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writes:well where do i start i got outta a relationship a while ago basically my ex aborted my kid she was suppose to be having my kid but because she didnt want to be with me, she aborted it and left me and its been a couple of months sense we split and i feel like any girl i even look at i wonder if i should even bother dating. I was in love with her and she just aborted and moved on like it was nothing and for some weird reason i still have some decent feelings for her and it just seems like any girl that wants to be with me, i just dont feel anything. i feel like sex is the only thing i can get into with a girl and not have any strings attached cause i dont have any trust for any female any more. what should i do can anyone help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): I can honestly say after six and half years of marriage and breaking up, I felt very similar to you. Except that I'm a female, the only thing I can say is it takes time to get over hurting inside for someone you genuinely love. I dated and felt nothing just like you're saying, until a guy I had known for several years that I was close friends with became romantically involved with me and swept me off my feet. That was two years AFTER the split from my now ex husband, but I couldn't be happier, time will heal. That's the best advice I can give you!! I know it's not much help, but it's an honest answer.
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reader, OliviaAna +, writes (19 December 2010):
 Try to get a few self-help books for yourself. It bothers you by what she's done when you should have been part of the solution instead of the one left behind on the decisions. It's almost like you feel aborted too. I'm so sorry for your pain. You do not need the stress of what you're going through if she's not interested in you anymore. You don't need a girl who leaves you out in the cold anyway. Trust will come back when you find the right one to trust. It's gonna take time to heal so go slowly.
Peace be with you.
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