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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What should I do? Do I contact him... or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4827 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I was dating this guy for about three months, and in those three months he cheated on me (nothing major) and treated me badly, but I didn't give up on him because I knew he could be a good person if it weren't for the people he hung out with. But then he got sent to a mental ... (258 words)

My girlfriend is scared to have sex! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I asked my girlfriend to have sex with me last night but she said she was scared and she didnt want to she was afraid it would hurt. its her first time and first time for me too. Any advice?... (41 words)

How to comfort my best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend is 4 months pregnant and her boyfriend doesn't want the kid, he wants to put it up for adoption but she wants to keep it. she's very upset and crying about it. How should I comfort her ? ... (41 words)

I'm such a good boyfriend, so why is she all quiet with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend has been giving me short answers and not really talking to me. This morning we were doing just fine, she went and got drunk last night and I didn't really think to care much of it. I deleted my Face Books and stuff, and she's kind of just like not wanting to talk ... (105 words)

Strip shows... are they okay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello guys, do u think is it ok for the guys while they are in a relationship and want to go strip show club either with you or his friends and let u go with your female friends too? and also i asked him if he go to striptease club before and told me yea and asked the re... (76 words)

Girls on his phone???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently got into a relationship with someone who lives quite far away from me at least a one hour car journey. we get on so well and we really like eachother. we were out the other day and he was texting I asked him who he was texting and before he could answer I saw the ... (204 words)

Is he still in a relationship with his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner and ex split over 1 year ago, they have a young child, however on our 1st christmas and new years eve he spent with his ex telling me its cos of their son, although their son stayed with his grandparents on those nights. my head is telling me he's still in ... (56 words)

She's cheated on my 6 times now and doesn't know I know...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

6 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend, and lead singer of my band, has cheated on me 6 times. I still love her, im hopeless like this. She doesn't know i know, but, what do i do? I really love her, and i just blame myself for not always being there for her. Should i tell her i know, should i dump her... (64 words)

I just don't want to get hurt again, because it seems that's all women do to me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So i had a relationship with a girl for 2 and a half years and got totally fucked over by her, and am finally at a stage where i think i'm ready to move on. after about 6 months. I'm in my final year of uni, and have been interested in this one girl for most the time i've be... (795 words)

My boyfriend is sooooo depressed, how can I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Its funny how long you can stare at a page and still have difficulty finding the right words to express everything you could possibly be feeling at the moment... i mean realistically no one can ever truly feel how you feel about anything. i mean i can try and paint you a ... (836 words)

Her mother has waged a war against me!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

6 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my girlfriend for a good 8 months now. Everything is good except her mom. I am 18 years old, shipping off to the Air Force this summer. My girlfriend is 17. A little background information: My girlfriend is Hispanic and her father is a pastor at a smal... (590 words)

Why does an ex still get jealous and act possesive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi All, Just a quick question. My ex ended the relationship some time back - but he still gets jealous and acts possesive with me. eg: wants to know why I did'nt call straight back, still texts and calls every couple of weks, still acts possesive It is confusing. Why would an ... (55 words)

I wish HE was my dad...

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - HEY! Okay i need some help.. I have an extremely bad relationship with my dad and hes never really been much of a dad to me to be honest.. Then comes along this dude whos like the perfect father figure to me.. Hes been more of a dad to me in the past 5 years iv known him, th... (191 words)

The trust for my boyfriend is gone... what do I do?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i had one (x)friend but just he is poor i m taking with him he take me as a granted he force on me to call me , to meet me i m scared about him . i told to my family members.after 4-5 months i got admission in new coll where i met to one guy i like him cause he is calm we was ... (181 words)

Should I send him a Valentine's card?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I hope some of you can help, there seem to be some very good answers on here. I went out on few dates with a guy, we had an amazing few nights, we were both amazed how much we'd in common, got on, fancied each other etc. Then shockingly, he said he didn't think we should go ... (219 words)

He's made me so dependent upon him... for everything!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have been dating for almost 2 years. Before we dated, we were best friends and we shared the same group of friends. But when we started dating, our friends became resentful because my bf would spend a lot of time with me. I ended up losing all those friends bu... (533 words)

My work mate's ex is making my work life hell!!

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6 February 2011 (F) - Just over 3 years ago we got a new supervisor in work and on his first day we really hit it off as mates, Im the type of person who makes the effort to make new people settle in and become part of the team. However as the weeks went by I started to have stronger feelings about ... (566 words)

Worried I might get sucked back in...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I hope i can get some good advice, the story is, I've been friends with a guy for 5 years. We've always just had a really good affinity, always just get on so easily. There was always a natural chemistry between us. I was in a relationship for a while, and a while afte... (500 words)

(preferably guys) do you agree with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you agree with this? ---- "when guys who keep trying to flirt with you but also make clear to you that he's not going to have a relationship with you... he's just trying to find a f*ck buddy or friends with benefits" If you don't agree with this,then what do you think?... (56 words)

