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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do do I teach him what I want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) age 30-35 - I recently broke up with my long distance boyfriend because he wasnt treating me the way I wanted to be treated. It was his first relationship, and he didnt understand how to give me emotional comfort. I was really frustrated, and told him so. He was heartbroken and ... (125 words)

I finally told a deep, dark secret....and now I feel empty and hollow! Why? And what do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - For about 10 years, I carried a secret in my family, since I was 15 years old. It was very heavy for me, but I thought from some maybe obedience that I can’t say it, as I was told that I just can’t say it. Then I broke the silence after 10 years and said it. And now I don’t kn... (123 words)

I met a great guy and we had fun hanging out, but he seemed turned off when I told him I'm 17! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How to get this guy to notice/like me or ask me out? I’m going to have to explain this whole situation so you can kind of get into my shoes a bit and give me some advice. I was out at a gig in my college with my friend the other night and we were both quite drunk. Well...ev... (694 words)

He cheated and I haven't responded to him for 7 months. I will be moving back to his country, should I make peace with him?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I have a complicated story. In 2009 I stayed in Australia for in total 4 months for an internship. I met this guy through a friend of mine, we hit it off instantly, and it was supposed to be something casual. We spent time together for about 2 weeks before I left to ... (608 words)

Need help with my attraction for older men

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I think I possibly need help, but I don't really know how to go about it. I'm only fifteen- going on sixteen, soon, and I've got this real strange attraction to older men Anything up from twenty, but never older than forty? It's sorta weird... it IS weird, but it's just someth... (226 words)

Do I listen to my sister and leave, or was the break a mistake?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - O.k.... I've been going out with my boyfriend for 2, nearly 3 years now and although things have not been perfect, overall we've been quite happy and I've had some of the best times with him, but my sister has told me throughout our relationship she really doesn't think we ... (517 words)

She always wants her space!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I guess I'm the type of person who needs to feel constantly loved. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now and it is just like that fire is gone. I found out she had feelings for another guy and she doesn't really try to hold my hand or kiss me or what not and I ... (159 words)

My girlfriend has feelings for 2 of my friends! We all work together,so it's awkward. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so here it goes, my girlfriend and I have been dating for four years (I’m 21, she’s 20). The beginning was great, we loved each other and we were having fun and what not, this was until I found out she had feelings for two of my friends. So I guess naturally I don't want her ... (258 words)

You're a lesbian, so leave my boyfriend alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Essay time- get comfy! I'm a little confused about my best friend and what exactly it is she is up to... See, we have been best friends for 9 years, she's like my right arm and we do everything together pretty much (even work together) I always thought she might be bi beca... (242 words)

I fancy my boyfriends best mate!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend and I used to be in love with him, now not so much, I have fallen for his best mate ! But he has a girlfriend , they only got together a few days ago , things seem to be going great for them , but not for me and my boyfriend . He has a really nice family and ... (81 words)

How do I achieve my EMO look?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is amazing and he is one of my best friends. He always looks amazing and he always says I look amazing too but I don't feel confident in the clothes I wear! I dont like to wear skirts I love shorts and jeans and I love a quirky style and he says I look amazing when ... (95 words)

She's always bringing a friend along!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I like a very shy girl..we are both 20.i approached her and made obvious i wanted to hang out with her...at first she brought a friend.But then i ignored her so she started texting to me.I asked her out alone and she accepted.Next days she kept making first move via ... (193 words)

My boyfriend rarely wants to have sex! Am I too demanding or am I right to question him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so, this is kind of awkward but I really want people’s opinions... I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and everything is really great, we get on well and he makes me really happy :) There is only one problem...he barely ever wants to have sex! I’m talking like... (174 words)

How do I ask this girl to kiss me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, I really wanna kiss this girl who i like and I am pretty sure she likes me but I don't know how to ask her to kiss me. Has anyone got any good ideas?... (36 words)

Am I wrong in being paranoid about my party-loving bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4803 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I cant decide if I'm being pathetic or not... so I've been with my bf like 3 years, 2 of them a serious relationship, for the past year or so I've become quite paranoid and controlling, but by that all I mean is that I don't like him getting off his face when he goes to unive... (223 words)

Everyone now sees me as the "bad girl" after a regrettable one-night stand. What do I do now??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okey, this is a story I rather not tell but I really need some help on this one. A week ago I met some boys at a party.. we all became really drunk and later that night we went to one of the boys' houses. A lot happened that night, but to tell the story in a short version,... (233 words)

