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I don't want to tell him to get rid of his friends who are girls!

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi, Well I’ve been with my boyfriend for 5 months now and it’s been going really well and we see each other most weekends and sometimes a couple of days throughout the week ~ but recently I’ve been feeling really insecure. I know he is a loyal(he dated one of my friends for a... (571 words

Once a regular porn user, always a regular porn user?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

3 February 2011 (F age 41-50 - I am worried that my boyfriend is lying to me about his use of porn. When we first met we were open about discussing it and I asked to see his collection. It was huge. I was shocked at the amount he had but understood as he had been single for a long time and is quite shy ... (589 words

My parents can never know I'm dating this man because I'm supposed to be a virgin but I'm not!

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - hello, well ill tell u in brief my story, im 20 years old dating my brother's friend wich is 1 and a half yar younger then me.no one knows except y closest friends because i have my parents might have a problem with the age issue and being my brother's friend is also akward, ... (151 words

How far can a girl go with anal oral sex?

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3 February 2011 (F age 36-40 - guys: do you like when a girl licks your anus , sticks her tongue in your butt?? i love doing this to my man...he let me do it but im not sure if he liked it ..he said it was ok, it sounded like he enjoyed it..i was "getting him off" at the same time. does he feel like he ... (75 words

Should I divorce my husband so he can have a child?

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3 February 2011 (F age 51-59 - We are a couple in our 40's and childless...An ex-boyfriend of mine is having a baby, so now I realize it is me who cannot conceive. Though my husband of 5 years have resigned ourselves to not having children (which I desperately want) should I divorce him so that he can have a ... (140 words

After a year of dating I still can't climax

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year now. i like having sex with him and everything its just that i never climaxed, i was just curious if anyone had any suggestions or maybe reasons why this is? Thanks!... (43 words

He said he didn't want to hang out anymore because he felt I was playing with him!

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - I met this guy about a year ago wen I was out and about! I gave him my number and we keep I'm touch! We would text talk on the phone but never hung out! I only seen him that 1 time when I gave him my number... So after a yr of phone conversations we finally made time to hang ... (420 words

I broke my boyfriend's heart. What can I say to him?

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - What can I say to my boyfriend?? I broke his heart:(? So my boyfriend told me something that happened with him and some girl that likes him.. Anyways I got it all wrong and thought he cheated on me with her..but it turns not to be true. I got really nasty and called m... (160 words

I dreamed I'm going off my boyfriend. Does that mean that I really am?

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - Last week I dreamt that me and my boyfriend was shopping for food and in my dream he started to try and kiss me, i felt sick and tried to pull away as if i was repulsed by the thought...i am worried it's a sign i'm going off my boyfriend but when i am with him everything is ... (76 words

I wonder if he loves me as much as I love him?

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3 February 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend now for over 2 years and although we love each other and live together, I do not feel as though he pays particular attention to me or our life at home. I am always doing my best to make our house look beautiful and interesting, but... (156 words

How to ask my boyfriend if he wants me to shave or trim

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3 February 2011 (F age 26-29 - my boyfirend keeps wanting to finger me but im shy because 1. i trim and 2. i dunno how to shave down there.... and 3 i dunno if he likes complety shave or trimed?? how do i ask him? and how do you shave down there?? thank u ... (55 words

How can I let him know that I like him over the phone?

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - There's a guy who i like and i think he likes me too but there's quite a big age difference. Anyway he lives in a different country to me but when i went to visit the country he was in, he talked to me a lot. Most of the time my brother and sister were with me when we were ... (303 words

Two girls like him but I'm not the one who is obsessed with him

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3 February 2011 (F age 26-29 - I've liked this guy for a while, and we've only had band together for the first semester. He's nice, but not majorly outgoing. Like, he already has his group of friends and is content with that. This semester, we have a class together. I think we have sort of become casual, but ... (154 words

Since when is being gay/lesbian cool?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4797 days ago

3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - This is not exactly a relationship question but I was hoping that I could get views on this issue here. Okay, so my question to all you gays and lesbians out there is: Since when is being gay/lesbian cool? I'm sorry, I am a lesbian myself, but I just don't get it.... (461 words

My ex will not let me see my 6 year old daughter!

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3 February 2011 (F age 41-50 - Dear Cupid Hello I have a question and need some advice. I have a daughter that is 6 he father has kept me from my rights to see her in 5 years. He will not provide me with a number. Or anything I've tryed to contact him eveyway possible. I am a mother to 3 other children... (97 words

How do I stop being a crazy girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - Ok there's a million things leading up to this, but here's what happened today: Tomorrow is the 6 anniversary of someone very close to me dying. This morning I texted my boyfriend to talk to him about it. I was feeling positive about it, and wanted to talk cause I knew he'... (283 words

Can you control your dreams?

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I had a dream a few days ago about a guy i like. He lives in a different country and i just came back from visiting him. In the dream i felt close to him. I've been missing him a lot. I'm sure he likes me but i'm not sure how much. That one dream has been replayin... (164 words

I've never given a gift to a guy before and I'm confused!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi everybody...i been with my boyfriend for a month an things are good an as we all know valentines day is around the corner....an I need all of you alls help...whats a good gift to get for a guy?...HELP ME...ive never gave any guy a gift for for valentines an im going crazy ... (58 words

LDR He asked me to marry him but now says it won't work!

