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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Ideas please on everything I need to know on asking a girl out please?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

18 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - There is a girl I like. I need ideas on how I should ask her out? I don't know whether to get her alone or what? I need some ideas. Answers from girls are much appreciated especially if you are my age. I need I ideas on how, where and what to say, for how to be, when I should ... (63 words)

I want to understand this. Could a guy get a girl pregnant even if he never put his penis inside her vagina?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - if a boy masturbates himself and gets his seminal fluid (cum) on his fingers and immediately afterwards performs cunnilingus on a girl, and puts his wet fingers in her vagina while he fingers her, could that pass on diseases or cause pregnancy? i do know this is not a sex edu... (78 words)

I'm the "other woman" and I want to get inside this guy's head - does he really love his girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - It's a long story but here goes... I'm studying abroad in the Caribbean for 7 weeks. I made some friends before coming because I wanted to know a few people, and one of them and I agreed to meet. I agreed to come to his place just over a week ago. We would spend the day to... (729 words)

How do I overcome my crippling insecurity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've always been really insecure and it's annoying the hell out of me. I was brought up to be a well behaved, polite child and I suffered for it through bullying at school. I was cast into to "weird" bin very early on and as a result became very insecure about it. I idea... (208 words)

Should I hold on to someone I love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

18 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend broke up recently because we are only 20, our priorites didnt match right now. and we obviously still have great chemistry (we spent three years builfding it before we dated). problem is she met someone new and while they are not dating, she likes him and ... (196 words)

Is it weird for a male teacher to call you hunny?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

18 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it weird for a male teacher whos like 30 to call a 14 female hunny? Cause today in class i went up to him privately and asked him if i could redo a quiz and he was like whats that hunny? and he kinda tends to flirt sometimes... but i dont know if thats like an accident or ... (67 words)

Overlook with hope or ditch and disappear?

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18 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey peeps say you got fixed up with a gal or lad who you've taken a great liking to and that gal or lad feels the same liking about you but then a couple months or so in you got hold of evidence that the gal or lad had a long track record for being in affairs when they were ... (112 words)

Should I tell my brother I had sex with his room mate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Every few weeks I go and visit my brother who's away at college. When I first met his roommate I felt this attraction to him. One day when I was there my brother had to go to work so it was me and his roommate. At first we watched some tv then one thing lead to another then we ... (105 words)

My husband's mid life crisis...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

18 February 2011 (?) age 51-59 - My husband of 19 years seems to be going through a mid-life crisis. How do I get him to stop thinking he would like to cheat and come back to me?... (31 words)

I've been thinking of telling him that I either want to take things a little slower or ending it entirely.

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18 February 2011 (F) age 36-40 - Should I stay or should I go? I've been dating a guy I work with for the last couple of months (but he's only really stepped up and done gentleman-like things a couple weeks ago). He took me out to dinner on valentine's day and bought me flowers. He did so much for the date ... (170 words)

I'm deeply in love with a mentor at my sixth form.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok heres the deal. I'm deeply in love with a mentor at my sixth form. I'm 18 in a few months, and shes around 25. I know what you guys might be thinking, I've heard everything everyone has said about this type of topic, but I think I would know if it was hormones or not. I've ... (517 words)

Is this real, or am I hallucinating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

18 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This may be the strangest question in terms of love, but I really would like help! I've gone to my parents, to the counselor, and even my neighbor. They don't believe me! Okay, so let me set the scene; I'm 15, as it should already say on the post. I've been keeping this to ... (270 words)

There's now an unspoken tension between us. How can we move forward from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my girlfriend for nearly a year and a half. We live together. We haven't had sex in over 8 months. The sexual relationship never seemed quite right to me, her body language always made it seem like it wasn't something she wanted to be doing. We talked about it ... (283 words)

Hotel sex capers!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going to a hotel with my bf and i want to know of some positions and stuff we could do together. (I'm quite new at the whole sex thing, only really done missionary) We've already mentioned doing it in the shower and doggy... Any other ideas?... (57 words)

I'm losing him because of my anger issues

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 6 months and I think the absolute world of him. Earlier today though, I lost all control and smacked him twice. He stormed out of my house after. I've had troubles with my temper since I was a little girl and my Mum is currently ... (134 words)

I've been feeling a bit lost and could use some advice.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4808 days ago