Is it normal for a guy to take this long to decide whether or not he wants to date someone he once dated before and has been friends with since?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4803 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so back in 2009 I dated a guy-- my first boyfriend, from June 26, 2009 until December 16, 2009. He broke up with me because he was "unsure of his true feelings" I was also the last girlfriend he's had since and I was the longest of his three relationships. Ever since though, ... (178 words)

Does losing temper really mean you care?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, To start off we are both male Today I asked a friend of mine to stop playing his music up full volume while he was round mine as I had to concentrate on something. He had his other friends with him and he said no, this doesn't sound right unless its up loud. I conf... (340 words)

Problems with my step-children; am I in the wrong here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (?) age - My step kids are 37 -34 one is a female and one is a male The daughter was marred and has a child she is now divorce. And the son was marred and divorce and now re marred and expending there first child ... I have three girls 37-34-30 They all have there own family too ..... (1383 words)

She's the woman of my dreams, but I can't ask her out on Facebook, can I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, this is quite a difficult thing to explain, but I'll try. - I have been single for a good while now. I'm currently 20, and haven't had a girlfriend in about 18 months. This never really bothered me too much and I was pretty happy, up until this past September when t... (395 words)

Boyfriend travelling overseas for first time - hasn't contacted me yet

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, My boyfriend has just taken his first overseas holiday with one of his mates. He's had a very rough couple of years and I'm excited that he's getting the chance to travel as I've done much of it myself and it's my passion. However, in the 2 weeks that h... (399 words)

We broke up over his emotional affair but I'm having a change of heart

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I can't get over my finace. I found out he was having emotional affair on Facebookand instead of talking he called our engavement off and wouldn't admit to this. ( I gave him space to think and told him if we were no longer together (2.5 years) then I will be taking my truck ... (153 words)

Thinking about the future -- would it be safe for third-cousins to have children together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 years old, and I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and we love each other very much. But recently we found out we are third cousins and we are both thinking about the future. Is it safe for us to have children together? ... (47 words)

Two guys with different things to offer, don't know which to choose

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have an issue I cannot figure out what to do. I dated this guy for two years and he was the first boy i have ever loved. We kept fighting and we were going to college soon so we broke up because we though it would be best. we broke up four months ago and we both are still in ... (298 words)

Discovered that my husband was cheating. Do I stay or go?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, looking for some advice, i have been with my husband for 9 years, married for 4, we have a 2 year old son together and i have 2 children from a previous marriage. I recently found out via a man coming to my door that my husband had been having an affair for 3 mon... (1264 words)

Should I take a break from this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Yes lately it seems like I am always on this site lol! Anyways, the past month or so things have not been so good with me and my bf. We started seeing each other about 8 months ago, and were always exclusive from day 1. We never felt the need to look for others that is how much... (784 words)

I don't understand him! Do you? Should I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - He calls often, just always wants to know how I'm doing and that he finds me attractive and at times tutors me with my science classes, so he's quite bright (unless he's quick on Googling information). It's all really sweet. However, when I ask him things I get: "Fine", ... (175 words)

Why am I not married yet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - While I wait and hoping to marry someday, as to I'm in my mid 30's, seems have decline. Next thing I knew, everyone asked, why am I not married?? I want to tell them, I'm ugly, miserable bitch that nobody want. All I could said, I don't have the answer. I spent 7 long yea... (187 words)

I texted "love you" and I haven't heard back.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so here is the deal. It's senior year and I found this guy within an old group of friends. He goes to my old high school and somehow we found out that we are absolutley perfect for each other. We have such a great time together whether we are in a group or just us two. ... (388 words)

He says I'm crazy because I'm bipolar!?!?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my husband have been married a little over a year. I found out he had been talking to someone else for over 4 months. He swears nothing is going on. He says i'm crazy because i'm bipolar and it's all in my head. He hardly ever wants to have sex and when we do he has a ... (245 words)

She's happy I'm heartbroken, is this just a rumour or true?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently one of my good friends told me that a girl who is currently in a relationship with someone else is happy that I am heartbroken because of her. She is a very close and good friend of mine. In the past, she helped me out a lot in a lot of problems and we both like eac... (218 words)

He wants to keep our relationship secret.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this boy but his mates don't like me, he said that if we do go out then we would have to keep it secret. I'm okay with doing this. What Should i do ? Help !!! ... (41 words)

My partner doesn't pay bills, or clean up messes, and she's taken money from my account without permission. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 36 years old and I have a wonderful two year old daughter. I own my home, and my daughter’s mom lives with me. This is where the problem comes in. She is going to school full time and out of the three years we have been living together she hasn’t contributed any money to... (224 words)