No sex and worried my girlfriend wants to cheat on me

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

6 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys and gals. alright so where to start.Ive been in a relationship for a lil over 4 years now, it used to be great but now i have a few concerns/issues i was hoping to get some feedback for. *facts* me and my gf have had sex before. ive never cheated on her, she... (398 words)

How can I stop this cyber bullying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Somebody please give me some good advice, i`ve been a victim of cyber bullying, i know who's doing it but just have to get the propf, what can i do about this? i`ve just getting police involved but no joy. Please help,... (42 words)

Why did he say he fell for me, now changes his mind so quickly?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age - Here's my story: I met a guy online. We were actually both trying to get off SpeedDate because we were fed up with online dating, it just wasn't working. We started up a conversation and it took off like a rocket. We fell in love, fell IN love and after 3 weeks I went to visit ... (406 words)

I have having the lights on while having sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I wont let my Fiance keep the lights on during sex and he loves me and never complains but i am too insecure because of my body because i am fat and big is beautiful but i have like cottage cheese looking fat, oh anyways TMI sorry my Q is how can i over come this wanting to ... (92 words)

Has she decided to date too soon after her ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4827 days ago

6 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've met this girl in the last few weeks and we've really hit it off. She broke up from a years relationship about a month and a half ago, and she isn't totally over it. She agreed to meet me on Friday night, and we basically just cuddled for two hours then we kissed. I asked ... (156 words)

He played me for a fool!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, Here is my story in very short version. We met at work 3 (years ago) still work together. We never really dated, but where close (a least what I thought) there is an age difference between us 10 years; he is younger 30 I’m 40. We where attracted to each other and s... (326 words)

Do you know why my sudden lack of sex drive could have happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 years old and have been with my boyfriend for nearly 5 years. I love him to pieces and for about the first 3 years of our relationship we were constantly having sex but within the last 2 years my sex drive has gone from normal to nearly none exsistant and i don't know ... (287 words)

I had a termination 24 hours ago and already he's wanting sex!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i just have a quick question, i just had an abortion 24 hours ago, and for anybody that dont know how an abortion feels is painful, cramping feeling, and constant bleeding, my stupid ass boyfriend is asking me to please him sexually regardless of the fact of how i feel, he's ... (86 words)

Should I call?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, I am with a guy for almost a year now, but he was my ex from a previous relationship, that relationship was (and still) in my heart and my mind stands as my first true love, I have lost contact with him almost three weeks now, the last time I called we both felt confused ... (115 words)

Should I put my life on hold for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4770 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with this guy for over a year, and we really and truly loved each other. Last summer though, we broke up, and now he states that although he loves me and that i'm his "soul mate", he wants me to wait until he's ready. We broke up because of religion. He is mormon, and his ... (178 words)

Player... or used???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 and I have being seeing someone for the last 3 months. Hes 26, has a good job and we live really close to each other. He added me over facebook but I did'nt know him as he was older. We have being going out for meals and lately I have being going to his house since his ... (277 words)

Geek/nerd guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I've always had a thing for geek/nerd guys. There something adorable about them. When my friends talk about their perfect boyfriend,they are all about abs and stuff like that. I want a tall,skinny boyfriend that wears glasses. But,even if I find someone like that,they're ... (70 words)

Red hair please!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dying my hair for years now and it is currently really dark brown with a tinge of red in it. I tried to dye it a dark red like britney spears in the 'womanizer' music video but it just went brown and was tinged red in the sunlight. I'd really like to go the colour o... (86 words)

HE'S doing things he would never accept from me!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupids, advice please cos I'm hurting :( My boyfriends 33 I'm 23. I deleted my Facebook cos he was always jealous when old friends tried adding me etc. To cut a long story short he is very jealous and controlling. Anyways when I was on Facebook we had arguments due to t... (260 words)

I'm the only girl he's nice to... does he like me?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i need some advice on a guy i like.. he is always nice to me and talks to me in the classes that we sit next to each other in, i really like him but i dont know if he likes me. my friend told him i liked him and he seemed interested but hasnt said anything to me about it,... (141 words)

Is she really upset or wants me to know it's over or is she thinking about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I was with a girl on and off for 7 years. We did have some good times but also argued a lot. Most of the arguments lately have been about me moving in. She lives about an hour and a half from me. I kept telling her when i get my finances straightened out i will move in and ... (642 words)

All I want is some clarity!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been friends with this guy for a little over a year and now; up until the beginning of october we were having little coffee and lunch dates, and then one night things went a little farther. The following week we (it was definitely mutual) decided that we just wanted to ... (444 words)

I'm not happy in my marriage anymore...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4826 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I have this guy friend and him and I have been messing around and I'm married and the guy is my husband and I best friend. This guy and I have became close with in the last two years and now we r messing around. I have done this once before with my husband best fri... (185 words)

Dating two men, wanting one.