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - This guy I love moved away about 7 months ago and he comes home for winter break, spring break, and a month of summer break. He lives 600 miles Away and I'm still in high school so I cant visit. Well, last week when he was drunk he told me he loved me and wanted to marry me. ... (306 words

I like guys who are protective but my boyfriend goes way over the top

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - I like lads who look out for me and are quite protective but my boyfriend of over a year is way over the top with it. I love him to pieces but its like its one rule for me and another for him. He demands that I don't see any of my friends (male or female) and if I do, he gets ... (336 words

My heart belongs to the second guy, but I have a bond with the first guy.

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - He's my best friend. He's also my on/off boyfriend. We had a horrible relationship, and even though we had these feelings for each other it just wasn't enough. We're one of those couples that fights, then makes up, then fights then breaks up then gets back together a few ... (410 words

Why do I want to cry after sex?

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3 February 2011 (F age 36-40 - What is this strange feeling like i want to cry after we have seX?? No i have never been raped and yes i wish we had more passionate seX and he would last much longer, but i feel emotional due to i am not seXually satisfied WHY??... (47 words

My husband is choosing to be in a war torn country than with his wife.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

3 February 2011 (F age 36-40 - My husband and I have been married for a little over a year now, and we are currently living apart. He works for a company who sends him all over the world to act as a representative, mainly in contries that support the US Military. Originally, his job was based in Virginia, ... (349 words

I only have $50 to spend for Valentine's Day!

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3 February 2011 (F age 36-40 - So I'm broke for valentines day I just lost my job and I don't know what to do we don't live together so we can't do anything like breakfast in bed or a romantic bath help please! I only have like 50 bucks thanks in advance !... (47 words

I like him, only one problem...he has a girlfriend

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - Okay so I posted a question about stepping out into dating a few months, although I have not dated yet I found a guy I like. We met with a school function, a family member told me they were going to tell him I liked him (I didn't at the time). I saw that family member by the ... (158 words

I cant get over what she has done in the past...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

3 February 2011 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months and her past and what she has done haunts me and maked me want to throw up and call her a whore and leave her. I cant do this though the thought of not being with her hurts me and I know that I will never find another like ... (419 words

I'm feeling neglected and upset as though he doesn't care about me anymore.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi there, hope you can help me out on a situation. I'm involved (not in a relationship with but 'close') to a man who lives long distance from me. We've never met in person before but he was supposed to be coming to see me last month. We used to text constantly every... (564 words

Why am I so horny all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4802 days ago

3 February 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hey, I am a female teenage virgin who is really horny all the time! (Which you make think is normal)... But I really never used to get this horny, i now need to masterbate about 5 times a day just to get the feeling to go away. I even leave rooms/ go to the toilet to be alon... (148 words

Should I be worried? Am I overreacting?

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - Sorry about the essayness! Okay so my friend is having a massive party she's paid a lot of money for, and another friend (she is not massively close to but still close) then decides to go out clubbing the same night, and use her venue as a 'pre drinks' and take a group wit... (245 words

Is it normal for men to pull away when their wives need comfort?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

3 February 2011 (F age 41-50 - I have been feeling down a little these days due to family issues. I would think my husband would be a little more comforting but instead he is getting more distant. Is that normal for him to distant himself or is it me just in need of extra affection? ... (49 words

Why are women devalued after sex but not men?

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3 February 2011 (F age 41-50 - Why is it that after sex , a man devalues a woman and views her as " cheap stuff " or " slut " but you don't hear women calling men " cheap " ? Why is it that for a woman to be able to make the man stay interested in her, i.e. want her not just for sex, she has to make him ... (172 words

How do I know if I feel anything real for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

3 February 2011 (F age 51-59 - Can you actually fall in love with someone online? I have been talking to a man with whom i went to school and have been chatting for about 3 months. He says he thinks of me as the one that got away and that he wants to rekindle a friendship with me and hope it works into a ... (102 words

We love each other but lately we're arguing all the time

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

3 February 2011 (F age 36-40 - Ok so I've been dating this guy for almost 3 years now. About a year ago, we started talking about getting married...but he recently told me he wants to wait until he's done with school and has a job (we are both mid-twenties, I graduate in April, he still has 2-3 years left) ... (490 words

I'm really concerned about her dating this guy who uses drugs, steals and has awful friends!

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3 February 2011 (M age 36-40 - I have been talking to a girl for about 3 years now she is 26 and i am 28 and she works as a mobile cairer for the elderly for a few weeks she has complaind about this womans son how she doesnot like him and how hes old enough to be her dad and how she cant stand him recently ... (269 words

Is it worth continuing our facebook romance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4802 days ago

3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - This guy is a leo male, 17 and i'm an aries girl, 18. he says he loves me. ever since i first met him, he has been showing signs that he is attracted to me. i've known him for ten months now. we are very close. we don't meet because of parent issues. but he thinks he can sort ... (169 words

Help with my problems - he no longer is sexual, or sweet or tells me cute things!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - Okay hello ! Well me and my bf have beentogether over a year now and when we first started dating he was suprr hmm how do I say this sexual and then like we latly its like he barley ever wabts to like if hes iver itll happen no doought but like he will never sayy anything like ... (102 words

Why do I get soft halfway through sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

3 February 2011 (M age 41-50 - What could it be if halfway through sex I go soft? It will get hard again if given time, but I'm not sure why it does it at all? ... (31 words

Do man usually lose their sexual self after 40?