Why I am attracted to women with low self-esteem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Why am I attracted to these needy messed up low self-esteem women? It's like if she is in trouble or is in bad emotional place or drug addict or w/e . I find these women very attractive.. Its like their emotions are so pure I can't explain it.I have a need to comfort them. I ... (250 words)

When I asked my boyfriend to set up some healthy boundaries with his children, he broke up with me! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age - I have been in relationship for 5 years. It was great for 3 years until his children ages 16 and 20 started to cross boundaries when he and I were together. I asked him on several occasions to set up some healthy boundaries to not have them wake us up or interrupt. He has a ... (302 words)

Why doesn't my friend want to talk about the past? And which boy does my heart belong to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, Need your help again. So, last year, there used to be a lad (Luke) who was totally in love with me. He spoke to me everyday and always said he loved me. He did this everyday for a year but I never responded because I didn't want to ruin our friendship, as we were best fri... (331 words)

I can't keep up this secret much longer!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Going to keep this as short as possible.. I am a girl that's16 years old and am in a relationship with a 20 year old male. As I am living with my parents, and knew they would be against this we've been in a secret relationship for 10 months. When we had been together for arou... (187 words)

She made her choice, but now I'm hurting..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I met this girl a while ago, we swiftly hit it off and became friends. Knowing this girl was in a relationship, I didn't push for anything more. After a while we became best friends simply spending each evening talking, it had been a while since I had been in a good ... (466 words)

Do men actually like this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Do guys like giving oral to girls??? I mean do they like fingering, and going down and you know? The taste, the look, when it's clean and partially shaven. I am so trying to explain this well, but just really wanted to know if they like kissing, licking and being down there... (68 words)

I've never had a relationship and I've always used escorts. Would it be fair of me to have a real relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear All, I am having a complex problem as of now and need you to give me some advice. Let me first give you a brief summary about myself. I am a 28 year old moderately successful man. I was born in poverty and learnt the hard lesson of life quick that one needs to be successf... (452 words)

Is it normal to not want to date people older than me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hey there, I was just wondering if i'm meant to be attracted to people older than me. I mean i'm gay and I like people my own age, but not older, and I was wondering if thats normal. Cause some of my mates have older gf and bf. So any help would be good, or your own experie... (68 words)

He's 38, and I'm 21. Someday I would like to have kids, but he doesn't think he wants them. Should I stay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 21 years old and have been with my 38 year old boyfriend for over a year...we live together and get on sooooo well. He never upsets me, treats me like a princess and I love him to bits. The problem is, I would like to have children in the future, not now, but one day. He ... (135 words)

I'm almost 17, and STILL being treated like a little kid!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey. Thank you for all you people who are taking your time to help me, I really do need answers. I'm 17 in a couple of days and tbh I'm quite confused. I've been with my boyfriend for ages (8 months) but he's still not allowed in my bedroom. Even if he's nipping up to ge... (225 words)

I'm fed up of feeling sorry for myself, but cant seem to forget about him! Help!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - This isn't a question. I am just going through a difficult patch and was wondering if anyone had any advice. I fell in love with a guy towards the end of last year (October/November time). He made it very clear that he didn't want anything serious. I backed off compl... (339 words)

We were all set to meet up and then he goes on a date with another girl, and now only wants to be friends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I have joined a dating site, i got talking to a guy on it and we really seemed to have a lot in common, we swapped numbers and were texting the whole time. he lives an hour away and doesnt have a car so we were dying to meet eachother but we have to wait a few weeks. ... (528 words)

Ex ignores me after initially crying to be friends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ex broke up with me a month ago...went into no contact right after. She cried about being friends and I said no since I still had feelings. We dated for 5 years and were each others first...in everything. i knew I was going to see her at the college meeting…and I di... (444 words)

Will having a child make things worse in the long run?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4797 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - im 25 and pregnant. Its been a bit of a rollar cosater but i have got over the hurdles of telling my parents etc and i thought i was on the roasd to happiness. But now me and my boyfriend are arguing. I have gone off sex and been feeling a bit anxious and moody, i have tried ... (360 words)

Am I addicted to smoking after two puffs on a cigarette?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, On saturday, i went to a party with all my mates, there was one girl who was smoking and made me take a puff, i ended up taking two puffs. All today i have been craving a fag and i was going to steal one from my sister. Am i addicted now? and how do i stop feeling li... (83 words)