18 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey guys, I`ve been feeling a bit lost and could use some advice. I've never been in a serious relationship for, which is rare at my age. Even though I'm not ready to settle down now (I love to travel and I really want badly to see the world), I would really like to s... (292 words)

Considering all peoples' feelings makes it difficult to determine the right thing here...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So six months ago, me and my girlfriend of nearly 2 years split up for good. She’s written me out of her life, found a new group of friends so we wouldn’t ever cross paths, and in most aspects, will not acknowledge my existence. I can’t blame her, and don’t because of the fact ... (752 words)

Is it right to be this happy with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4804 days ago

18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so im so excited about being with J again, and he seems to be showing the same enthusiasm, but at the same time, i feel like i'm being tied down... i'm not used to being in a relationship tht i'm actually this excited about is the thing. usually wen i'm with a guy i have no ... (223 words)

He's into really geeky stuff and I hate it! How do I tell him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

18 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - so, i love my bf, right? but hes just a little too much like my step-dad. hes into swords, and anime and stuff like that. i hate all of that crap, but i dont know how to tell him that it makes him a geek... help me? please? ... (48 words)

Cold shoulder...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am 27 years old and recently connected with a classmate from high school. We have been seeing each other for the past 2 weeks. One night we both had quite a bit to drink and he told me that he was scared because he could easily fall in love with me. I was elated... (102 words)

Should I do whatever she wants since I get to keep her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

18 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello i'm 19 and still a virgin. I got my first gf a few months ago but weve only met 5 times casue we live a little ways away. I'm nervous about sex being a virgin and all but she wants sex with me as soon as possilbe and threating to break up with me if i don't have sex with ... (101 words)

Do I have a right to feel wierd about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

18 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I had just gotten to our 5 months when he had an emotional affair with a new female friend. Now all I ask is if he could tell me when he goes out with friends and I would do the same. Well during that whole period I found out he went with another female friend to ... (228 words)

Why has he stopped texting me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been spilt with my boyfriend for about a month now and i have been texting this really nice guy who is slighlty younger than myself. I think i may have fallen for this guy and he used to text me nearly every day, but all of a sudden it has stopped and he wont reply to my ... (75 words)

I reckon she digs another guy... what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - It was going fine and everything, we would sit together hugging and kissing away most of our lunch times and then it must have been wednesday she just went a bit wierd, she wasnt at school and mentioned something about things happening and things being confusing... then t... (350 words)

Ideas please! What can I do to get my relationship back with him. I do really miss him.

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18 February 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I have been living with my boyfriend for over a year and we both are much in love and can't live without each other. I am a uni student and it is my last year and he works full time which is very hard to have time to spend together. I know we both get tired, but his days ... (137 words)

How can I overcome these jitters?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

18 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ive got a new boyfriend and its going well, on monday im going out with him and my two mates that like eachother, so in a way its a double date. but this is the first date ive ever gone on and im freaking out, i dont know what to wear, what to say or do, i have a big case of ... (123 words)

Seriously... What is up with my ex-boyfriend???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (?) age 41-50 - What is up with my ex-boyfriend. Seriously!? It's bad enough he dumped me and broke my heart. Worse is, he wants us to be friends. And on top of that, we still live together (long story but can't change this right now). Despite all my SHIT I am going through, he is a... (200 words)

Why does everyone I talk to judge me about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay.. I don't even know where to begin . Well im 17 years old almost 18 and when i met this boy when i had just turned 16 in 2009. I liked him and he said he liked me so we started dating, but i found out his ex was having his baby, but i tried to look past that and continued ... (449 words)

Did he ever love me???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in love with a married man. We started our relationship like a normal one, i knew he is divorced, i live with him during his wife was in another country. I fall in love with him, and according with him he fall in love with me. After one year of relation, i found out that ... (329 words)

Having trouble with going limp just before sex or during.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

18 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I think I know why its happening but I just want to know how to get it right again. Can anyone PLEASE HELP??? The first time it happened was a few months ago where I was very hard and before I could get in I went limp. I'm very attracted to her so thats not it. I've never ha... (233 words)

Is a cheater always a cheater?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

18 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - do u think once a cheater is always a cheater? thanks for ur comments in advance.... (16 words)

So maybe I should give him some space??? Advice needed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well okay, so there's this guy. I'm pretty sure he likes me. Just by the way he talks to me and how he wants me to hang out with him, and also he said i was cool and awesome. But last night i was waiting for my friend at and there was a talent show. So, i see him and I was ... (191 words)

Girlfriend moved out but wants to try therapy!??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - We met 1.5 years ago and only after 4 hours had an instant connection. She 29 me 39. We were both in relationships that were going nowhere. We both broke off our relationships, waited about a month and started dating. We didn't kiss or anything before we were out of our ... (1584 words)

The Ex blues...