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3 February 2011 (F age - Well, I really would like to hear as much opinion as possible. Do man usually losing their sexual self after 40? Or this is rare? How common is the diminished sexual desire, and non medical based erectile problems? Please help me out.....I was reading lots of complains about ... (152 words

Is there a better word for female juices, and is this common?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

3 February 2011 (F age 36-40 - Im not at all sure how to formulate this question, so I hope you will understand what I mean. When I get wet.. and then don't wash right away afterwards, the juices dry up. And then it starts to itch. Once dry, the juices also start to "flake". I was wondering if other women ... (138 words

Should I stop talking to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've been at my job for 5 months now. I met a guy that is so nice and cool we have this bond like if we where relatives. He is older than me and calls me his little sister and watches over me. He just told me yesterday he is not allowed to talk to me because his wife is jealous ... (136 words

Advice for how to deal with a sibling with border line personality disorder?

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3 February 2011 (? age 41-50 - Hi I have a sister who I believe has border line personality disorder. I'm not a doctor, but she seems to have all the signature traits. I want to preface what I say about her by saying she's actually a pretty smart person. She's a doctor herself and she worked pretty ha... (749 words

I know in my heart that I deserve better. But I love him.

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - I really don't know where to start. this is a long story so please brace yourself. Im really confused and honestly don't know what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. Hes my first bf (Im 18 and were the same age). I want to explain all the ins and outs so ... (989 words

So what comes next? I don't want to jump right into sex so do we start using our hands next?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

3 February 2011 (F age 36-40 - Alright. I'm 24 and I've been dating a guy (26) for a little over a month. I like where things are going with him but am a little uncomfortable with the idea of sleeping with him just yet... it hasn't been proposed but let's face it, it's on his mind and mine as well. Our ... (271 words

I want them to be my friends but thing aren't going well!

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3 February 2011 (F age 26-29 - In my main group of friends there are 4 of us (fake names: me, zoe, kate, pheobe). I also have another best friend(helen). Zoe has been my best friend for almost all my life, pheobe i have known for ages but only recently become friends and kate who is meant to be my friend but ... (355 words

Sex drive issues, it's all going downhill!

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - Im 21 and my spouse is 30. we've been together for almost 4 years now. the problem with us is sex. I want it all the time and cant get enough of it and well, he hardly ever wants it. when we first started dating, we had sex a lot, every chance we got because he always desired ... (290 words

Our personalities are drifting apart but she can't see it. I feel I need to leave.

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3 February 2011 (M age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 3 years now, things are excellent, she is almost perfect and a guy like me couldn't ask for any more from a girl, she knows all the ways that make me happy. The problem im having is that our personalities don't match quite as well as ... (123 words

My husband had an affair and now she lives in his house!

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3 February 2011 (F age 36-40 - last month, I found out that my 68 year old husband was having an affair with a 25 year old female from a third world country. He was traveling back to his country several times a year. Little did i suspect that he had this lady living in his house. He confessed to having ... (219 words

I love my teacher who's 7 years older, but he's in love with someone else!

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3 February 2011 (F age 26-29 - I'm second year high school and I'm in love with my English teacher. He's 7 years older but that doesn't matter to me. My mom knows about it but we never talked about it. I transferred to another school because my mom was mad being with this teacher. I'm so in love with him. We ... (208 words

I'm happy to be pregnant, but he's pressuring me to get an abortion!

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - I found out two weeks ago, that I'm pregnant. It's not planned but I'm really excited about it. My partner, however, isn't. He keeps insisting that he wants me to get rid of it, and has said if I kept it against his will, then its as good as stealing. He doesn't seem to realise ... (158 words

I'm beginning to feel resentment toward his child, I need help to handle this situation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

3 February 2011 (F age 36-40 - Ok - Here is the situation... I have known my husband since I was 15, we made out one night at a bar when I was 19 and I never heard from him again until I was 25. I was a super mess, my Fiance at the time had cheated on me and sent me the pictures to prove it or hurt me, one ... (1614 words

We've always cheated on our partners with each other, should we end contact?

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3 February 2011 (F age 36-40 - ive been having sex with my exboyfriend off and on for the last 8 yrs(dated in hs) we always seem to reconnect. we've always cheated on our partners with each other. should we end contact? he has a gf now and a one yr old...but he claims he doesnt love her? we talk almost every ... (60 words

I don't know what to say when he's back and forth, yet as his friend, I feel like I've got to say something.

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3 February 2011 (F age 41-50 - A friend who's getting divorced told me that his wife (who he does not have any kids with) will still come around because "that's just what we do." (they've been married less than 10 years, but been off and on for over 20 years. Is it weird for me to think that he might st... (168 words

I want to stick by him but I don't think I can handle him being in contact with this woman, who is pregnant with his child.

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3 February 2011 (F age 51-59 - I have been with my husband for almost 24 yrs. We are highschool sweethearts. We've been married for 14. We have a 20yr old son. This last yr he found me flirting with a guy online. He took it upon himself to find his own affair with a 24 yr old girl whom now is 3 months pg ... (274 words

Want to be with her, but not ruin a friendship in the process!

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3 February 2011 (M age 30-35 - i really really liked this girl at my college. i have liked her from the first day i saw her in september but i have really really liked her since october. i think im in love with her because i think about her all the time, i can't concentrate on work sometimes and everytime i ... (359 words

My best friend took me in, and helped me escape an abusive relationship. Now I'm having feelings for her. Do I tell her?