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, so my last post was on my FWB situation. I was seeing a guy as FWB for about three months who would not commit. I had developed feelings for him that he was not reciprocating due to "commitment issues" from his divorce (1.5 years ago) I broke things off with him, t... (654 words)

Is it a bad thing that we're always kissing???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Is it bad that my girlfriend and I are constantly making out? We're always holding hands, and snuggling and kissing... Mah bro's say we do it a lot, and I never really noticed. My question is, is that bad? to always be kissing?... (45 words)

I want to be with her at least once a month... for sex!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

6 February 2011 (?) age - I'm married and so is she. She started to flirt around and she gave me green signal after she asked me for some money. I visited her house and we made out. Since then I had to go undercover to her house to make out. Since that has passed over six months she is not seein... (142 words)

I want to get him something but not too expensive. Any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - what should i get for my bf for vday?? i got him hershey kisses for "kisses" but i don't really think that's that original, what should i get for him that's not that expensive??... (34 words)

Do you think I should wait a few more days or ditch his number now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Im so confused... Last night I was at a club and met this really terrific man. He was attentive and paid me loads of compliments, even talked to me at the bar instead of hanging with his friends. He asked for my number and made me text him right there so he could have my nu... (372 words)

I feel we're drifting further apart over this... help!

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi. I need all kinds of advice on this one. my bf and I have been together for two years. he owns a company that does gigs and his partner's girlfriend is/was also one of his best buddies of a few years. she is also part of the company although not an official member. Because ... (690 words)

I feel better than I have ever felt before with a girl but not sure if she really likes me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

6 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel better than I have ever felt before with a girl. She is perfect in every way and the best part is she thinks Im cute too. So yesterday I was at her house and we were watching a movie about 20 min into the movie she is touching my arm so then we got a little closer. I ... (331 words)

Desperate for help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I really don't know where to start but I really need some help. Desperately. I am 33-year old female and have been in a relationship with a very nice man for about 20 months, however, my mental health problems are making a relationship close to impossible. My biggest prob. ... (243 words)

I lied about my age, name and where I come from!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4800 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm age 21 (2011) I knew him 2 years ago from FRIENDSTER, first of all i just think of have fun from the net and i really cant imagine!! we be with each other so long time! YES! he's my boy friend now, he never see my identity card, passport and he dont even know where i com... (142 words)

Happily married, with downfall?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4826 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - It's been two years now, and my husband and I started out so happy together. The connection was instant. But I moved states away. We kept emailing each other. He kept insisting for us to try things again, to try a real relationship. At the time I was pushing him away, but only ... (384 words)

The boy I like is really good mates with my ex, and I don't want to ruin their friendship.

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, well basically, I'm 15 and theres this boy that I like who likes me back, and he's told one of my best friends that he's going to ask me out on valentines day. I'm really happy and will probably say yes, but the only thing in the way is my ex boyfriend. He's told me on ... (186 words)

Help! Trying to understand his actions???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, I am in a relationship that is a mixed bag, good and challenging (like everyone, right?). I go to a group meeting daily, and there is a man I am attracted to, and there has been some light flirting (I think). He approached me Thursday, I was sitting alone, and he gr... (260 words)

I don't know whether I had my first kiss yesterday.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, this may be a really silly question but i dont know if i had my first kiss yesterday. Basically me and a guy were cuddling and touching noses and occasionally our lips touch but we didnt do anything like move them etc. So i was thinkin is this my first kiss. Then... (133 words)

I feel like I am not pure enough for my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

6 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - First of all can I say This is my friends account but I am really a female! Hello Eveyone I feel like I did my husband wrong. Im the only he has ever had sex with. I am the only person he has ever loved and same goes for me as he is the only person I have ever loved. Im going... (432 words)

My "curvy" penis!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm not sure how to put this question but I guess I'm curious about what women actually think of my penis. I guess I've never really was subconscious until recently. I've been sleeping with this girl lately that has started calling it curvy and making jokes about it. Size wise ... (143 words)

Severe lower back pain during sex???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - severe lower pack pain during sex .... it never happened before but last night me and my boyfriend got into a deep passionate sex session... it was amazing... till i got on top of him facing his feet, i felt sharp shooting pain to my lower back.. kind of felt like sciatica... (92 words)

My husband is accusing me of cheating to make HIM look innocent!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for almost 4 yrs with two kids 3and 2 yrs old. Me and my husband were lovers for almost 6 years before getting married. I discover him so many lies and betrayed when we are on our 6 yrs relatinoship, but because i love him i forgive and continue my ... (826 words)

She said she just HAD to let out her cries of pleasure!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - During sex last night my girlfriend suddenly let out quite a loud cry. It was the 1st time this had hapened so I asked if she was Ok. She nodded so we carried on. Afterwards she said her body took over and she just had to let go with pleasure. I was chuffed but always ... (130 words)

Confused with this flirty talk???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

6 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts, i am going to be straight up honest with you guys because i really need some answers. My girlfriend and i are now dating for about 7 months and things are quite ok we've had some ups and downs. Here's the thing: about three months ago i would guess somewhere in oct... (473 words)

How to recover from broken heart? Should I ever go back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - last night my boyfriend broke up with me because we never see each other. I love him so so so much this is just killing me. he said he loves me too, he really really loves me and he says I'm an amazing girl and such but he still broke up with me... this is the second time he ... (121 words)

Best way to move on???