She rejected me but I am sure there were some signals from her! What do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Help! I met this girl... I was at a Karoke bar, she was with her 3 friends, and when I got up to sing, I asked for her name. When I sat back down, she called me over and we got chatting. She asked me to come along with her and her friends. I did. Towards the end of the ni... (513 words)

Hurt and confused, was it all my fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) age 36-40 - Today makes a week since I last spoke with my ex and I am really taking everything hard. I feel like I'm the only one hurting, like I'm the only one who cares as he is just moving on with his life happily. Long story short, we met through mutual friend and instantly connected. ... (450 words)

I know I shouldnt be with him but I am so alone and only answer his calls so I have someone to talk to....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, you all probably heard all this before! I have been with my ex for about 2 years! We have been going down hill from the second month! He treats me like I'm worthless and brain less and so much more! It has got to the point where I cant take it anymore! The drama star... (959 words)

I'm in a horrible sleeping pattern and don't want to take pills to help me sleep!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im hoping someone can help me. im in a really bad sleeping routine and its effecting my day to day life and relationship. It started when we had two cats, they ended up getting fleas which we didnt know about, it infested the house. I kept getting bitten at night and didn... (468 words)

I've been hiding it, how do I tell my mom and brother that I am gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hello , okay i am not quite sure how to ask this question , but i am living in a constant battle with myself , so i figured if i asked total strangers who lived what i am living right now it will help me ... See i had a rough year , i failed my last year in high school , my... (208 words)

Should I initiate contact?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I've met the most amazing guy. He's very intelligent, fit and into sports, and a fantastic musician. He's kind, thoughtful and sweet, and so handsome. So in other words, I'm infatuated. We started talking a little around a month ago, because we're both in this year's m... (179 words)

Should I tell him explicitly that I do want him or distance myself from him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a summer job whilst studying at uni and towards the end of my time there, I met a man who I really fancied. He’d talk to me online fairly regularly and we had a work party where he told me he wanted me. When I moved back to university, he kept in contact and the messages ... (532 words)

She has stopped the flirting but still talks to him and I have asked her not to! What can I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am going around with this girl for more than a year. We were best friends for 5 years before we got into this relationship. Although we already having it tough times as her parents are not approved of her relationship with me and are completely against we both getting ... (322 words)

3 guys pulling me 3 ways!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hi there i got a boyfriend now been dating him for almost 8 months he sweet caring treats me like a queen breakfast in bed he shouts at me when i am doing something wrong hes got his exes on his mxit and i hate his sister and he gets angry fast now and my ex wants me back... (278 words)

He blows hot and cold. I want him to look at me as a potential girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Any suggestions as to how to make a guy who only looks at you as a friend, look at you like a potential gf? I mean there's this guy who blows hot n cold...i know there's something there...but i can't seem to get it!!... (44 words)

My girlfriend helps when things are rough financially, why cant I count on my wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age - I am a very frustrated husband. I may be the big reason for all of my problems because I am married and have a girlfriend that my wife does not know that I am still seeing. I met my girlfriend while driving over the road as a truck driver and she had been my girlfriend for ... (616 words)

The man I like found out I like him, he likes me only as a sister and things are really strange now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - First of all, my grammar is very bad.. sorry bout that.. hope you can understand my story.. I like my senior, Kim. We know each other for more than one year and we are quite close. His close friends is my close friends as well. They (Ed and Dan) knew that I like him and alw... (797 words)

Did she only marry me because she got pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4795 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in love with this young woman for 2 years. We had been schooling in a local college training as P1 teachers.Accidentally in one of our happy moments she concieved while in college but since we were near to graduate and l loved her l promised to marry her the ... (310 words)

How do we draw a line under this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out my fiancé had been going to massage parlours for massages and 'hand relief'. This is what he told me at first. I found out as he hadn't deleted messages from his sent box, arranging time and what address he had to go to and what he wanted her to wear!! I ... (224 words)

In a relationship for 5 years but have feelings for someone else, how do I approach this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I've finally decided to ask for help anonymously about my situation as I am completely lost at what to do and perhaps even in how I am thinking. I'm 25year old woman in a serious relationship with another woman who is 22 for the last 5 years. Our relati... (1401 words)

Why did this happen? Is he not interested in sex with me anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I was having sex with my bf of a year the other day. I was on top and he went a bit floppy, enough for it to keep falling out/being hard to get back in (sorry to be graphic). After about 5 mins he ended up finishing. Im just wondering if anyone has any idea of why he went flo... (74 words)

