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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What is going on here? Booty call?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy for a little over a month now..problem is I haven't seen him in 3 weeks (partly due to me being away and him becoming very busy with school). We talk and text and the last time I heard from him was Monday night (its now Thursday). We were suppose to ... (177 words)

Am I being too needy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I need some advice. Today I had an awful day. I bumped into an ex who totally screwed up my life (I moved to Uni with him and he broke up with me after two weeks when we were living together) two years ago who I'd managed not to see him at all in a year and a hal... (455 words)

Should I let my family back in my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My father died before I was born and I've never met any of his family. I was an only child and was brought up by a loving mother, who passed away when I was 21. Strong and no nonsense woman as she was, she was the pillar of our family. Their siblings and my cousins turned t... (469 words)

Too old to fall in love in 3 days? Can this happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age - My situation is that I'm a 64 yr old female,on a dating site online, one of the free ones, I'm a newbie at the dating site, and on my first week I made a connection with a man. He didn't want to email because he said he only could type with one finger and it would take for ... (168 words)

Want to change my birth control

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all. i want to get rid of my iud because of painful side effects. i would like to get the essure procedure which is permanent. my boyfriend of 4+ years doesnt want me to get the procedure but i dont understand why. we have had numerous talks and we are not getting mar... (172 words)

How can you help someone whose tortured upbringing has damaged them?

This question has 41 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - my new boyfriend has told me that his upbringing was awful. his dad was a verbally abusive and violent drunk who made his families life hell. this experience has left my boyfriend suffering with depression, inability to have lasting relationships, had lots of relationships ... (147 words)

Living arangement but ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i've just moved to another country and have found a lovely house sharing with a guy and a girl!the thing is within two weeks both the guy (who is a live in landlord by the way he's only 28 i'm 26) and myself have found ourselves really attracted to one another we get on great ... (130 words)

Girls: How would you feel about an inexperienced guy like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4822 days ago

10 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Honestly, I guess I just need to get some stuff off my chest. If you don't feel like reading a relatively long story I suggest you skip this one Im 21 years old, and according to others good looking and muscular (I like to work-out) and studying @ college at the moment. Now,... (792 words)

Are we crazy for planning a future at such a young age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, here's the story. Me and this guy have known each other since the 8th grade and we have dated twice, but it never really worked because he moved our freshman year in high school. Since he has moved, the only way we talk is through Facebook, webcam, he stops in to town now... (262 words)

What are some good things to do together without seeming like a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i met this girl through my cousin and we talked for about a week, then one night she asked me to come bowling with her and a few of her friends so i did and we had a couple drinks had some fun, and we ended up kissing at the end of the night, so we are still talking. and every ... (147 words)

How do I move her from the friend zone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4822 days ago

10 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - How do I get this girl to like me that I really like. She likes me as a friend even calls me best friend but when I ask her out or anything seriously she always has something to do or doesn't feel like it. She's really nice and really funny and I love to be around her but for ... (70 words)

Retroactive resentment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) age 30-35 - Is it normal that I feel "retroactive resentment"? I don't know how else to describe it. But back when I was with my ex, he did many hurtful things, but I forgave him every time because I was really in love and attached. We've been broken up for months now, and I feel really ... (214 words)

Where did I go wrong with this old friend?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I started talking to an old friend around the holidays, we immediately hit it off and hung out that night. We talked for a few hours and had such a great time, he even told me about how much he liked me when we were young, and when we had seen each other for a few months in ... (223 words)

How do I tell him he's too rough?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 7 months and we are sexually active but the problem is that he is very rough during sex and it sometimes can be painfull. Help. What should I say to him ... (42 words)

I don't know how to make a move

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I met this girl about 3 months ago and instantly thought she was gorgeous. We started talking online and we're able to hold a great conversation online for hours. We met a few times again but we only spoke in person once or twice since we met. My friends asked her if she... (170 words)

In a relationship and in the marines

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Can some body please give me a list of all the negative stuff that could happen if some one joins the marines well in a relationship? Thanks.... (27 words)