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i recently split with my boyfriend who i'd been in a relationship with for 18 month, im finding it hard to let go and move on but i need to because he cheated on me, twice. any ways, songs anything to help me move on? please... (46 words)

What do you get a runner for valentine's day???

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is really into running and sports and what not. And we have been going out for almost 9 months... I don't know what to get him for valentines day... We set a 30 to 45 dollar limit!... (39 words)

I'm in love with my married boss!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in love with my married boss and he's been asking me for nude photos and videos of myself which i have gave him and i have just found out that his wife is pregnant and i dont know what to do. please give me advice. ... (47 words)

It feels like I put more into relationships with others than they put in. If I want more appreciation then should I look for better friends than I have now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, Everyday I feel more and more underapperciated by the people around me. I am the one always inviting people over, Cooking the meals, planning events, etc. lately, I have asked others to bring a dish and a six pack to share to my musicans jams and my get together... (171 words)

How to restore my wife's passion for me again ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

6 February 2011 (M)

age - Hi everyone, my wife and I have been married for 29 years and we never did bond real good when we first got married. We would party a lot for the first two years and then she got pregnant.When our first daugther was born I keep on staying out with my friends and partying ... (234 words)

I've confused him so many times, should I just come out with it and tell him how I feel?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - In school I hang around in a big group of guys and girls. I have a lot of really close guy friends but I was always slightly closer to one of them in particular and although I just thought of him like a best buddie everyone started saying we should go out. I found out he liked ... (320 words)

How to win him back again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i am trying to win my ex boyfriend back. we were going out for 3 months and everything was going well until one day he randomly suggested a breakup. i know he still likes me, we've talked about it, and i can feel it. but he doesnt want to continue with it for reasons that i ... (81 words)

Is he losing his affection for me? How should I view his change towards me

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hey iv'e been with my boyfriend 4 months, but recently he and i have been acting weird. its probably just me but yea.. :/ well we had eachother in our msn names like "j....." and "s....." but today he removed me from his msn name altogether. i asked him why and he said "i duno ... (141 words)

I`m doing all the legwork and she contributes little

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in a long distance relationship. 700kms between us, and we've been together for over a year now. In that time, I've visited my girlfriend nine times. I've always done all of the travelling. I have flown, caught buses, trains and driven long distance numerous times j... (636 words)

I really want to start something with this girl, but how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4827 days ago

6 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to ask this girl out on a date. We've been going to the same school for five months and I haven't really talked to her. When I get close to her I just don't know what to start talking about to try and hit things off. I've sat near her during sporting events and felt mad ... (70 words)

I've lost the desire to have sex with him

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for three years. At first our sex life was great, but now, I never seem to want it. He has put on a bit of weight recently and I find it off putting. I know this shouldn't matter when you love someone, but I can't help it. He complains about it, ... (154 words)

The closer he gets to deployment the worse his behaviour toward me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my husband joined the army about a year ago. he is scheduled to deploy next month, and ever since he found out when he was to go to afghanistan, he has been different. he used to be very patient, loving, kind...now he is unpredictable and moody, and he has started to act out ... (371 words)

I've fallen for my best friend's boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4828 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi guys..im falling inlove with my bestfriends boyfriend...we are in the same apartment for morethan 1yr but my best friend went abroad to work as vocalist for 6mos contract...his bf and i wer left in the apartment but i didnt expect that i would fall for him that much...in ... (170 words)

It's only been a week -- should I get him something for Valentine's?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Just got a new boyfriend. He's great and dead sweet, but its a week before valentines day. should i get him something if we've only been together a week? and if yes, what?... (33 words)

We're falling for each other but he hasn't broken it off with the other girl

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i really like a male friend of mine an I have done for many months. Recently he admitted that he felt the same. The attraction between us is very strong and we have kissed a few times. The problem is that he has a girlfriend of two years. He tells me that he can't break up w... (218 words)

How should I explain to her that I'm not interested in having kids?

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6 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in an awkward situation at the moment. I have just met this lovely lady who is of a different ethic background to me, and she is already dropping hints about having a family one day. We have already had sex. But I made it clear to her before that that I didn't want kids. ... (266 words)

Is my mother right about why he broke up with me?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend have spilt up about a week ago, and i still cant get over that fact we did, he broke up with me saying its cos he wants to go travelling the world(he's always said he was going to) and he things it would be better for us, however when i told me mum she ... (115 words)

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6 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I met this girl six months ago and we became friends. As we got to know each other better, we realised that we had a lot in common. Anyway, I last saw her at a school disco, and I realised that I had feelings for her. I was worried when she started talking to another guy. Since ... (131 words)

Just had a baby w/my estranged husband who's dating someone else...Should I divorce him?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I apologize for my long description but truly appreciate any and all advice. I am embarrassed about the sitaution I have put myself in but thought you should have a thorough explanation. I just had a baby with my estranged husband who is dating someone else. I know I am very ... (1587 words)

No replies to my texts?

