It's been three weeks -- do I give it more time?

A female age 26-29, *loveyhoo writes:

Basically I've liked this guy for nearly a year now. We've had a bit of flirting going on every now and then before, and he's admitted hes liked me before, then months later i admiteed that i liked him really badly, and he was shocked and didnt know what to say. He's also had a girlfriend for jsut over a year now on and off, but the thing is me and him used to be really close like best friends, and recently all we do is argue and then make up. maybe i have been a bit too clingy but i dont know what to do now, because i havent said anything to put him off, but we havent spoken in like 3 weeks now. Ive never gone this long without speaking to him, he wont pick up the phone to me,he wont answer my texts, if he picks up to me calling on withheld then he hangs once he knows its me. I really dont know what to do. Im thinking off saying my final words to him about how much pain hes put me through, and how much i like him, but tell him im done with it although i know it's going to hurt so much! Or do i just give it time but carry on trying. Ive fallen really deep for this guy now, and i dont think i can let him go like this. I honestly think ive fallen in love, well the closest thing ive had to love anyway. What do i do?

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