I want to chat him back without looking like a dick!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok i dont really know how to start this of but plz read it and i will apreciate all answers. i know its usualy about looks at my age so whats the point waiting for a guy to like me purely for my personality.. coz tht would take a while so at my age i have to experiment now. ... (187 words)

Tall Woman Syndrome? Mommy complex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

10 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Here's one for the tall ladies, 5'10+. Please explain the tall-woman-syndrome and the "mommy" complex. Is it true that taller women feel like a mom standing beside a shorter guy? What exactly is the difference in inches that makes a taller woman/shorter man couple look like... (112 words)

I get this bad gut feeling and then the relationship dies

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4807 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a problem but its more to do with me than another person. I get into a relationship feeling happy but then, as time goes by, I start to get this bad gut feeling (the time length it starts happening varies from a week to a couple months) and the relationship goes down ... (108 words)

Does love honestly overcome anything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

10 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - OK. Does love honestly overcome everything? I have been seeing someone for around a year and a half. I have my daughter (8)and she has a daughter (7) and a son(5). We have both been single for 3-4 years so are both use to doing things our own way. We tend to be absoultely ... (737 words)

Ex came back into my life but I don't want to hurt my new boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my first boyfriend for 4 years and during the last year we broke up. During that separation I met another guy. It’s only been 3 months and I think I am madly in love with him. My ex-boyfriend came back and he wants us to have a second chance. He was my first and I ... (133 words)

GUYS: Would a spontaneous kiss leave you wanting a girl more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy on Saturday and hit it off really well. I had a great time and decided I really liked him. I am not one to play mind games but I wanted to try playing hard to get. It has been working well for me. He has initiated every contact and always plans another date before ... (151 words)

What are the odds my ex will want to come back to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

10 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Super fast, speedy, short version: We broke up after a 2 year relationship. I always treated her well and loved her more than anything, but she felt we were becoming too "routine" despite how much I cared for her and thought we were growing apart. No matter how ready... (522 words)

I have zero self confidence when it comes to being with my boyfriend

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi peeps I'm a 19 year old girl and basically I have zero self confidence when it comes to being with my boyfriend. I've always had body confidence issues, didnt have a boyfriend until 17 and even then never got past the kissing stage. now things are getting more interesting ... (333 words)

I found out my partner has HIV. What can I do? Please help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I’m a single mum of 2. I met this partner online and he sounded like a good guy on the phone. 2 months into emails and phone calls we decided to meet. By the way, it’s a long distance relationship. He separated from his wife 2 years ago and they have 1 kid. So I travelle... (587 words)

I'm 20, and my Muslim parents are too overprotective. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, to make a long story short, I come from a Muslim family and my parents are way too overprotective. I’m 20 years old and I’m not allowed to go out with my friends or anything, I can’t even go to the corner shop on my own. Everyday I go to college and then come straight ... (305 words)

My relationship is falling apart! How can I stop this from happening?

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - We have been dating a year and some months. Lately, it feels like were separating... like he is always working now since he got a job in December. I am proud of him for having a job, but when he isn't working instead of hanging with me he stays home and plays his ps3? And ... (305 words)

Relationship troubles and distracted by another man...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my partner 2 years. On the outside everyone thinks we're perfect for each other and that our relationship is rock solid. They expect us to be a forever couple and comment how we're made for each other. He's a good step dad to my daughter and his family have been ... (423 words)

My BFF told my BF something he wasn't suppose to know....now I think he may dump me!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a month, and btw I am insanely in love with him.....but my relationships always come to a crashing stop after a month and I dont want this one to end! My friend B.H. told him about a piece of paper I drew on with our names ... (100 words)

Most people believe a woman should make a man wait for sex. I enjoy sex, so I find this hard. What advice do you have for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've always been told that you shouldn't sleep with your partner straight off the back in a relationship, always aimed at females, of course. I've been doing a little googling, and I came across this little tidbit of advice, "You will be more in control. Do not think th... (280 words)

I'm afraid of being in a serious relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hiya, I am 16 and my only fear in life is being in a serious relationship. I have always had FWB’s (Friend’s With Benefits) and they were always the “Bad Boy” sort of characters so I never had to be serious and basically I could flirt with whoever I wanted. I sound like a p... (351 words)

I'm dating 4 women at the same time and juggling a job that requires travel. WHY?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I find myself in a very strange position, some envy it, some think wtf - no way, others think how stupid are you. I work in a job that ive done for 20 or more years, now at a stage where bar the pennies i would walk away and have tried to do so on many occasions over t... (321 words)

Getting married in the summer but have developed a crush on a girl!