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6 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I finally got the guts to ask for the phone number of a girl I really like. She willing gave it too me and I was so happy. She texted me back the first day but had to leave because of a dance class. Since then though she hasn't returned any of my texts. I only text her once a ... (112 words)

How can I express my feelings and opinions without upsetting my family or disrespecting the rules of my culture?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, over here where I live, we are captive of our customs and traditions. The biggest hindrance is the respect for family elders. I know my rights and privileges, but I am still unable to exercise them, so, literally, I have no say about my personal life, likings, or plans. P... (71 words)

There is a 3rd person in this relationship... His mother... Please advise on what I should do!

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my partner is a lot older than me - this is not the issue, however his past is! He's been living with his mum for a year to get some money behind him, we split up last summer and have now been back together 4 months. his mum this time round has not allowed me to step foot in ... (373 words)

It's been three weeks -- do I give it more time?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically I've liked this guy for nearly a year now. We've had a bit of flirting going on every now and then before, and he's admitted hes liked me before, then months later i admiteed that i liked him really badly, and he was shocked and didnt know what to say. He's also had a ... (261 words)

After a turbulent relationship, should I give him space, and how long?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Here is my story in chronological order. After several break ups and being cheated on twice in two relationships, I came to a conclusion in 2008 that I would be ready to get married to anyone who is ready to give me a commitment. During this time, I met my boyfriend who was... (788 words)

What should I do to regain her interest? Advice needed!

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6 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I've been dating this girl I met a couple of months ago. And it started off great! She was crazy about me and she had strong feelings towards me. She loved my personality, my confidence, my great sense of humor... Things were going very smoothly. And even though it was ... (454 words)

We fought and haven't spoken in a week. Will he come back to me?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, My boyfriend is 23 and I am 18. We have been together for over three years now, long distance. Mostly we have a great relationship, he's a really great boyfriend. He's really attentive, loving, always tells me how perfect I am etc. We used to fight tons but now we hardl... (362 words)

We broke up because I accused him of cheating

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6 February 2011 (?) age 41-50 - My boyfriend dumped me 3 weeks ago because I accused him of cheating. I've accused him only because I was feeling insecure after a few incidents where I found out he was talking to other women sexually online. We live together and are unable to move out separately - he ... (346 words)

My boyfriends gone travelling for 6 months?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has just gone away travelling for 6 months and im devastated, we both decided to see where we stand when he gets back which i think is the best idea but just thought of not bein able to pick up the phone n call him whenever i want is killin me! we both promised to ... (195 words)

Can you truly love someone and yet have sex with someone else?

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6 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have another posting with more details and a different question, but after reading some other posts (and just being honest with myself) I feel this question needs to be answered as well. Long story short, I met an amazing girl, we had a perfect relationship without a single... (522 words)

Pregnant, financially unstable, and the father wants nothing to do with the baby. Looking for guidance!

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi All. Sorry this is long, but I need you to know the whole story. Im 20 years old, single and currently in college, but looking for a full time job instead as college is no longer stimulating/interesting me. I was seeing and messing around with a guy over Christmas and ne... (328 words)

I like good conversation. How can I encourage my GF to talk more too?

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6 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I are wonderful together, we get along, we have a wonderful sex life and see each other every day. Sounds perfect right? Not quite. I like talking, I like conversation, I like expressing opinions, but she doesn't. My girlfriend hardly speaks during a convers... (119 words)

Due to insecurity I'm seeing a Dr. Is it a good idea to bring my BF to my therapy?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I often post messages on this board because it seems as if I often have relationship problems. I am still living with my boyfriend but we're going through something right now, and he says he needs to think about what he really wants. He doesn't know at this... (221 words)

Married man is finally free, will our marriage work?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating a man older than me by 25yearrs for about 3years.I'm 21years old now.Now that he and his wife are nolonger together,I am sceptical that our marriage(he proposed) will work.Am I being unfair on us? I do love him but looking at the circumstances we met,will... (56 words)

I didn't tell my abusive ex that we now have a daughter because I'm afraid what he might do

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I left my very abusive husband 2009 while I was three months pregnant. I had been living in a safe house to escape his verbal abuse which was making me ill to the point of not being able to eat. I had lost so much weight I couldn't stand up at one point. I decided to leave his ... (196 words)

I'm in love with my ex's cousin. Should we start dating or will this hurt the family too much?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so here is the gist of it, I have been in a relationship with my man for 10 yrs, and we have 3 kids. I thought I was happy until I met his cousin. We started talking on the phone blah blah.... We move to the same area where I can be around his cousin and we hook up, ... (120 words)

Why is my boyfriend behaving differently now that I am pregnant?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am pregnant 4 my long time boyfriend. we love each other no doubt about that,but i have personal problems with him since this pregnancy. I got to know i was pregnant after he travelled out,though there was indecision problem if we should keep it or not,after much talk,we ... (223 words)

Bled after sex!

