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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My problem is with my boyfriend of 10 years ! Just recentley we split apart because I stayed out with friends until the wee hours of the morning, so in return he ended are relationship stating I was hard to deal with and he wasn"t happy ! So I got my own place and we saw each other lots because of our children etc. after awhile I heard he was hanging out with another woman and they were pretty much inseperable, now he claims they are just friends both having problems with their partners etc. fine and dandy with me except the texting and him running out to pick her up everytime she needed a ride etc, I just didn't get it, but I was moing on.... well we ended back together the love was strong and good, but he also stopped talking with her and hanging out with her. But a year later I find out he has snuck behind my back and shown up at her work to visit her or just say hi !!! Now also from the past I have heard he liked her but she wasn't into him, what do I do, he freaks out when I ask questions but she tore us apart before and I am afraid its happening again
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reader, amandab  +, writes (6 February 2011):
disrespectful thats what i can see, there were obviously problems before you had this night out! and the blame could be put at your door. why does he need to say HI to her. i am not sure she tore you apart but i feel he tore you apart by taking up with her, and then lying to you, do you really want a relationship like that. if you decide to carry on, go to relate, they are means tested so if you can only afford to donate a small amount thats fine.
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