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*erect
writes:Dear Cupid, I have this guy friend and him and I have been messing around and I'm married and the guy is my husband and I best friend. This guy and I have became close with in the last two years and now we r messing around. I have done this once before with my husband best friend. My husband and I have been married for 21 years and been together for 28 years total. We have a 3 year old now. The 1st time I did this it lasted 11 years before My husband caught me at his house one night. We worked things out and moved way from the state that is happened in and now here we r 6 years later and I'm back doing the same thing and I know its not right but my husband pushes me away and the other guy has a girlfriend and he isn't happy with her either so we both have alot in common. I know I shouldn't b doing it again.I'M Not Happy Anymore What should I do?
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reader, serect +, writes (8 February 2011):
serect is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo the guy that left the message.
You have know idea what is like to be pushed away do you then?
I have needs and they aren't being met by my husband so I guess I need to go elsewhere and I have went to my best friend for that and he makes me very happy and we always have a good time. Yes the other guy does have a girlfriend but she treats him like crap and he knows that I will take care of him. I would do anything for him and he knows it and for all that matters he really cares for me and my son very much. If my husband cared so much for us then maybe he wouldn't work out of state and be with us.
If/when he will never know because he works out of state so he won't know a thing. If he did find out it would be great then we wouldn't have anything to hide. As I said I have done it before for 11 years before and he didn't find out until I let him find out or I would still be doing it so there.
If you can't give me any good advise then don't leave any messages then.
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