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3 February 2011 (F age 41-50 - I have a friend I've known for a little over 4 months now. She insisted I move in with her, so I could get away from my abusive soon to be ex husband. She has slowly become my best friend as I learn to trust more and more. I trust her pretty much completely now and now I am ... (252 words

Recent events rehashed memories of when I was abused by a relative. My father would never hurt me, but now I distrust him!

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3 February 2011 (? age 30-35 - So this question is nothing about dating. It's just a feeling I'm experiencing and would just like to know if I'm over thinking or what. I'm twenty and knowing that, my parent's friend, who happens to be married and has a kid, came on to me. He didn't do anything, but ma... (277 words

I want him, but I'm his best friend. I don't know what to do!

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - Sooo.. I have this "really good friend", let's call him Josh. Josh and I talk all day everyday, starts with a good morning and ends with sweet dreams. We talk about everything, our beliefs, how our day is going, family problems, pretty much anything and everything. So here's t... (343 words

I want to move onto the next stage with my boyfriend, how should I let him know?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I love him so much and I know he's someone I'll be with for a very long time. He does everything for me and I really would be lost without him. However, lately I feel that I want to go onto the next step in our relation... (202 words

My boyfriend and I broke up, and he got involved with my sister. We're back together, but they are still talking!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I'm sorry if this goes on for a bit, I just don't really know where to start. I was seeing this guy for 9 months and we were forever splitting up and getting back together. We had a massive row and spilt up. He was forever telling me he wanted to get with my sister who ... (381 words

My married lover had a stroke, but we still want to be together. How can we make this possible?

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3 February 2011 (F age - Hi, I've been married for quite a few years, but I have always known I married on the rebound from my first marriage, which also was never right. The reason for this is that there was always someone else that I loved, but I never explored it as I had no idea until 3 years ago ... (277 words

Why do I make others feel miserable, and push them away? How can I stop this negative behavior?

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've been raised in a family who regularly criticizes other people for the way they dress, talk, how much they earn, hair color, number of fingers and so on; you get the point. Thing is, they've never encouraged me when I did something good. In exchange, they always criticized ... (296 words

It's been 6 years and I still get emotional every time I think about him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4795 days ago

3 February 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hi guys. This may be a long post, so please bear with me. I’m 25 and ever since I can remember- I’ve had an attraction to men. Growing up, I thought it was a phase that would eventually pass- unfortunately it didn’t. Long story short- I have since accepted the fact that I am a ... (459 words

How do I tell my husband we need marriage counseling?

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3 February 2011 (F age 41-50 - My husband and I having been problems over the last year. It started with him accusing me of cheating on him and leaving me. We desided to work things out but I found he was still chatting with females on match.com. I canceled that account and then found him talking sexual to ... (134 words

How can I get my cheating husband back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

3 February 2011 (F age 41-50 - How can I in back my husband if he still cheats on me for almost 10 years. He give more time and even spend most of his life with his high school buddies. Actually he had an illicit affair with his Highschool girlfriend until now. And he even had more illicti realtionship with ... (108 words

Married, cheated with ex, got caught, still married and still miss my ex!!!! Help!!!

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3 February 2011 (F age 41-50 - I cheated on my husband with my first love, who has a girlfriend. We didn't have a long affair, we mostly emailed, texted and we were able to meet a few times. We had sex and it was incredible. Back in high school when we dated he left me because he said he needed space an... (514 words

Having a casual drink with my ex tonight, however I have other intentions!

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3 February 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hi, i am so nervous i feel sick.. i am meeting my ex tonight for 'a drink' We were only only togther for 3 months but it was very intense and moved quite quickly. thing is he wasn't ready after a painful break up but we ignored it and got very involved. The cracks started t... (176 words

I really don't mind if my ex's friend visits for entertainment purposes!

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - My ex's friend who lives 2 hours away as well as my ex has got in contact with me and we have gotten quite friendly, he always inititates it! In no way did i go out of my way to talk to this guy. He is now saying and has been saying he is going to drive down for the weekend, ... (187 words

Can somebody please tell me what is going on with this man? I'm so confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

3 February 2011 (F age 41-50 - This man that I see everyday flirts with me and touches me in friendly gestures. He said we needed to talk soon about me liking him. He watches me and sometimes walks back and forth to his office when he knows I’m in the hallway and he makes sure he says something to me ... (245 words

Is she using me to make her ex boyfriend jealous? Or am I over thinking?

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3 February 2011 (M age 30-35 - Am I over thinking this, or is their a reason for me feeling like she is using me? This girl and I dated for about 2 years, over 1.5 years ago. She then dated a guy for 8 months, he was really outgoing and she got to experience a lot of things with him. She got dumped ... (224 words

I love my girlfriend, but she is romantically absent. Help!

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3 February 2011 (M age - We are both in our early 50's, seeing each other for 3 years now. I love her very much and I don't want to be without her regardless, but I am getting frustrated as I have a normal sex drive and desire her constantly. She does so much for so many, but she is romantically absent ... (107 words

I can't figure out where I stand in this relationship. What should I do?

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3 February 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi all. Well I've been dating a guy on and of for about four months who is the same age as me. We always have lots of fun together and when I'm with him he makes me feel so good. The problem is, I'm getting mixed messages. We dated for a few weeks ans he out of the blue put... (313 words

I was too shy to talk to him and now he thinks I'm not interested. I need advice!