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - getting married in the summer to the man of my dreams,couldnt wish for anything more but i have a problem.i have developed a crush on a girl.we know her through a friend,she has a bf too.it started when me and my bf discussed how we both think shes georgous and if we could have ... (323 words)

I need to end a toxic unhealthy relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Any advice on how to end a relationship with someone you are so attached to that the thought of not talking to them at all again brings terror and anxiety? How do you walk away from someone who you have spent every free moment with for years. The relationship is toxic, ... (82 words)

In her religion homosexuality is wrong!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

10 February 2011 (?) age 26-29 - Hii ermm i was just wanting sum advise, ok im a girl and fancy this other girl and im pretty sure she likes me but the problem is she is a jehovas witness and homosexuality is deamed as wrong and there kinda not alound to be gay . so just advice on whaat you would do ? p.s i ... (79 words)

Could I get into trouble seeing him if my parents find out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well i just moved back in to my parents house n im 17 im currently seeing this 19 year old without my parents knowing. could i get in trouble for being with him if my parents find out. plus he says he wants a baby buti dnt know if he wld really stick around! u dont know what ... (61 words)

What do you think of this internet relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - so. i've been in an online relationship with a girl. for a year and a half. i was looking for a gf online because i was in a car accident and couldn't leave the house enough to really look for anyone. and it was easy...so i just kept talking to her and we got along at first. a... (336 words)

Why is he insisting on seeing me? He lied about having a girlfriend, which is why I stopped seeing him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - What should I do with my ex? I dated this guy who is 9 years older than me. He kept playing mind games with me throughout the time of us being together. He lied to me about his girlfriend saying they weren't really together when they were. Long story short I found out and less ... (333 words)

What would you do if you were told you only have 8 years left?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - If you're single, what would you do about your current love life if the doctor told you, you have a deadly disease and that you only have 8 years of life? Would you look for someone? and why? ... (47 words)

Take a break? Or chase after the woman I love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - history- me and my girlfriend(or ex), have been together for 2yrs plus.1st year was bumpy, a lot arguments, 2nd year was a bit better than usual, for the last months it was going great. problem, we had a slight argument and had big fight and broke up. she told me she need... (511 words)

Do you think he has any feelings or compassion left for me? Should I call him or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years last year because we felt like we were just friends and I had started to like someone else. However, we carried on seeing each other as friends, but occasionally sleeping together. After a couple of months I found out in a very gruesome ... (743 words)

She means more to me so how can I just think of her as a piece of ass?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

10 February 2011 (M)

age - i feel in love with a married co-worker and she is wonderful but i have suspiction that she is also having affair with someone else also plus her husband but my problem is i love her and she always on my mind and i just need to think of it as a peice of ass and having a hard ... (75 words)

I think slowing everything down will be a good idea for us. What do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

10 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey All, I am a mess right now, took a week off from work to really deal with this. Here’s the situation, I have been dating my GF for almost 3 years now. We have been through a lot and we became quite comfortable. She still calls me her best friend. Well she comes ... (1348 words)

I'm widowed and slept with a married man. For once in my life I want to be selfish and just do what I want!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been widowed for a year and have 2 children. This doesn't leave me a lot of time to date or even meet someone. I do miss having sex but I am not ready for a relationship and may never be, given the circumstances of my previous marriage and the circumstances of my ... (291 words)

