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writes:i liked this girl, still do, but she doesnt like me in that way, and only considers me as a friend. She knew that i liked her though. Because of this there was much awkwardness and it affected our friendship, that's why one i just told her that i was over her and we can just be friends. We are better friends now and she has become very good friends with my friends but she is a partial friend. I mean, she is more friendly with them than she is with me, talks to them more, gives them hugs more often, basically considers them more than me....for example, when we all were going to the cinema i texted about it and then she called me and said that she isnt sure if she will make it and will have a chat with one of my friends later, and then...goodbye!!Its like she doesn't regard me, i try to be nice one day but eventually because of all of this my mood changes and i feel annoyed. I don't know how to be around her.....is this all because of the past fact that she knew i liked her?? how can i change this? what do i do?? i really like her and want to be a close friend atleast. please help...
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reader, Abella  +, writes (21 May 2011):
 It sure sucks when we really like someone, and everyone knows that, but the other person does not feel the same.
But time is too short to keep mulling this over in your mind.
If she is 'just not into you' then it is time you started looking for another girl. There are many great girls out there, just waiting for you to take up the challenge to find the right One
As much as a person may want some people to be closer, those same persons maybe do not feel the same.
Friendship or even 'like very much) cannot be forced.
Some friends may like person A sometimes and person B at other times.
And person C may be frozen out, at times.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2011): try and tell her that you told her how you felt because you thought it would help you get over her and see what she says.Also tell her how you feel about what she is doing tell her that your getting annoyed over it and she may try and cut you some slackbut she might be acting this way because if you talk to her for a long time or if she hugs you then it might make it difficult for you to get over her. just talk to her and tell her its really important or at least ask for her side and why she is doing this to youhope i helped
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