My partner only stayed with me because I begged him to! What should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age - hi i have a problem, i am 52 years old my so called partner is only with me as i begged him not to leave me we dont live together. we have a 14 year old son so our whole relationship is based around him. if i ask my partner anything he will always ask what our son wants to do ... (130 words)

Our classmates made fun of our friendship and now she doesn't talk to me anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - hi frnds i am a student of class 11th and i have been fall in love with a classmate of mine i just truly love her but all my friends and her friends now know that i like her and most probably she also knows that i like her. she is somewhat a shy type of girl and i am too shy... (186 words)

She doesn't want us to split up, but she does want a break and to see other people which I cannot tolerate! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with a girl for 4 years. It was my first real relationship, even she had relations befor with both girls and boys. Actually first with boys and then girls in which she decided that she is a lesbian. Before, we had some problems because I didn'... (806 words)

Will my husband ever move back in with me and the kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is happy to live seperate from me and the two kids and just pop in and stay a couple of nights a week and chat for 5 minutes on phone per night.... Am I crazy to think he will ever come back after living the life of a batchelor. And weekend father My husband a... (307 words)

Will my boyfriend be upset about my past?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, I really need some opinions and information, please. My situation is as it follows : I had a bf, then we engaged and wanted to get married. We haven't had actual intercourse, nor did we have oral. But we engaged in some heavy petting : dry humping as they ca... (375 words)

Should I talk to him about this? it's eating me up...

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i have a boyfriend who i've been with for about 3 months now. but recently because he's started working full time and we live about an hour away from each other i only really see him on weekends. i'm fine with this i guess, i would like to see him more, but i understan... (349 words)

I feel neglected.......

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - HI, The guy that i am with now,is a guy that i ever wanted,he has the qualities that i had dream.We work in the same office.We are happy couples.Nowadays he seldom calls me or ask me out for dates.I have confronted him in a very polite way but he refuse to reply me back.I c... (162 words)

How do I ask my boyfriend if we can have a threesome with his friend?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a boyfriend and i would like a threesome with a guy friend of his, and i do not know how to ask him? please help me on this someone xxx... (32 words)

Should I trust her? And if so, how do I get her to hook me up with the guy I like?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this guy I sort of like. His name's Rick. He's tall and always wears hooded jackets even though we live in mild climates. I'm guessing this is just his style, and I find it cute. I want to talk to him, but we barely cross paths or share classes. The only thing we have ... (407 words)

How to turn a drunken hookup into more?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Friday night I drunkenly hooked up with a guy I was set up with to go to a college formal with. I am interested in continuing to talk and possibly hook up more, but how do I find out if he is too? I waited until Sunday to text him, but he didn't respond for 5 hours and neve... (85 words)

Do these dreams mean I'm still not over my ex?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone i gotta lil problem soo me and this guy was together for about 2 1/2 years it was a LDR we lived about 2 hours away. My only problem with him at the time was that he never came 2 see me in pa but one time and i was constintly going back to ny to see him. well he b... (169 words)

Why does he say he doesn't like me that way then act the way he does?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been getting mixed vibes from this guy for the last 6 (give or take) months. From the extremes of playfighting with me and teaching me to play cod for 6hrs, to completely ignoring me as if I were invisible. His own sister came up to me and told me he liked me, that h... (552 words)

Why is she pushing me away?

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28 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, to begin with, my situation just like alot of others is unique in a way, to begin with...back in early 2008, I had met a girl who is mutual friends with some friends of mine in a different circle. We pretty much hit it off as friends, steadily became close friends ... (696 words)

Was I stuck up because I ignored him?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - There was this guy back in middle school who used to stare at me incessantly. I also remember him kicking the back of the bus seat I was sitting on, and leaning on the wall adjacent to me while I stood in the lunch line. I never reacted to his bizarre actions, which probably ... (95 words)

What am I doing wrong? Why am I still single?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been told that I'm pretty, and a lot of guys hit on me. My friends even tell me that they wonder why I'm single. But that's what I don't understand either! I just don't get it - the guys I don't want hit on me, and the guys I do want reject me. (I attract the jokers, but ... (75 words)

I absolutely have no idea where I stand!