Has anyone else felt unhappy about being pregnant? Will these feelings go away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last week I found out I am pregnant with my boyfriend of 3 and a half year's baby. He is delighted at the news and cannot wait to become a father. I am struggling to be excited or even feel happy about being pregnant, is this normal? I have never had any real desire to become a ... (140 words)

My boyfriend was released from incarceration. Now his family is influencing him to do illegal things again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend finally came home after being incarcerated for parole violation. The thing is I'm having a hard time being comfortable and dealing with the idea that he's not going to leave me again, in one way or another. I'm feeling very paranoid and sad. I missed him so much, ... (182 words)

What is going on with this girl? I don't want to lose her! What should I do next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) age 30-35 - I have loved this girl since the moment I met her. The first time we met there was a spark bigger than an atom bomb. The day after that she wrote me a message with "I miss you 3", but I wanted to see if this was really the girl for me, so we met two more time's after that. She ... (358 words)

Has she lost interest? Changed her mind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

10 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - i would greatly appericate the help you would give me, and the advice. I have been going out with a divorced lady for about a month now.she is cool, smart, funny, good work parties, she has a hard exterior but a soft interior, shy, and single. I am an engineer, about her age,... (701 words)

Is there any way to salvage a friendship from this mess?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, there is a much longer story, that I already explained earlier (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/her-family-situation-has-made-her-push-me.html) with lots of vital information, but I'll skip most of it: Basically, a longtime friend ended up sleeping with me, going ... (493 words)

Stingy boyfriend! Am I asking for too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Have been with my bf for 7mths.i like buying him gifts,but he never gets me anything.he says girls are not suposed to be spoiled with gifts and money.he complains about being broke all the time,but i know he gets 2 have money most of the time.we are both students,so am not ... (178 words)

Is my LDR playing games? Should I let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Need some help regarding a long distance situation. Long story short and il try explain it as detailed but as short as possible so you get an understanding of the situation. ok i met a girl ONLINE one year ago, she is not a complete stranger, she is freinds with one of my ... (835 words)

We started exploring kinks and now I'm feeling that things are out of hand

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

10 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So me and my girlfriend are fairly kinky and I know she likes BDSM (since a friend took her to an event last year) so I asked her if she'd like to go to a rope workshop in a couple of weeks.. This tipped over a few more dominoes than expected, she was thrilled, and we... (276 words)

Does my boyfriend really love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are been together for 3 years..we have an age gap..he's only 18 and im 20. Im his first gf and first sex..even though we have an age gap..we are still on the same college level..here's my problem..with the age of 18..he still likes to play..games and other ... (235 words)

I feel like I'm being led on and used.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - right so I was going out with this guy when I was 15 and he was 17- we went out for 18 months but split due to arguments and my trust problems as I had been told he cheated on me!. we broke up for about 4 months but in that time we hated eachother but then loved eachother again ... (224 words)

My colleague is a bit of a nightmare

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My colleague is a bit of a nightmare and I don't know how to handle her! Some background - 3 years ago, I asked for a divorce after many years of physical and emotional violence from my partner. I have an eating disorder, which flared up under the stress, and I went down ... (567 words)

Guy out of the blue said he doesn't want a relationship, but we really clicked. Help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So I started talking to this guy about a week ago and we went out on our first date a few days back and had a great time. We really clicked and expressed to each other that we really liked each other. I stayed with him that night since he does live about an hour to an hour and ... (494 words)

Performance anxiety - her distance and lack of affection is destroying my self esteem.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Backround, im 24. Male, Dating a 23yr old girl.We live in South Carolina by the beach. I go to school and work full time. she works alot. Weve been together for like 18 months now and we live together. We started out great and use to be very intimate but then after six months... (568 words)

She told me to leave her alone - what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I gave my crush a note to tell her how I felt about her, she's a shy female, one week later, I asked her what she thought of it and she told me to leave her alone, what does that mean?? ... (43 words)

I want to have sex but the guys I like prefer slim girls

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 17, and a virgin, im a size 16-18 and i really want to have sex! ive had no sexual experiences, I just want to get out there! The only thing is, then guys im into, tend to like slim girls, i dont think i'll be able to find a guy that likes my size. Most of my friends have ... (85 words)

