525 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - Hi just a bit of advice, I have met the most amazing man ever and it was love at first sight for the both of us and after such a short time we are both starting to fall in love with each other. Our relationship is somewhat long distance (bout 80 ...

I want to give my friend advice but dont want to put my foot in it... so what do you guys think ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 526 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - hi guys.... this dilema is for a friend of mine, unfortunately she isnt on internet for her to do herself so thought i'd ask for your advice .... my friend is with a guy, ups and downs like always in relationships however she texd h...

Since the birth of my 2nd child we rarely have sex, is there anything we can do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 526 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - i am happly married with 2 children. i am in my mid 30s. i love my husband very much and he too loves me very much. so far we ve never faced any problems. but, after my 2nd delivery, my husband and i hardly had sex. infact, we have sex once or ...

My husband of 22yrs has never truly desired me, I dont want to feel like his room mate, I want to be his wife!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 524 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I have been married to the same man for 22 years. In all those years, my husband has never really acted like he truely desires me. Very few kisses and even less hugs. Even in the beginning there never has been romantic moments like hand holding and ...

My bf is the "Picture Guy" Am I being dramatic by seeing it as more ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 523 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - Ive been dating my boyfriend for about five months now, and ever since I met him he's been known as "The picture guy"...When everyone's out he takes all the drunken pictures and sends them to them by email so they can have them. Alot of them are ...

What are these small bumps on my penis and are they normal ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 525 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - Is this normal? I have small bumps all over my penis, I know it's not an STD or anything, but I'm still concerned as to whether or not its natural, most of all I'm wondering if that would weird girls out. thanks...

What are the phone rules when planning a date together ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 523 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I met this nice guy, he asked me out for dinner and we have not gone yet.He calls me sometimes and I don't want to scare him away,so i am not sure how much I should call him if at all etc. Can you tell me some phone rules? ...

I'm still in college and my Bf who is 10 yrs older is concerned hes holding me back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 522 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I wrote a question the other day, but it ended up being interpreted wrong, so I will try to rephrase it. I have been dating the same guy for 2 years now, and we understand eachother and connect on so many levels. The problem we're having right no...

He must like me to hold my hand... right!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 526 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - Ok... I really like this boy... and well we flirt all the time in class. we even got called out by the teacher and she gave us detentions for showing feelings in "her" class. Well heres the thing... were always sitting next to eachother and holding ...

I've got this white discharge, I dont want to see a doctor, anyone know what it is ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 526 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - Hi There. Im 23 years old and im married. I have got a problem regarding discharges. I have a lot of discharges every month after my period and on my first two days of my dischrages i get light pink blood (little bit). I dont know why i get blood ...

She moved out after 6mths, still has feelings for me, but things are not the same we are drifting!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 525 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - Girl im dating moved out after 6 months with me.Says it felt to much like marrage and does'nt want to be married right now.She says her feelings for me haven't changed but I can feel us drifting a part.Have'nt been intamate in over a month due to ...