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 25 years old, and a lesbian, I broke up with my ex girl friend after 3 years of relationship.But we still share the same room or stay under one roof .She has a long distance relationship with another woman ever since we broke up. Now the thing is she says she has never ... (286 words)

Did this guy like me? Or did I miss something?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This guy named Russell keeps nodding at me, and sometimes looks sorry for it. It's unusual, because we barely know each other. A few times I just smiled back politely. But last week I gave him an awkward smile, because really it was getting weird. Then his nods stopped, and so ... (64 words)

What do you do when you want to give the marriage your best shot but do not have any feelings for your spouse?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am very confused, please help. What do you do when you find yourself in a situation whereby you feel you have to give the marriage your best shot but do not have any feelings for your spouse? I feel we should work on our issues, go through counselling with the hope that ... (189 words)

Is this just his way of telling me we have no future?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i am in a relationship of six years. my boyfriend introduced me to his family when we dated for about a year. my problem is that si months from him introducing me, he never wanted me to visit his place or his parents. when i ask him he brushes me off or says we will visit ... (88 words)

Is it ok to tell your girl that you masturbate?

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28 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Since masturbation is selfless and innocent act and all woman know that single man do it and also in there mind they feel relaxed that the guy she would be knowing or is going out with is masturbator and doesnt exploit woman just for release etc etc i am thinking correct... (204 words)

How do I forgive and let go of an ancient relationship that still haunts me?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with a guy 6 years ago. He was my first love and I can't let him go. I have tried etheric cutting of the cords, I have travelled, I have had children since and many other blessings in my life. The break up was sudden and unresolved for me, because we have neve... (334 words)

Flirty friends and double standards....what would you do in this situation?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok i'm really unsure what to do and would love some advice. Here goes: My fella and I have been together a year now. I have this group of so-called friends (so-called because they never really bothered with me much when I was single unless they were at a lose end) and th... (554 words)

How do I stop my habit of cheating with men behind my girlfriend's back?

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28 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hi there, I have a girlfriend, she's just crazy about me and the problem i'm having is, when i'm with her i'm normal and when she's not with me i start flirting men. I had sex with men too. I know that i'm betraying her but all i wanna do is to get rid of this habit which... (101 words)

I really love him but his attitude is hurting me, what should I do?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I and my bf have a lot of fights these days. we both belong to different religions and he wants me to get converted which i do not wish to.... he does not allow me to talk to any of my guy friends either. He never accepts his mistakes and always is trying to find out faults in ... (104 words)

How do I find out if they are into me for who I am or for my money?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age - Hi I'm bisexual. How can I find out if a woman or man's into me because of who I am or because I'm financially wealthy and is there a difference between women and mens thoughts about my financial weath and whether those thought effect his or her attraction to me? ... (53 words)

Have I blown my chances with her by not making my feelings obvious enough and maybe appearing disinterested??

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28 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, Yesterday I went on a second date with a really nice girl (beautiful, intelligent, etc etc) which I thought went quite well but when I sent her a message afterwards to say thanks I got no response (normally she responds within a couple of hours). We share a lot o... (181 words)

My FWB was hitting on my friend even though she has a boyfriend!

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my fwb for more than two years. Recently we had our first time hanging out in public. We had been in this type of relationship as a secret so finally we were introduced. He had a little smirk going on and so did I but no one saw. We were drinking that night, e... (318 words)

Should I worry about his relationship with his cousin?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i love someone very much.he is very lovely and talkative. but recently i got to know something which is disturbing me a lot.that is my lover is very much close to his uncle's daughter.both of them share their personal matters to each other.personal means each and every personal ... (148 words)

Does stress affect morning erections? Or is he not that interested in me anymore?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'd love some advice, esp from male readers, about morning erections. Usually, when my bf of 6 months wakes up when I'm with him, he has an erection. But for the last 3 times we've woken up together, he's been soft, and we haven't had sex the night before either, which we ... (246 words)

If a man is always talking about extra-marital affairs, is this a sign that he might be having one??

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - What are the chances that a man would be talking about the wrongness of adultery and the mistrust of the ones having an affair, that he would also be having and affair? Would he be talking about it in such bad terms if he is doing it as well?... (50 words)

Is it possible he wrote the note himself and doesn't want to admit it and that he likes me??

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! I met this GUY in one of my classes and the first time we talked it was pretty cool, we are very comfortable with each other. For a couple weeks we just said hi and asked casual questions. One class we started talking alot and really getting to know each oth... (336 words)

15 years old and pregnant, with a strict Mom who doesn't know. What do I do??