I want her back, should I write a letter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, so was dating this girl for almost 2 years and she broke up with me. She never told me why though, but I could figure that out a little myself, we've always been fine but lately both of us were feeling depressed. And seeing as I always helped her but couldn't ... (310 words)

Tired of having sex on her terms. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Here's my dilemma: I've moved in with my girlfriend of 14 months. She's had numerous (unknown number) lovers in the past, and she has been my first and only sexual partner. I DON'T want this to be a retroactive jealousy post, but what I would like is some advice for how I... (396 words)

I want to get rid of this feeling and lead a happy life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I like a guy for almost 1 year and until now I still can't forget about him and the moment with him. Actually he already knew that I like him but he didn't say anything about it and we had went out for lots of times and it's just 2 of us watching movies, had dinner together and ... (328 words)

What's with the sudden changes? Is he playing games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Been seeing this guy since Nov and we are not exclusive. Never had that talk. He is a bit of the player kind. i picked up on this. We hang out a few times a week, I stay over watch tv, eat dinner, laugh a lot. We have only gone on a few outside dates since Nov. I always let ... (495 words)

Is my boyfriend gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - is my boyfriend gay ? we're friends for about 6 years,we haven't seen each other for about 2 years...he became my boyfriend 3months ago we shared things and happy moments with my family and his family too, he's very sweet and very loving..he's a play boy before thats why i do... (194 words)

What is this kind of friendship called?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i met this great guy about four months ago when he called me on phone, and since then we've been talking and sharing pictures, we stay in the same area. We've met two times physically, and the second time we kissed. He got me very nice gifts for christmas and my birthday.... (141 words)

25 year old male who doesn't want sex? What could be the problem here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - im female and i was just wondering is it normal for a man of 25 to have a very low sex drive he loves oral sex but thats about it he never asks for sex just oral sometimes i have to remind him i have needs to , i dont have a great sex drive but at least once a week would be ok ... (92 words)

If I have feelings for this girl, what do you suggest that I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I posted on here a while ago saying how I was really struggling to forget my ex of around a year ago, and how I was really out of ideas on how to get over it because it was driving me crazy. Since then something has sparked in my mind and the pain is not as bad as it was. I ... (470 words)

Is it my paranoia or is this my gut instinct?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Am I in the wrong here? Been seeing marc for over a year. We see each other most nites. We both have insecurity issues, in truth mine are a lot worse than his. But he does ask insecure questions like am I getting bored and sometimes will be a bit off with me when I go to my ... (510 words)

Will my ex come back to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I would really appreciate any answers and advice... My boyfriend broke up with me about 10 days ago. We were together for over 5 years. We are both 22 and had all of our firsts together. The reasons he broke up with me were that he isn't happy but isn't sure why... (410 words)

He said he likes me, but doesn't want a girlfriend right now!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey cupids! im just a bit confused and dunno what to do about this guy i like so it all starts off with him telling me that he likes me / another girl and i also told him i liked him as well . it was really awkward and stuff until he started calling me babe and stuff (btw t... (174 words)

He's obsessively looking up another woman online!

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my b/f for 2 years (living together for 1) and in nearly every respect we're very happy together. He dotes on me and gives me everything I could possibly ask for emotionally and otherwise. He's everything to me and we rarely, if at all, come to arguments, not ... (329 words)

Why does my boyfriend hate me because I follow his orders?

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What is going on with my boyfriend?! Is he my boyfriend?! I'm so confused. He breaks up with me every other month and gets a new girlfriend, and every time I lock myself up in my bedroom and hide from him and the world. This turns him into a monster because he can't get in ... (383 words)

I have a perfect boyfriend, but I am sick of him! What is wrong with me?

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year, he is practically perfect, he treats me, he doesnt go in moods, hes not possesive, but i am so sick of him! I dont know whats wrong with me, i really love him but im not attracted to him, i think its really ... (124 words)

I really like him but he doesn't put any effort in!