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I split with my boyfriend around 7 months ago, and i previously asked for help on trying to get over him. I took the advice on board and tried to get over him, but theres a problem. It seems to work, but then small things remind me of him and i start to miss him so much. Im ... (130 words)

Guy 'best friend' for a woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it possible to have a best friend of the opposite sex? It always seems to go south for me, but I really don't like how catty women can be. Most recent example: I had this guy "best friend" for 10 years, he surprises me by suddenly hitting on me while visiting, (I wasn't e... (159 words)

I've been feeling confused and alone lately and could really use some advice

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey guys, I've been feeling confused and alone lately and could really use some advice, and I can accept an honest answer. I'm abroad right now, and althought I've made some wonderful friends, whom I love dearly, I can't talk to them about my feelings because it wou... (577 words)

Filled with guilt and heartache...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Well i have a major problem and would love any help or input. I have been married for 14 years next month and i suffer from bi polar so i am not easy to live with but my husband puts up with me and i have slowly pushed him away emotionaly, not meaning to and he has become more ... (750 words)

His porn watching is upsetting me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

18 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 19 years old and away at university, my boyfriend is 25 and is at home working, we have constantly disagreed on subjects but this one has effected me the most, he likes to use porn as a masturbation aid, downloading around 50 porn video's I have told him that it gives my ... (243 words)

Friends hating friends!

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a friend who has stabbed me in the back several times. She started dating this guy that she knows I can't stand and also is pretty much best friends with his sister who I ABSOLUTELY HATE!! The girl likes to cuss me out and start drama and I just don't know how to handle ... (60 words)

A fickle tale of love...

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18 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - In 8th grade, I met this Girl. I thought she was extremely pretty and interesting. of course, I had no hopes of ever becoming involved with her, simply because I felt that I wasn't up to the standards of any girl in general. Little did I know that she actually liked m... (1215 words)

Why do this if she had a boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - My best girl friend and I walk home from school almost every day and about 3 weeks ago we started holding hand and arms round waist when walking. Then she told me she had a bf so what was the point of all of the holding hands and being close?... (50 words)

I don't understand why he would agree to see me and then act this way. Any thoughts?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I dated a man for 2 years and he decided to move on. I met someone new and have been with him for 13 years. 15 years later my ex came into my mind and I could not get him out. I started searching for him and found him, he moved out of town, we talked via email and then he gave ... (157 words)

How can I begin speaking to him again in a friendly way?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I went out with this guy for a short while in the summer but then we broke up and said that we'll still be friends and stuff but now we're not even on speaking terms which pains me greatly, seeing as we got really close. i would just like some advice on how to begin speaking to ... (76 words)

She likes me. How do I show her I like her too?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

18 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I have never been in a real relationship before and I know of a girl who likes me. This could be quite a real one but if I do get involved how do I show her that I still like her and that I dont push her away?... (48 words)

What do you think of the poem and should I send it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Im in a relationship for about 4 months. We have never fought, we just had miscommunicate sometimes. My Girlfriend got really upset about a text message which I sent to her. It was 8pm and I was very drunk and mad, because we had plans for valentines day go to a dinner and a ... (393 words)

Which girl is better?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Girl 1. She is attractive quite popular and seems to be nice enough and I really like her. I have never spoken to her though:( Girl 2. Likes me in that way and is a nice person kind and funny. I don't like her in that way and she is not as popular or attractive about avera... (62 words)

Advice please! How do I get the girl I like to notice me?

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18 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - How do I get the girl I like to notice me? I have never spoken to her but I really like her and I have never felt this way.... (29 words)

My parents are killing my love life!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 16 and i really like this boy who is nearly 19, ive seen him 3 times and we kissed on the 3rd time. He is so lovely and perfect and treats me like a princess, i've never met anyone like him before. However, the big problem is my mum and dad. They think that he is way too ... (164 words)

I can't seem to cum from a blowjob or handjob anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4789 days ago

18 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I can't seem to cum from a blowjob or handjob anymore. I was able to cum during the first one and also on the second one but the most recent ones it just wont happen. What amazed me is that a few nights ago I had 2 very attractive girls both working at giving me one and working ... (80 words)

His timing has chanced where sex is concerned... Help!