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 15 years old and my mom is already is thinking of me having kids!! Almost every day when i come home from school she asks me if I'm still a virgin, and obviously i say yes(the thing is my mom wants to arrange me with someone from our culture/country) so she's looking ... (234 words)

Is there something going on between my teacher and me?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so I've read some stories about "teacher-student relationships" on this websites. (I'm 16 btw) And now I wonder......I've had this teacher for two years. Last year was when I got to know him. I was involved in basketball and didn't want to leave school for 2 hours and come ... (337 words)

How do I distance myself from my ex-bf who goes to my school?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex boyfriend broke up with me a month ago because he didn't like me anymore, (but there was also lots of rumors around saying his friend who's a player, that played my best friend, told him to dump me because being single is better and you can do anything). He decided this a ... (283 words)

Really paranoid when it comes to kissing a guy!!!

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I really like my friend and I've known him for about three years. I already know he likes me and when we first met we went out but it wasn't for tht long and we didn't even kiss. I'm pretty sure he's kissed a girl before and I'm way to scared to kiss a guy let alone tell ... (205 words)

How do I deal with my bf's bi-curious fantasies?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - During sex, while talking about our sexual fantasies, my boyfriend told me the thought of sucking a man's c*** turns him on because it is "wrong" and "taboo". I brought it out by telling him I fantasize him being done by another man. He said he would probably enjoy it. He d... (202 words)

What's this sex position called?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm seeing a new guy outside the U.S. (just a FWB thing, no relationship) and he showed me the most amazing position the other night (not in terms of ability required, but in terms of how it felt)--He wanted me to lay flat on my stomach, except with my knees bent so that my ... (96 words)

Guys: Would you date a woman/girl who wears an afro ( or a style similar to one?)

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This is a very short question aimed at men/boys, and I'm hoping for a straighforward answer: Would you date a woman/girl who wears an afro ( or a style similar to one?)... (32 words)

Family that never apologises...

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - To begin I feel like the whole world is against me. I am married my husband's mother hates me. I am very nice, and polite to her. She loves to say mean things to me and I let it roll of my shoulders. After my son was born my husband and I moved a couple of hours away because ... (356 words)

Can I still please a woman?

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28 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi!! I am 25 years old and I have a penis that is 3 1/2 inch when it erect but it is not thin, do you think that I can still please a woman with that size?... (38 words)

Should I start the healing process and move on from this LDR which doesn't seem to be working out?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with a guy I met in college for almost 4 years now. We have in a good, stable, loving relationship. I'm an international student, so I had to leave upon my graduation. We're half a world away now. I have plans to go back to continue my studies ... (348 words)

Why are they making fun of me because I'm an 8th grader dating a 7th grader?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a boyfriend and he's in 7th grade. I'm in 8th. All the guys talk to him and say stupid things like blink twice if she's forcing you. (They are immature) And they get me and push me into him and say "why are you raping him!!!" Then they make fun of us because he's ... (102 words)

I have serious problems in breathing, but the doctors cannot find anything wrong!

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so this isn't a relationship question but i get good advice from this website so here goes.. for about the past three months i have been having episodes where i feel like i do not get enough air when i breathe. It all started one day while running outside in p.e. class. I ... (412 words)

Is it risky to use coconut oil or butter for vaginal lubrication?

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28 February 2011 (F) age 26-29 - Will using coconut oil or butter for vaginal lubrication be unhealthy or risky?... (13 words)

If a couple breaks up because one of them didn't want anything serious, yet that person marries someone else in a few months...how and why does that happen?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Just wondering when you hear about a couple breaking up , because one of them didn't want anything serious. Then you hear about that person getting married/ having a baby to someone else, maybe months down the line. Why do people do that?... (43 words)

Iv stood by this girl in every way, yet now she's back to her ex who used to abuse her physically and emotionally!!

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28 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have been dating this girl for about 6 months, when all of a sudden she started to ignore me. The relationship was going great, we got along great, we had fun together, nothing was going wrong. She had been ignoring me for about 2 weeks when I found out she had been... (306 words)

Is this relationship worth it?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I like this guy. He has stole my heart. I've met him twice but we've talked. I know you probably think only twice! This kid tried to kiss me the first day I met him. He lives an hour away and doesn't own a cell phone only has a Facebook (thats how we talk) I see him once every ... (71 words)

I don't think my best friend who I have feelings for likes me back. What should I do??