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - am 35 yrs old and seriously having feelings for this guy at work place. he is 48 yrs old and single. he told me he too has feelings for me but we have met once outside the office, i call him more often and even text him, but he doesnt seem to do more, he tells me he is not a ... (89 words)

I cant accept he doesn't like me!

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i like my cousins best friend,we used to talk on phone but when he met me for the first time he said he didnt feel the connection with me.......now i'm not able to accept this that he doesnt likes me......i really miss him...what to do? ... (47 words)

Married for only 6 months but I feel so alone, hurt and disappointed! Is there any hope for us?

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't even know where to start. We have only been married for six months but I will admit that this has been going on for over a year. Our relationship started as being long distance- a different country even. I love him with all of my heart and was willing to do anything ... (578 words)

I have to appear in court because of my ex and his new woman! I seriously want to forget about him for life, but how do I go about doing that?

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - the last time I wrote on Cupid was in January. It was about my ex boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me the week before Halloween of 2010. When he had broke up with me he told me he wanted to be free, and just live life to the fullest with out any attachment. So I took his word ... (481 words)

Former boyfriend wants to be FWB but I want our relationship back

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10 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So. I broke up with my boyfriend nearly a month ago now. Our breakup didn't end with the passion leaving our relationship, he just doesn't want to be tied down to a single person anymore. We're still good friends and we talk every day. We also have a 'f*ckbuddies' th... (83 words)

He gets SOOO angry! Is this normal?

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend grabbed my head and slammed it against the door. He said that I wouldn't shut up (we were having an argument) and that because I followed him through the house (I was trying to get him to talk / listen) then I tip him over the edge and get him wound up. When he ... (247 words)

Why did she marry me if she now wants to live the single life and date other men? Should I continue to stand by her and wait for her to come back?

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10 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - "this is very long but please bare with me, its important and i could really use any sort of advice" hey, im 22 and been married for just over a year, my wife, 24, and i have a 1 year old boy together. we both used to be so incredibly happy, inseperable, lovey dovey, the type... (607 words)

Is it dangerous to go meet a guy youve known online? HELP?

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So Im 18 and hes 21 he lives in washington and Ive been talking to him for around a year...I was thinking of going over to him in the summer! He wants a relationship with me would it be unsafe to live with him? Ive seen his facebook and all his families facebook and see... (73 words)

My past love who I'm obsessed with? Or my caring husband? Can you help me sort this out?

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10 February 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I have been married for almost 6 years to a wonderful, caring man who loves me very much. We have 5 kids (2 are from my previous marriage, 3 are ours). My husband and I got married after only 7 weeks and yes I know that is very soon but things have been good for the most part... (550 words)

I've snapped. I can't stop obsessing with the girl I devoured.

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10 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Can someone tell me what I need to do to become a monk. I can't cope. I want to stop watching another man love the girl who's heart I ripped out then taunted. I'll never find another girl like her. I'm driving myself crazy trying to figure out ways to catch her attention and ... (354 words)

My best friends comes to me for advice for dating and I love him!

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, 1'm 17, I have been in love with my best friend for 2 years now, but I know he doesn't see me that same way. Today he came to me to ask for advice on this fake as anything chick and how to make her go out with him instead of her new boyfriend. I gave him the adv... (116 words)

Nagging my fiancé...He doesn't mind it but I do...

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a long distance relationship for 4.5 years with a guy in the US Army. Last year he proposed, and I accepted, however, we have only ever met 3 times, but spend hours daily online and on the phone. What started out as two people with many similar interests and ... (464 words)

I'm obsessed with him. How do I get over the emotional hold he has on me?

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't even know where to start...it all sounds so pathetic but unfortunately it is real to me...I have had a man in my life since I was 14. We are now 45. Over the years, we kept in touch, we both married other people, it was always more of a sexual friendship. We both ... (688 words)

Why do some girls like anal and some don't?

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10 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Why do some girls prefer anal sex and others don't? Are some afraid to try it? Or is it deeper than that?... (22 words)

Am I his rebound?