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together and having sex for about a year, and the sex is nothing less than amazing. He is a very generous lover, and he is always worried about bringing me to orgasm (several times) before he has his. On average, we had sex about three times a ... (127 words)

He won't go down on me anymore

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i have a bit of a sexual problem. My boyfriend does not like giving me oral. We have been sexually active for about 2 years now out of a 3 year relationship but at the begining he liked giving me oral. At the begining he gave me oral everytime we had sex and whenever we ... (365 words)

Is it possible to break up because of distance and get back together after several years?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i met my bf online and we fell in love. but we live on opposite ends of the country, and we're going to stay physically apart for another 4-5 years definitely. so even tho we still love each other, we decided to break up on good terms because at least for the next couple of ... (107 words)

I need help getting over him!

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello again and welcome back to all those who have read my previous posts. Background: (i'll do my best to keep it short) Was with a guy on and off for 3 and a half years. We went through a lot together, family deaths, separation, depression, illness, operations, jobl... (626 words)

My wife regularly had anal sex with her ex boyfriend but will never allow me to

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2519 days ago

18 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife regularly (once/week) had anal sex with her ex boyfriend but will never allow me to; what should I do? My wife's ex boyfriend had a fetish for anal sex so she allowed him to engage in this with her once a week...They had what they called "Enema and anal Sunday's" w... (288 words)

Do you think it's ok for a boyfriend to flirt with other women on Facebook???

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think it's ok for a boyfriend to flirt with other women on facebook? My boyfriend used to flirt with other women during the time that we were broken up. We are together now, but he thinks it would still be ok to do that, as he said they would know that he is only joking, ... (240 words)

Is it true that in a relationship the person who cares (loves) the least has the most power?

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18 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Is it true that in a relationship the person who cares (loves) the least has the most power? This to me seeems unfair. By this I mean that 'love does not conquer all'. It does not matter how strongly one feels love for the other, the one who cares the least controls the ... (63 words)

27 year old guy thinking of getting a Hooker

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - So yeah im a 27 year old guy, soon turning 28, never had a gf, and yes i'm also a virgin. Recently i've been thinking of just losing that V-card to a prostitute to get it out of the way, i know some will probably tell me to wait for that special girl but lol ive been waiting ... (220 words)

How can a man with small penis satisfy his girlfriend sexually?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - How can a man with small penis satisfy his girlfriend sexually? Any suggestions?... (15 words)

Husband has found his ex on FB and wants to chat to her!!!

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for two years and I love my husband so much, which is the same as him. it is been a while that he found one of his old girlfriends on face book and he wants to have a chat with her, but I am not agreeable to that. From that date we are having fights an... (86 words)

I don't feel good enough for her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with my girlfriend for almost 4 months. I love her completely, she is the one i want to be with for the rest of my life but i'm facing a huge battle vs my insecurities and I'm trying to conquer them alone and it is destroying me. Its not that I don't trust ... (190 words)

Running out of time here...???

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had a crush on a guy for almost a year and a half and we're both in college well i started to like him when i knew that he likes me but im just too shy to talk to him so... he tried so many times to talk to me and show me that he likes me. 2 months ago he sat next to m... (341 words)

I need to STOP this crush!!!

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Cupids. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE tell me how to get over a crush on someone who is unavailable and I see every day? It is slowly driving me crazy!!! The feelings seem to keep growing to a point where they are affecting my life. I do not want to go through this anymore and I wa... (183 words)

Once a cheat.....?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

18 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Last year i came out of a long term relationship (i got married to the man towards the end) before i got married i met a man at work - who turned my life around! We fell completely in love! he was dating the secretary and obviously i was diue to get married. He had cheated... (129 words)

Crushing troubles

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a twenty-five year old female working in the education field. (which is kind of irrelevant to the question, but anyway!) I have literally never had a relationship with a male. No boyfriends in high school, no boy friends in college. I have gone on two dates and that was... (436 words)

Long distance love??