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone. i had sex last night with my bf 5 times... i woke up this morning, went to pee and blood also came out. should i be worried? my period is always around the 10th... i'm in pain, period pains... a friend said i have to go to the doctor because it could be serious, ... (101 words)

In the beginning he was attentive. Now he ignores me. Does he still need me?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My bestfriend and I have recently started dating. Before us dating he used to like me a lot and I wasn't really that much into him. He tried his best and we finally started dating. Now, he just doesn't seem to care as much as he did before. We don't talk for days, he never repl... (111 words)

My best friend was texting me pretending to be the guy that I like!

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy i really like ad i often text him and he's always texting back. We are flirting. And my best girl is also texting him . and they are way closer than us. when we were texting the other day, my crush sent me a wrong message and i found out that my bestfriend is ... (78 words)

I'm in love with a girl who has been through a lot. What on earth should I do?

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6 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I've gotten myself into a mess of a relationship and its driving me insane, so I figured it can't hurt to tell my story and see if someone has a word of wisdom to share. Its a long story so I'll get too it. Here it is: I am 17 years old and in my senior year of high sch... (943 words)

Perfect relationship suddenly ends and she is with someone else in no time...WHY?

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6 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Please bear with me, I will try to keep this concise but it isn't easy. The first week of August 2010 I began dating a woman. I am 30 she is 33. I had only been dating casually for the past few years, and generally tended to be the one that was less interested during ... (1307 words)

My partner wants me to abort his child ... please advise me on what to do!

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6 February 2011 (F)

age - I just broke up with my Turkish boyfriend, as he was not happy that I am pregnant. He had promised to marry me and even went to meet my parents to ask for my hand in marriage. We have been spending lots of time together since then, until I told him that I was pregnant. He... (117 words)

I talk to his friends before I talk to him about our problems

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my man and i have known each other 4almost 6 years we went from him giving me advice on my gf trouble at the time thn saw him streak through the mall when i was thr with my gf and now we have been dating 4 two years and we have a 7 mnth old, we fight and argue about little ... (127 words)

Should I confront him and tell him how I felt?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. Well I've been going out with my boyfriend for 8 months now and a week ago we both decided that we wanted to have sex together. Before we started he told me he has a rape fantasy, but I didn't take any notice really. It was my first time and it was fine at first. It didn't ... (192 words)

Would I be better off without this bestfriend in my life?

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6 February 2011 (F)

- Please help. Ohh.. where 2 start I'm going to try and be brief! I amd a 24 yr old straight female. I been friends with this girl since we were in the 6th grade. Since then we hv had a roller coaster relationship until the present.. but somehow managed to remain friends.... (211 words)

Aggressive and dominating male in the bedroom - deep-seeded issues or fun fetish?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I'm a bit confused at the moment! I recently ended an 8 year relationship a few months ago and I know I am in no way ready for another. However, I have a high sex drive and it had been over six months since I had sex. Basically, against my nature, I found a 'friend ... (392 words)

The guilt of us breaking up is really bothering me

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i feel i am surrounded by many problems my ex and i hav had break up 4 months ago but still he hasnt been able to move on.. he has ended up hurting himself physically, sometimes threathening me and more important losing his focus out off studies. due to this he is suffering ... (128 words)

How do I prove to him I won't text my ex again?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so i stupidly texted my ex bf behind my sons dad also my man and he says he forgives but hes so distant...how can i make things bettr between he and i and prove i wont do it again... (39 words)

This boy I like says he loves his girlfriend yet he always flirts with me. What should I do?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey Cupid This boy I like has a girlfriend and says he loves her and always wants her in his life but yet he always flirts with me while I'm at his house (my friend's brother). We don't go to the same school anymore but soon are and I just don't know what to do. ... (59 words)

She went back to her ex but I think he's just putting on a good act

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6 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My Girlfriend was with her ex for 2 and a half years. she and i were friends and she told me, basically, how horrible he was. e.g. he gets drunk all the time, he tells his friends right in front of me that we don't do it enough. etc... I told her that she shouldn't have to put ... (272 words)

I'm guessing I should give up on this guy?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so i'm guessing maybe i should give up on this guy? I met him half a year ago, over summer he was a consistent customer coming into the place where i worked and buying food when he had work breaks. He'd always say hello and chat but not long because he had to go back to ... (171 words)

She tore us apart and I'm afraid its happening again

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My problem is with my boyfriend of 10 years ! Just recentley we split apart because I stayed out with friends until the wee hours of the morning, so in return he ended are relationship stating I was hard to deal with and he wasn"t happy ! So I got my own place and we saw each ... (217 words)

What do I do after I leave my abusive boyfriend?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I just sent my boyfriend to jail tonight....because he hit me. Backhanded me in specific...I have been with him for 3 years in march of this year...hes been verbally abusive to me for as long as i can remember. yes the relationship has had its good moments but tonight after he ... (443 words)

What does she mean "I'm not that great a girl?"