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been seeing a guy for 3 months now, and when I met him he just got out of a 2 year relationship 1 or 2 months before. He ne'er talks about his past relationship and I think they broke up because he moved away for a new job. I inquired about what we were a month after we met ... (119 words)

Issues regarding homosexuality.....any opinions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

10 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i recently encounter some issues regarding homosexualities/gay when talking with a bunch of classmate at lunch, and just wanted some honest opinion especially from gays and lesbians. here's the insight that we chat about: 1) one of my female classmate state that she'... (300 words)

Where does one draw the line between romantic super boyfriend and needy co-dependant?

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10 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - How can I be there for my girlfriend without being smothering? I'm having trouble, I want to be supportive, Loving, caring, sensitive, and kind to my girlfriend. I Love her very much and I also like doting on her. I like giving her attention and I would drop everything ... (181 words)

Should we end 2 years of love

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i really wanna be back with my girl but we just argue to much and now that we're seperated she says we need time to be from each other for a while but we are still in a relationship..... wen we were staying together she was the only one with a job and i knw it was rough but im ... (160 words)

I drink a bottle of wine almost every day. Is this ok?

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - To make this short and simple I drink a bottle of wine every day, well almost every day!!! is that to much. I dont start drinking in the morning, only at night when my son goes to bed, I contiue to carry on with my life through out the day. I get up and get ready and cook and ... (89 words)

Is he pushing me away beausec he doesn't want me in his life anymore?

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Myself and an old flame from high school recently began talking again, for 1 1/2 yrs now. He and I have gotten close for the last 7-8 mos, we didnt have sex until about 10 months into the relationship. He is in the Army and about to deploy to Afg. December was the best month ... (244 words)

I want my family's blessing for my wedding

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and getting married to my older brothers friend who is 31 and also were trying to have a baby. he has two kids from a former marriage. we love each other so much more than anything in the world. but im afraid that my family or his wont accept our love for each other. ... (123 words)

I feel like I shouldn't like him but I do!

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've know this guy for like 4 years now and we've grown to be good friends. He is not what I would call the best looking but even though I've tried not to, I've grown attracted to him and I can't stop thinking about him. He is homeschooled so I only see him 8th hour for band. ... (238 words)

My boyfriend is way too controlling and refuses to let go of me!

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I have been together like 9yrs now. In the beginning as always perfect..now its not bad but hes gotten way to jealous. He dosent want me hanging with my girls who he met me with. He dislikes my family all of a sudden, he even hates that I spend time on the computer ... (113 words)

He doesn't want to give up his party ways for me!

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going to make my best effort to make a long story short... My boyfiend (21) and I (20) had been together for three years. Everything seemed to be going well..however, once he turned 21 he started wanting to go out and party with his friends. In other words, he's currently ... (312 words)

Do I deserve a portion of her return for all I've done?

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my girlfriend now for almost two years. We have lived together now for exactly one year. She has a five-year-old son who I love very much that also lives with us. When she moved here we discussed the roles I would play with her son and what my ... (669 words)

Last Chance For Tickets!!

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in high school, and my boyfriend asked me to the winter formal dance. It's this Saturday, and we have everything planned (what we're going to wear, where we're going to eat, etc). The thing is, tomorrow is the last day you can buy tickets. I bought mine last week, but h... (351 words)

The ex--will this all fade away?

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10 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me nd my ex just brokw up a few weeks ago, but she still calls me in the middle of the night when she cant sleep, calls me baby, and stuff like that. Should I expect this to all fade away soon? Will she suddenly stop one day? I am fine with it right now but dont want her to ... (69 words)

Am I ruining his morales and/or beliefs about sex before marriage?

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months, we dated before about 2 years ago, we had a very sexual relationship, we had sex alot, then he cheated and broke up with me, anyways we are now back together and he has changed alot, he has became really close to God. He ... (334 words)

I think I'd enjoy sex more if I could climax

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there so i dont know if something is wrong with me but i cant climax when having sex, i can if im masturbating i dont know if that normal or not? dont get me wrong i enjoying having sex with my bf but i think i would enjoy it more if i could climax. so if there is any edvi... (76 words)

After sex I'm immediately turned off and just want to get dressed

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i'm not sure why but i can only have one orgasm, yes u read the gender right haha i am female and this shouldnt happen should it?, i dont really have much of a sex drive and when i do i'm normal then once i've orgasmed im imeediatly turned off and just want to get dressed ... (93 words)

I'm tired of people telling me to move on! I don't want to!