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, I think I'm in love for the first time and it's with my best friend. Whenever I see him I smile without even knowing it. It seems like I think about him all the time, and I always dream about him. But he doesn't seem to like me back. I've felt this way about him for almo... (138 words)

Should I stop talking to him and move on? Or do I need to stop being so dependable and act a bit hard to get instead?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is my first time posting so I'm a little nervous but hopefully I can still explain this properly. Around valentines day weekend my crush suddenly stopped talking to me. For a couple of weeks previous to that his previously long messages had suddenly become short and he o... (420 words)

My stomach grumbles and makes these funny noises...and its SO embarrassing...its killing me

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28 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a big problem at. My stomach makes noises all the time in class. The cause of it is because I get so nervous and worry about it growling or something and then it does it. When the classroom gets quiet I start getting nervous and worrying and it does it then. It's so ... (232 words)

I like my friends brother...what do I do?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, Alright, I use to like my friend's brother. But now I just think he's cute, and I even told his sister (my friend) that. But ever since we first met, he's been saying that he likes me and he just wants to be friends, but recently he told me he likes me and he asked... (224 words)

Should I leave him, sleep with him or just keep on fooling around with him, knowing it will not lead anywhere???

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I am 21 and have been fooling around with a 45 year old musician. We have done every sex act imaginable without penetration (I have been holding off). Here is the hang up: he has a rather new 'girlfriend' who is his age and a teenage son. Now, he keeps on saying that if we ... (191 words)

Performance anxiety!! On the verge of losing my virginity and couldn't get an erection!!

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28 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 17 nearly 18 and was on the edge of losing my virginity a few nights ago, but I couldn't get an erection! When there was foreplay, I got one, and even when were just making out and shit. But once we both got naked (first time i've gotten fully naked in front of some... (178 words)

I can't get it up for sex...help!

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28 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, have been dating my gf for 2 years. When ii lost my virginity to her everything was good and the sex was perfect. Untill we have stoped for a month because of exams and everything...After that we wanted to have sex and i couldnt get hard. She thoguhts im cheating on her o... (216 words)

He feels unsettled living in my house - give it more time or move?

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28 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I (both men, we're gay) recently started living together. The situation was him moving in with me. Our relationship and us living together is going great but he is having trouble feeling settled and it is making him unhappy. The issues seem to be this wasn'... (327 words)

I am in love with my bestfriend's boyfriend

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend in the whole world, Christine, started texting this guy Oliver about 9 months now. They kind of had an off and on thing but they never really dated. Then one day randomly they just started going out. Theyve been together for about 6 months now. They are really ... (305 words)

How do I tell my boyfriend I'm ready for sex?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, here's the problem- my boyfriend and i have been dating for nearly a year. I am ready and willing to have sex with him, However i don't know how to tell him i'm ready. Should i just suduce him? Should i start touching him while kissing? i have no clue on this, please please ... (57 words)

STDs' possible from oral sex?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Can you get stds from giving and receiving oral if both of you have never had any kind of sex before? ... (21 words)

I had sex with my mom's partner!!

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I did something really horrible and I don't know what to do. Basically I had sex with my mum partner and they been out with eachother for 8years. I'm only 18 myself and I don't know why it happend. I'm carrying so much guit with me all around and it is eating me up. I real... (199 words)

What kind of physical look do guys prefer in a girl?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Haii, Im about to turn 14 in a few days (yayy) but I have a question-- well questions which are mostly for teens and peoples my age. Are looks really important? Like what is the thing that makes you attracted to someone? What do guys prefer, bigger or smaller boobs?... (102 words)

I'm planning on running away with my boyfriend!

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm Taylor* 20, smart, high ranking job. I have a boyfriend, Adam* 20, smart, high ranking job. We are madly in love, we first met when we were 14, more mature than most our age, we had a moment, nothing physical, both slightly not sure what to do with ourselves. I moved ... (464 words)

Does a sociopath know that he or she is a sociopath?

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28 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - For those who have dealt with sociopaths, I have a question: Does a sociopath know he or she is a sociopath? In other words, a person who lives off using other people, seeing them as tools and objects, feeling no guilt...do they know they are acting this way or do they h... (159 words)

Do I move out and hope or do I move on?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, here's the deal to cut it plainly: I've fallen in love with a guy - he's 29 and I'm 17..(The age gap doesn't bother me and I don't think it bothers him) I've slept with him which almost resulted in him losing his job because of where he works and my connection to the ... (140 words)

Need advice on this relationship!

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28 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - seeing if any of who could give me some advice or your own opinions on my situation. ok, so ive dated this girl for 2 and a half years. Right before she went to college we got into a huge fight, which was my fault, but she broke up with me. a few days later we were back to ... (213 words)

I broke up with him, he's in another relationship now, but I really miss him! How can I get him back?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I went out with this boy a while ago and I dumped him because well its a long story. Anyway he cut his hair, got a new hair style, and he has really mutured...but he's got a girlfriend and he keeps rubbing it in my face like...oh I'm going to see my girlfriend today or his ... (99 words)