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18 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Well here is my story...its a little long but please!! read! :) I met a girl back when i was 16, she was 15...We were instantly attracted to each other..for a whole month we would spend so much time together, whenever i was with her it felt surreal...i t was crazy how happy ... (500 words)

He's moved to Europe and I don't know whether I like him any more...

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Right im really confused my boyfriend and i live in different countries and i well were in the same time zone for now but i really dont know what to do because he is moving to europe which is really far away. I'm confused because i dont know whether i like him or not anymore. ... (124 words)

Why can't I walk away?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - This guy has been deliberately abusive, disrespectful and nasty towards me. Yet I feel so incredibly drawn to him, why am I trying so hard to be friends? He recently text me because he had been attacked, so there I am texting back asking how he is. I feel confused. So... (101 words)

My girlfriends vagina smells when we have sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok got a question Im new to the site, when my girlfriend and I start to have sex her vagina smells a bit and when I give her oral sex I can taste it. What's going on is there anything we can do to get rid of it? Thanks... (50 words)

I'm independent and I want to court him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like a guy. We dont talk because we feel akward around each other. I live in a conservative family but im thinking of courting him even though im a girl.Is it ok? Or should I wait?... (38 words)

We're on a break, should I leave him to it or get in contact?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Seriously need help!! I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now but we've been having some problems. As soon as he went back to university its like he forgot about me. He never text or rang and when i did attempt to make the effort its like he didnt care, like he couldnt be ... (166 words)

My boyfriend so much wants to prove he can succeed and be successful to my parents. Any advice?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I am 22 years old. I have 3 siblings and I am the only daughter in the family. I'm in a big dilemma now. I really love my boyfriend so much.. However, my parents don't approve of this boy. they consider him as not being of the same socio economically. N yeah, my ... (391 words)

Will my narcissist ex ever want to apolagize to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Will my narcissist ex ever want to apolagize to me? My ex left me for someone else a week afer we broke up and told me -he hates me -im a fat mole -His new gf would look more gorgous even if she was covered in manure -Told me hes over me after one week -Said shes... (192 words)

Wife's libido is higher than mine. What do I do?

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18 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - What do I do if my wife's sexual rate is higher than mine?... (14 words)

Sex is sooooo boring now, how can we spice it up?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I have been in a relationship with my partner for over a year now I am 18 and he is 20. We have been sleeping together for eight months of that time. He was my first and when we started having sex i wanted to do it all the time but as time passed i stopped wanting ... (277 words)

Does a full moon affect people's behavior?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - dear readers i was just wondering as tonights a full moon what people think about the moon having an affect on peoples behaviour? do you think it is possible? some people claim to feel more in love on this night and some claim to get angry faster than normal???... (50 words)

Husband isn't sure he can give up his "friendship" with woman he had an affair with!

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I discovered by husband was having an affair nearly two years ago. It nearly destroyed me and our marriage. He admitted he was in love with the other woman and was going to leave me for her. In the end we worked through it (or so I thought). For 6 months after discovering about ... (158 words)

I asked my husband to be more romantic and he moved into another room!

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i kept asking my husband to be more romantic throughout our 9 years of marriage. 2 months ago he told me that he is too old to change (he is only 38 yrs )and that i should be thanking god for the good life we have. then he moved to another room and did not speak to me since ... (69 words)

He's so stubborn, I cannot get through to him!

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - dear aunt agony i was in a relationship with a guy for the past 3 years 7 months. at 1st we used to live in the same area and then he moved 2 joburg for work purposes.. we spoke about distance and tried to make it work, he came down for xmas and it was great seeing him but ever... (224 words)

Mixed vibes... Why does he say he doesn't like me that way then act the way he does?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been getting mixed vibes from this guy for the last 6 (give or take) months. From the extremes of playfighting with me and teaching me to play cod for 6hrs, to completely ignoring me as if I were invisible. His own sister came up to me and told me he liked me, that he ... (546 words)

How do I deal with the pain of a broken heart?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriends of a year just broke up with me. We were not working, my heart knew that. Please someone advice me with how I deal with this, I'm so heart broken I don't know what to do with myself. Does time really heel? How can I make the pain go away. I've never felt pain like ... (61 words)

Is my boyfriend ready to make-out?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 13 years old and i don't know how to tell if my boyfriend is ready for me to snog him. I don't want to ask but when he kisses me i feel his lips press harder against mine and he opens his mouth slightly, but then he pulls away before I can react. I cant tell whether that's ... (68 words)

I love him but I hate his guts!