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10 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My partner and i broke up around two weeks ago now we caught up last night, so i could grab a few things i left when i moved out as we lived together for 8months. We discussed getting back together he said his heart says yes but his head says no he doesnt want to because his ... (747 words)

Is my girlfriend cheating and being sneaky?

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so me and my girl have been together goin on two years and lately she has been coming home and always says she's to tired to have sex but she gets off at 3 and then sits for 10 min, and dipss off to her moms house way in warner robins.. is she cheating??? we also just ... (185 words)

I'm finally with my GF, but after fending off her vicious ex and a lot of drama in the past. How do I heal myself after all this?

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10 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright, here is a quick background of myself. I moved around a lot as a kid, (parents divorced when I was 6), learned all about marriages from the multiple ones my mother has been part of. I am an intellectual, a man of principle, and an advocate for the fair treatment of ... (1179 words)

After break up is it too soon for me to go out again?

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I hate beeing single for valentines day and I just broke up with my old boyfriend of almost 3 months 2 days ago because he stopped talking to me for weeks a time and we not once saw eachother outside school or in school for that matter :/ and I knew if I stayed in the "relation ... (170 words)

My 22 yr old boyfriend spends too much time with his 11 year old sister....?

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half. When we first met, he made it perfectly clear that his younger sister was very important to him. Initially, I thought that was very commendable. About six months ago, he changed jobs and we have pretty much been living ... (347 words)

How do I get him to call me baby to my face

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a new relationship and this is my first. I don't know how to get my boyfriend to say he likes me face to face or to call me "baby" like he does through texting. I can't bring myself to say it so what should I do?... (48 words)

No erection for the first time ever! What does she think of me now, and will this affect our relationship?

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10 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I just want to start by giving you a little background on myself before I ask the main question. I am a 31 year old very sexual person. I am almost constantly horny and when I don't have a girlfriend, I usually end up having sex 2-3 times a week with random girls from bars, ... (407 words)

Our families would flip but we love each other!

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10 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Well i have an issue, you see since i was 15 or 16 or so i have been in love with my cousin...now i dunno what to do being that i am 28 now. now lets state that my cousin and i are distant relations... my grandmas, step sisters, adopted sons, daughter... so legally there is no ... (163 words)

How can I ask his friends if he likes me?

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like one of my guy friends, and I want to know if he likes me. I was thinking about asking one of his friends who he likes, but his friend that im closest to likes me so i cant ask him and his other friends im pretty close to too but i dont want them to tell him about ... (79 words)

How to let him down easily

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so this guy who sits at my table in math class really likes me and I've noticed it for a while now. He used to talk to me but now he has gotten more nervous around me and if he does, he doesn't look at me. Sometimes I catch him looking at me when he thinks I'm not paying ... (156 words)

How do I make him think of me as more than one of the guys?

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am really good friends with this guy that I like a lot. I am kind of girly around him and his friends but not that mach and I cant tell if he likes me or not. How do I make him think of me as more than just one of his guy friends and more as a girl that he might want to date... (65 words)

How can I cheer up a friend who just miscarried?

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend Anna just lost her baby. She was about 2 months pregnant and she's really upset. At first, her doctor said she couldn't have kids. Then she got pregnant, but she lost it. She's crying really hard. How can I cheer her up? I tried to comfort her making her laugh, but it ... (63 words)

We're not actually going out... but what do I get him anyway?

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10 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so this is how it started . This guy I met at my church has a sister who is my best friend and stuff . Well this guy has liked me for 1 year, but I didn't like him. Until a few months ago (like 3) now we are like cuties together, but I'm thirteen and he's fifteen, my dad ... (183 words)