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - It's a really long story, but I'm going to make it short. So, I have had a crush on a guy for almost a year and half, and we're both in college. Well I started to like him when I realized he liked me, but I'm just too shy to talk to him. He tried so many times to talk to me ... (335 words

Do his family have a problem with me?

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3 February 2011 (F age 41-50 - hi I am in a new relationship with my boyfriend, ive lived in turkey for 8 yrs and ive recently met a turkish partner, we are in love. the first week we met he stayed everynight it was great we are so happy together but is it normal for his parents to tell him not to rush in ... (147 words

I really like him, but I'm helping a friend to date him!

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - I really am in like with this guy at work. He has so much in common with me in so many ways, I feel like we are perfect for each other. And I know he can see it... I can see it when he asks me certain questions, because he's trying to figure me out.. I can see it when we're in ... (418 words

Does he regret cheating on me?

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3 February 2011 (F age 41-50 - Its been two years now since I broke up with my ex of five years and although I caught him cheating on me, and I ended things, and have not spoken to him since. He was my best friend. I am wondering if he ever regrets what he did? Or if he ever thinks about all the fun we would ... (61 words

Why did he stop running back to me?

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3 February 2011 (F age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend and now he has a gilfriend. I'm fuming because she's prettier and nicer then me. All of our mutual friends adore her. She's nice to me to and that pisses me off. How could my boyfriend move on from me so fast?!!! He always came running back to me no ... (89 words

I know he is never going to leave his wife for me, so how do I go cold turkey when I have to see him everyday?

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3 February 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hello I am a 33 year old lady who has got myself into a bit of a mess. I started seeing a co-worker in December 2009. He and I are both married, unhappy, but both staying for childrens/financial sake. He only married in January 2010. He didn't want to marry her but has... (356 words

I've got him some great Valentines gifts, but he ridicules even the idea of presents!

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3 February 2011 (F age 41-50 - hi i am 29 year old woman in love with a man, weve been dating 10 months now and live in different cities, i know this sounds silly but its valentines coming up and i have bought him some lovely presents, i did for his birthday and christmas too,just that he lives in a remote ... (140 words

Is he avoiding/ignoring me because I wouldn't have sex with him?

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3 February 2011 (F age 36-40 - Just wanted to get a guy's perspective on this: I've been dating a guy for about 2 months, we seemed to get along, joke, talk about sports (yes I like sports), and he's been affectionate with me, however we haven't had sex. He's been dropping hints here and there that we sh... (115 words

He called me his ex's name!

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - Last night my boyfriend and I were in bed and I was kissing him and he turned round and said 'No *****' (Not my name) so I imediately jumped up and said what did you just call me?? He tried to grab me and hug me and said sorry but at least I was saying No *****, obviously i'm ... (173 words

Should I be ok with my girlfriend sleeping in another guy's bed?

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3 February 2011 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend went to a sleepover with her guy friend, since he supposedly dosent have a guest room, she has to sleep on the same bed as him, should I be fine with that?... (34 words

My married lover's wife calls me when he is away from her!

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3 February 2011 (F age 36-40 - I have two kids from different fathers, i was married to the first child dad and we divorced in 2004, i divorced him because i didnt love him anymore for no reason. i met my long high school lover and we got back together and we got engaged in 2006, we have a child together. he ... (240 words

She is unhappy and nothing I do seems to work!

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3 February 2011 (M age 30-35 - So me and this girl have been dating for a year now, and she is wonderful and amazing.. but lately she has been going through alot with life issues, such as having to move far away, hating her job, and etc. and we've talked about it a lot and she has explained to me that it is ... (253 words

Any tips on how to speed up this love process? Or how to cope with not having anyone?

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3 February 2011 (M age 30-35 - I have encountered a few questions similar to mine, but there's something about being responded to directly that beats just taking the advice given to someone else with a similar question. At any rate I am in complete distress, and I really would appreciate any input provided ... (632 words

He excludes me from his life despite all I have done for him! What should I do?

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3 February 2011 (F age 41-50 - My guy is a plumber by profession. I love him very much and we been in love for three years. When he had little money on him last year i rented an apartment for him, fed him through last year. Yet i don't know much about his life. He excludes me from parts of his life. He ... (82 words

What should I do about my cheating husband?

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3 February 2011 (F age 36-40 - I just found out my husband left my 3 children and I to go out with his friends in a far away town(2-3 hrs away),pick up some girls at a bar, go back to there place and slept with one of them. I had called him the same night and he was trying to turn off his phone but instead ... (333 words

Should I maintain my stance or go back to him?

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3 February 2011 (F age 41-50 - I refuse going to his place, he came and I told him im leavin for good but that if he so claim he loves me he should prove it by taking me to his place and open up to me and he agreed, and said we are going to his place by feb end. should i maintain my stand or go back to him... (64 words

My ex wants to give things another go, but I met someone else as soon as we broke up.....

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3 February 2011 (M age 41-50 - Hi, I really hope that you reply to this as im stuck in the middle of something that I'm affraid to fix. I was recently in a long relationship (6 years) where things slowly started to fall apart in the last few months, i started to feel more and more left out of her li... (426 words

This other woman is overstepping the boundaries, what should I do?