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex-boyfriend damaged me. I have not moved on. I cried day in and day out behind the dirty way he dumped with a phone call at two in the morning telling me we were over and that he had moved in with his ex that previous day. There's no need to even describe what that did to ... (398 words)

Does he love me or simply see me as his kid-sister?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this guy since childhood. Family friends and he is 5yrs elder to me. We went to the same school but after he finished his schooling we haven't met much; hardly once or twice. I have always liked him and he is like my favorite since I was kid. He treats me like his sister ... (1097 words)

Meeting my half-siblings for the first time!

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18 February 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Saturday I am meeting my two younger half-siblings for the first time. They are 16 and 14. I'm 19 and we've never met, we didn't even all know about each other until a year ago. We all have the same Dad but none of us grew up with him. They grew up with a step-dad who they ... (356 words)

How should I go about saving this relationship?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been together with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. We were very loving and have alot of happy moments together(we do quarrel at times). Last month, we had an arguement. He suddenly feels that he is tight down by me and he want his own space and time to do his own ... (113 words)

I broke her heart and now I have to fix it because I love her

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18 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ii I'm having a hard time coming to grips with why my ex-girlfriend is treating me so bad and won't speak to me anymore. Grant it, I broke it off because I cheated on her to be with my first love which by the way didn't work out. I've done everything possible to prove to her ... (419 words)

I really love her. Do you think she could learn to want me to be the one?

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18 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, so I love my ex girl friend. I would do anything for her. We broke up because she was confused about whether she loved me or not. We broke up twice with the same issue. She was confused, not knowing whether to pick me, or her bestfriend, who likes her. We stopped talk... (214 words)

I have a crush on my bestfriends worst enemy.... What should I do?

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18 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I happen to have a crush on my best girl friends worst enemy I dont know if I should tell her that I like this girl. Will this ruin our friendship or should I just not tell her?... (38 words)

Why do you think I am behaving like this in class?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Im in yr 10 im not very shy, im the least shy out of my friends. But i took geography as one of my options, dont get me wrong i 3 it. But it seems that when ever i go into the class i go into a shell, i never speak unless i have to, i never put my hand up even if i know the... (120 words)

Do I respond? Or is silence golden, in the circumstances?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How should i respond to a text from my ex who has come into town. i had texted him, telling him, "we shouldn't see each other, when he's in town". he replied with "ok bye." then two hours later he texted me with a booty call text basically. i have yet to respond . what shoul... (67 words)

Should I reject a text from an ex?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - What should I respond to a text from my ex who came into town. I had texted him telling him "We shouldn't see each other when you're in town". He replied with "ok bye." Then two hours later he texted me with a booty call text basically. I have yet to respond. What should I say ... (63 words)

Amazing relationship until we learned his previous g/f was pregnant

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am looking to get advice strictly from those in a similar position. I have sought advice from friends, but as they can't relate, I feel like I am not getting sound advice. I am in a relationship of 6 months. We met online, and if not for this problem, would be close to perfe... (468 words)

What does "did you finish" mean?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What does it mean when a guy asks "did you finish" when dry humping? me and my boyfriend were doing this and we got really into it. he later slowed things down and asked if i finished...i had no clue what that meant and i was to embarrassed to ask because i didn't want to look ... (72 words)

Do we try again?

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18 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So long story short, my last girl and i broke up and i suspected her of having feelings for her ex thus causing our break up. but she said she would never date him or feel that way about him again. and too my suprise...they started dating a month later. and after a couple ... (241 words)

Do I let go of my b/f of seven years who cheats?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, well am 25 and in a little dilemma...am sorry my email is going to be a little long so as for the one who answers it knows exactly what is happening.. i have been on and off with this guy for 7 years now. we were good until i had to go off to uni and long distance just was ... (555 words)

How can I reassure her that she's not fat?

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18 February 2011 (?) age 30-35 - how can i tell my girlfriend she is NOT fat or ugly? every time i tell her she's beautiful she gets mad at me because she thinks she is ugly. how can i show her she's beautiful how can i make her not think so negatively about her body?... (49 words)

How do I overcome my lack of self-esteem and let him know I like him?

