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writes:I have been married for 7 years but from the begining my husband familiy made it clear that they don't like me even now they still make me feel unworthy by saying little comments here and there but my husband thinks that i take things to personnaly and doesnot understand that i'm really hurt. I cannot bear his lack of consideration any more. please help Reply to this Question
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reader, Country Woman +, writes (1 May 2007):
 I think the fact that this behaviour seems acceptable to your husband and your pain is not being noticed is not something that can continue it will create a massive void between you if let unresolved.
I think you need to really get your husband to sit down and talk about this properly and tell him how it makes you feel. Does he agree with his families opinions or comments and really put him on the spot.
I think you should also consider counselling to get to the route of this problem as well i.e. Relate - this will only work if both of you go along and just perhaps say to your husband just for an initial chat with an inpartial third party to see if you are seriously over reacting or whether your husband is genuinely not understanding this whole rejection you are getting from his family.
If things don't change after trying counselling or he refuses to go then you need to seriously see whether you are compatible and whether you want the same things out of this marriage or not.
Take care and best of luck.
BFN
Country Woman
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