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3 February 2011 (F age 51-59 - My husband and a very good married friend of our family, have a very close relationship. I have had an illness for about four years, i am not disabled, but have spent many months in the hospital away from our home town. Our friend is very agressive and is hooked on my husband. ... (229 words

Is my boyfriend not possesive or is he just acting?

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - i am in a committed ldr relationship since 1 year and 6 months. recently i had a farewell as i study in grade 12. we had a party in a party hall .but before going to party ,we all went to school to attend the school farewell .there we had to wear traditional clothes. so after... (233 words

What does she want?

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3 February 2011 (M age 30-35 - I upset a girl that I love (she knows it)very recently by telling her boyfriend is using her as a temporary plan and some really bad things about him. I understand this would destroy her dream but she had promised me that she would not be angry with me and would be remain ... (162 words

I want to abstain from sex until I meet someone special, will this mean my vagina will get tighter?

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - So im 19 years old and in my whole life I had sex 4 times with 4 guys. Ive just want to be with somebody that I could could make love with a special person. But now I want to abstain from sex until im a serious relation or until i finish college ( in 6 months). How long do you ... (80 words

Did anyone mess up worse than me? How did you survive?

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3 February 2011 (M age 41-50 - I don't feel proud about this but I'm miserable and want some company. Just maybe it will help pull me out of this dark hole I'm in behind my own making. I feel like a hermit. I've shut myself up in my mom's basement for the past four or so months cry and kicking myself in my ... (241 words

I have reason to believe my dad is cheating on my mom!!

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - I am 20 years old my parents were married before I was born I am one of three siblings. I always thought my parents were having a happy marriage until one day I went into my fathers work bag and found condoms!!. I asked my mom if they used comdoms and she said "why would we if ... (106 words

Blind dates: How long to wait after the day of the date to realize nothing is going to happen and to just move on?

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3 February 2011 (F age 36-40 - How do you know if a guy wants to see you again at the end of a blind date? What does he say or do? And how long to wait after the day of the date to realize nothing is going to happen and to just move on?... (52 words

Is the oral sex not working for him?

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend tells me that I'm good at oral and we both enjoy it. While we were cuddling after our first time, sharing little quirks and whatnot, he said that he basically only cums during vaginal sex. He's been with four or five other girls and I'm the only one that has been ... (156 words

Why does my attraction seem to flicker on and off with my boyfriend?

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3 February 2011 (F age 36-40 - Why does my attraction seem to flicker on and off with my boyfriend? It has been this way for most of the relationship. By all appearances, there is nothing “wrong” with our relationship. We’ve had few unhappy moments in these past two years. He is my first boyfriend, and is ... (162 words

Still a virgin with fingering??

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3 February 2011 (F age 26-29 - Okayy so me nd my boyfriend have been goin out for a year now..we have done many things like oral sex nd foreplay...but we really havent got to sex nd we r both virgins..well last time he was fingering me..later on dat day i noticed that his fingers actually went all da way in ... (97 words

Why is he acting so irrationally? I'm the one that should be annoyed!

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3 February 2011 (? age 41-50 - Why does my boyfriend do this? My boyfriend flew into my state monday but his flight was delayed so instead of getting in at 5pm he got in at 3am. I had class until 9pm, and then he called me asking if I was going to meet him at his apartment at 3am so I could see him. I said ... (363 words

What am I doing wrong here? Everything is telling me to be the opposite of everything I was taught!

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm hoping someone can make some sense of the world I'm experiencing at the moment. The world that I've been experiencing for quite a while now... I am 22 years old (in two weeks) and have always strived to be a good person. I've always put others before myself. I've alw... (1146 words

What's the best way to go about trying to start something more intimate than friendship with her?

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3 February 2011 (M age 26-29 - Hello all, I've been fretting over this for a few days or so, and would like some second opinions. I met this wonderful girl last November. At first glance, I was lovestruck (er, I suppose infatuated is a more accurate term given my age, but I'll stick with lovestruck). We ... (395 words

When taking it slow...should I try and hold her hand when we hang out or kiss her or anything?

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3 February 2011 (M age 30-35 - i met this girl through my cousin, we started talking and stuff, and finally she asked me one fri night to come out and bowl and have a drink with her since my plans fell through. so i did and we had A LOT of fun, we danced, flirted, and at the end of the night we even kissed, ... (283 words

Should I wait, talk it out, and see what happens? Or should I break up with him?

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - Ugh, so I have quite the problem here. I have a boyfriend of 6 going on 7 months. We've known each other previously for almost 4 years. I've always wanted him, from the first time I saw him. At first, everything was well. Then came a ton of irritations and problems, and ... (1190 words

I need a mans point of view: Does he love me and just doesn't realize he's being mean? Or is he doing it or purpose?

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3 February 2011 (F age 41-50 - Ok, heres the problem. Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and it was ok for the first few months then as time went on we moved in together. When this happened i found little things that bothered me and made me feel insecure about our relationship. First i am a thick girl but ... (268 words

Should I continue pursuing this girl or pull the plug?

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3 February 2011 (M age 30-35 - I'm in a quasi-relationship and I'm unsure if i should continue pursuing this girl or pull the plug altogether. I've been seeing this girl, but it got off to a rocky start. We had 2 dates, and then on the 3rd she said that she wasn't ready for a relationship, al... (411 words

Should I contiunue being her roomate next year? Is she a good friend or not?