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18 February 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I've liked this person( in this case,X) for about 2 years but never had the courage to go up to him and tell him. We're close friends now and even though I feel like I can communicate with him now, the horrors of him reacting negatively just stop me from bringing this up. 1... (247 words)

Why DOESN’T my boyfriend take issue with anything I do?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - *Dave is great. We’ve been together for two years, and we’ve had a pretty smooth ride so far. He’s my first guy, and I’m thankful for the relationship I have with him. I love him dearly, and definitely see more years by his side. What stumps me, however, is how careful his ... (303 words)

Is it worth it to wait for him?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay guys. I'm absolutely, ardently in love with this guy, let's call him Brian. I would do anything for him. He and I are really good friends and incredibly close. We do like eachother, the feeling is mutual, but he has a fiance. I love this man with all of my heart, and I ... (185 words)

He wants to be friends with his crush!

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i have a huge problem right now so my bf of ten and a half months we broke up the day after v-day, i broke up with him cuz i was mad he lied to me about gettin a ride home with someone and i found out the instead of him getting a ride home from one of his friends he was g... (373 words)

He left me, but now he's avoiding all talk of a separation! I'm so over him! What should I do?

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18 February 2011 (?) age 51-59 - okay so here I go again..my husband and I separated..he cheated 4 years ago I was unable to forgive so much fighting he ended up finding another woman...again....well I kicked him out...its been 6 months now the kids dont talk to him his family my family all hate him...he told ... (281 words)

Is there any way that I can save this relationship? I've really messed up...

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18 February 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I really messed up and I need some advice. I have been with my boyfriend a little over a year. We have a 2 month old son and are very much in love. I have never cheated on him or even thought about cheating on him since the day I met him. We had intentions of getting married as ... (442 words)

I feel SO strongly about him, but he has a girlfriend! I don't want to be hurt. What should I do?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - There's this guy that I've been knowing for about 3 yrs now and I'm truly truly truly n love with him but he has a gf. Now let me tell how it all started. We met almost 3 yrs ago online and we were pretty much inseparable from that day. I remember it like it was yesterday. H... (442 words)

He tries to pleasure me, but it doesn't feel good at all. Can someone help me to communicate this without hurting his feelings?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a huge sexual rut with my boyfriend. we were each other's firsts and we didn't know what we were doing so we just started with toys. it was a big mistake. that was 5 yr ago. now i don't want to do toys, cause i feel like it's getting in the way of there actually being ... (298 words)

My wife never initiates sex with me. How can I fix this?

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18 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife and I have been together for 9 yrs and she is not happy with her body and I have never given her any reason to think I agree with what she thinks I have actually told her and showed her I love the way she looks but even with all my effort she will still not start sex if ... (79 words)

Can anyone tell me about the Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone ("A-spot")?

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18 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Does anyone have any experience with the Anterior fornix erogenous zone ("A-spot")? Is it real? How do you stimulate it?... (20 words)

How can I finally learn to trust others and face the regrets that I have?

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18 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I basically came here for advice because I am not sure what else to do and how I should start re-building my life after so many years of walking the broken road. My life was perfect for a while but all hell broke loose when I was brought out of my cultural roots and ... (519 words)

I don't want to hurt the person who was so amazing to me for so many years. What should I do?

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18 February 2011 (F) age 30-35 - hello i have this male friend for 5 years..... during those 5 years i lost both my best friend and my father for cancer.... he stood by me all the time and helped me a lot ....he pulled my hair back when i cried, slept over to stay with me to make sure i'm ok, he used to wipe ... (229 words)

How do I interpret his actions during gym class?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright so I am in grade 10 this year. i was in my gym class and we were playing doctor dodgeball. i was one of the doctors, you know the ones that help people when they get tagged. well there was this one guy, we have only known each other for less then 2 weeks probably. any ... (137 words)

Now that I'm older, I have no idea what he saw in me at that age. How can I process this?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was 18, I began dating a man who was 25. At first my friends and family were wary of the age gap, but we clicked and he turned out to be the love of my life. I'm 23 now, he's 30, and we're still together. Throughout our relationship, I never questioned his motives for ... (379 words)

He flirts with me ALL the time, but then other days doesn't want to talk to me. What does everyone think?

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18 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, about a month ago I posted a ? on here about a guy that I am totally into. (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-acts-like-he-likes-me-but-always.html). Please read the first question because without knowing the whole story this new question will be hard to understand. ... (228 words)

I'm finding myself attracted to one of his friends! Please help!