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6 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - What does a college girl really mean when she says "I'm really not that great a girl" after asking her out? I met a girl in college and things were going great. We both had majors in journalism and had a lot of things in common. I never had the luxury of having any real ... (328 words)

Is he just lying because he doesn't like the idea of being single or is he just playing a game?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my ex because he cheated on me and had another girlfriend behind my back. But, when they broke up, he started flirting/talking to me again, saying that he still loves me and etc. But some days he totally ignores me. Is he just lying because he doesn't like the ... (64 words)

Can't stop thinking of boyfriend's past!

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Before I start, I'm going to give a little information that you may want to know. I'm 19, female and have a boyfriend whose age 25. (Age isn't the issue, ignore the age difference). We are online dating and have been with each other for 1 year and a few months) I get really... (523 words)

Should I wait until Valentines Day to tell her my true feelings?

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6 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi everyone, i had a question, theres a girl (she's single and just a year younger) who i've liked for a while now. I want to tell her how i feel and me and her have been kinda flirty lately and i was thinking about doing this on valentines day. Girls is this a good idea? and... (66 words)

Should I pursue a relationship with him because he really really makes me happy and he is very sweet?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok I am 15, and I am "talking" to a guy who is 20,21 in march. No one in my family knows because my mom and my brother dont like him at all, due to past events. My best friend Liz, who is like a sister to me, supports me fully because she and her boyfriend are 8 years apart. ... (164 words)

Even if you can't see them on him, is it possible to get genital warts from your boyfriend?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - dear readers i would like to know if its possible to get genital warts from your boyfriend even if you have never seen them on him? or if he has never has sex with anyone else? ... (39 words)

I haven't cheated before but I want to be with a different man!

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Im currently in a relationship. I've been with my fiance for 8 years. Everything is great But he's not that adventurous in bed like I am. The sex has decreased since we had a child, not because we lost interest but because my son usually interrupts. My fiance and I ... (157 words)

Am I masturbating too much?

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6 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a girlfriend as of now, but I still masturbate at least once, usually twice per day. All told, between my time with her and my own time I'm getting off about 13-16 times per week. I know that this may qualify as over-masturbation, but I'm not totally sure, because I can ... (226 words)

A teenager and pregnant.... I am scared to tell my parents!

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I just turned 16 two months ago. I have been dating my boyfriend for two yaers now, and well we´ve had a past thats not so cute. He´s been real aggressive and stuff but thats not the problem now. Well im pregnant with his baby and im really nervouse to tell my parents.... (205 words)

Is it common for boys to come up from behind and grind on a girl when out clubbing?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am still fairly new to clubbing but I went out a few nights ago. And while I was there I noticed a lot of guys come up from behind and try to grind/dance with the girls. My first question is, is this common? and how should the girl react - is it normal to just dance with ... (195 words)

I want opinions on what he did!

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year I was interested in, lets call him A, eventually found out A was interested in my best friend. I got over it after a while. A and I actually became friends. He recently got a job that requires him to fly out for 4 weeks and he's home only for like a week so I don't ... (190 words)

I found out she's a loose easy fluzzie.She's not wife material.

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6 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Evening everyone. I'm in need of suggestions on how to break it off with a woman I've been seeing since this past August. I want to do in a way that won't insult her or cause her self esteem to go down. For the most part we've got on pretty well and haven't had tiffs. My change ... (266 words)

We haven't been talking! Are we at the boring stage?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I haven't really been talking to each other at school, on the phone or anywhere actually. Should I be worried that our relationship is at it's boring stage?... (31 words)

I'm not sure if I did the right thing going back to my ex

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I find myself in a very difficult situation. A few months ago I broke up with my boyfriend because we had a lot of issues and he did not treat me right. We've been together for 10 years and it was a hard decidion. I went to leave with my parents. A month later I started dating ... (342 words)

I'm pregnant but he wants to wait to have a baby!

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24 yrs old I've been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs and we are still going strong however I got pregnant and he doesn't want me to have it atm he wants to wait a few more years till he's out of med school ... (46 words)

It hurts when we make plans and then he blows me off

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok sooo recently i've been sleeping over my bfs house a lot and he loves it. problem is he lives with his friends family. usually during the day he goes to work and we hang out later that night. lately in the morning he keeps telling me he wants to hang out at night but then ... (124 words)

Should I wait to see if ex will come back, and if so, how long?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 2 years and I broke up a few days ago. It is the final in a series of dragged out "breaks" and "space periods", all initiated by him. Almost every time he does it [routinely every 6 months or so, but more frequently lately], he says he needs space or wants to ... (1086 words)

I'm in my own world, will I ever get a guy?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am almost 16 i never had a boyfriend or a date is there something wrong with me? I only had one kiss and it was with a guy i did not like at all but i guess he liked me but i didnt want to kiss him he just kissed me. and i know everyone has talked to a guy but me im not shy i ... (160 words)

Am I just being a paranoid twit?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am at my wits end in my relationship and i really dont know what to do.I dont trust my partner at all, we have been together for 8 years have one 7 year old boy and our daughter on the way... I am so insecure around other girls, especially of they are skinny and pretty..even ... (158 words)

I just want a friend to hang out with!