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - To all the good counselors out on the interwebs: I am confused by this friendship, which I'm not sure is a friendship. And, I'm not sure whom to ask for help, because the common opinion is that she's a very nice and good person. I have a loose friendship with my roommate... (817 words

How do I interpret these mixed signals from him?

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - This guy I love moved away about 7 months ago and he comes home for winter break, spring break, and a month of summer break. He lives 600 miles Away and I'm still in high school so I cant visit. Well, last week when he was drunk he told me he loved me and wanted to marry me. ... (157 words

I doubted my boyfriend and now we're on a break...

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - What can I say to my boyfriend?? I broke his heart:(? So my boyfriend told me something that happened with him and some girl that likes him.. Anyways I got it all wrong and thought he cheated on me with her..but it turns not to be true. I got really nasty and called m... (160 words

My husband seems to be living a double life!

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3 February 2011 (F age 51-59 - Should I be concerned that my husband of 2 months has registered himself with some site that are "questionable" in my opinion for a married man. This was done behind my back, but I have found the evidence because he left his computer on one day and forgot that it was still up ... (234 words

Every time I ask her out she says she's too busy!

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3 February 2011 (M age 30-35 - There is a girl that lives a considerable distance away from me and we text back and forth every so often. I've hung out with her a couple times and I want to ask her out, but every time I ask her to do something she is too busy. I know that she is very busy and I still want to ... (76 words

Husband is in denial about his life-threatening disease...drinking like never before...and I'm absolutely helpless!

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3 February 2011 (F - Two years ago my husband was diagnosed with a very serious liver condition, which means he needed to stop drinking, stop smoking, lose about 15 lbs. and start a lengthy medication treatment for the next year. We were both in shock at the time, I think he has been in denial for ... (351 words

My boyfriend cheated on me, now I don't trust him! What should I do?

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend cheated on me we've been together for two years and i found out he slept with the girl he said that he realize he wants me but the trust is gone i thought he was a good guy what do I do?... (44 words

Best friend or professor?? Whom do I choose?

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3 February 2011 (F age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year now. He is one of the most amazing men I have ever met. I have never been with someone so loving, caring, considerate, and funny. I would say he is my best and closest friend I have ever had. We do EVERYTHING together and really ... (637 words

My boyfriend flirts with other women right in front of me!

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3 February 2011 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend is a huge flirt.. he tends to flirt even in my face.. I have told him but he keeps on.. help!... (23 words

Should I have waited till marriage so it would have been more special?

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - dear readers, me and my boyfriend have been going out got four years now and well we have had sex and all. so really the thing imtrying to say here is that i always had this dream that i would wait untill marrige. or atleast be older than i was (17) i dont regret it or any... (270 words

Because of the age gap, he thinks our relationship won't work!

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi, Im 17 and i'm in love with a 26 nearly 27 year old guy. I met him nearly a year ago and we started hanging out at first it was really good and we saw each other alot. I went around to his house to watch dvd's and everything. I told my parents about him and as you could ima... (341 words

My boyfriend is gay but our relationship is a secret, what should I do?

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3 February 2011 (M age 26-29 - Hi I'm 14 and i have just got my first boyfriend. He is bi and I am gay. I have already come out to all my friends but he hasn't. I don't want our relationship to be a secret but at the same time I think that we will get a lot of shit when we go public. Coming out was ok for me ... (94 words

I'm thinking she wants me to ask her out?

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3 February 2011 (M age 26-29 - I know this great girl. I recently have started to like her and i really like her now. She has asked about who my crush is so i hinted it to her. She said she doesn't have one because she has been hurt to much. She said she would consider going out with someone if they asked ... (71 words

How do I comfort my sobbing girlfriend?

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - My girlfriend and her cousin were fighting this morning now she crying really hard . He told her there was a tornado because the wind here was about 40 mph and it felt like one coming and she got really scared and he likes to scare her and she told him not to talk about it any ... (97 words

How do I reject her without being rude and hurting her?

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3 February 2011 (M age 36-40 - hi im 24 years old and am not very experienced with girls(shy),im good looking so get a lot of attention and have been told im a flirt(only 1 to 1) if the girl show an interest back i freeze,at work i try to be polite and keep to myself but im realy a depressed loner(not in the ... (745 words

I don't care to be friends with my ex!

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3 February 2011 (F age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend and I broke up in November and he immediately got a new girlfriend (turns out he slept with her then dumped me). The reason he gave me for breaking up with me was because he wanted to start doing drugs again and since I didn't do that sort of thing he wanted a ... (189 words

He hit me across the face, causing me to spill a hot drink over myself and my laptop!!

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - Dear cupids, am I in the wrong here? I have a big presentation tomorrow and I had asked my boyfriend to be my practice audience when I'd done. Well he knows Iv been feeling pretty crappy at the moment due to the fact Iv been paying off his loan since he lost his job and I have ... (408 words

What is the Push/Pull theory?

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3 February 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hi everyone. Can anyone tell me what the Push/Pull theory of dating is? Does a man use this when he is trying to sleep with a woman only? Or is it when he is attracted to her and wants to date her? Do single men do it or do married men do it? What do you do if you are a woman ... (108 words

The pros and cons of staying with a temperamental girl?

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3 February 2011 (M age 30-35 - Ive been dating this girl for about 7 months now, and she always makes me pissed off. She's unconsciously selfish about herself as in she think's her ideas are the best and thinks my advice is bs when i'm older and more experienced. We've been getting in more and more fights ... (162 words

Is 'no contact' the right way to get her back?