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so ive been dating this guy who is 5 years older than me for about 2 months. We're not in a serious relationship, but he told me that he is starting to fall for me. Anyways, so before we got involved with each other I hooked up with some of his friends. It has never been ... (177 words)

I'm going to school in another country and I haven't had a girlfriend! What should I do?

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18 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have posted a few questions on here usually when I feel really bad. I have felt really bad for a long time. I figured things couldn't get any worse, but today I logged on to facebook to see a nice girl I really liked was in a relationship with someone, and all her friends ... (292 words)

He's with someone else now and I told him lies. How can I get him to just talk to me now?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Honest truth about me. My ex and i were together and of course we loved each other a lot. We were fighting the last week of a relationship (we were living together) and we broke up. He begged me not to leave him and than i told him ok we will talk in two days so we calm down... (310 words)

I texted her when I was drunk and now our relationship is in trouble. How can I fix things with her?

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18 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Im in a relationship for about 4 months. We have never fought, just miscommunications. My Girlfriend got really upset about a text message which I sent to her. It was 8pm and I was very drunk and mad, because we had plans for valentines day go to a dinner and a concert which st... (389 words)

I don't want him to lose interest in me but how do I handle it when he gets dismissive of me?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with him before, but when I was 12 and we were together for 6 months. Later on in life when were we teenagers he was my first. And that night he didn't talk to me again. Now he's back in my life. I really like him but I know he's been a player in his past. We are ... (133 words)

This guy is a jerk and I am scared. What should I do?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a 11th grader since yesterday, and now he's been telling people he's going to have sex with me, like I'm a sex trophy to him. I never even had my first kiss and I'm a virgin the most i've ever done with a guy was hug, until he came along. I just can't stay wit... (144 words)

I want to stay around him until he is interested. Is this a good strategy while we remain FWB?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok...I need some advice. I have worked with this guy for about 3 years but we didn't really talk outside of work, because we were both been in a relationship at the time (him for 3 years and me for 4) until November. In November I gave him my number and we started texting a... (308 words)

Does my girlfriend have a problem? and is it fixable?

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18 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend comes home from work and changes her panties which are soaking wet in crotch area and leaves them on the floor. i've accidently walked on them and they were very wet. she seems to come home with her panties soaked a couple times a week. i know it seems like a simp... (78 words)

Help me get my self esteem back...

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem that's been irritating me. I never feel I'm beautiful. My friends keep telling me that I'm pretty and even a lot of guys have been interested in me and said I'm attractive but I've never felt that way. I know it's lack of self-confidence. The question is how ... (97 words)

How do you cope after a break-up?

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - After reading about these break-ups I can't help but wonder... What are some of your silly, interesting or odd routine ways you cope after a relationship? For me, it's kind of silly. I purge all my underwear and buy new undies. I donno, there's something disturbing about... (77 words)

I get turned on by different types of porn?

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18 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, basically i am concerned about my mental health as recently i have been thinking about all the porn i have viewed in my lifetime im 19 and started watching it when i was 13, basically i have gone through a variety of it some of which is disturbing i have watched ... (153 words)

How do I get rid of dreaded stretch marks???

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone okay lets get to the point I'm 11 stone 11lbs Im not particularly fat i don't look 'massive' i just look a bit Podgey but!.. i am covered in stretch marks i have them from the top of my thighs to just underneath the back of my calves i have them on my hips and now ... (284 words)

This guy is interested me, but I still like another guy, its fustrating!

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey to everyone who reads and replies to this. To make everything short, I have liked this one guy for about 6 months but nothing has come of it at all, just sex one time and im coming to terms he was a waste of breath. About 4-5 months ago I was 'dating' and having 'casual ... (198 words)

I like my female friend more than I maybe should...

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I already asked this question, but i would really like more clear answers and not in general answers. I am a straight female however when i see and talk with one friend(female) i seem to be attracted to her. Shes really pretty and has a fun personality, and we have similar ... (151 words)

I have a huge dilemma going on in my life at the moment

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18 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a huge dilemma going on in my life at the moment: I am in love with one of my male friends (and I'm pretty sure he feels the same way) but I'm not sure whether or not I should initiate an intimate relationship with him. You see, I'm in my first year of universi... (253 words)