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writes:I am still fairly new to clubbing but I went out a few nights ago. And while I was there I noticed a lot of guys come up from behind and try to grind/dance with the girls. My first question is, is this common? and how should the girl react - is it normal to just dance with randoms? What exactly does the gus expect? Do they want to just grind/dance or will they then expect more?Lastly I was dancing with my girl friends as some guys started to talk to me... he laster asked straight to my face if I wanted to be picked up tonight? I laughed it off and said no, but then he said "are you sure?"Thinking about it now that made me feel a bit cheap (did he really expect me to say yes, when ever you're ready we can do whatever you want?) Did I look like a slut and that is why guys say that, or do guys just do that sort of thing in the club?Thanks in advance everyone and sorry its so long. xo
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2011): Back in my day (late seventies and early eighties) it happened all the time.
And after you hunched the back side of some unsuspecting woman, the bouncers would use your head to depress the panic hardware on the door as they threw you out onto the street.
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (6 February 2011):
 Ok. While it has been awhile since I have been to clubs I do remember it quite well. Yes, guys will come up behind you and grind on you. Completely random guys who have no clue what you look like even. If there is an empty space behind you, then a guy will fill it. Some of them creeps, others just guys out having a good time with friends. A guy trying to get you to go home with him afterwards doesn't mean you look like a slut. Some chicks are easy and he was hoping you were one of them. I had a guy start actually talking to me and asking for my number, where I went to school, my life story basically. I just politely said no thank you. What my friend and I did was face each other while dancing. That way if a guy came up behind me that she didn't approve of, found creepy or just highly unattractive, she would pull me towards her (away from him) and we would move or go to the bathroom. Sounds harsh but that's how it is. Was fun at the time but glad I'm past it. Have a good time!
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