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel silly for asking this but these birth control hormones have got me a little crazy. I am with a wonderful man, a man I hope to marry someday and we have been together for an interesting seven months so far. But last summer, both of my best friends (and the only two women ... (471 words)

Girlfriend prefers having guys as friends rather than girls

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6 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, ill try to make this as short as posible. Me and my girlfriend (my first) have been dating for 9 months, we were friends for a few months before we started dating. We love each other to pieces, best thing in my life, and same with her. Welllllll the problem is t... (322 words)

How do I tell people I am gay??.... No one knows!!

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6 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Im gay and iv always known that but no 1 else does how do i come out????? plz help... (19 words)

How can I survive working with my ex for a year?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I wrote earlier in the week about finding out that my boyfriend of one year, had been married for 3 years. I was devastated, accused him, he denied it, called me crazy, I gave him proof, he back paddled, we cried, I asked him to leave. He did. Recently he has made small ... (354 words)

When I get nervous I get gas and stomach noises. How can I quell it?

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6 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - One time at school I was taking a test and the classroom was quiet and my stomach mad a loud growling sound and it was so embarrassing. Now I can't even come to class without getting nervous and worrying about my stomach making noises. I can't even concentrate and pass anything ... (199 words)

Is he giving up on me because I won't go be with him?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my boyfriend online and we've been dating for a year now. When we first met, he used to tell me how he wanted to leave his country and move somewhere else to be with the one he loved and he used to tell me that he's going to move to my country. But then it changed when I ... (356 words)

I'm so in love with my friend it hurts

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i am so in love with my friend it hurts. i dont know how he feels about me.when we first became friends there was some flirting going on-more on m part because i fancied him and still do rotten. he says he enjoys my company and we get on very well. we chatted about dating ... (149 words)

My Fiance is in Prison... Should I stand by him or move on?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, My fiance and me been together for almost 3 years. He is in prison and I visit him every week. As of the end of January we had an argument at the visit and he got up in visit and I was very embarrased. He told me hes not chasing the visits and if I come I come and... (150 words)

My own insecurities are ruining an otherwise great relationship.

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6 February 2011 (F)

age - My own insecurities are ruining an otherwise great relationship. I have tried therapy several times and pray for help to overcome these terrible insecurites. I trust my man not to cheat on me and in all other ways. I am attractive and do not look my age, although it both... (134 words)

Anal sex and anal bleach?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do. My boyfriend and i want to try anal but im scared. The area around my ass hole and vagina is quite dark, does this honestly matter? im worried that when it comes rouund to it he may be put off. Also, i know this may sound silly but i'm so scared ab... (119 words)

If a guy turns his back on you what does it mean?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - If i say something humiliating to a guy...? And he turns around and stands very still with his back to me for a very long time and doesn't move - what does that mean?... (36 words)

Is it wrong for me to date her?

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6 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - theres this girl i work with. o feel quite compelled to date her. i turn 18 soonish, and shes only 16, is it wrong to date her even without sex, or is it reasonable with the age of consent being 16?... (41 words)

Long history of flirting, is there something more?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well it all started when I became close with this guy in one of my classes at college, I'll try cut the story slightly. :) Well we began talking and soon were quite good friends, he'd sit with me and my group of friends (who are all girls) sometimes, and it was really ni... (717 words)

He's confusing me, agreeing to dates then cancels. What's he up to?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - A while ago I was at a house warming party and I met a guy there. We didn't talk much that night but we exchanged information. We talked for months on gchat before meeting for coffee. We ended up talking for about an hour and a half and it went pretty well as far as first dates ... (305 words)

S It Sex Or Commitment Issues

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6 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey im a 22 year old male. Two weeks ago my girlfriend broke up with me after being together for a little over a year. One day we were texting and she said she didn't want to do anything wit me anymore (meaning sex). When i called her to inquire about what was goin on, she... (370 words)

Have I lost him completely?

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6 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So there is this guy i met him a year ago and recently had a really close mutual friend of ours die so i thought it was nice as we said we would help each other through this However on my birthday he told me he liked me we have slept together before and got on really well then ... (172 words)

Is she genuine or using me as a way to find someone else?

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6 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hi there im a 23 year old and i recently broke up from a 7 year relationship.i first met her when i was 15 and she was 31 and had a daughter.a couple of years i had 2 kids of my own.now that the relationship is over im havin difficulty coping.i still love her and want us to be ... (278 words)