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3 February 2011 (M age 36-40 - basically,my and ex and i broke up around 4 and a half months ago.it came out of nowhere,we were very much in love we talked in dept about our future,she told me she never met anyne like me and etc.the break up was down to silly arguments because of personlal issues we both ... (338 words

Girls have you ever experienced something like this?

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3 February 2011 (M age 30-35 - Just a short question about some behavior changes I've noticed with my girlfriend. We have a 3 month old son, been together for just over two years, I love her very much and she seems like she feels the same, I'm completely happy with life. Towards the beginning of the... (255 words

I'm insecure with my b/f about swinger emails, porn ...

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3 February 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi.. I have seen on the search history that my boyfriend stays viewing porn. At first it didn't bother, but now he sees it everyday. I also saw he was getting emails from a swingers club but it was dated several months after we started dating.. he is 40 and I just turned 25. He ... (109 words

I love him and want to work things out but I am confused and I don't want to hurt my current boyfriend who knows I still have feelings for my ex.

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - I was dating my ex boyfriend in which i was engaged too for about 2 and a half years. We have a kid together and a few months after he was born my ex started getting addicted to pills and he became violent towards me infront of our 3 month old son and he would break things in ... (317 words

Is it normal to feel some jealousy towards your boyfriend's friends and family?

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3 February 2011 (F age 36-40 - I'm currently in a relationship, but like all it has some issues. Is it normal to feel some jealously towards your boyfriend's friends and family? I feel really bad about it, but I just feel rejected sometimes. For example, I live with him and he never has the courtesy to let ... (414 words

Crazy gold digger!

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3 February 2011 (M age - I live in Mexico and went out with a lady, who is almost 50 and works in the family business which is going down the old drain by the way. I have been going with her for four years. The first breakup was after 1 1/2 years, and came out of the blue. I got back with her by giving ... (649 words

Why do people say something when they are drunk and refuse saying the same thing when they are sober?

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3 February 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi I am friends with my ex-bf and we talk almost daily. We talk normal stuff, not anything sexual. But lately i feel like he is trying to keep me on the hook, he used to say like he loves to talk to me daily, i am the only one who understands him and stuff like that. Wh... (156 words

I can't believe these boys are in their 30s and I'm in my 20s and I feel like I'm sorting out a playground fight!

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3 February 2011 (F age 36-40 - Ok, so I'm 23, my boyfriend is 31 and my brother is 33.. MY brother and boyfriend had a huge fight at the weekend and now everything has kicked off at home. My. Brother and boyfriend have only met a handful of times and never really gotten to know eachother (my bf is very fri... (643 words

My mom is getting too close to my boyfriend for my liking!

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - Ok I met this guy new years and have been seeing him since, well I live with my mom cause I can't afford my own place as a full time student. well every since I have started seeing him, my mom invites him over most of the time, she asks him to go grocery shopping with her, to ... (244 words

Ex told him lies about me and now he's not the same with me any more. Help!

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3 February 2011 (F age 26-29 - Ok, I am 16 and the guy is 17. We are both juniors and I really like him. He has showed interest in me since the beginning of the year but I never acted on it, until about three weeks ago. At first he was really nice and we texted a lot and he would always tell me I was ... (323 words

I feel so much guilt for doing this!

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3 February 2011 (M age 30-35 - I have a gf but we haven't had sex in a while she is out of town ... I miss it and sometimes i watch porn and porn videos of gays come out .... so today there is someone that i didnt know and we were talking on the internet and he asked me if i wanna come over for some ga... (151 words

Why is he too casual? Is he just not into me?

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3 February 2011 (F age 41-50 - I have been dating someone for 7 weeks, we are both 27 and have been sleeping together for 4 weeks. (it was a bit soon i know!) We both work 10 hour days, 5 days per week. My question is, he seems too casual and i wonder if its a case of "he's just not into me". We dont see ... (411 words

Abusive partner...

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3 February 2011 (? age 30-35 - I asked for advise on my partner of 12 months not long ago all the advise was great i wanted to take it but now its a whole different ball ground.... ok i dont want advise telling me to leave him because i cant.... My partner asked me when he lost control in this relation... (282 words

I've done everything he wanted but I can't seem to win him over!

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3 February 2011 (F age 26-29 - Okay, so I've liked this senior for a while now. I'm 14 and he's 18. We hung out in the beginning of December. He told me he couldn't be serious because of the age difference. I was really crushed. We quit talking for a while because we got in an argument over the age thing. ... (114 words

I want to move in with him!

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3 February 2011 (F age 36-40 - Ok so my boyfriend and I have bin together for a year and a half. We are both 24 (ill be 25 this month) living at home. I work two jobs one full time and one part time he works nights and goes to school full time. I just applied to grad school online so I can keep working both ... (381 words

I've met "The One"... but it's complicated!

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3 February 2011 (M age 36-40 - So i've meet the one. Really the one i dreamed all my life. The girl of my dreams. But was a complicated relationchip and she started taking antidepressives with only 20 years age. At a year and a half she brokes up with me, and after a month of no talk at all (and i was really ... (358 words

Should I go back with my husband???

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3 February 2011 (F age 30-35 - i need help ! im really in a bad situation and every day im having second thoughts, i left my husband in october of last year, we got in to an argument and i ended with bruises on my arms and a busted lip . i pressed charges against my husband and moved to my sister's house w... (349 words

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